This is a case where both sides are right in their own dockets. The lady is right to want to walk away. The man is right to grieve his side chic because, yoooo.. grief has no limits!! And people are out there having bonds and having sides... and chemistry is birthed. So actually the lady should walk away.. and the man won't even be more hurt because he has been hurt to the extreme.. her walking away is light pain because someone he loved deeply is down 6 feet and will never be seen ever again! There is nothing more painful. Let her walk away. I would walk away too. And if i were the man, i would grieve too.
@jadrinenambuusi11935 күн бұрын
When i saw the title😂
@LillianMagret-k8d5 күн бұрын
That lady should walk away i mean😢😢😢...its not worth it...thats torture
@kisakyejulianna90266 күн бұрын
This story is WILLLDD!!!!
@sothisislifeug6 күн бұрын
and infuriating, no?
@patriciakigula740219 күн бұрын
I can understand feeling salty about not meeting your bestie’s person… it’s like someone excluding you from major milestones, especially if you also believe that the same person will come to you should things unfortunately go south. I’m not so sure about being salty about not vetting… it does happen in informal ways I guess but in the end, Sharon’s opinion shouldn’t matter so much… her support more than opinion perhaps goes a longer way. Ultimately, the two friends just need to talk and for the writer to reassure her friend without necessarily jumping ship.
@rown766421 күн бұрын
Been wanting to comment , I think everyone has something they consider important and times changing shouldn't change what someone considers important unless it's no longer serving them, in other words understanding on the man's part and telling the woman that there is always room for growth on both ends ❤
@sothisislifeug21 күн бұрын
Different way to look at things. Relationships do require some form of compromise, whatever that looks for whomever! Thank you for your comment.
@clairekembabazi760425 күн бұрын
blessing ka engrishhhh guduuu
@blessingbyamugisha25 күн бұрын
My teachers of engrishi would be proud 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@clairekembabazi760425 күн бұрын
why is the episode so short?
@sothisislifeug24 күн бұрын
Unfortunately we faced some technical difficulties. 😢
@doreenk.arinawe25 күн бұрын
Prayer. Is how I deal with colic. I start praying for a calm and peaceful baby as soon as I find out that I am pregnant. Some kids are lactose intolerant so I also reduce the amount of cow milk I take. But prayer is key 🙏
@doreenk.arinawe25 күн бұрын
I think Blessing had postpartum bues. Where you cry once in a while because of overwhelm. Postpartum depression is worse. You feel like struggling the child or killing yourself. Now that’s depression. I was also today years old when I have learnt about postpartum rage 🙆♀️.
@blessingbyamugisha25 күн бұрын
Blues? That's a proper term for sure because I didn't think I was depressed per se but neither was I having it easy! It was hard
@AkandindaCathy27 күн бұрын
Thank you for having me my loves😊❤️Mothers,you got this! At the end of the day,what matters is that you love your child and they most definitely love you too❤️ Stay blessed y’all!
@sothisislifeug26 күн бұрын
@@AkandindaCathy it was a pleasure to take you!!! Thank again.
@bridgetlevin27 күн бұрын
Hmmmm... I never had a rage.....but I felt every inch of the cries it .....But all I would do was to resort to pray over my baby, somehow that would calm me. Pray surely works. And then I would advise the husbands out there to also understand there wives, and really be there from them. Lastly, as women do research about what comes with Postpartum, their partners to should get involved such that they can also see how to help in such a state.
@sothisislifeug26 күн бұрын
@bridgetlevin thank you for sharing this Bridget. Oh yes Prayer!!!! It does work. Louder please about husband's getting involved.
@RayAtu28 күн бұрын
I am team wife through and through! But that man also, i am worried for sis because she is going to suffer and is only he beginning. I am sorry for her! Otw you ladies look sooo gorgeous!
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
Thank you, Ray! People need to up their talking stage game!😼
@JoyPersonalFinancespf7tq29 күн бұрын
Laughing from South Africa 😂😂😂😂😂 I am team wife.
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
Hey hey from over here. We are laughing with you 🙃🙃
@debbiefit19329 күн бұрын
Am team wife please 😂😂coz am just like her...I know all chores but I won't do them coz there is more to me than chores and am busy raising the kids and working ...I think that's enough for me...u can call me lazy if you want...if I don't want to do chores,I won't do them
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
Women emancipation has made women lazy 🤭🤭🤭🤭
@FortunateCheliАй бұрын
I think that the husband wants the wife to help him make the bed. Because he says that he is literally the only one who makes it. Making a bed everyday yet you didn't sleep in it alone isn't very nice.
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
We can see how that would upset someone a bit...but that doesn't warrant calling wifey lazy🥴
@faithahumuzaАй бұрын
EEH
@blessingbyamugishaАй бұрын
😂😂😂
@LillianMagret-k8dАй бұрын
😮that's too much
@blessingbyamugishaАй бұрын
Too much on the husband or the wife?
@misst263Ай бұрын
I am team wife
@SheebaniwensiimaАй бұрын
Atakwagala obo'mulaba😅 The measure of wife material cannot possibly be the ability to prove that you are willing to suffer. Good to know tat she keeps the home in toptier shape because apart from the husband, no one is going to come to a clean home and ask or be concerned with who mopped the floor😑
@SheebaniwensiimaАй бұрын
The ka part of "she would rather wake up and sleep in the sitting room" so she doesn't lay the bed got me🤣
@sothisislifeugАй бұрын
😂😂Good and valid point! No one cares as long as the space serves the purpose it intends to serve
@blessingbyamugishaАй бұрын
@@Sheebaniwensiima 😂😂
@nakamatte.brenda.blessedАй бұрын
And also the husband really who does that regretting why you married your wife just because she doesn't want to do chaos really🤔🤔 anywho this reminds me of having those hard conversations during courtship, whereby everyone knows what to expect and what honestly you can tolerate otherwise thank you ladies for always rooting for us🙏🙏
@sothisislifeugАй бұрын
People need to utilize their talking stages not just asking about favorite color!
@nakamatte.brenda.blessedАй бұрын
Banange I am team Blessing, bambi we over did those chaos back then at home and we got fade up 🙌🙌🙌🙌🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️and now that we can afford help why not banange, team wife to some extent I mean🤲
@sothisislifeugАй бұрын
Right? African daughters gather!
@bridgetlevinАй бұрын
First of all Eh...I wish I could post a sticker 😂😂😂let me my comment ready
@sothisislifeugАй бұрын
😆😆😆Use emojis!
@bridgetlevinАй бұрын
@sothisislifeug 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kisakyejulianna9026Ай бұрын
Much love, ladies❤ i have subscribed
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
Hey girl! Thank you for being here 🧡
@debbiefit193Ай бұрын
Lets cut Bridget some slack .....she has been there for her friend in everything....lets forgive Bridget and move on
@blessingbyamugishaАй бұрын
Woop! Team Bridget!🙋♂
@debbiefit193Ай бұрын
Let her leave the 5 year guy for sure and choose the one ready
@blessingbyamugishaАй бұрын
but should she tell him about the child before, during the wedding or after?
@debbiefit193Ай бұрын
Simanyi nakumanya
@karagwadora4398Ай бұрын
Mary has forgotten everything good and is choosing to fucus on something tiny they are both young..Bridget could have found her lover and is trying to build her life too..Mary needs to stop putting alot of responsibilities on her frd
@sothisislifeug26 күн бұрын
@@karagwadora4398 yeeeesss!!! She seems to have forgotten that her friend has a life too.
@karagwadora4398Ай бұрын
Mary is being so entitled Bridget has done everything sending the car ,buying a car seat ..she walked the pregnancy jrny like let's allow Bridget miss out on that day ..
@patriciakigula7402Ай бұрын
I agree with Phidra… I think the girl suffered a traumatic experience in those first three years of her life and that rejection of her father that definitely affected the trajectory of her life. Then there’s the loss of her child … weh. So many perspectives to this thing…
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
Definitely a very multi-layered situation but at what point do we hold individuals accountable?
@shifahnamata485Ай бұрын
Me i was carried away with the gorgeous matching jewelery, was it intentional? ❤
@blessingbyamugishaАй бұрын
It was intentional, thank you for noticing 😍
@mama.louis_Ай бұрын
This was really heavy.. but yes, I agree with Phidra. And yes, she definitely needs consistency.
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
What about accountability for our actions?
@bridgetlevinАй бұрын
First of all eh.... let me think of what I would do if I was her...but love constrains us,.that's how the mother is...
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
Love that part you say about love!
@is_it_worth_itАй бұрын
Not us being called childrennn😂😂😂
@blessingbyamugishaАй бұрын
You're not?😁😁😁
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
We are sorry 😂
@patriciakigula7402Ай бұрын
Thanks for having me ladies. But nga im a nice friend 😂
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
Our pleasure, Patra. Thank you for your wisdom 🌼
@msmuhindo6657Ай бұрын
My pro tip is- never send emails to just one person, especially those with work you’ve invested so much time and effort in. With reports, presentations, concepts, etc, send to your supervisor and their supervisor and another person (if you are in a department or working on a similar project, copy the other team) “for their comments.” That way, people see what you are doing and what you are capable of. But also it helps to improve your work… in the workplace, everyone is looking out for themselves. It’s a jungle. Never let anyone steal your work.
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
This is so wise! And have you seen people you email and with others in copy only for them to continuously reply to you alone? Consistently. Shady!
@msmuhindo6657Ай бұрын
Patra, you are so mature and thoughtful. I think you should join the show
@blessingbyamugishaАй бұрын
Right??!!! She'd balance us out quite well 😅😅
@patriciakigula7402Ай бұрын
Awww Clare… thank you ☺️
@patriciakigula7402Ай бұрын
I’ve been here before and I can tell you that no mature conversation with that supervisor will get them to credit you but there are some clever ways to get you seen. For starters, don’t sit back and hope they’ll hand you credit or that the superiors will see you… you have to push ko. Petty me would start cc the superior in those emails. But also, now that you’ve established the boss is approachable, have a conversation with them about if they could mentor and guide you to get better at your work and then highlight the work you’ve done so they can see your contribution. During work presentations or other opportunities you may find to engage the boss, talk about the work you’ve done “For example, when I worked on abc or when I handled xyz”…. It’s a subtle way to highlight your contribution. Any right thinking boss would see and connect the dots and if supervisor hasn’t been inviting you to meetings, the boss himself will and start to ask for your contribution directly. You have to be a little ambitious for your work to be seen and valued.
@msmuhindo6657Ай бұрын
Well put.
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
Just come around to reading this and it's well put. Closed mouths don't get fed. I wish people would gather courage to even subtly make their work known. Workplace politics? hmm!
@RayAtuАй бұрын
Office politics banange! I agree with Blessing that it is important not to burn bridges! The supervisor should acknowledge to the lady that you are making me look good and hopefully work well and always put in a word for her person but munange humans are selfish and are always looking out for themselves so look out for you too
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
I wish people knew in the slightest, how motivational it is to credit a subordinate!
@bridgetlevinАй бұрын
For starters, I think, she would have talked to the boss the momen he was telling her to improve here and there that was her gap to clarify, but nonetheless..I she should now wait for the Supervisor the next time she tells her to do some work for, and then gladly inform her what the boss told her and that the work she presents is good but ask her why she doesn't give credit where it's due😂😂😂😂 And the
@sothisislifeug28 күн бұрын
Good thought! But some supervisors are lethal, lol
@prossykyarisima1343Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@waynemcedric8269Ай бұрын
Hahahahahha Enjoying what #Phi?!!!!!
@alicemusubika8996Ай бұрын
❤
@waynemcedric8269Ай бұрын
Well done team #SoThisIsLifeUG
@sothisislifeugАй бұрын
Thank you Cedu❤
@alicemusubika8996Ай бұрын
Well done ladies
@priscillaatwine62702 ай бұрын
She needs to fast for 40 days and 40 nights
@sothisislifeug2 ай бұрын
@@priscillaatwine6270 🤣🤣🤣 agreed!!!
@patriciakigula74022 ай бұрын
Why would a person center marriage so much that they’d question whether or not to tell a person that genuinely loves them about their child. As a child, I’d never forgive her for that. Meanwhile on top of not knowing about the child, Max doesn’t know about the other man either. He doesn’t deserve that nonsense. Neither does he deserve to be second. Sis needs to just sit down and stop stringing people in her confusion.
@blessingbyamugisha2 ай бұрын
There's no one on earth, that is external- like a ka boy- that would make me stay quiet about my child, some one with literal internal relations!
@mama.louis_2 ай бұрын
I fear that this lady is being selfish and inconsiderate of all the other parties, especially her child. But also perhaps we don't know the full story. Anyway, even the Bibles tells us to tell the truth and it will set us free. So this young lady needs to be honest with her child, her 5-yr boyfriend and her "prospective" husband. Everyone should be made aware of the information/decision that will directly affect them.
@sothisislifeug2 ай бұрын
Oh yes. She needs to think more of the child in question. And act in favour of her.
@RachelAtukunda2 ай бұрын
Reminds me of a series I was watching on Netflix called Redemption! I am sorry but that babe is selfish, this is YOUR child for crying out loud . The TRUTH will come out some day! What is it that is so serious that she can’t declare her daughter. God forbid she landed on a bad man who can kuhamba small girls? Mbwenu I have many opinions
@sothisislifeug2 ай бұрын
But being in a relationship where she can't open up about such an important factor should be a red flag to her honestly