If a man has a women friend and he doesn't want to screw her he is gay

This video is so true. My husband refuses counseling and told me to work on me and he will work on him, after initially promising to go to counseling. When I asked him what does he mean? He said he had a plan for us to rebuild our marriage after he was caught cheating in the beginning of September 2024 and continued to lie about 90% of the details. I inquired about his plan so that I can climb aboard. He responded that he was not sure, yet. Needless to say the poop built up and caused an irreparable explosion. I’m done.

Speak on it 💯

I wish I had had the courage to speak up about the problems in our marriage and my internal struggles and handled them like an adult instead of seeking someone else… and had the courage or skill to talk about it openly from the discovery day…my fear took over and I had a mental breakdown…it led to a counter affair and a rollercoaster of destruction and pain that has lasted years 💔

Your perspective is so refreshing, fair and balanced. I truly appreciate everything Couples Academy has done to help my marriage and others like me.

I’m very familiar, being currently in a year long committed relationship with dismissive avoidant. I’ve done so much research on attachment styles, while trying to heal my own anxious attachment and very gently suggesting and encouraging my DA to heal. This relationship is destroying me. He is not interested in sex with me, and when I do get him to engage, he can’t stay aroused and he will turn the lights out. I feel so ugly and undesirable. Meanwhile, he uses porn almost daily to satisfy his needs. He is also very active on a sex hookup site, where he inappropriately interacts with other people. He also does it on social media and through text. I’ve tried to express, without triggering him, how completely disrespected and disregarded it makes me feel, but he just stonewalls and disappears. I’ve never felt so alone and unworthy. I’m starving mentally, emotionally and physically. The woman I was when I met him is decimated. The thing that kills me, is my obsession for him, was extinguished on NYE. I felt it disappear. I wanted so bad to fight for us, but now that the blinders are off, there is a hatred growing inside me, towards him. I don’t want to give up and abandon him., but if I stay, I fear I’ll lose myself.

Im not married l, but the lenses of judgement are a mirror not a lens I've been through emotional abuse and belittling and it hurts a lot a man deals with enough in the world to come home to the place of peace

I feel like this video was for me. I've only been married 4 months and I want to learn how to talk better with my husband. I can be very brutal with my words and tones. Where can I get this book? Is there an audio to the book?

I needed to hear this today I’m guilty myself. But you have said major points that hit home to me . Thank you 🙏 broken people will do questionable things

Whew!! Whatever woman marries my ex-husband... SHE'S GOING TO GET A RUDE AWAKENING. This is my husband to a TEE!🤬

Absolutely great stuff. Just saved this video to my memorable marriage Playlist.

How much do you share tell them about your affairs speak about life from younger years

Men need to live with their wives with EMPATHY 🎉!!!

Wow, I am speechless.

Bickering = Low-intensity warfare

Thank you a million times over. I was led here by my spirit guides angels and ancestors. I have been trying like crazy to get over something I did wrong and this is the answer I need Thanks for helping lift the burden

Been listening to you back to back. Thank you. Just discovered your channel 🙏🏾

The husband is the reason the wife cheated and he knows it. 😂 I told my cheating spouse to leave because I cheated and felt bad with him hanging around. He didn't leave. I didn't come out and tell him word for word I cheated. I thought he would catch it because he was a habitual cheater. He never imagined me cheating 😂. I did because I wanted to go elsewhere because he wasn't doing anything but just sitting around playing games. I went to a man that is a hard worker and he still wants me to come be with him. I know it will not work because of how we got together. I'll just fix my marriage and then work on me.

“Unfortunately an idea”!!!!!! Man what matters is what SHE thinks. Women DO NOT RESPECT you if you stay. Just think: she didn’t respect you in the first place. I know from experience. I wanted to keep my family together. Allow my daughter a home. Religious leaders and counselors are OUT OF TOUCH with MODERN women . Strength? And “easy” to leave.??? WTF. This is one thing you guys get so wrong No wonder men take their lives like they do How about some HUMANITY DIGNITY ??? You wrong man And “be a man “ … “god wants you to be with her” Setting young men up for true tragedy. I can’t believe what I’m hearing here No!!! Do you know what this does to your kids? Do you know how it destroys a child’s confidence?? To see their father emasculated??? Man you really need to stop

“Unfortunately an idea”!!!!!! Man what matters is what SHE thinks. Women DO NOT RESPECT you if you stay. Just think: she didn’t respect you in the first place. I know from experience. I wanted to keep my family together. Allow my daughter a home. Religious leaders and counselors are OUT OF TOUCH with MODERN women . Strength? And “easy” to leave.??? WTF. This is one thing you guys get so wrong No wonder men take their lives like they do How about some HUMANITY DIGNITY ??? You wrong man And “be a man “ … “god wants you to be with her” Setting young men up for true tragedy. I can’t believe what I’m hearing here

If you want your relationship to work, you have to be able to communicate effectively. Not just listen but open up too. But society teaches you that as a man, you shouldn't open up to a woman.

My Dad told me years ago that people don't change they just get older. That's been validated from my life experiences.

Wow, that's deep. My prayers go out to you. Unfortunately, her commitment to her marriage vows. It is so deficult I wish I fell for a woman who love God more than herself and me. Sadly too many folks worship themselves and tbeir desires.

If a women/girl "playfully flirts" with someone while shes in a relationship, and God forbid a marriage, she belongs to the streets.

Am in Zambia,north Western province of in Solwezi district.

I see this podcast is 4 years old but here goes. I’ve been married almost 2 decades. My wife and I are opposites, and she is constantly telling me that we are unquote. She’s constantly threatening me with divorce. Our communication styles are very different and I make an effort to understand her point of view and her style, but she doesn’t reciprocate. She’s very distrusting of me, but I don’t give her anything to distrust me about. I have never cheated on her yet. She is constantly accusatory. She chooses me up everything from Internet affairs to masturbation and I don’t do any of the above was high blood pressure in a low pulse rate my ability to have sex has went to zero. My next step is to get an implant, but I’m afraid if I get it, which is for her that she’s not gonna be interested enough to use it. She constantly sends me information about lack of communication and lack of intimacy and it’s outcome but when I try to point her into the direction of the psychological effects of male impotency, she won’t even give it a thought…says it’s in my head and I’m being selfish. I’m not the type for a disposable marriage….meaning I don’t just throw away a relationship because there is a stumbling block. Her friends and family tell her that I must be masturbating or I must be having an affair and sometimes it gets in her head and she believes it and starts a big fight. She has had a rough past and I think she sees every past partner in my face when things don’t go right. I am searching for counseling for myself because I don’t seam to be prepared for her type of personality although we have been married for so long. I’m a quiet man and not real talkative but I try to make up for it with acts of service, but when she is talkie talk it’s hard. Say a prayer for a brother and cast a bit of input please. Blessings.

My husband just told me on Thursday that he has been cheating on me for the past two years and he just had a son with his woman. We don’t have any children together and he said that he didn’t want any children. How am I suppose to deal with this?

When you go through this as a man, I have one suggestion. Leave that woman. She is only loyal to her feelings and nothing else. It’s like being married to a child. If you are a man, and u get cheated on, leave that 304

WOMEN ARE LOYAL TO THEIR EMOTIONS AND NOTHING ELSE. DONT MARRY BOYS

I just found out my husband cheated and the girl is pregnant. She’s also 20 years younger than us. He doesn’t want the baby, yet he left me and our daughter. She doesn’t know he’s married. But I don’t plan to be married to him after this. This BROKE me.

Yes it should be stopped ! Flirting isn't innocent coz it comes with emotional attachments!

I need your help. I feel this

Yes, you must stop! I just typed this before watching....

I would love to see a video about husbands who have affairs and there’s a baby that comes from the affair and how a wife is supposed to handle that. And if there’s any path forward, and if there is, how to establish boundaries with the baby mama and what’s reasonable boundaries for that other relationship. My husband expects me to allow him to go spend Nights and hours with him and his ex Fair partner to raise their baby in secret no less. He doesn’t want anyone to know about this baby too, which is so messed up. Any videos on that would be awesome because I know I can’t be the only one who’s dealing with something like this.

It's not of self-respect that one should fear. The reality is, she lost all respect for her husband before she cheated. Maybe she never did respect him. A woman who loses respect for her husband will never regain it. She can realize that leaving would degrade her lifestyle, and so decide to stay. And do and say whatever is necessary to stay. Most likely, she will become a more sophisticated cheater. Either way, divorce or choose her, the live-in escort, he loses. Even Jesus made adultery an exception, an acceptable reason to divorce. Caveat emptor

What the fuck is the fool saying, if she cheats, fellas you leave

How do you move on when the adulterous spouse continues to lie about particulars about the affair and periodically the betrayed spouse keeps being smacked in the face with a new truth dispelling one or more lies that the unfaithful continues to cling to?

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No man should accept that. The scriptures forbid it and recommend worse than leaving. Leaving is the best option and they should be thankful it’s the only justifiable option in today’s society.

No man should ever even consider staying with a cheating wife. The moment a woman lays down with another man she has lost all value to you. Cry, pray and move on. When God comes to destroy her, please don’t be found standing beside her.

Video is complete bs! Of course every man wants to make it work and fix it, and in all likelihood probably would. But the truth is, when woman cheat, they don’t want to be in that relationship anymore. Men and woman are wired differently. The ONLY WAY…is when a woman ADMITS to cheating, and is completely apologetic and remorseful then maybe and only maybe could it work, then she would have to protect that relationship….Your eyes are telling you what your heart already knows, move on slowly and grief. This guys video is a money grab.

Omitting an affair is robbing someone of their free will to choose if they want to work on the marriage. Is it possible what he is trying to reconcile is the fact that he continued to be deceived even after she “healed” and “became the best version of herself?”

The funny thing is im not sure this guy has experienced this himself...its easy to say stay when its not happened to you.

Just because its harder to stay than walk away doesnt make it the right choice to do so.

Excellent commentary.

Most of these also applies to the man we both hold worth men and women hold multiple hats

Currently struggling with the ghost of who my husband used to be

Never take a cheater back after they show you what and who they really are and what they really think of you. No excuses for cheating none talk or walk

Is not the he is less of a man this is more then that when he or she sleep with someone else they become one body that's why Jesus that you give divorce papers and I'd you😂accept that person again you commit sin this is more deeply that you think

Yes, you are. That was your ticket to freedom you passed on.