From another video that you made about the do's and don't's (what is all right and what isn't) the only things I do not agree that God wants couples to go as far as doing is oral sex and anal sex. In their own ways they are both good ways to create diseases. Based on all I understand from what scripture clearly acknowledges while at the same time seeing how the anatomy is made it is clear to me that the genitals are both made for intercourse with each other only.
@zanesutherland4063 күн бұрын
I think physical intimacy every day should be the goal. But everyday your spouse might not want/be able to have penetrative sex. I think shooting for a minimum of making out, cuddling/massage and oral is a good baseline. Sex/physical intimacy is the main differentiating factor between just a friend and a spouse. They say use it or loose it, and I’m surely not the one who’s going to be loosing it! 😅
@EMEm-l8i6 күн бұрын
I got her new pillows after I spit on her rear end and get to work.
@geno51698 күн бұрын
I tell my wife I have fantasy’s about our past! About her! Our past experience
@geno51698 күн бұрын
I hear the word no alot! Or I’m not in the mood
@geno51698 күн бұрын
See my wife and I have been married together 34 years! In our early years! My wife used to be very sensual with pleasure’ she used to enjoy 69!! She enjoyed pleasing me! Now we have 2 girls! My wife doesn’t seem sexually interested’ sexually attracted to me anymore! I tell her how attractive I’am to her. And her beautiful curves! I tell her her she’s the most beautiful woman out there! I feel unbelievably attracted to her! When I see her with her close on and her without close! I dry her back and beautiful backside when she’s coming out of the shower! I’m standing there feeling unappreciated! Un wanted! I miss our passion! I miss and crave for her affection so bad! Her passion! Her intimacy! I need help
@Gretsch09975 күн бұрын
Good luck with that
@keithlamb53988 күн бұрын
I gotta stop watching these videos where the joy of God's plan for sex is freely discussed. Together with admonitions for open communication. What's that? My wife just walks about of the room in disgust when I bring up sex. Living in forced celibacy just sucks beyond description.
@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissy8 күн бұрын
@@keithlamb5398 I’m sorry Keith. That isn’t fare to you. Is she open to counseling?
@Lovely1777714 күн бұрын
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@RustyFuel14 күн бұрын
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@EnemyAce8815 күн бұрын
I would love to have more emotional intimacy with my wife. But she only wants connection with her phone, not with me.
@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissy8 күн бұрын
@@EnemyAce88 I’m sorry to hear that. How does she respond when you bring this up?
@keithlamb539817 күн бұрын
After sex I'd LOVE for her to thank me for a good time. I have never heard those words.
@jamiedykes190725 күн бұрын
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@rmama_319626 күн бұрын
What is the difference between dressing on for Halloween and dressing up for play??
@Rainbow-e3w27 күн бұрын
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@kavikv.d.hexenholtz347429 күн бұрын
To say Halloween’s connections to ancient Samhain, or anything “ancient” for that matter, are, at best, extremely tenuous, would be grossly overstating the facts. Virtually all of the customs associated with the modern secular celebration of Halloween developed only in the past 500 years and have no connections to ancient pagan religious practices. In short, Halloween just does not have the “pagan precedent” so many people seem to desperately want it to. Even the concept of ‘Trick or Treat’ is a relatively new phenomenon, originating from right here in the USA from about the 1920’s or so, and represents a mix of cultures, capitalism, and accommodation. As one commenter puts it - “This smear campaign against Halloween, in which it has been scapegoated among Christians as the ultimate manifestation of secularism and satanism in contemporary culture, only goes back to fairly recent modern times when certain Christian groups resorted to any fanciful tale to counter the emerging counterculture of the 60's and 70's that they perceived as corrupting youth. Christian leaders since then have clutched us in a guilt trip ever since about a holiday which, prior to this extreme reaction, was indeed harmless for the most part like any other holiday and had no connection with satanic rituals. It was a cultural festival which, though mischievous at times, really posed no threat to society until we were forced to believe that it did.” Samhain/Halloween is to some people a very spiritual and magickal time of the year; for some it’s a time of fun and candy, perhaps a way to celebrate Fall in general. Still for others, perhaps a time to contemplate their own mortality, since the modern holiday mocks death. With the beginning of the dark half of the year, it is also a time to play on a few of the basic/core fears of humankind - fear of what lurks in the dark, and fear of death. Some perhaps are not quite sure what to make of it and prefer to steer clear of it; in the end however, we are forced to conclude that, like it or not, Halloween is only ‘evil’ for those who choose to make it so.
@Tank-y5x29 күн бұрын
honestly, if you have to remind yourself to be faithful, you want to cheat, no way around it
@leenadeland2324Ай бұрын
Thoughts on church trunk or treats?
@tonideveraux8484Ай бұрын
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@michellebeaumont3422Ай бұрын
As someone outside the US I can't understand how anyone who follows the God of the Bible would in anyway be able to justify celebrating Halloween. It blows my mind
@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissyАй бұрын
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@geno5169Ай бұрын
Here’s the thing I have no trouble opening up to my wife about sex! Me telling her my needs! My wants! My wife and I have been married 33 years! In our early years of our marriage! We had sex 2 to 3 times a week! We had amazing sex in a pool once in our room at the poconos! We used to have sex anywhere in our house! Before our kids’ or when they were in school! I enjoy kissing my wife ! She gives the softest kisses! I do tell my wife my love tank is getting low! I dry her beautiful back and backside when she’s coming out of the shower! My wife isn’t so open with telling me her needs! Her wants..! I’m always telling her my fantasies about her ! About us! Like where going away this weekend alone to our favorite country place! Lancaster! We got a room with a fireplace! I’m already having fantasy about it
@geno5169Ай бұрын
That’s funny I do tell my wife my love tank is getting pretty low!she’ll ask how low!
@geno5169Ай бұрын
I know Gary chapmen’a five stages of love! I try to keep them in our marriage
@geno5169Ай бұрын
Or when our girls go to bed ‘ I’ll lay next bro her in the couch! I’ll even rub oil on her foot! She hurt it in May!
@geno5169Ай бұрын
My wife and I do what we can to have our date night one day i Mid week! Usually Wednesday’s! We’ll either take our girls to my parents or we’ll just get them dinner! So my wife and I go on a nice alone time together! lol we go we’ve been together on our favorite country place . Lancaster..! We’ve been going there over 20 years! Where going there this weekend ! We booked a romantic room with a fireplace! It’s so beautiful there! I’ve been taking care of her for years! I’ve been drying her back and her beautiful backside as soon as she’s cones out of the shower! I even do this on our trips! And I even put out a washcloth and towel for her shower’s I love listening to you both how your open about sex in a marriage!
@850620arnoАй бұрын
Would like your opinion on something like "OMGYES", yes I don't like the name either, but it is promoted as sex ED to help couple's, especially to learn things about ourselves and partners sexually, they do have the option to view the content animated or real life?
@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissyАй бұрын
I would say anything that helps you serve your spouse more in the bedroom is a win. I’d just suggest to make sure that the animations aren’t pornographic. And make sure you spouse is onboard.
@Rainbow-e3wАй бұрын
😮Matthew hi pastor Joe
@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissyАй бұрын
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@geno5169Ай бұрын
When my wife is laying on our one couch I’ll lay right next to her! She hurt her one foot back in May when we went away on our anniversary! So I rub oil on her foot! I give her as much affection as I can! I’ll come behind her in our kitchen to kiss her! To touch her! I even offer to dry her back and beautiful backside off when she’s coming out of the shower yes even on our trips! I’ll dry her! Very straight on and very helpful advice
@geno5169Ай бұрын
My wife and I have been married 33 years! We used to have sex probably 2 to 3 times a week! Now my wife usually in the mood for fun time once a we.! Usually on Fridays or Saturdays! My wife does take photos when we go on along trips! Now we’ve been together 35 years! Our sex fun times were out of control! I married my wife when she was 20! I find myself so much more attractive to her just as I was in the beginning! I try to tell my wife it’s so important for us to keep our affectionate energy more! I get bad migraines! I try to tell my wife sex would really help my migraine go away! She just laughed! Now when we go along trips like where going this weekend to our favorite country place! Lancaster! We booked a romantic room with a fireplace! I really enjoy watching you two talk about the important issues to help couples like ours! Thank you both!
@charugoel4132Ай бұрын
Thanks for marriage tips.
@geno5169Ай бұрын
I definitely lust after my wife! I find myself so much more attractive to her more and more!
@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissyАй бұрын
Yes and amen!
@geno5169Ай бұрын
Yes I’ve been with my wife 35 years! Married 33 years!I noticed the more I’m married to my wife yes I fantasize about her ! About us! It brings a lot of amazing memories! Amazing moments together! It’s brings excitement in a marriage!!
@kavikv.d.hexenholtz3474Ай бұрын
As an Orthodox priest quipped in a 2010 article about Halloween, “And let’s be honest: modern Halloween for you and me-and even the Wiccans down the street-has nothing to do with virgin sacrifice or black magic. It’s about having fun in a costume and eating things your dentist wouldn’t approve of. No one was ever possessed by the devil because he or she dressed up for Halloween or passed out licorice or read a Harry Potter book. Our modern lives have way too many other avenues for temptation to enter, and these things are the real cause of our spiritual problems." When we celebrate Halloween, we are definitely participating in a tradition with deep historical roots. But those roots are firmly situated in the medieval Christian past, not an ancient pagan one.
@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissyАй бұрын
Interesting. Maybe look up john ramirez testimony who is an ex satanist and his history with Halloween.
@kavikv.d.hexenholtz3474Ай бұрын
@@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissy With respect to Ramirez, I've seen quite a few of his videos - I have no doubt that Mr. Ramirez has gone through a traumatic childhood and early adulthood; however, to put it bluntly, he’s a relatively latecomer to the so-called ‘Satanic Panic” conspiracy theory that swept America in the 1980’s and early 1990’s, and he wants *so* hard to bring it back! As a self-appointed “ex-Satanist”, he doesn’t seem to have much concrete knowledge of their actual practices (or beliefs for that matter). I do think he was exposed to some Santería ceremonies as a kid, and that’s what’s sticking in his mind. I really think it’s these fragmented memories from his childhood that he’s relating to his audiences. Ramirez tells us that his family was all “witches and warlocks” and that they “lived on witchcraft.” He claims that his family “had a contract directly with the devil himself.” Further, he says he witnessed demonic spirits coming into his home, his father worshiping them, and his father “speaking in demonic tongues.” By the time he was seven years old, he says he was “going to witchcraft church” to be “trained to be a warlock.” Generational claims, such as the above, are extremely common in Satanic Panic ‘testimonies’ and have little validity in the world of reality. Further, Satanism and earth based religions such as Wicca are diametrically opposed to one another - you can't be both. As a linguist, I can tell you unequivocally that 'tongues' are a completely self-created phenomenon. Most of what he describes sounds like he conceptualizes it in a metaphorical sense. He never gives any concrete details about what Satan looked like or sounded like (though he supposedly has met him). I mean, it’s not like I’d believe him, but he never even _tries_ . He never reveals the names or locations of these other Satan worshipers, nor talks about going to the police to report all these murders they’re allegedly committing (even if by astral projection). One gets the distinct impression that all of these things and events he describes happened only in the realm of his very active imagination. It’s very clear however, that his fans think he’s talking literally. Indeed, in listening to the subject matter in many of his videos, it’s painfully obvious he’s making a lot of it up as he goes along (you can kind of see the tells). His story too, seems to change each time he tells it. If you listen to a number of his videos on Halloween, these points becomes painfully obvious. His brand of fear mongering apparently sells well with many of today’s Christians. His message hits all the high notes we expect out of a Satanic Panic holdover; he ticks all the boxes of the Satanic Panic rhetoric and then some. He also ticks all the boxes of a typical con man as well; he preys on the gullibility and fear many Christian groups apparently have at this time of year - the more one listens to him and what he talks about in some of many of his videos, the more one realizes that he’s got a captive audience and is “preaching to the faithful”. He totally realizes it and is making stuff up as he goes along. Why? Because that’s exactly just the kind of juicy tidbits his audience is craving to hear. It’s scare tactics at its best - a prime example of the old “Satanic Panic” era rhetoric. I’m just not buying much into the story he’s selling. His videos lead one to conclude the man doesn’t need Jesus; he needs a good therapist.
@PatrickMurrellАй бұрын
Love this! We have always been frustrated with Christian’s who celebrate a clearly demonic holiday. We turn the front lights off and don’t answer the door. What do y’all do? Love from Texas!
@geno5169Ай бұрын
I’m a lucky husband if we have sex once a week! I try to talk my wife in more sensual conversations together! I get bad migraines! I try to talk her having sex to help my migraine go away! She just laughed! We went to the poconos for our one anniversary! We had our own pool in our room! If I have to explain! It was an amazing experience in that room!
@geno5169Ай бұрын
I really like your idea on a 7 day challenge! I might ask my wife for a 7 day challenge for Christmas gift! Amen
@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissyАй бұрын
You can do it!
@geno5169Ай бұрын
My wife always says these sexy nightgown and panties are a waste of money! She said they don’t stay on very long long I tell her they bring so much amazing sensual energy in our marriage! We’ve been married 33 years! I always think of new exciting sexy places! And her and I giving each other that affection we both deserve!
@geno5169Ай бұрын
I do find beds are boring! First place my wife and I went after our wedding! A amusement park in our state! After we were married a couple of years! I took my wife to Disney! She’s never been there !
@denzelumara9370Ай бұрын
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@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissyАй бұрын
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@EnemyAce88Ай бұрын
Like most of these marriage advice channels, you just assume that both spouses actually care about meeting each other's needs and being connected. My wife just doesn't give a damn. She has practically no sex drive and I'm supposed to just accept that because if she doesn't need it then I shouldn't either. I do more than my share of the housework and childcare. I've had the "patient, loving conversation" so many times. But she won't even try to do anything more than the dead starfish barely once a month. I've already wasted 10 years being unhappy like this. I will be filing for divorce soon if things don't change.
@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissyАй бұрын
Sucks when couples have to go to divorce. I’m sorry to hear that. Have you tried to have a conversation about sexual needs? Your needs verses hers. And sharing you want need her to be interested. I’m sure you have. What is her response.
@MegaTranquillaАй бұрын
Bro don't let yourself to be talked into staying together. She obviously doesn't care and even if you can't blame her she's not gonna change
@disquietedsaintАй бұрын
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@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissyАй бұрын
Thank you!
@EnemyAce88Ай бұрын
My wife doesn't want connection with me. Half the time she won't even look away from her phone when I try to have a meaningful conversation with her. And our sex life consists of "hurry up and get it overwith" barely once a month. I've had the "patient, loving" conversation so many times. It doesn't help. She simply doesn't care. I will be filing for divorce very soon if this doesn't change. I've already wasted what should have been 10 of the best years of my life being unwanted and unappreciated.
@EnemyAce88Ай бұрын
I would kill to be having sex once a week. But for the last 10 years, it's been "hurry up and get it overwith" barely once a month. I'm getting close to filing for divorce. And by the way, I'm already doing more than my share of the housework and childcare. But she's still "too tired" all the time. Mind you, she's never too tired to play with her phone for hours on end. Just too tired for me.
@geno5169Ай бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear about your sexless marriage. With your wife.! She’s seems like her phone is more important then time with you! You should hide her phone! I put my phone away when my wife comes home! If she brings out her phone on our evening time! I’ll say can you put away your phone! Yes I guess I’m lucky ! Most times we have sex once a week! Usually either Friday or Saturday!
@EnemyAce88Ай бұрын
I've tried asking my wife questions like these. It didn't help. We do the dead starfish barely once a month and she acts like I should be grateful to get that. All my attempts to communicate with her about this are met with the same response. "It's not you, it's me. I'll do better. I promise." But then nothing changes.
@JM-bl3ihАй бұрын
How many churches, or even you point out sin anymore? When the last time you said on your social media homosexuality is a sin? Churches have become revenue generating centers
@nedutchgirlАй бұрын
We step up and cover for the other. I try to do small niceties to show my appreciation for his care while I am recuperating. It is not 50 50. I make more money, but I know he is doing his best. We pull together. Our basis is trust, without trust, you have nothing.
@disquietedsaint2 ай бұрын
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@themarriedlifewithJoeAndKrissy2 ай бұрын
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