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@BendingPinkSteel 3 күн бұрын
This video deserves wayyy more views! Your storytelling is excellent. This is what I want to believe as I close out '24. This is how I want to use my energy.
@RhianeHacker 3 күн бұрын
Thank you! Well the KZbin works in weird ways and sometimes it just picks up on a random day, so there’s still chance 😊 I’m glad the video was enjoyable for you! Yes yes yes, you’ve got this! 💪🏻
@abdulrahmanmonad 4 күн бұрын
Love to see your content always with this calm tune and amazing words really appreciate it so much 😊
@RhianeHacker Күн бұрын
My pleasure 😊 thanks for watching ❤️
@danielbriggs2 6 күн бұрын
Love seeing your videos land, and the passion of your optimism in others. Keep up the good work. ☺️
@RhianeHacker 6 күн бұрын
Thanks Dan! Really appreciate it! 😊
@MarieFelton 7 күн бұрын
I dont have any friend expcept one from school. After being bullied and having toxic fake friends, I just can't manage to connect with people. They just don't care abput me
@darnelljones6607 10 күн бұрын
Don't feel bad I don't have any friends
@RhianeHacker Күн бұрын
❤️❤️
@darnelljones6607 13 сағат бұрын
I am here and you're always have one friend that's me and God@@RhianeHacker
@RobinKnight-b2f 14 күн бұрын
Hi my name is Robin I have no friends at all all I have is my dog he is my only really friend that I have I cry a lot because I really don't have no one there for me and I have a lot of surgery s coming up and the Hollyday s or coming up as well I always sleep them a way even year no one knows how I feel and no one unstand how I feel ever day I am a long all of the time I have been a long now going on 13;years now it has always been just me and my baby boy my dog zue now for 13!years now I wish at times I could just sleep my life a way at times I am 59 years old whin I was growing up I don't have no friends as well it is not a good feeling to h😅
@RobinKnight-b2f 14 күн бұрын
I know just how u feel I have no friends all I have is my dog
@allenvenegas1958 28 күн бұрын
The first thing I would tell you is get rid of that ridiculous nose ring thingy. That’s a huge turn off to normal, adjusted people.
@RhianeHacker 28 күн бұрын
It’s called a septum piercing. I very much enjoyed having it and I actually had people telling me it was quite cool. What you define as ‘normal’ is a bias that believe it or not, not everyone shares. ‘Don’t judge a book by its cover’ as the phrase goes. Should you wish to continue making such a judgement, then ok. Because you are staying clear from people that you shouldn’t be near with your kind of toxic belief that people should behave and display themselves only in a way you see fit. Let people be expressive and explore their styles. A piercing isn’t hurting anyone else.
@tessa7778 Ай бұрын
New sub! 💓
@RhianeHacker Күн бұрын
Yay! Thank you! ☺️
@poeticjustice9794 Ай бұрын
God, you are beautiful...
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
Thank you! 😊
@lisaa6099 Ай бұрын
You are not the only one. Friendless in a large city in Australia. I used to have friends but now I dont
@Ally-u2m Ай бұрын
I used to have a lot of friends but I changed school and now I have no one
@miriam2368 Ай бұрын
What about the ones who dont even have a boyfriend
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
Yeah that’s also hard. This was my story, and I talked about different things. If you only took from it that I have a boyfriend, then you’ve missed the content. Being a girl and at the time of recording, I felt like I was alone cause I didn’t have a friendship group. It goes to show that loneliness is a common feeling for many people. Which actually is helpful for us to move away from this victim mentality. But take from it what you will
@11ben1000 Ай бұрын
Whats your ethnicity? Are you 100% English?
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
Never done a test but I know 4 generations of my family have been born in Bristol UK including myself so definitely English. I’ve been told that I look Polish, Russian and Norwegian before though. 🤷♀️
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
2 years on, I've made a video on how to cope without friends: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mHXZeGpvaLCXqNE Hope it helps ❤
@em7937 Ай бұрын
I had some friends. It was well if I couod listen to them going on and on about the soup they ate yesterday or how theor grandama said something ( telling me for 100ths times) but we couls not talk about me being laid off or about my life without them rapidly skipping the subject. We went Holidays togetehr ans it would always be ehatevrr they want, and wouls.throw a tantrum or offer tbe silent treatment if I was doing something else. I droppes them and went on Holidays alone, had the best memories exploring cities and trails. Better then aleaya revertijg to drinking at evenings.
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
Sometimes you just don’t align with certain people and that’s ok. I’m glad you went on holiday on your own! It’s such a good experience, I’ve done it a couple of times and had some of the best experiences of my life!
@douglasreynolds-op1no Ай бұрын
Enjoy the quiet!!!
@eustaquiozambrano2974 Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing Have an amazing wonderful day ❤❤
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
Thank you! You too!
@eustaquiozambrano2974 Ай бұрын
Good job girl. ❤❤ Have a nice day.
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
Same to you! Thank you so much ☺️
@janibekazamat4289 Ай бұрын
Thank you, Rhiane. I almost lost my true self trying to keep fake friends. I have been healing from them for about a half a year now. And I have never felt so amazing and so alive. Its better to be alone than having fake friends.
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
It’s never worth losing yourself for something or someone else. I’m so glad you are healing ❤️🩹
@stoatrepublic Ай бұрын
I'm a 49 yo bloke, my friends are my Malinois.
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
I love that breed! Dogs are such wonderful souls ❤️ I miss having one
@Louis76-z3i Ай бұрын
Yes:)
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
❤️❤️
@Louis76-z3i Ай бұрын
@@RhianeHacker Its positive and everything is going to be Okay
@Louis76-z3i Ай бұрын
Something I have learnt in life. Don't over share and stop and think who you are talking to.
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
Yes to a degree. I definitely think maybe best not to over share in a first instance but there can be times where you ‘over share’ to a stranger that could end up offering you some of the best advice/reassurance that will help you make a great change. But there are also people who want to know what you’re doing so they can hinder you. It’s a hard one to know sometimes who has the right intentions but it’s a risk we take to form some of the greatest connections
@Louis76-z3i Ай бұрын
@@RhianeHacker I agree
@Louis76-z3i Ай бұрын
@@RhianeHacker I had someone in my life who use to or seem to know a lot about me. Even know i did not really know this person. Like the Bible says be-carful.
@queenneurotica4591 Ай бұрын
You’re wise beyond your years 😊
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
Thank you ☺️❤️
@marisol033 Ай бұрын
yes...i think the problem is that people do not truly value someone who is different from them...humanity does not value differences...they claim it...but no one truly does it.
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
The phrase: ‘be the change you want to see’ comes to mind. Be the person that proves that idea wrong. Fill yourself up with so much light that no darkness can ever dim you ❤️🔥
@marisol033 Ай бұрын
I watch this video because I have no friends.
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
You aren’t alone ❤️🩹
@eustaquiozambrano2974 2 ай бұрын
Thanks girl for sharing ❤
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
You are so welcome! 🤗
@eustaquiozambrano2974 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing ❤
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! ❤️
@eustaquiozambrano2974 2 ай бұрын
Nice girl ❤❤
@RhianeHacker Ай бұрын
Thanks always ❤️❤️
@Holairs 2 ай бұрын
I LOVEEE YOUR VIDEO!!! Thanks, keep on being incredible
@RhianeHacker 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤❤
@danielbriggs2 2 ай бұрын
Great video! Love seeing your videos land. Keep up the good work 😊
@RhianeHacker 2 ай бұрын
Thanks Dan! ❤
@WalterLitwinko 2 ай бұрын
I only had one true friend Victor he passed away 17 years ago at 40 year's old from cancer.And i have no friends now.
@RhianeHacker 2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear you lost your friend. One of my few friend's passed away when we were 18 due to mental health. Life can be so cruel sometimes. I hope you can find peace, and appreciate that you got a gift of time with that person. You never know, you might not feel like you have friends now, but there probably is someone who thinks of you from time to time of a memory you shared. You just never know the impact you have on someone at times
@DelectableDays 2 ай бұрын
“I have no friends I’m so lonely” “So me and my boyfri-“ And there it is! Ahahaaahahahaah, every single time. Being “lonely and friendless” for a woman is just not hanging out with anyone for a month or two, having a boyfriend, and having half a dozen simps in their DMs. Sorry I can’t take you people seriously, you’re like fish surrounded by so much water you dont know your swimming in it. All you do is hyperbolize the most trivial inconsequential struggles in your life, so you can wear it as an identity and fish for validation from strangers online. It’s literally a larp. You ever seen that meme of the sad girl crouched in front of her door saying “I’m so lonely” while a bunch of men are trying to force their way into her room with flowers in hand? There’s a reason that meme exists and there’s no male equivalent. That’s literally every “I have no friends” video made by a woman on KZbin.
@maryl234 2 ай бұрын
You can't be the only one putting in effort - so nothing wrong with letting things go. Enjoy your own company. Join groups who like to do the same things.
@RhianeHacker 2 ай бұрын
No that's true, but like any form of relationship, it still needs effort from both sides
@shwedagonpaya 2 ай бұрын
You only need the one friend... your boyfriend. The vast majority of people are shitty and not worth it. That's why the world is the way it is... with wars, conflicts, famines, droughts, diseases etc. etc... it's normality that is the problem. Just remember this... the masses go for a reassuring lie rather than an inconvenient truth.
@RhianeHacker 2 ай бұрын
I do see your point. But if I had of been closed, I wouldn't have met my boyfriend. The message I wanted to get accross is that we need to be open for opportunites, to recieve the goodness that is in the world. Yes there is horrible things going on and we are responsible for as flawed humans, but there is some utterly heartwarming things that we can do for eachother as long as we don't let the bitterness bite us to a point of reclusiveness
@shwedagonpaya 2 ай бұрын
@@RhianeHacker Well you have to separate the wheat from the chaff, but on balance the human race is not a good idea and we need to go extinct. Humans are conned by their genes into making more copies of the same faulty structure, which can never be fixed. Non existence is far more friendly. Check out the teachings of Abu Ala Al Ma’arri, David Benatar's Better Never to Have Been and there's plenty of anti-natalist quotes in the Bible too.
@佩珠黎 2 ай бұрын
Church
@abdulrahmanmonad 2 ай бұрын
That's a very amazing topic and well explained actually, keep up the very amazing work you are putting in here really appreciate it so much 😊
@RhianeHacker 2 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it and much appreciated for your feedback! ☺️
@abdulrahmanmonad 2 ай бұрын
@@RhianeHacker Thank you so much really appreciate it as well, wish you a very astonishing day ahead full of happiness, passion and peace as well 😊
@gentlemanx7987 2 ай бұрын
Very good reminders. Thank you. I get the KZbin game thing... thumbnails, titles, I get it. Still I can't shake off the urge to speak my truth in saying: You don't NEED to do anything. At all. Let alone fast. If you feel inspired to do something, do it. Otherwise the choosing of NOT doing something or doing something slowly is propably benefiting you in some way, and may it just be that you need or want more "doing nothing" to figure out (by yourself) that you actually want to do something. At times, it feels like ALL of YT (and social media in general, well, the internet, if we are at it, haha) is aaaaalways trying to tell you what to do and be it just through the title of a video like this. Please, do not get me wrong, my little rant is in no way a Rhiane hate, she is clearly projecting from the heart, it is just and merely a reminder to not put yourself under pressure because people tell you things and you begin thinking "Why can't I be so..." or "Why am I not that..." This is contraproductive. Follow your joy. If you want to do something - great - Rhiane f.e. in this video has a great list you might chose from. If you do NOT want to do something, then that is also completely okay. I send love.
@RhianeHacker 2 ай бұрын
I do appreciate your comment, and I definitely can see your perspective on things. I very much believe we can either take the advice or leave it if we know it’s not for us. Ultimately, we always have a choice on what we do and how we live once we filter through the noise we percolate
@bfranco1519 2 ай бұрын
Maybe lose the bull ring…
@RhianeHacker 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for such an insightful response
@l.c838 3 ай бұрын
You seem like a really lovely person. Thank you for sharing your experiences . ❤
@RhianeHacker 3 ай бұрын
thank you for your comment ❤
@drewdevon2009 3 ай бұрын
everyone claims they have no friends
@RhianeHacker 2 ай бұрын
It’s a matter of perspective, and it goes to show a lot of people can feel lonely despite maybe looking like everything’s fine. It’s a good reminder to not lose compassion. Our feelings can warp the reality so we mustn’t always be hard on ourselves
@musicismytherapy4936 3 ай бұрын
More selfless wise words, thank you 😊I know you don't make these videos for Likes, but I can't understand why there aren't more! PS. Nice salt lamp!
@RhianeHacker 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, I really appreciate seeing you comment on my videos so thanks again ❤️
@Holairs 3 ай бұрын
Love the video! I agree with every point. We just need to get better and better every day. It's good to take a rest when necessary, but the motivation to improve should come from within. We aim to have a good life, good health, and overall well-being for ourselves. So, let's keep trying to improve, but most importantly, let's enjoy who we are today!
@RhianeHacker 3 ай бұрын
Glad you love the video! Absolutely! Rest is not to be neglected! I think motivation can fluctuate and sometimes we just need to fall onto discipline when motivation isn’t there but the main thing is we have to remember is that we won’t always enjoy it in the moment but we will always benefit from it
@RhianeHacker 3 ай бұрын
Do you agree with this video? What habit do you think can be damaging? 🤔
@ItsJayYork 3 ай бұрын
hit me up if you need a friend
@RhianeHacker 2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@eustaquiozambrano2974 4 ай бұрын
Your english is realy good 👏👏👏👍❤
@RhianeHacker 4 ай бұрын
Thanks! I’m from Bristol in the UK 😊
@musicismytherapy4936 4 ай бұрын
@@RhianeHacker so lucky.... near both Somerset and Wales! 😍😍😍
@musicismytherapy4936 4 ай бұрын
This is really sound advice, thank you for sharing. Overthinking is fuelled by anxiety: going over and over things can lead to circular intrusive thoughts. It's a skill that takes time, but taking a step back to observe thoughts instead of reacting to them can be really helpful. Think of your intrusive thoughts as a friend's voice - offer a chance to vent but remember thoughts are not truth. Be true to yourself and being your best self - in the words of Metallica: nothing else matters.
@RhianeHacker 4 ай бұрын
Thanks, I’m glad you enjoyed the video! Yeah that’s a really good way to think about it. Definitely being able to step back is a great thing to learn to do. It’ll make such a difference when we do this!
@kylieking8163 4 ай бұрын
At least you have a boyfriend. I don’t
@RhianeHacker 4 ай бұрын
That doesn’t resolve anything when you aren’t happy in yourself. You can be successful, you can have a boyfriend/or whomever, you can be surrounded by people and yet you can still feel lonely. This video isn’t a ‘I’m the only one who feels this way and everyone should pity me’, this video is an open conversation about the development and reflection of how we can view things
@andretimm1387 4 ай бұрын
now is all we have, be 100% you, now , tomorrow may not be here , l don't know you but l offer love 💕 @ndre
@RhianeHacker 4 ай бұрын
Exactly! A good way to think of things!
@RhianeHacker 4 ай бұрын
You can watch the full video here to find out what else you can do that will make you become MAGNETIC - kzbin.info/www/bejne/ioGYnphrabtpo5o
@martinanttila8669 4 ай бұрын
So true
@RhianeHacker 4 ай бұрын
Thanks! ☺️