I been there every one like just move on after 12 years of struggling and abuse it is not that easy . Had to heal and seek help

Wow great information so need this ! After 12 years of stress from my ex . The pain and anxiety was real but once it was over with I can now heal

Was married to one for 12 years and left for a new supply! This person never happy and just empty

I told my mother when I ask you to stop talking (in the car I am driving) and she continues I told it's abuse. To which she said, your abusive! Then it immediately felt like kindergarten, "I am rubber your glue" elementary school game.

I don't want to be triggered to react, I want my power to respond as an adult. But it's difficult with these people.

Thank you so much

Thank for a great video! They also give you clues of how their mind works by projecting their motives and behaviours on to you!! The man I was involved with told me he was not a toy to be put on a shelf and pulled down when I felt like it, he said he was no one’s pawn… that is how he treated me!! I was very open and cared for him deeply.

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I’m so pleased you came up in my feed! Thank you for a clear and informative presentation. I also really liked the suggestions at the end. Subscribed!

Fragility yes tears tantrums like a 2.ur old Obsessive thought's he began with a doubleife 14 yrs he went single i emfed up.with him he worse than.ever i didnt want. Marry him coercive .manipulation year's gosh

A lot of hard work goes into your videos. Lots of information on this channel! ❤

Wow talk about role reversal!!!

My narc used to give me massive lavish gifts but the rest of the time narc me up big time. They are not all the same.

Thanks for the guidance and pep talk 😊

In hopes that the people who are involved with a narcissist will find a way to experience joy this Christmas.

What strange behaviors have you experienced?

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Yes yes!.. He loved it because I would get angry, then he'd say.. see.. you are just like your mother.

9mg.. I remember years ago when I was involved with a narcissist.. I was always left confused and questioned myself all the time!.. The conversations seemed pointless!

Survival mode is no joke. I was at a point where I completely stopped eating. If it weren't for my husband, I think I would be gone from this world. The anxiety was debilitating.. 😢 and the bacteria you mention here is directly communicating with the brain.. it all is connected. Another great video! ❤

They're like lost children

In process of divorcing my narcisst. I knew it was going to be hard but beyond what I anticipated. This segment has been so helpful.

"What are you gonna do for me in exchange?" How can someone say that! 😮.. Yes.. Do write a book!! ❤

Yes I'm going through this crap now

Boundaries are always so difficult. I'm still working on it. ❤

3:28- 3:44 waow thats crazy

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"It's not a relationship it's an accommodation.".. So well said!

Yeah.. and always trying to one up you.. They've got t9 be the best and number one.

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Oh I never heard the tea with self explained this way. Definitely makes sense and will try now Thanks;😊

Good clear analysis

I haven't done this in a long time. When I had my concussion i used to always visit my yunger self under a willow tree. I had many crazy experiences with that. For some reason... I fear going there again. 😢

Me.. me.. me!! Guilty! I check off lists all day long! 😮

Wow.. it really is all about control. And it hides!.. I'm not always aware of it, but I catch it from time to time. More work to be done.

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I had a malignant one other me .use to slam car doors aal time and flash lights in night etc.

Morning been there.

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You're 100% correct. I lived it for over 10 years. One day, you leave the relationship emotionally, and then you actually leave it physically for good. You're worse than alone with them anyway. She was my greatest dream to finally have a loving relationship. But, She turned out to be my greatest 🌙 nightmare.

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I literally heard my dad say I should’ve gotten an A+😂

Finally cut them out❤They don’t respect boundaries so I had to get the police involved and then they still tried to push their limit so I did a freezer spell and I have been living in peace ever since I highly recommend freezer spells. I even had a scenario where I did a freezer spell for the Bears in my neighborhood because they kept coming in our yard lol

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My dad was a violent phsycho schizo sociapath to , particularly hated me , i started taking the blame for my brothers mishaps after hours of standing naked in the kitchen , i realized a bit more violence was better than the torturous wait leading up to the violence , my dad knew i was lying , he knew who did it to begin with , yet had to play us both off each other , i learnt how to spoil his game at 12 years old . He always held it against me , I turned against him totally . We all left home very young .

I felt these words in my soul

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Do you believe that narcissism is a modern disease? I wonder if there were narcissist years and years ago.. like in the 16th century?