SPOT ON!!!!!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

Absolutely true

"You're not well." Sent shivers up my spine, in a very bad way. Insidious.

Heteros be like

It would have been perfect without taking the Lords name in Vain at the beginning. 😢 Besides that tho it truly is perfect and how they slowly close youre world in around you to only be picked and prauded by them what true hell this is . My brother is currently experiencing this as i have before its haunting to think of what misery one can inflict on anothers soul . God help us all 🙏🏻❤️🥺 i subscribed this is impeccable acting from you .

She probably should drink less...good to stay clear headed around people like that.

Wow the flashbacks ! It’s crazy how it happens and you don’t even realize it’s happening to you 😢 happy to read the messages of so many people being able to get out of it ♥️

They're both sick. Its codependently bad. Because she's annoying asf. And he's abusive asf

I got out after 11 years.

Not sure why I even watched this… I’m not even in a relationship. 😂

That was much more sociopathic than it was narcissistic behavior in my humble opinion. 😊

SO..... no one remembers the the 1944 film noir Gaslight?. . . Elipsis

"Its just a presentation." The gaslighting to make her job feel non important

The way hes so cold while shes emotionally distressed and looking for her phone. Its chilling. Ive got exes like this. Watch for this, and fucking run as soon as you see it. Going through this is horrific.

This happens more often and closer than you think

Yes it does start in childhood.wish more people had that self awareness.

Many relationships start not abusive and end up abusive. Excellent film well done. Major red flag the put downs

And they change subject in conversations. To re-divert back to you. No responsibility for their actions.. Ohh my this movie is reality of the spiritual reality manifesting in relational, physical and emotional reality.. Solution : Jesus and His Will : Surrender, Repent and Turn to Him away from destruction others and yourself and he will fill you with Life & Love and Lead you to Life & True Love and those who Havd Resurrection Life to meet together in Eternity. This Life is Temporary there is One that Gave Him all so we can Have it all, all we need to do is Believe that Jesus Christ died and rose again and confess without mouth and believe with out heart and we will be saved and filled with His. Jesus is the healer of narcissists and all other soul wounds He truly is, millions of people like me have testified about this. He truly removed all curses if you repent (turn) away have Faith In Him No Narcissists (Jezebel) will be able to have their way.

sad watching this after my break up and seeing the parallels here .... thought its just my fault

Terrific film👍❤️😍Tajana you are awesome 🤩Subscribed

Why is no one Talking about her alcohol problem? they Both have Problems. And they should fix it. apart From each other.

This drama is about a man with a typical attachment disorder who commits domestic violence only to his family members, and a woman with an attachment disorder who cannot leave even with that man. This is a very common case in Japan. He is a very gentlemanly person on the outside, but when he gets married or lives together, he transforms into an intimidating and disgusting man. There are also many female versions of this.このドラマはよくある典型的な愛着障害の家族にだけDVをする男と、そんな男でも別れられない愛着障害の女の話ですね。日本にもとても多い症例です。外ではとても紳士的ですが、結婚や同棲を機に威圧的で最低な男に変貌する。これの女性バージョンも多いですね。

The flaw in this reenactment is how innocent the protagonist is being portrayed. Even if its meant to highlight the signs of narcissistic abuse, no one would not realize the toxicity and continue remaining passive.

This should be shown in every High School😢

I’m sorry, but the alcohol and the woman took the sting out of his narcissism and gas lining. It made it confusing. It would’ve been better if she had not been drinking in the video.

I love this,so educational and eye opening

Crap ending

Oh hi mark

I am so scared that my partner is going to wait until after marriage or pregnancy to really show his true colors. He’s already complaining about always doing things himself when we literally just moved in together. I understand he’s trying to prevent that from happening but… there’s no reason to get so upset.

He would also keep telling her how bad influence her friends were, to isolate her from them.

It's amazingly and so accurately written movie. I d binge watch it on Netflix for sure. I can also related thanks to my own experience / trauma. But I wanna really thank you for sharing this movie with the world and here on KZbin. and chance u have created more of the content? Thank you. Kate

He is a colossal prick .

everyone needs that cray cray take no sh*t friend. If I heard that last part, as a best friend, it would be time to call the fixers. Moving crew happening ASAP that day for my friend. He can get tuned up too if need be at any time should he choose to escalate from that point. The mental games are hard enough to break. But once that hand-slapping dance starts, nah bro we gonna make the news Lorraine Bobbit style. I'm not a toy and I do not play those games with folks out here.

I noticed he always refers to himself and his achievements

Through the whole film I felt he was nicer than most narcissists, and I know a lot of them. They rarely compliment and the abuse is much harsher. I was surprised he didn't criticize her clothing choice for the party. The end was very accurate though, so much so it made me cry, only because she had a friend who cared. In reality, the boyfriend would have demanded no contact with friends or family. But hey, she was perfectly beautiful, nice figure, and had a great job, no kids, maybe he didn't need to control her as much 🤷 But I'm sure there are people who are that subtle too. It is a wide spectrum.

This happened to me and in the workplace. Record all conversations is my advice.

This is me at nineteen with my first husband. I had no clue and agreed with him always just to keep the peace. I took the blame for everything.

Common guys ! It is very unrealistic to turn into such a weak woman lacking any willpower whatsoever ! Any relationship with very few exceptions are subjected to manipulations from both men and women ! Gaslighting is still an obscure term. There could be a confluence of various factors in relationships. I don’t believe gaslighting exists in a pure form. Or perhaps I’ve been lucky not to experience such an extreme abuse.

Maybe she moulded him into this with her constant nagging. She’s a weak person, apologising to him when she did nothing wrong. This is a symptom of decades of feminist brainwashing and the monotony of her childless career driven life. This piece of film is born from the mind of someone with an agenda to push the sexes apart and devoid of a connection to nature.

🚫I started recording my pastor husband. No one would believe me because he is such a gentle man of God in public. Then even after some people found out about his rage and abuse, they made excuses for him and continued attending his church as though it were a cult and he was the leader. He had EVERYONE BRAINWASHED!

Frantically looking for something when you are gonna be late and him just sitting there not helping you or caring that you need to find something and are visibly upset

narcissistic abuse, she stopped shining.

Thank you for creating this for us 🙏

I’m in shock - my 32 years married and living in abuse played out right before my eyes in this video!!!😮😢 Things I had forgotten about rose to the surface and I see where the slow, insidious abuse gradually grew worse. Wow. Just wow. So spot on. I hope it helps warn away others!!!

I was expecting the girl to be a bad person in this video. Not sure how realistic it is. Usually, women are the one being like this man is. At least, in my experience, talking trash about us, making us feel sick or crazy. It is a good story, but if you changed the sexes it would be more realistic, for me, and I think, everyone. Especially how beautiful this woman is, she can easily find another guy. While the guy is not that hot, and he is a photographer, so not some big shoot lawyer or doctor.

Sociopathic narcissists will always make you feel like you’re the crazy one. They will twist and manipulate to bait you into arguments and then call you crazy. These people are truly sick who do this to others

Another advice: Don't move in too quickly, if at all.

The drinking thing really helped me because my husband has literally made me feel like I was like a raging alcoholic that I even went to a drug and alcohol specialist and after two sessions the guy stopped me in the middle of the second session and said have ever heard about gaslighting a narcissism l was like No and the therapist was like you don't have a problem. He's always trying to gaslight me as if I'm the problem specially when his family is around it's gotten to the point where his family won't even have a glass of wine at dinner because I'm such an alcoholic!

It's all about contempt.

This hits hard. I just kicked out my narcissistic boyfriend and felt like I missed him but after watching this- I can’t believe how similar this is to my experience. Anxiety was the start then massive Hair loss, weight gain, lost a job, insomnia, weird health issues…everything. It’s been 2 weeks and my skin already looks better, my hair is regrowing, I found a new job a new place to live. It’s my belief that these individuals are blocking you from anything positive. No matter what I did or what I said was never good enough. This man literally almost took my life. I’m so grateful for videos like these and the help of Dr Ramani and others who offer advice and their experiences. Don’t walk, RUN. If you can’t run, kick them out ASAP, call the police and have them removed (if you can safely). No relationship is worth your life and livelihood. Take my heed. I’m staying out of all relationships right now. I’m not even looking or wanting anymore. Be safe out there, they don’t love us and never did. Stay away from them completely. Get extreme and stop allowing an evil person to hurt and manipulate you, just because you think it’s love- it’s not. I am wishing nothing but love and abundance for you. Peace ❤