Childhood neglect comes in many forms and this is one of them. I was neglected, but I wouldn't blame my mother for it, she was a single mother who had to go to work and put food on the table and was out a lot, because of that I grew up to be quite independent, but also cold and uncaring. I was rude and lacked empathy. I still find it hard to care about people in my 30s.

The pace of that interview seems a bit slow at first, but the content is very rich and I got used to the delivery speed. I am very glad that I didn't give up early on it.

hmm :DDDD

No Gi is way more realistic in street fights. The Gi is just too much clothing coming off or getting in the way. Gi grapplers are way too reliant on grips on clothing. No Gi is the real deal.

3:33 27 years old 😮 damn thought he was 40

I'm young and I like Gi. I like the gi becuz some of our street clothes are similar to the Gi.

Im a gi guy i train both, but nogi is just better for a defense situation or pro fight. Gi is just fun for competition

No time limit matches don't prove who's better in bjj it's just a cardio game. Most of the time a lot of nothing is going on while they wait for the other person to get tired. No sport that has zero time limit is actually interesting to watch after the first 35 minutes

6:38 Splitting. Child splits the parent into good and bad. As the child is dependent on the parent for it's very survival, it introjects the bad object (parent can't be bad, if it's bad, I won't survive, so I must be bad). And voila. Mental/personality disorder emerge. Bad object remains with the child until it dies/the child hates himself for the rest of his life.

NoGi BJJ is more like wrestling to me plus its boring to watch compared to Gi matches

Any grappling is hard on the body and you really feel in in your 40s!

The feminist movementvreally f*cked things up.

bro what is motar2k doing here 😂

I couldn't watch Jiu Jitsu with the Gi. No-Gi is awesome, especially as someone who did Greco-Roman Wrestling when I was younger, it's so similar only real difference being Pins vs Submissions. The whole concept of having fundamentals of the Sport revolve around clothing always bothered me, No-Gi is the way.

Vă rog încercați să traducă și în limba română.

How do you ween without creating trauma?

Ju jitsu is gay

We used to train no gi in Rio back in the 90s. 9 to 12h ever Saturday. There must surely be pictures out there of people training no gi in Rio 30 years ago. How do you guys think we could train during the day on summer in Rio folks!?

I believe that any adult can see in themselves doing things, aspects, behaviours, using words that their parents or caregivers used when growing up just by paying attention to your behaviour. Now, if you really put on work on introspection (looking within) a thing that may come very natural to some of us, then it's 100% clear to you that your childhood, the experieces and trauma you went through in the presence of your parents or lack there of has great influence in your personality as an adult. Of course this is not all, this is then to be combined with the aspects of that given culture that you grew up in. What shows you watched, what books you read or lack there of, what kind of games you played, trauma or lack there of from childhood friends. Even things like heartbreaks as a kid, wether they came from other adults like our own parents or relationships you started to make in school.

Bro never seen a guest stump Joe like this He really gets to the core of even Joe Such an educated insightful wisdom

Who is he?

African mothers carried babies for everything, even on their backs even while gardening, and they were referred to as primitive by the senseless world; until someone copied the cloth they carried their babies with and duplicated a baby carrier then it was all good. My dad was born in the 1920s and breastfeeding kids who were 3-4 years old was the norm. He was an intelligent accountant and lived to the ripe old age of 95 years. Families were tight, strong bonds, and selfishness was the unknown.

It is taught in drug rehab not to be a co-dependent. Now, where do you draw the line on showing compassion to a drug addict and being a co-dependent

Where’s the full podcast for this

A human, distressed, is a person in need. We've forgone our basic instincts, and for years I have been personally battling society about what is "right" and what is "wrong." Children crying and hurt, being told that they need to "suck it up" and then the adults in the room turn their backs. I don't know what it is about me that I have to walk over, kneel, and talk with the kid about their situation at their level. I may administer aid, but the first thing I ask them is if they're "okay" and what happened to them. If they say that they scraped their knee or something small, then I reason with them like little adults about what they can do in the future as well as tell them that everything will be okay. I give them a voice to tell me what happened, what they're going to do, and how the situation will be resolved while showing them that someone does care. It is the right way, not the wrong way to raise a child. Dr. Gabor affirms the right way to do things and I am sad that I only found out about his work this week. Thank you for sharing this moment with him.

Gordon Ryan started in 2014, fml

Not apologising has to be the MOST important thing about all this. The more we play by their rules, the more they grow. The more we speak honestly about our opinions and stand up for whatever we believe, the weaker the woke mob gets.

PhD I. Physics dude said fuck it

I take 11 pills a night from anti psychotics to sleeping pills and it terrifies me coming off them because it took over a decade to get it right but I know it massively effects my life aswel

This guy is 27?! 3:28

When is Lex Fridman going to interview this guy already????

Dr. Spock F'd generation X, that's why we all hide out from "the masses"

i love the way Rogan smugged after asking that first question

This guy is really smart.

Gabor is the man!

"Political conflict is not like an intercollegiate debate in which the opponents agree in advance on a definition of the issues. As a matter of fact, the definition of the alternatives is the supreme instrument of power; the antagonists can rarely agree on what the issues are because power is involved in the definition. He who determines what politics is about runs the country, because the definition of alternatives is the choice of conflicts, and the choice of conflicts allocates power." - E.E. Schattschnieider

Motar2k on JRE? Woah

This is the most intelligent man on the internet right now.

GD Dr. Spock and his advice.

His theories are based on left wing ideologies. He refuses to acknowledge raising kids in a Godless culture where there are no longer any boundaries or rites of passages has caused massive problems for our culture. It is perhaps the number one reason for depression. What else has changed in our society? Increases in Fatherless house holds. It doesn't take a village to raise a child! It takes committed authoritative parenting. BTW: Dr. Spock's book's influence is approaching 70 years ago and should be thrown out. Culturally most mothers don't ever listen to "crying it out" theories. The problem is, Mother's are forced to leave their babies at daycare facilities, as early as 6weeks old. So the problem in our modern culture is we now have several generations of daycare babies who grew up without a constant care giver thereforecreated severe attachment issues for these entire generations. Gabor's theories are wrought with inconcruencies

I need the full video

Joe, isn't it a bit annoying sitting around with these clowns and trying to make a point? And I'm praying for you that you'll get to know king Jesus!

Most people do not realize there are people assigned to work against our best interest from then until now.

I am just blown away.

This is so important right now to understand and hopefully more will realize how serious it is on quality of life. I personally tried some "inner child" visualization practice and god... It was just horrifying. Because when the question comes up about "imagine your home" it was like.. uhh... It's empty and black and full of scary shadow figures. Just the impact of divorce early on is severe that life just feels painful all the time. And before getting asked that question, and reading/hearing more about childhood trauma now I know why. And people also don't seem to understand there are like layers to the issue with how badly it affects your perception. It also unfortunately has not just healed overnight either and affirmations tend to get overwritten. My assumption on why that is is because it's like you've got tons of neural connections that are affirming the opposite of any singular positive affirmation.

Ppl that were liberal are conservatives today , and ppl that were never interested in politics are conservatives today due to how crazy the left is today...Stay away from our children !

Anyone who doesn’t say ADHD is real doesn’t know his ass from a hole in the ground

The gi vs no gi argument is silly to me. Just train what you enjoy. They both have pros and cons. I personally train both.

Another liberal. So disconnected from nature yet so knows so much about it? Dogs do ignore their cubs and bark at them of escape from them all time, everyday. The important thing is coming back. This jew doesnt know that causw jews are not dog people

As a girl struggling with mental health. I totally agree with everything the doc said. 👍🏻