You are really under-rated:))

Golden words

One thing I'm wondering is why i got this video and other similar videos the time i was thinking about being lost, do phones read our minds or what???

I’m 24 and feeling a bit lost! I’m appreciative for my first son who was born at 28 weeks and I watched him fight for his life. My Dr. said he may not pull through but they will try everything to keep him alive. He is now 3 and you can’t even tell he was a preemie. My OB said that my next would most likely be born a preemie but he made it to 37 weeks and is a healthy 1 1/2 year old now. My most difficult time was deciding to leave my ex husband 3 years ago. Realizing it was the best year of my life I escaped the abuse after 6 years (I was 16 and he was 26.) After he moved back into his mom’s house it hit me no more abuse and I’m free. It’s been almost 3 years divorced (the best 3 years of my life!) Career wise I feel lost. I relied on dancing and adult content for money, I’m ready to be free from it. I want to feel like I’m more than just a body or empty shell.

Thanks man. I was surprised how come there's only 500 subs.. there should be a hundred gran!

I worked so hard in my 20's for an employer who wrecked my health. Go take a break, kids, time to quit. Time to lie down.

Things I've been learning lately: comparison is definitely not a safe place, people have different contexts and stories, and people don't care with our progress as much as we think they do... realizing those things has been giving me the opportunity to live a more balanced and peaceful life in my 20's! So I fully agree with ur tips! Thnks for this video! 🔥

I love you ❤

I’m 25 and unemployed because I needed a break my last job was making me lose it and I feel like everybody around me is rich and I’m a complete loser

this is great man i really appreciate this movie

No one cares about my struggles as a man

Hello Hayden, I'm isa from Brazil. I just found your channel and I'm finding your videos amazing and very helpful. Thank you very much for helping us in any way. hope to see you more often on youtube 🤍

I just want a job that I don’t hate that pays well

That last point was really profound. Glad I heard that at the age of 22, could've easily gone another 10 or 20 years feeling bad without that in mind

I'm grateful that I found this video......last night was really heavy......bc I was constantly thinking about others achievements and was saying negative stuffs about me and my life to myself.......Thanks dude for this video and sending love and tight hugs......

Thank you so much for this absolutely insightful and helpful video! To summarize: 1) Keep things in perspective 2) Focus on the Good/Gratitude 3) Share struggles/feelings with others 4) Try to enjoy the journey

Just finished watching. I’m 24 years old , got my bachelors in exercise science. But still feel lost and don’t know what to do. Sometimes I feel I ain’t doing nothin with my life which sounds crazy. But after watching I feel a little better.

Thanks for the encouragement. I just turned 26, with no degree, no real savings and still crashing with my parents. I have the desire to go out and work hard, I just don’t know what for. Stuck is the perfect way to describe it.

Thanks friend, love you bro.

I’m 25 right now and felt calmed by this video. I’m completely feeling behind in life and stuck. And looking at Instagram and the 30 under 30 lists makes me feel awful. Thanks for the advice and talking about something that I think most of us go through.

I like your videos so much!

Comparison is a big part of advertising and mass media, which informs the way we function on the street and in the workplace . Watching commercials, action movies and Romance flicks with actors who are sexier, smarter, tougher and slicker than us teaches us to feel we are not enough from a very young age. This leads to depression, rage, a loss of willpower and it also leads to massive envy. To say nothing about what happens starting in kindergarten all the way up to senior graduation in highschool. We're taught in a consumer culture that buying tons of stuff, getting "good grades" (instead of learning useful craft & labor skills), flexing our status within the system and scoring perfect peer conformity is "success", instead of honoring contentment, family values and the passing down of strong legacies to our kids. Were trained to become narcissistic, mentally ill, passive, guilty and delusional, not realistic, determined, resilient and sane. I unplugged from Television for a while now and never use (and could never get why anyone in their right mind would use) most popular social media apps like Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. It helped me find so much peace of mind. I'd say try getting out to nature more and try getting back into reading, even if it's only for 30 minutes a day, to increase your attention span and your thinking capacity is helpful. Read books that you personally enjoy and that benefit you spiritually and even financially. Share your knowledge with others face to face, those who you actually trust. Most people don't care about humbly learning new things, they've been trained out of common sense, so don't cast your pearls before swine, as the saying goes. Once you realize the corporate culture you live in is in a psychological war against you, your family and your self worth so it can make money off of your brokenness, then you'll see that all you have to do is unplug from the message that your TV set, your peers and your parents say, which is: "You are not enough if you don't buy X, Y, & Z. You must marry at this age, earn these degrees & licenses, have a house in the suburbs with this square footage, have this type of car and have this income or you are a worthless and weak loser." True winners set the standards for their own success. It is between them and God. The true losers allow others to dictate how they think, walk, talk and act on a second to second basis. A society that sets its own people up for a quarter and mid life crisis isn't very sustainable, obviously. Were not evolved to live in oversized metropolises and run on miserable wage treadmills to please peer groups, middle managers and corporate CEOS, were born to be free, moral, self determining and self reliant people who can defend their rights, have their own land, cultivate that land and to raise tough families who will not be pushed around by big business and big government into living standard issue, mass produced lies that don't fit who they are.

What an amazing video. Keep up the amazing work! This helped me so much and was one of the only videos that actually helped me 😀

I've worked as a Data Scientist, and I'm happy that I realised that I hate that job in spite of being paid really well by going through so much pain and depression, and taking some decisions like quitting my proper MNC job while I was getting huge amounts of external validation!!

I used to feel stuck by seeing everyone around me doing more, but I’ve told myself to stop comparing and that I’m on my own path. This is great content!

My mentor

For some reason I always have to remind myself to enjoy the process of the struggle…I blame that m&m commercial when the therapist tell the lil candy men that “you feel stuck because you are stuck” (lol ik that’s childish but…you know) ….so I always end up forcing the process instead of relaxing

I really appreciated the simplicity of the video, the editing and the content. Thank you for sharing :)

Your videos are so helpful, thank you for breaking it down it terms that I’m able to understand. Much love brother! ❤️

I keep my fingers crossed for you!

Kind heart is the best thing to have. Your videos are so valuable, please keep on going! I'm also starting my channel very soon - the beginnings are hard, but it's definitely worth it!

Thank you♥️ This was a big hug.

Well this made me feel a bit better. It always felt like I was a failure and my life was over even though I'm 20 years old. So many of my peers have done so much and I've just been barely hanging on in school and work. Glad to know I'm not alone.

Makes a lot of sense . I really like the way you express your ideas !

Once again, great video! I’ve been focusing on constructing my social circle the most in the past few years. You can learn a lot from other people, and it can give you a boost of confidence to know that you have friends who have your back. You can also have access to more opportunities the more people you meet. Here are some tips I give people when they ask me, "Fuschia, how do you stay so happy all the time?" (I've gotten that a lot!) Focus on what you CAN do and what you CAN change. If there is something you find impossible, or something doesn’t work out as you hoped, it’s not meant to be. Why get yourself worked up about something you can’t change? Find what you can do, and do it. I also tell them to realize it’s impossible to stay happy 100% of the time. Accept those waves of anger, sadness, frustration, etc. because they come along with signing the "being a normal human being" contract. Let yourself feel whatever you need to feel, but don’t allow yourself to stay low forever. Pick yourself up again and do something about it, or distract yourself. Life will constantly deal you cards, some good, some bad. The greatest challenge is when you’re dealt an awful hand and you want to remain "happy." Is it always possible? Maybe not. But focusing on the good and what you’re grateful for is a great start. Even if it’s the smallest thing. Whenever life slaps me in the face big time, I work extra hard to look for the treasures that make life worth living. That’s what IS truly possible.

You are so rad

Right place and the right time + connections - you’re so right about that!

Tell me who ist… even if you are not brainwashed you are being brainwashed by not being brainwashed. Everybody today has been brainwashed by someone or some belief. No? If I have been brainwashed i will find my way out. Let me tell you nobady brainwashes me without consequences.

Hey great video :)! Thanks, looking forward to more content!

Great video Hayden! A lot of the topics you touched on got the wheels turning.

Dude I love the transparency, SUCH a needed topic to touch on!! Definitely have felt that pressure about what a man should be instead of figuring out the traits as a man I'm proud of. I found when I'm able to do that, things just flow way better & I'm not left wondering whether or not I said or did the PERFECT thing. Huge light bulb moment for me I'm gonna have to explore ALSO love this style, felt like I just had coffee & a deep talk with an old friend

I feel really lost right now and really behind the people my age. Thank you Hayden. That's really freeibg and helping seeing things more clearly/getting a better perspective.🤗😊👍

My man, I'm loving the quality!

First of your videos I’m seeing, thanks for the great advice! The way you speak makes it very easy to listen to

I'm grateful for the clarity I've been gaining lately in my craft, daily life and relationship with my parents. It's better now. I'm also grateful to have found this video which gave me this approach ( looking at the things that are going well rather than calling it gratitude journaling). It resonates more with me. Thank you very much 🤗.

Grateful just to be breathing

Good video man really hit home support and uplift people👌🏾

I really needed to see this today. I often feel lost, and I'm late 30s. Although I have success in some parts of my life, I feel behind in others. Not only is this in comparison to friends and family, but I feel the social pressure at my age to get a move on with certain things (like starting a family, having more wealth). It bothers the hell out of me because in my early 20s I had achieved what I wanted to growing up. You know when kids are asked what they want to be when they grow up, and it's usually something pretty crazy or near unattainable? Well, I did it. And even cut it short having ticked that box. I've struggled to keep the same sort of motivation with things since.. I know I can achieve almost anything I want...just not really sure WHAT I'm working towards day-to-day.

Im almost able to figure out the idea that the most important thing in life is not about who was the most accomplished/who was the richest but it can be as simple as who enjoyed it the most.. I think life is not a "race" but an "adventure" so for now ill keep exploring life and try to enjoy discovering things along the way, good luck out there fellow travellers :)