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@naturesway8326
@naturesway8326 16 күн бұрын
I think every woman can relate to this 😂You look so much like Sue in this video. Fooled me for a sec.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 күн бұрын
Oh yes! She's my unofficial twin!
@SamanthaThompson-gg5sz
@SamanthaThompson-gg5sz 17 күн бұрын
I love this goal mindset ideas . Having smart goals is very important as we work towards progress and cut back on expenses each month for sure . I have learnt that some spending is pretty much unnecessary.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 күн бұрын
I'm glad you like it❤️And yes, if we look hard enough, we'll almost always find unnecessary spending somewhere.
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen 17 күн бұрын
Kyle was waiting to say "live ahh good life" 😂😅
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 күн бұрын
😂😂oh yes!
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen 17 күн бұрын
Having your goal is good, but breaking it down into smaller steps can really help. Now, you are focusing on the small steps... its less overwhelming
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 күн бұрын
Agreed!
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen 17 күн бұрын
I love the idea of the "Vex money"
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen 17 күн бұрын
Can you link that Excel file...I would love to use it.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 күн бұрын
Let me work on that 😊
@jerri-annjenkins2179
@jerri-annjenkins2179 17 күн бұрын
Lady, you are soooo gorgeous. I know this isn't the focus, but jeesh, you are beautiful. Okay, I'll pay attention now.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 күн бұрын
Watch yah nuh man! Don't mek these things fly up in a mi head enuh😂 Thank you sis🥰😊
@nonaestheticlivin
@nonaestheticlivin Ай бұрын
Very deep but necessary conversation for our community. ❤
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove Ай бұрын
Thank you for tuning in😊
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen Ай бұрын
In the Caribbean what does it mean to allow children to be children? This hit deep and it's a conversation that's ppl need to talk about.When I look back I know that I wasn't allowed to be a child . That affected my adulthood.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove Ай бұрын
- Teaching children to be responsible without overwhelming them with the responsibility of taking care of the family. - Allowing them to engage in age-appropriate play - Protecting their tender minds from an oversexualized world, so that they grow up with a healthy view of intimacy and sex - Not allowing children to participate in/overhear "adult" conversations ....and the list goes on. That topic deserves a video to itself!! You and I may need to sit down and do a video on this one😊
@insidejodiskitchen9002
@insidejodiskitchen9002 Ай бұрын
This episode was very triggering- brought up a lot of emotions, but it needs the light. Jamaica is a very traumatic society. I’ve always said if I was there, I wouldn’t have children. Stockholms is definitely real.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove Ай бұрын
Bwoy, oh bwoy...this is certainly a tough topic to address😢 And I get where you are coming from. It's hard to bring children into this world if you feel like you can't protect them. And in a society where we sweep these issues under the rug and keep things on the down-low, our children will suffer in silence.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove Ай бұрын
Here is the link to PART 2: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d3eXnqSdpZaWf8U
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen Ай бұрын
This was much needed. Very powerful. I'm sitting asking myself all these questions.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@user-ho9yi9dn3u
@user-ho9yi9dn3u Ай бұрын
This is a powerful conversation. Thank you for having it. Unless we hear it in this manner without the sugar coating we might not know how serious it is. Well done ladies, keep the awareness going.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove Ай бұрын
Thank you for listening in ❤
@user-ho9yi9dn3u
@user-ho9yi9dn3u Ай бұрын
Powerful message. Thank you.
@user-ho9yi9dn3u
@user-ho9yi9dn3u Ай бұрын
This is a very interesting yet intense discussion. As a Caribbean parent and educator there are things that l agree with but other things that need more indept decisions. Bring on part 2.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove Ай бұрын
I agree! This is a highly multifaceted issue! There is so much more we could talk about. Stay tuned as we continue to have these conversations.
@LoverofSunflowernBees
@LoverofSunflowernBees Ай бұрын
Some persons just aren’t mentally healthy.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove Ай бұрын
Agreed! And that's why we need to know what "healthy" is and what it isn't so we don't set ourselves up for failure.
@LoverofSunflowernBees
@LoverofSunflowernBees Ай бұрын
Are you a Mormon? I’m a Mormon.
@bitsofsuzan3614
@bitsofsuzan3614 Ай бұрын
This was a discussion that sadly needed to be had. It’s crazy how normal we thought a lot of this was growing up in Jamaica especially when it comes to the punishment. I’m praying this generation makes a change!
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove Ай бұрын
Gosh, I hope so too mi sista❤
@kylerobertson930
@kylerobertson930 Ай бұрын
Wow. Some sad topics, but what an amazing discussion. Looking forward to part 2.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove Ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it babe😘
@ja9766
@ja9766 Ай бұрын
Dear one, I couldn’t post a comment on Max and Julie’s video of the loss of their children and I thought to post here. What a beautiful lovely couple and my heart breaks for them. I know all too well the pain of losing a child as it will be 1 year on May 23rd that I lost my 18yr old firstborn boy. Their testimony helped me so much. Indeed we have a wonderful Heavenly Father as dear Max stated so well. Praise be to God. Thank you for that precious video ❤ God bless you dear.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove Ай бұрын
I am so so sorry for your loss😥. What a terrible heartache that must be💔. I'm glad you found strength in Max and Julie's story. That was the hope🙏
@debranowaczek4920
@debranowaczek4920 2 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
Of course😊
@insidejodiskitchen9002
@insidejodiskitchen9002 2 ай бұрын
I know what I want. I just don’t know how to get there. As a person with undiagnosed ADHD, it’s definitely hard to manage money because of the numerous hobbies and activities that catches my attention 😅. The lack of accountability will definitely drive you down hill.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
I get that! I think more people struggle with this than you might realize. I would say, there's nothing wrong with having different hobbies and exploring but we just have to budget around it. So before we go off and start funding our new hobby we wait a while, make sure there is room for it in the budget and then we proceed. It's all about PRACTICE.
@kylerobertson930
@kylerobertson930 2 ай бұрын
I like what you said about identifying goals. If you and your partner are regularly disagreeing/stressed about a topic, then you spend some time identifying the root cause and making goals around it. Using your example of the car repairs, if you are constantly facing unexpected repair costs on your car, maybe a worthy short term goals is buying a new vehicle.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
Exactly! There isn't one way to do it. But usually there is a better way and we just have to figure out what it is together.
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen 2 ай бұрын
I love this … transparency is key.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
Oh yes!
@MadamSeibes
@MadamSeibes 2 ай бұрын
Just found your channel and loving the content ❤
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
That makes me very happy❤️ I'm so glad you're here!
@erin-kathleen
@erin-kathleen 2 ай бұрын
I just found your channel and watched several of your podcasts. Great content. I’ve been married decades now but this is all good advice! Happily subscribed. I also - several years ago - also had my then teen age kids take the quiz to get their love language. It’s really helpful for all the family to get in on this. Doesn’t cure everything certainly, but helps smooth out some rough spots.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
This comment has filled my heart! Thank you for letting me know ❤️
@gloriannray6483
@gloriannray6483 2 ай бұрын
You are so right on! Thank you for this!!
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
I am so glad it helped😊
@dollfactory
@dollfactory 2 ай бұрын
Truth 😆
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
😂😂
@user-ho9yi9dn3u
@user-ho9yi9dn3u 3 ай бұрын
I am so grateful for this conversation. Now l know l was always stuck in week 3 such a pity that most most of us are not educated on these issues. Thanks for sharing.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
You are welcome❤️
@insidejodiskitchen9002
@insidejodiskitchen9002 3 ай бұрын
Why do I feel like I live in week 3 😂
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
DWL🤣🤣yuh might!
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen 3 ай бұрын
This was so informative… I learned so much 😊
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
I'm so glad!
@Thisisusthegraham2022
@Thisisusthegraham2022 3 ай бұрын
I’m so excited❤
@MrsB_MM
@MrsB_MM 3 ай бұрын
I recently subscribed to the channel and I must say this is amazing Shannaye. Loved the pearls of wisdom from Cori. Looking forward to more interviews from the legacies of love series ❤
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
Welcome to the channel! I'm so happy to have you. I'll most definitely be working on adding to the series.
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 3 ай бұрын
😂
@kylerobertson930
@kylerobertson930 3 ай бұрын
Hopefully the second one 😘
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 3 ай бұрын
Lol😂 ikr
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen 3 ай бұрын
Can't wait 😊
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 3 ай бұрын
Awe❤️Thank you!!
@kylerobertson930
@kylerobertson930 3 ай бұрын
I love the first point about getting to know someone is more than asking them questions about themselves. You touched on the fact that "actions speak louder than words"; that in the courting phase, everyone is on their best behavior; and that others can tell us a lot about someone too. In accounting/auditing, external evidence preferred over internal evidence. For example, if a client says they have $1,000,000 in the bank, but their bank says they have only $900,000, the auditors will go with what the bank says because the bank has no incentive to "cook the books". The same good be applied to dating. Of course, someone's character is a lot more subjective than a bank balance (and other people may not be aware of all the circumstances and nuances of your potential partner's life), but it's something to keep in mind.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 3 ай бұрын
Brilliant insight! Thank you❤
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen 3 ай бұрын
I’m really big on creating a routine.
@journeywithqueen
@journeywithqueen 3 ай бұрын
Yes… the justification is real
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 3 ай бұрын
Oh yes!
@insidejodiskitchen9002
@insidejodiskitchen9002 3 ай бұрын
Been in self denial for a long time. 😢
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 3 ай бұрын
It happens to so many of us. But at least you've taken the first step of recognizing that you're doing it❤❤
@user-ho9yi9dn3u
@user-ho9yi9dn3u 3 ай бұрын
Know your partner and yourself will help you to understand what works. Sometimes what you see others doing is just for show.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
So true!
@user-ho9yi9dn3u
@user-ho9yi9dn3u 3 ай бұрын
If we are not showing our spouse what we need then it will be hard/ impossible for our partner to cater to our needs.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 3 ай бұрын
Exactly! I completely agree that we have to take the guess work out of it as best as we can!
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 3 ай бұрын
Get to know yourself. Figure out what you are expecting from your spouse. If you both KNOW what turns you on/off you can COMMUNICATE it clearly to each other.
@user-ho9yi9dn3u
@user-ho9yi9dn3u 3 ай бұрын
I like the quote HAPPINESS IS NOT A DESTINATION. well said
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
It sure isn't!
@bitsofsuzan3614
@bitsofsuzan3614 3 ай бұрын
Geez that post 😢
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
It hit home fi mi, nah lie!
@bitsofsuzan3614
@bitsofsuzan3614 3 ай бұрын
This is definitely my favourite episode so far. The hardest part for me has been figuring out what my purpose in life is. This has given me so much food for thought. Thank you ❤
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you loved it😊 When it comes to purpose just remember those two questions: Why am I alive? And for what would I die? I know you'll figure it out❤️😘
@bitsofsuzan3614
@bitsofsuzan3614 3 ай бұрын
I’ve been loving your content and learning so much on your channel.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
Oh gosh! Thank you❤️
@rl9642
@rl9642 3 ай бұрын
It's a journey filled with emotional damages and struggles. And if they're only happiness then you're not truly happy. You're damaged emotionally so you tell yourself you're happy and it becomes your reality....
@insidejodiskitchen9002
@insidejodiskitchen9002 3 ай бұрын
Some people when they don’t know what is happening or understand they will say things like that- “it’s stupid, it’s not good”… but I agree I feel like he feels left out.
@anotherdayinlove
@anotherdayinlove 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, it can be so destructive when we don't know how to properly communicate what we're feeling.