Here's How You Build A Healthy Relationship || How To Catch The Red Flags Early

So, the BIG takeaways are:
Don't trust someone more than you know them.
Don't rely on someone more than you know & trust them.
Don't let your commitment to someone be greater than the level at which you know, trust, and can rely on them.
Don't have sex with someone who has not committed to you.
A successful relationship cannot be left up to luck. We have to do what we can to increase the chances of being with someone who values us and with whom we are compatible.
So, here's a book I recommend you read: "How To Avoid Falling in Love With a Jerk" by Dr. John Van Epp. I got my information for today's episode from this amazing book. The book explains this concept way better and in much greater details. You can find a copy on Amazon or at your local library. This book is a must read!
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[@kylerobertson930]

I love the first point about getting to know someone is more than asking them questions about themselves. You touched on the fact that "actions speak louder than words"; that in the courting phase, everyone is on their best behavior; and that others can tell us a lot about someone too. In accounting/auditing, external evidence preferred over internal evidence. For example, if a client says they have $1,000,000 in the bank, but their bank says they have only $900,000, the auditors will go with what the bank says because the bank has no incentive to "cook the books". The same good be applied to dating. Of course, someone's character is a lot more subjective than a bank balance (and other people may not be aware of all the circumstances and nuances of your potential partner's life), but it's something to keep in mind.

[@anotherdayinlove]

Brilliant insight! Thank you❤

[@journeywithqueen]

My new favorite podcast ❤ I love this, so many people need to understand these steps. Also, you need to have an entire episode on sex before marriage.

[@anotherdayinlove]

Thank you! That would make for a very interesting conversation. I'll definitely plan an episode on that.

[@bitsofsuzan3614]

This is so insightful. Tips every adult needs to hear. Thank you for sharing. Just a question… what if someone decides on marriage because of the chemistry and butterflies, can they still create a healthy lasting relationship?

[@anotherdayinlove]

Thank you! The short answer is absolutely yes! I think I may need to make an episode to answer your question in more depth. But the same model I described in the video, still applies to a marriage. Ultimately, a marriage needs two people who are committed to making the relationship work and who will put in the work day after day after day.