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@Valerie.S.D 16 сағат бұрын
Money isn’t enough! You’re so right!! We need to find happiness others ways ! I always tell myself that…. Money doesn’t bring joy. It brings security….sure but it’s not all that matters. For me family and love is worth more than money 🩷
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 13 сағат бұрын
100% agree, family and love are number one in my book also!
@Christinedesigns 3 күн бұрын
I watched you to the end. Come to your own conclusion there. ;) Different generation here so the word "hustle" brings up this kzbin.info/www/bejne/iXfdfqZoiLNgY9U for me. Ah, the days of disco and dancing. Hustling also suggests doing something to fool someone else, to me, as in "I hustled him out of 20k, man." Hustle also means to me, in the present time, to hurry up. Sadly many more professions than one might imagine have a built in expectation that you work longer hours and "burn the candle at both ends" to make the deadline. High tech and those kinds of environments are rife with it ... still. The difference now is that this is combined with a "good enough" mentality. This means quality of work is measured more by how quickly the deadline is met rather than whether the product is safe or made well. (Think of bugs in the software, or the Phoenix system?). Back to why I watched to the end, I suppose that I wanted to see how you would define it and where you were going with this topic. The expression "side hustle" was something that I first learned about from clients, btw. I think if it gives you pleasure, and you're not doing it for the money necessarily, then why not. I used to enjoy teaching knitting classes, for instance. I wasn't paid much for it but I enjoyed watching students learn the joy of creating something for themselves. In a world where gratification is often remote or delayed, doing something creative can provide a practical and faster route to gratification. Keep on doing your 'thang'! :)
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 күн бұрын
Love it! You’ve got me dancing while I play the song in the background as I type this haha! You’re totally right-there are so many ways to understand the word "hustle." And I agree, with all this speed, we’re in an age where quality often takes a backseat. Society seems to care more about quantity these days, and we can see it in everything from fast food to fast fashion. And yep, when you bring up finding gratification, it definitely gets me thinking about internal vs. external satisfaction. Thanks so much for sharing, Christine!
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 4 күн бұрын
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@spammail6066 7 күн бұрын
FINALLY!!! Someone said it
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 6 күн бұрын
✨❤ I'll be posting a longer video about this. hoping to film it today!
@gearfacts 11 күн бұрын
I do enjoy a good Think Day :)
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 10 күн бұрын
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@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 13 күн бұрын
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@spammail6066 15 күн бұрын
@authenticLivingWithEmilie, how can you tell the difference between your own desire or you being influenced? Also, what about being influenced for the better?
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 14 күн бұрын
These are such great questions! I’ll do my best to answer them here. The first and most important thing, I feel, is being really clear on your values and checking in with yourself often. For me, when something comes up and I’m unsure whether I want to pursue it, I usually reflect on my values. I ask myself if it aligns with them and whether it’s moving me toward the life I want to live or away from it. You’re absolutely right that we can sometimes be influenced in positive ways. When I feel that I’m being influenced, I typically go back to my values again or reflect on it during one of my quarterly Think Days. Ultimately, it comes down to asking myself how I feel about the opportunity and what messages I’m telling myself. For instance, if I feel like I “have to do it” or think I “should do it” but don’t feel excited or lit up by it, that’s a sign it’s not something I genuinely want to pursue. On the other hand, if I’m thinking, “Wow, that’s such a cool idea!” or “I’d love to do that!” and feel energized and excited, that’s usually a sign of a positive influence I want to follow. I hope that makes sense! Let me know if you’d ever like to dive deeper into this. 😊
@spammail6066 15 күн бұрын
Wow this is soo good. Actually helpful breakdown on the thinking to construct this kind of work for yourself and help you overcome your own blocks. This is meaningful KZbin support. Not just clickbait or motivational distraction.
@spammail6066 15 күн бұрын
Wow this is soo good. Actually helpful breakdown on the thinking to construct this kind of work for yourself and help you overcome your own blocks. This is meaningful KZbin support. Not just clickbait or motivational distraction.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 14 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm happy you found it helpful!
@MillennialMeg 20 күн бұрын
I feel attacked 🫣
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 19 күн бұрын
🤣It's because you and I are the same person, just the Canadian and US versions. Hope you also felt supported! 😋
@MillennialMeg 19 күн бұрын
@ yes, I appreciate the hope ❤️. I just typed my original comment after your intro 😂
@spammail6066 15 күн бұрын
I felt attacked too but I’m glad she did this. I feel SOOOO many people can relate.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 20 күн бұрын
Hi! Please let me know if you like this video style! I had fun doing it this way and could see myself being able to be even more consistent with uploads with this style. Let me know!
@PentoPaper 25 күн бұрын
My family and work values were clashing last year. It’s to be expected when last year’s word was momentum 😂 anyways, I’ve come up with the rule of thumb that I’ll only be going out one night a week for outings only to do with me or work.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 25 күн бұрын
Haha, that totally makes sense with last year's word! I could tell you were really in go-go-go mode. But the fact that you are aware of this and are actively finding ways to address it is key! I hope some of those future outings will be at Business Sisters events so we can catch up! I'm also super curious to see how your new word for the year, "RENEWAL," will shape things for you and your values.
@PentoPaper 17 күн бұрын
@ I’ll definitely see you at Business Sisters and share about my word RENEWAL 😊
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 26 күн бұрын
What was your biggest takeaway from this masterclass?
@LacyChenault 25 күн бұрын
I made a values list highlighting my top 5 I'll take this week to just notice if and how my life lines up with these - so thank you. Keep it up.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 25 күн бұрын
@@LacyChenault That's great!! I would love to hear how this goes for you ♥ If you feel comfortable sharing you can message me either here, email or Instagram! And thank you ☺
@daniel-panek Ай бұрын
Hustle culture can be analogized with young people trying to be "day traders". They being fast and loose and think they're doing stuff but they're too arrogant and incompetent to realize that it's hard/stressful, it's not likely to be a net gain, and it's not sustainable. Live your life as an index investor. Slow and steady, and try to do meaningful stuff when you can.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
I completely agree-sustainable growth is so important, and it's how I approach my own investments. Your comment makes me want to create a video about 'get rich quick' gurus and why slow, meaningful progress wins in the long run. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
@spammail6066 Ай бұрын
Whoah speaking FACTS!! I’m currently in a season of my life where I am learning this the hard way.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Thank you so much! Sadly, I also had to learn this the hard way, so I completely understand how challenging it can feel. Sending you lots of encouragement-I hope you're doing well and finding your way through this season. 💛
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Do you ever feel like you self-sabotage?
@andrewhabroad Ай бұрын
Hustling is how every rich person became rich. Stop peddling mental health nonsense while trying to "make it big" on KZbin.
@rodrigom6040 Ай бұрын
Hustling is the answer for hustlers. It’s not for those that aren’t
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Absolutely-it really depends on the kind of life you want to create. Hustling works for some, but for others, a slower, more intentional approach feels more aligned. Thanks for sharing your perspective!
@gearfacts Ай бұрын
Hi again Emilie - sorry to see that you’re not feeling all that well, hope it gets better soon :-) Bad news at this end I’m afraid, yesterday - only six days away from Christmas - we suffered a horrendous loss in the value of our shares. I do understand this is a natural thing that happens in the share market, but it’s the intense impact that has on my mood. That is something I think I really need to reflect on. As a team, my family has done a lot for our community and even for our country, and sometimes it just feels like it’s all completely disregarded unappreciated. I find it very difficult not to grow resentful and hateful of wealthy people. But I know that’s a very subjective reaction and maybe something I need to grow out of on my journey to a slow-lived successful life. I did have a nice spark this afternoon though, a person that I had to cancel a contract with (as a result of these problems) sent me a very nice message, wishing not only me but everyone in the world a safe, smooth and fair 2025 ❤️
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Hi! Thank you! I'm definitely taking it easy so this cold will (hopefully!) be gone by Christmas. I’m so sorry to hear about the loss in your shares and how much it’s affecting your mood. It’s tough to go through something like that, especially when it feels like your hard work isn’t being fully recognized. The fact that you’re aware of those feelings of resentment is such an important step, and I think it shows how committed you are to working through them. I’ve definitely felt that way in the past too, so I completely understand how challenging it can be. I think for both of us, it’s about remembering that we’re playing the long game-and by staying true to ourselves, the results we’re hoping for will come in time. And wow, that message you received was so kind! It’s amazing how much a simple gesture like that can brighten a tough day. Sending lots of good energy to you and your family during this difficult time! ❤
@gearfacts Ай бұрын
@@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Thanks Emilie - reading over my comment I can see that I was in a VERY dramatic state of mind that day. Things have stabilized since then, as you may have seen on the news, so I'm feeling better and acutely aware of the 'long game' as you so correctly mention :) Happy holidays and if you do Christmas I hope you have a good one!
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
@@gearfacts I'm so happy to hear that you are feeling better! Happy Holidays to you too!
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Do you think hustling is the key to financial success, or is there a better way? Share your thoughts below!
@gearfacts Ай бұрын
Well for financial success you can't beat a good salary in a job that you like - that's just the way it is! But for people who want to live slow (which I think necessitates valuing personal time over work time and having a relatively low0intensity job) a side-hustle can actually be pretty relaxing, like selling jewellery at a market, running an ebay shop or even doing these youtube channels (I get a grand a month from mine and it's not too taxing). Investing is works and takes minimal time but ironically I find it VERY stressful, so there you go...
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
@@gearfacts I completely agree! It's so rewarding to have side projects that feel more like play than work. That’s how I feel about my channel and the mentorship I provide! And wow, $1,000 a month from KZbin is amazing-congrats! I also couldn’t agree more about the importance of finding work that’s both enjoyable and pays fairly. It really makes all the difference!
@chirovandenbos2339 Ай бұрын
People are programmed robot slaves of the system thinking happyness starts with extern factors like status, money, material things, looks, lust......all means nothing and its relativ and an illusion create by society.... If your happyness depend on extern factors, you will never be happy because extern factors are endless. Happyness starts inside you. Thats why a lot of people buy stuff or look a certain way to create an illusion for the outside world out of emptyness.....sad. The more people around you, the more expectations, talk about others, lying, frustrations, negativity, jealousy, double standards, violent, own benefits, hypocrites, judgement, comparing etc....... reflection of their broken souls. Alone or in solitude you have more strength, peace, power, happyness, freedom and time to reflect and work on yourself in the here and now where the magic happens. No, not feeling superior or better then others but more be carefully and aware. Be the light in your own life.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts! I can really sense how much authenticity matters to you, and I completely agree that happiness comes from within, not external things. It’s so important to move beyond societal pressures and expectations to find true fulfillment. I appreciate your perspective!
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
What does success mean to you? I’d love to hear your thoughts!
@Miss.ducharme Ай бұрын
Great video once again.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Thank You so much! ♥
@SnazzyVeganLife Ай бұрын
Such a great video, Emilie! I do enjoy this longer form less edited video. :)
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Thank You! I so appreciate it! Going to create one like this every week. And create one edited video every month. :)
@MAjaLeahHB Ай бұрын
spending money really is a coping mechanism. i started working part time and naturally send so much less just because i have time and energy to do things myself and i also stopped wanting things. i used to collect cds but now i'm like i have enough actually. i'm still struggling to not spend that much on traveling but i'll figure that out eventually
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing that! ♥ From the likes on your comment, it's clear your experience resonates with others. I'm so glad you were able to reevaluate your need for more and recognize what "enough" looks like for you-you’re on the right path! It's natural to still have things we want to spend on (my personal struggle is home décor), but being aware of this is the most important first step. Gradually making changes to your spending habits is much more sustainable in the long term!
@JME5000 Ай бұрын
this is great advice and honestly something I needed to hear. thank you for making this video, using your calm demeanor to relay such important information, and thank you for the reminder
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
That is so sweet of you to say! Thank you ♥ I'm so happy you found this video to be helpful for you ☺
@nessamcness2399 Ай бұрын
Not weird at all my husband and I don't buy each other gifts at Christmas either. Just some goodies for the stocking. Works for us.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Love it ♥ We will probably do stocking stuffers also as my daughter gets older. A common stocking stuffer in my family are clementine's (not sure if it's a common tradition for others also)
@INFINYVERSE Ай бұрын
Excelent video ❤ I have good music for you here on KZbin 💪
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Thank you! ♥
@MillennialMeg Ай бұрын
Loving this style and topic ❤ I’ll be back to finish later.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Thank you! Happy you like it ♥
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Let me know in the comments: How do you define ‘enough’?
@zainasibr Ай бұрын
real
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Ready to learn more about my 1:1 mentorship? DM me on Instagram or send me an email (details below) to explore if it’s the right fit for you. Let’s create a life that feels authentic and aligned. How to reach me: 📩 Email: [email protected] 📷 Instagram: @authentic_living_with_emilie
@thecynthiavalentine Ай бұрын
Emilie 🥹 Thank you for sharing! I love a a good quitting story, *especially* from fellow therapists. I think we all have one job we just were not in alignment with. I know I have mine 🙁 I’m wishing you massive success (jn whatever form that resonates with you😉) and I look forward to seeing more of your journey 🙏🏻
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Cynthia! I truly believe that sharing these types of stories can have such a powerful impact on others. I noticed that you’re also on a journey toward a slower, softer life-love that! I saw in your KZbin bio that you enjoy reading-same here! Although, I have to admit, I’m more of an audiobook person. I wanted to take a moment to recommend Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman if you haven’t had a chance to check it out yet. It’s such a thought-provoking read, and I think you’d love it! Looking forward to connecting more often. 😊
@shianlichiam9654 2 ай бұрын
I really relate with this
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
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@katekayak 2 ай бұрын
Eft ❤Book Eft coaching to release blocks
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the suggestion! I will for sure look into it 😊
@katekayak 2 ай бұрын
There are great videos on KZbin by Jennifer Harmony. My EFT coach is Bruno Sade who I can highly recommend.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Ай бұрын
@@katekayak Thank you ❤
@gearfacts 2 ай бұрын
Similar story here! I used to do kids entertainment and I had a great show but the sales side of things really polluted the joy. Now I work part time, run a KZbin channel and home school my kiddo who has some fairly intensive needs. Long term, I’ve discovered that share trading is good - it’s productive, it’s ethical (if you want it to be) and it doesn’t involve any hustle :)
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
WOW, I love that you were able to pivot when you noticed that the way you were living was not what was best for you. It sounds like the life you have created for yourself now is aligned with what's most important to you! Your child is so lucky to have you be so present ❤❤
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
Ready to learn more about my 1:1 mentorship? DM me on Instagram or send me an email (details below) to explore if it’s the right fit for you. Let’s create a life that feels authentic and aligned. How to reach me: 📩 Email: [email protected] 📷 Instagram: @authentic_living_with_emilie
@AceHunley 2 ай бұрын
congrats on realizing that slow living was the best fit for you. Indeed a lot of is mindset. Slow morning, time wirh friends and family, gym time are all definitely non-negotiables. great content, subbed for more!
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! 😃I'm so happy to have you as part of the community!!
@AceHunley 2 ай бұрын
@ it’s an honor to be part of it. Looking forward to growing intellectually with you. I post videos on wealth building as well. Trying to grow my channel!
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
@@AceHunley I just checked out your channel! Love what you are doing on there! Subbed to learn more from you on my journey to $1M :)
@AceHunley 2 ай бұрын
@ I appreciate it! Let’s get you there as fast as possible but integrate it into the “slow mornings” bc what’s the point if you’re not enjoying your life and experiences along the way!
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
@@AceHunley 100% agree!
@spammail6066 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for talking about success and slow living. Literally been searching everywhere and yet not much content out there on this. Might take a while but you’re filling a HUGE gap in the market and I think in time once people you’re around doing this work, you’ll be VERY popular. I look forward to seeing your vids come on my feed. I love how you work and what you’re about.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
WOW! Thank you so much! Your words mean the world to me. ♥ I'm so happy that what I'm creating is resonating with you! I look forward to connecting more with you on here😊
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
Does this resonate with you? I would love to hear about your own experience as a high-achiever!
@GlendaUndefined 2 ай бұрын
I love this...I do something similar but call it CEO Day... I might incorporate some of your ideas!
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
Oh I love the idea of calling it a CEO day! Let me know if you have any ideas that I could incorporate it mine. I'm always looking to improve :)
@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau 2 ай бұрын
Dream big! 1 million is a good goal. I wish that you will reach it. It's good that you take your time and do this without hustling. <3
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support! ♥ I can't wait to see where this journey takes me
@MillennialMeg 2 ай бұрын
Congratulations!!! So exciting!
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
Thank you!!! ♥
@theoryofone 2 ай бұрын
Congrats Emilie!
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your help with this! ♥ Your channel audit was so helpful!
@pigsinpyjamas9410 2 ай бұрын
I love the idea of a think day! ❤
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 2 ай бұрын
It's really sooo helpful! Here is the link if you want to see how to have your own think day and how mine ended up going: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bF6tnIiZqtGHbsUfeature=shared
@denisesummers6909 3 ай бұрын
This is so much how I have felt.
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing! ♥For a long time I thought that I was the only one who felt this way. I believed everyone had life figured out and that I was just behind, or weak, or not normal. I always felt like an outsider. But the more I've open up on this journey, the more I see that there are so many of us with similar thoughts, feelings and experiences. Love that we are all coming together and sharing!
@gearfacts 3 ай бұрын
I'm on a remarkably similar journey. Hello from Australia :)
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 3 ай бұрын
Hi!! Love to hear from others on the same journey! If you have any advice for me I would love to hear it! And hopefully my journey can help you as well 😊
@gearfacts 2 ай бұрын
@@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie Advice, gosh - I think you're ahead of me tbh, but I'll share some thoughts: 1. When I got into shares a little over a year ago (after an unsuccessful foray long ago, just prior to the GFC), I experienced an inflated sense of urgency about the whole thing, like urgent reflexes to BUY BUY BUY and SELL SELL PANIC-SELL ...before I realised that you have to play the long game. So the dips don't freak me out so much these days, and I no longer do the goldminer's dance every time there's a little jump in the market! Secondly and most dear to me: Ethics. Me and my family (3 of us) were doing ok until a series of unlucky incidents decimated us financially. We encountered a lot of flashy, vulture-like, unethical people in that time, so I've made ethics an absolute priority in my investing. No war profiteering, no eco-destroying ventures, and no investments that profit from widening the gap between rich and poor. My mission is simply to fund a dignified retirement and set up a good passive income stream for junior, who has certain challenges that will make it difficult for them to work much. Anyway that's where I'm at :)
@lisab8108 3 ай бұрын
i am interested in the mentorship program. please send me information
@AuthenticLivingWithEmilie 3 ай бұрын
Hi Lisa! So pumped to hear that you are interested in the mentorship program! I got your email and will respond to it now 😀