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@TimothyTackett-r5h 3 күн бұрын

I wanted to show you some of my creativity if follow me

@demiaspeywriter 8 күн бұрын

I'm about to start planning my next episodes as I evolve my channel! Before I jump in, I'd love to hear from YOU what sort of content brings you joy on this lil' corner of the internet 💛👇

@TimothyTackett-r5h 7 күн бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter the biggest struggles in life that I have, and still am overcoming, is that I am a hard worker, dedicated to doing the best I can at everything I do. So when I'm not at accomplishing like I want, it can be a huge disappointment. I have and still do struggle to hold onto personal relationships because of my utilitarian attitude. For instance when I date, I look for a woman that is smart, my downfall is that I also look for one that wants to enjoy my hobbies also, if building airplanes to sell. I know it's wrong, and I struggle with it with every woman I meet. Maybe I have too high of standards that's why I'm single. Maybe you can do a show about the struggles with separating bus and personal life. To enjoy life. I sure would love to hear your take on this because you sound like you've figured it out. Mrs. Awesome PhD. 👌

@TimothyTackett-r5h 7 күн бұрын

I know you hit on the money aspect but what about work/time to relationship balances. And by the way, your not at all chaotic, quite the opposite, extremely interesting😊

@demiaspeywriter 3 күн бұрын

@@TimothyTackett-r5h , you know your experience sounds similar to that of the main character in a book I just finished. It's called The Rosie Project. I think you will enjoy it. It's about a very successful man who has undiagnosed autism (not suggesting you do. I do, and my psychiatrist recommended it to me.) But I think it is a very relatable story that might be helpful for many people. It's uplighting but also deep regarding human relationships and how we create our identities. Will definitely add what you've suggested to my list for future video topics :) thank you!

@demiaspeywriter 3 күн бұрын

@@TimothyTackett-r5h 10000% - adding to the list. I also wrote a Substack article on something similar after watching Severance last weekend: demiaspeywriter.substack.com/p/would-you-sever-your-home-from-your

@TimothyTackett-r5h 8 күн бұрын

I think even 3 years ago, you were an amazing person. You put your heart into what you believe and that is a rare find these days; positivity, happy, energetic, driven, interesting, and exciting.

@demiaspeywriter 8 күн бұрын

@@TimothyTackett-r5h ah I was a shell of a person to be honest, but you find your truest self through those times! Much love for your kindness 💛

@TimothyTackett-r5h 8 күн бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter I can tell by listening to you, that you are a very special person who has a big impact on everyone who come in contact with you.💯❤️

@TimothyTackett-r5h 8 күн бұрын

❤ every word in your episodes.

@demiaspeywriter 8 күн бұрын

@@TimothyTackett-r5h appreciate you!

@TimothyTackett-r5h 3 күн бұрын

If I every get a chance to see you at a meet and greet speaking conference, it would be my greatest day to buy you dinner and have an intelligent, interactive conversation with you. Just a small pond stopping it😊

@Jedi_Master_Krish 9 күн бұрын

Breaking free from people-pleasing starts with setting boundaries. Habit10x gave me the clarity to prioritize my own values!

@TimothyTackett-r5h 9 күн бұрын

You are a perfect cup of tea. Great personality, intelligence, great voice, and above all a good person

@demiaspeywriter 7 күн бұрын

Thank you! 😃

@TimothyTackett-r5h 10 күн бұрын

BTW watching to go about opening up about your own challenges🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@demiaspeywriter 7 күн бұрын

My way of making the more difficult times worthwhile 💛✨

@TimothyTackett-r5h 7 күн бұрын

I'm so happy that you've realized that your worth is priceless😊

@TimothyTackett-r5h 7 күн бұрын

I hope you never, ever use avoidance again, 😊

@TimothyTackett-r5h 10 күн бұрын

Please don't stop talking. Ever😊

@demiaspeywriter 7 күн бұрын

Challenge accepted 🫡

@electriquenikki 10 күн бұрын

Thank YOU for this reminder filled with pizzazz!!!

@demiaspeywriter 10 күн бұрын

@@electriquenikki always fill your life with as much pizzazz as possible 👏👏

@electriquenikki 10 күн бұрын

I LOVE YOUR ENERGY OMG!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@demiaspeywriter 10 күн бұрын

@@electriquenikki ahhh thank you queen 💛💃🏻✨

@ada40 11 күн бұрын

I love this perspective💕, amazing thank you

@demiaspeywriter 7 күн бұрын

So glad it was helpful 💛

@nehajadeja1134 11 күн бұрын

You are killing it~ WOOO!

@demiaspeywriter 10 күн бұрын

@@nehajadeja1134 thank you lovely 😻

@TimothyTackett-r5h 11 күн бұрын

You are such an amazing woman, it's my pleasure to listen to your insight😊

@demiaspeywriter 10 күн бұрын

@@TimothyTackett-r5h awww I really appreciate it - I’m glad I can help in some way 💛

@TimothyTackett-r5h 10 күн бұрын

@demiaspeywriter watching and listening to an intelligent beautifully bright person warms my heart. As a person dealing with logistical challenges 6 days a week, then listening to you positivity, shows me how amazing a woman 🤗🤎💯

@TimothyTackett-r5h 13 күн бұрын

I could sit and listen to you all day. You are so inspirational. Please keep moving forward. Your fan😊

@demiaspeywriter 10 күн бұрын

@@TimothyTackett-r5h ahhh I really needed this - thank you so much for being so wonderful!

@TimothyTackett-r5h 13 күн бұрын

The more I listen, the more beauty comes out.

@demiaspeywriter 5 күн бұрын

You’re the best!

@TimothyTackett-r5h 4 күн бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter no I believe you are not only the best, but you have so much to offer the world, that You should never hold back. That would be our loss. True angel.

@TimothyTackett-r5h 13 күн бұрын

You are one of the most amazine/interesting womwn I listened to. You have so much heart in you. I can see your glow, passion, and glam. I pray your life is even better than you foresee ❤

@demiaspeywriter 5 күн бұрын

Thank you so much 🤗

@TimothyTackett-r5h 15 күн бұрын

Your not at all annoying. I love your accent. Your an amazing woman.

@demiaspeywriter 15 күн бұрын

@@TimothyTackett-r5h ahhh I appreciate you so much, thank you 💛

@TimothyTackett-r5h 15 күн бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter your energy IS something I wish more people had.

@kittyfitty473 27 күн бұрын

I'm literally 59 seconds in, and I have to stop here to say that your personality is wonderful! You're funny, witty, and so positive! I'm looking forward to watching the rest of this video. ^_^

@demiaspeywriter 26 күн бұрын

@@kittyfitty473 this is such a wonderful comment to receive - I appreciate your kind words so much 💛

@901TheWowChannel 28 күн бұрын

I have learned that people who have multiple gifts have to know what SEASON they are in. Just like "The GIVERS" gift, have to have someone around them to balance them out, orherwise they will give EVERYTHING away, even what they need. The multiple gifted people have to understand where they are and which gift is useful in their lives right now. It is easy for them to unfortunately be dealing with burn-out and overload, because they usually have too many balls up in the air at the same time. These people are used to burning the candle at both ends, while telling EVERYONE they are exhausted. Balance is the key. What is the point of being overwhelmed, when you using gifts and talents given by God that you don't even enjoy the journey. So, for those dealing with trauma or PSTD, I would say, if you have to use your hands with something, find what skills you are good at to do, while you heal. Or, if possible, NOTHING is better than relaxing, if you can, and watch a movie, etc until you are better. I am in RETIREMENT with hobbies and projects. I am blessed to have been give several gifts, but some are worked on more than others. If you can afford to take a break from chaos, do it. Life is not about chasing the blue ribbon, but riding the horse and enjoying the victory. If you are not well, physically, mentally, emotionally, etc., not sleeping, no appetite, consider talking to your doctor. On an airplane, you put on the oxygen breathing mask that drops from the ceiling first, before you put it on your little one. Why? You need to be fully alert and functioning to help those around you. Is it selfish to be concerned about yourself if you are not 100%. No. There may be family members concerned about your wellbeing. Sometimes, we have to stop everything to ensure we are well and totally out of STUPID. PRAY and ask God what you should be focused on. He knows what He put inside of you (gifts/takents) and what season you are in. PEACE

@demiaspeywriter 28 күн бұрын

Words cannot describe how much love I have for this comment - THANK YOU! This is a whole video/series of wisdom in itself, and I adore your points of view and references from experience. I hope you'll stick around a while - I'd love to learn more from you 🩷

@ClaireMitchell-n6y 26 күн бұрын

Nice comment. I wonder, when you say - 'if you have trauma or PTSD and have to use your hands with something' - what do you mean? I have cPTSD and have recently retired early from work where I used my hands. I am looking for some kind of part time work maybe, and am drawn to using my hands. I wonder if you are aware of a link between trauma and the need to use your hands.

@GoodVideos-ry5ie 28 күн бұрын

Age is not problem if you are looking to learn to play the guitar, chase degrees, learn astrology etc, but age is a problem if you are looking to be a mother or have a husband. Men value youth, beauty, fertility and purity. Men do not care about your education, your degrees, your money, your number of likes on youtube, your experience and whatever status symbol you think is important. If you are looking to get married and have children you need realize that there is a wall, an expiration date. That wall in the west is around 30, in China it is 27. Passing the wall does not mean you cannot date men or have casual sex with men. The wall means you are now at an age where serious men looking for long term commitment do not see you as viable as a wife, a mother, a ride or die. He sees you as a plaything only, someone who is ran through, damaged, unable to bond, a gold digger.

@demiaspeywriter 28 күн бұрын

@@GoodVideos-ry5ie you think men are that important? Especially men who have these kind of views. I feel incredibly sad for you 🫤

@GoodVideos-ry5ie 27 күн бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter The message was actually delivered with compassion. I feel for you. You are now facing 50 years of box wine and cats. Each year you can add another tattoo on your body for that douche who promised you everything just to find out he was only looking for fun for the night. Miaw.

@demiaspeywriter 27 күн бұрын

@ nothing about your message was compassionate. But you do you. I’ve got some wine and cats to tend to 🍷🐈‍⬛

@GoodVideos-ry5ie 27 күн бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter I recommend therapy. It takes a professional to remove the damage left by the 50 men women around 30 on average have been with.

@demiaspeywriter 26 күн бұрын

@ I’m in therapy. May I suggest you try therapy?

@kikitauer 28 күн бұрын

I also got diagnosed with ADHD and autism, only at 42. Your videos feel very calming. I know I have time but it feels good to have that validated 💚 I am interested in hearing your diagnosis story. I'd understand if it is too intimate to share on the internet though.

@demiaspeywriter 15 күн бұрын

Hello my lovely - sorry for such a slow response, you know how it be 🫠 yes, I have shared my story previously but I didn’t do it to the standard I’d like, so perhaps I will refilm it this month if it would be useful 💛 How have you found the journey post diagnosis so far?

@kikitauer 15 күн бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter Oh it would be lovely if you'd refilm your diagnosis story! 🌸 I browsed your videos but probably overlooked it. Diagnoses really helped me. I don't know how to better describe it than that all the gears fell to their places finally and life makes sense now. I turned my life around and I am aiming for much better future now 😊

@demiaspeywriter 10 күн бұрын

@ I took it down sadly! But consider it done - will upload in the next week or two 🙏💛

@IamWanderwoman 29 күн бұрын

Girl!! I hope you're having a great vacation! I subscribed to you for good luck :) 39 (and feeling 29 😅) and also starting (again) this yt journey!

@demiaspeywriter 29 күн бұрын

Yaaaaay so awesome to hear it - wishing you all the luck in the world <3

@jokerpilled2535 29 күн бұрын

As a 30 yr old, I can’t go back to high school and date my crush now that I have more money.

@demiaspeywriter 29 күн бұрын

No. No, you cannot. Unless you've managed to buy yourself a Delorean with time-traveling ability. Either way, pretty gnarly interpretation, my friend.

@GrandFyre 29 күн бұрын

I'm a single guy in my 40's, never been married, no kids, a creative type like you, an intense self-reflecter, highly spiritual, and preparing for my own KZbin projects, and let me tell you, for the right guy who's been through hell and back, everything about you inside and out, is absolutely ravishing. 🙏🏼🌹

@jokerpilled2535 29 күн бұрын

She doesn’t care

@GrandFyre 29 күн бұрын

@jokerpilled2535 you will be lonely and miserable for the rest of your life. That's something no one actually, cares about. Speak for yourself, and not for others who are not already forsaken.

@demiaspeywriter 15 күн бұрын

@GrandFyre Keep going with your projects and creating more of what the world needs! I appreciate your kind words so much 💛 thank you for stopping by.

@LightYagami-rz6su Ай бұрын

Age matters when you are a women. Pass 27 women hit the wall and 90% of her eggs are useless XD. Women age like MILK!

@jokerpilled2535 29 күн бұрын

@@LightYagami-rz6su I love listening to women cry on the internet after they rejected all the good men when they were hot 😂

@LightYagami-rz6su 12 күн бұрын

@jokerpilled2535 lol yup! Its all because they been lied to thinking thay they can have it all! XD

@justaprogrammer3764 Ай бұрын

Didn’t watch the vid. Just reminding everyone that age is absolutely a factor in everything. Thanks.

@demiaspeywriter Ай бұрын

@@justaprogrammer3764 maybe you should have watched the video 🫰

@geometerfpv2804 28 күн бұрын

lmao!

@justaprogrammer3764 18 күн бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter im sorry but youll know one day that age is a major factor.

@demiaspeywriter 17 күн бұрын

@ ok 👍

@svr5423 Ай бұрын

between the bracket of 20 to 30, age doesn't matter much for a woman.

@LightYagami-rz6su Ай бұрын

Yeah I agree. But pass 27 women are about to hit the wall especially if you want a family. If a women is in her late 20's unmarried their is a reason why. Shes a 304! Plus if you want multiple children, her clock is ticking hard pass 27!

@demiaspeywriter Ай бұрын

@@LightYagami-rz6su oh man you really are in the wrong corner of the internet with this take 🙃

@jokerpilled2535 29 күн бұрын

@@LightYagami-rz6sufacts 😄

@IamWanderwoman 29 күн бұрын

@@LightYagami-rz6suand the reason is she could not want to get married. Did it ever occur to you that not every woman wants a husband (basically a big child) and kids?

@demiaspeywriter 29 күн бұрын

@@jokerpilled2535 baby doll, who hurt you?

@Gumblethebear Ай бұрын

It does matter for alot of things. Be able to tell the difference I suppose.

@demiaspeywriter Ай бұрын

I’d love to hear your thoughts on these areas! Perhaps I can do a deeper dive in a future video 😊

@JasonAtlas Ай бұрын

The title spooked the hell out of me.

@demiaspeywriter Ай бұрын

@@JasonAtlas it is spooky season 💀👻🎃

@jokerpilled2535 29 күн бұрын

It depends on the age of consent

@demiaspeywriter 29 күн бұрын

@ 1000/10 - consent always depends no matter the age

@jokerpilled2535 29 күн бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter what if a 16 yr old consents to a 36 yr old?

@demiaspeywriter 29 күн бұрын

@@jokerpilled2535 are you asking for your own agenda or? This video has nothing to do with what you're talking about, but we can go on this wild tangent if you really feel it's an appropriate use of your time? 🙃

@azmike3572 Ай бұрын

I'm 75 and play lead guitar and keyboard in a classic country and rock band!

@demiaspeywriter Ай бұрын

@@azmike3572 this is legit the coolest thing ever! 😍

@azmike3572 Ай бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter But no groupies to meet! 😟

@AnthonyManzio Ай бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter I'm 56 introverted, never married, no kids, average looking, 20 years of being single. Smartphones have destroyed dating. Dating is dead. Women don't look or smile anymore. All on their stupid cell phones 24/7. No one talks face to face anymore. 80% of the women are trash. I've given up on women.

@IamWanderwoman 29 күн бұрын

Yessss! Love this for you!

@dwdwone Ай бұрын

Im an older guy, and i can tell you from experience that what you're saying is valid. Cool that you recognize this.

@demiaspeywriter Ай бұрын

@@dwdwone spent my whole 20s thinking otherwise and I think it’s important we stop putting so much pressure on ourselves 🙏 is there anything you’d add? ☺️

@dwdwone Ай бұрын

@@demiaspeywriterYes. Do you write for yourself or others or both?

@demiaspeywriter Ай бұрын

@@dwdwone I do both! I got my PhD in screenwriting earlier this year but I work full time as a copywriter & own a creative agency 😊

@dwdwone Ай бұрын

@@demiaspeywriter I mean metaphorically. For example, my writing will likely have no commercial appeal, yet I continue doing it because, well, that is what writers do. It's a compulsion. Tying in to your original theme, should you write stuff that you are pretty sure few will read? The positive is that you can write what you want, the way you want, as offensive and unpopular as you want, because the only one you need to please is yourself. I think Kafka mentioned a similar dilemma!

@itzelcarrillo1094 Ай бұрын

I really appreciate this, thank you ❤

@demiaspeywriter Ай бұрын

super happy you found it useful <3

@najatitati7177 2 ай бұрын

Thankyou for this video I felt so calm and relaxed listening to you.❤

@demiaspeywriter 2 ай бұрын

@@najatitati7177 aww this is so lovely to hear, I hope you’ll stop by often 💛

@abovewater6918 2 ай бұрын

Burnout is real for sure. And in our fast paced society, it happens more than it should. Stress, societal expectations of others that are put on us, misplaced expectations that we put on ourselves, just doing way too much without giving ourselves time to rest. Among other things. There's a lot that contributes to this. It is good to be aware of it, and then take steps to prevent it, or take steps to recover from it.

@demiaspeywriter 2 ай бұрын

It always leads me back to listening to Vienna by Billy Joel on repeat! 😅 But you’re right. When the joy is gone, when you’re hating waking up or when nothing you do makes you feel fulfilled, it’s time to take a step back and reassess 💛

@abovewater6918 2 ай бұрын

Useful tools :)

@demiaspeywriter 2 ай бұрын

@@abovewater6918 yaaay - let me know if you have any you’d recommend!

@Aizen-e1t 2 ай бұрын

Best of luck ma'am for a bright future tbh nice explanation

@demiaspeywriter 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much - appreciate your kind words! :)

@abovewater6918 3 ай бұрын

These are really good tips. Commenting for the algorithm