Are You Fighting a Ghost? Why You Can’t Move On After Betrayal

[@Drumbeat52]

My Dad told me years ago that people don't change they just get older. That's been validated from my life experiences.

[@jonbanks653]

Thank you a million times over. I was led here by my spirit guides angels and ancestors. I have been trying like crazy to get over something I did wrong and this is the answer I need Thanks for helping lift the burden

[@momonfirenow]

How do you move on when the adulterous spouse continues to lie about particulars about the affair and periodically the betrayed spouse keeps being smacked in the face with a new truth dispelling one or more lies that the unfaithful continues to cling to?

[@kevin.c2023]

Wow, so deep and applies. Really good stuff. This isn't the only a stuckpoint of mine, but a stuckpoint nonetheless. Missed the window to hold the previous version accountable, for whatever reason.

[@odelysp1007]

Omitting an affair is robbing someone of their free will to choose if they want to work on the marriage. Is it possible what he is trying to reconcile is the fact that he continued to be deceived even after she “healed” and “became the best version of herself?”

[@chrisblack1906]

the whole her being "another version of herself: is total BS. Shes still the same ole cheater who got caught.

[@CouplesAcademy]

Nope. Not true

[@chrisblack1906]

@@CouplesAcademy if she didn't get caught, would he even see this new person at all??? Most likely he wouldn't, so how is she a new person if the change didnt come on her own? If her getting caught is the only thing that causes this change, then its not genuine....shes just gonna fake it to make it not her fault.

[@NoMoreRatRaceForMe]

When you go through this as a man, I have one suggestion. Leave that woman. She is only loyal to her feelings and nothing else. It’s like being married to a child. If you are a man, and u get cheated on, leave that 304

[@CHEWEMULENGA-y9d]

I need your help. I feel this

[@whalenjennifer]

I would love to see a video about husbands who have affairs and there’s a baby that comes from the affair and how a wife is supposed to handle that. And if there’s any path forward, and if there is, how to establish boundaries with the baby mama and what’s reasonable boundaries for that other relationship. My husband expects me to allow him to go spend Nights and hours with him and his ex Fair partner to raise their baby in secret no less. He doesn’t want anyone to know about this baby too, which is so messed up. Any videos on that would be awesome because I know I can’t be the only one who’s dealing with something like this.

[@kevin.c2023]

AffairRecovery has one. Search for video "Addiction, A Child from an Affair Partner & Will we ever love each other again?" They have other videos that include that couple too if you search around. It's the closest thing I can think of. Hope it helps.

[@marquitagoodhope7924]

Currently struggling with the ghost of who my husband used to be

[@CouplesAcademy]

i totally understand. how can i help?

[@NoMoreRatRaceForMe]

WOMEN ARE LOYAL TO THEIR EMOTIONS AND NOTHING ELSE. DONT MARRY BOYS