Right here crying with you girl! As a new mom even for the second time, it’s really hard to let yourself cry when you have things that other moms might not have but your experience is verrrryyy valid. We are human ❤

Wow I felt this soo so deeply !! Thank you for sharing lovey and you are absolutely crushing it as a new mom you’re such an amazing inspiration for your little one so keep up the awesome work !! I am just over a year post postpartum with my second daughter and it’s still hard no one prepares you for the post postpartum part of your journey and everything mentally that we go through tons of thoughts and feeling and changes to figure out and navigate and a lot of us hold it in and do t talk about since every mom’s experience and situation is different but at the end of the day we all have our own struggles point blank period so no other mom/ person should not be judging you because regardless it’s tough and if they are it’s because there struggling with there own shit and need to look inward to themselves and figure there own shit out so try and ignore them and remember that there just projecting onto you which’s is bs but def can really mess with your mental health and people don’t understand that but keep doing wat your doing mama your doing such an fantastic job seriously !! And I know you don’t know me but girl hit me up if you need to vent i will sit and listen getting all those feeling out help soo much !! Xoxo ❤

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Okkk mama!!! The body is bodying 💗

Let’s normalize mom struggles not needing other prerequisites! We’re all here doing the best we can. I try to remind myself that every single day is new to both me and my kids and we are learning through life together ❤ your feelings are very valid babes

Where’s the lashes from I’m obsessed

I kind of missed you being vulnerable, thank you for sharing your experience as a mother. As one who works full time and has my daughter in private school it can be a struggle but my struggle isn’t more of a struggle than yours. A struggle is a struggle regardless. But you are doing amazing!!

We love you queen!!!!

I never comment but Lauren as a new subscriber I think you’re doing great adjusting too so much in so little time. It’s inspiring seeing a new mom being herself and still aspiring to be better everyday for her family . I also love how honest you are regarding this journey, it’s so refreshing on here - much love to you 🤍

The way you assume we’re all thinking “oh cry me a river” is the way so many women feel! Bc we all have certain privileges but that doesn’t make your problems less valid. Feeling guilty for getting to do fun things can be equated to moms who feel guilty for going on work trips. Pls don’t talk yourself into thinking we’re judging you bc we aren’t :)

I’m 26 with 3 under 4 and I totally get it!!! It’s so hard! Enjoy your Hannah Montana life! You can do it!!!

don’t even worry about what all these other people say. all that matters is your family and loved ones. you’re doing amazing & in my opinion the people that talk shit are only projecting & lack something that you have. keep your head up girl, you’re a badass 🤍

rarely comment on youtube videos but you came to my barn when I was in middle school and rode my horse Mercury- you were so kind to me and your words stick with me to this day. I've been keeping up with you since and am happy for you :,) boa sorte com tudo <3 ps- meu perceiro é brasileiro tambem :)

I have a 3 year old and I was talking to my husband about this just yesterday and trust me it gets better. I am now starting to feel like myself again after so long. And the men really don’t understand everything we go through physically and mentally. Just do what feels right for you, it doesn’t matter what you do for a living being a mom is so hard. Don’t disregard your feelings because you have it better than others your feelings are still valid!!! Much love xo ❤

Rio is going to think you’re the absolute coolest mom ever and that’s all that matters 🩵

Your feelings are sooooo valid! I have no idea what you’re going through but In a weird way I understand you. I got pregnant at 18 straight out of HS and unplanned. Shortly after finding out I was pregnant I lost the baby. I was so depressed and confused and sad and I definitely did not have the support or the understanding that I needed from the people around me. Everyone just kept saying, “everything happens for a reason” and “look at the positive side of things, you weren’t planning this and you are literally fresh out of HS” was like the general consensus. And although I can see where everyone was coming from NOW - no one wants to hear that when they’re losing a baby and their body is going through that. I am also a nanny and I know being a nanny and being a parent are two completely different roles, but nonetheless I’m with my kids for over 40 hours a week. Most of my kids I start with them as an infant. AND ITS HARDDDDDD!!!! So incase no one has told you recently, YOURE DOING AN AMAZING JOB! Honestly I mean that. You’re kicking ass, and you’re incredible mother from what I can see! 🥰 I hope more people in your life start to see that and express that to you!

Girllll!!! You said a whole lot in a short amount of time!! You spoke on something that not everyone knows how to put in words. (Being resented for not struggling like someone else 👀🔥🔥) Thank you for being vulnerable w/ us ❤️ No matter what you post on KZbin or IG I'm always smiling. Even though you don't know me from Adam, I am proud of you & keep doing the dang thing!!💕

A job is a job… yours might be unconventional but it’s a blessing in many ways, and a challenge in many ways other people probably don’t understand. Your feelings and reality are totally valid! Love your content keep doing what you do mama 🎉

The green dress was made for you 💚💚💚

Lauren, I cried with you! My baby is 5 months old! Postpartum is so so so hard!

You are a cool ass mom doing the MOST, frig the h8rs clap fo yo damn self ♥️ 👏

You’re doing great, as a young woman, wife and mom. I’m sorry you feel guilty you deserve to enjoy your life you have nothing to feel guilty about.❤✨

never have i ever felt so blessed, to see a video

ngl I’ve watched your videos for years and started to feel disconnected a bit with the mom journey because I’m not at that point in my life yet but seeing you talk about it in such a vulnerable way made me cry and I felt that connection again in just being a woman in general and knowing I might go through it one day is so comforting to know I can already have content to lean on and prepare me

lovedddd this cute catchup <3 where are your gold earrings from? :)))

This is my favorite video of you so far. I think that some people forget that giving birth is literal trauma for your body and mind. Even month after. Like you grow a human being and then it is there all of a sudden.. I am not a Mom but I can imagine that this is insane.

Ur such an inspiration, I wish u all the best

Its crazy because those complaining that they are struggling are sooo much more well of than others aswell. Yet, here they are complaing about people that have it better than them. Its a them problem not a u problem. Hope u find inner strenght to rise above those peoples opinions n give urself the cred u deserve urself if others arent validating u. U have to validate urself. U deserve that. Every good human deserves to be happy. No matter the struggles they face.

Just because you feel you are privileged compared to other moms does not mean you cannot feel the way you do. You said you were trying your best. That’s enough. That’s all your baby could ask for. Your baby doesn’t want you to cry. You look beautiful. It’s okay to do things. You’re doing just fine, mama

Not me balling my eyes out as you are talking about being a new mom, I so needed to hear this coming from a new mom! My baby is about to be 6 months and girl I felt what you said, every mom needs to hear that they're doing a good job! Thank you for being so real! When I say you're my favorite person to watch on KZbin, I mean it! I love you and your videos!! YOU INSPIRE ME SO MUCH!!!! Thank you for that!!!❤ you're an amazing mama❤

Lauren, fellow mama here!! I related to sooo much that you’re feeling🤍 know there’s so much power in being vulnerable & standing in your truth. You are valid in every single emotion you’re experiencing & no matter the differences every mother faces, your struggles are valid. I love you, I’m here cheering you on, it will get easier. You are a phenomenal mother 🫶🏽💕

I love you i love you i love you. New mom here and I totally understand what you mean. I feel the same exact way. You don't come across conceited at all. and you go ahead and vent to us girl, we love a vulnerable moment. Here for it. btw, you smacking the shizz outta those mosquitoes had me DYING!! HAHAHA

Wow, this was such unexpected but lovely vlog, when you got in touch with your feelings, i was like damn, this is so real, i feel you completely, god bless you Lauren, love you y saludos desde Mexico, soy seguidora tuya desde hace tiempo, de verdad que te admiro, <3

Look at you go girl. You are living the life. Remember to actually see how far you have come, what you are doing, and who’s around you. You got this and are so loved ❤

I truly hope you can get to a point where u dont feel drained by those opinions and comparisons. Live ur best life and wear it with pride ✨️ Those complaing about u, are so much more well of that a lot of others too, they just dont look in that direction. There will always be someone worse of. Its just perspective and who u compare too. Same goes for richer people. There will always be someone struggling less than u.

lol I love mommy Lauren ❤

should we start a gofundme for lauren to just take one day off?

You are doing the best job. I am sooo happy for you. You are the best mom. Just had my 1st baby last month, it is no joke the changes. I feel you 💯. Sending love and hugs 🥰🫂

Aw Lauren it’s okay to feel how you feel :) your still cool girl Lauren forever

I’ve been a silent follow for years now and we were pregnant around the same time so I really have enjoyed your content about your journey through motherhood- I loved the rawness of that clip, thank you for sharing something so intimate so other moms don’t feel so alone. Xoxo

lauren, i’m so proud of you for keeping in the part about being a new mom and the struggles you face. i’m not a new mom but i’m entering that phase of my life getting married next spring and it’s the next chapter. so many of my best friends and sisters are new moms and i KNOW your words resonate with them. thank you for always being so vulnerable with us and trusting us with your heart. big support from over here, girl. 🤍

Thanks for keeping it real and talking about this in general! I think a lot of moms (me included) can relate to the struggle in balancing your work-, love and parent life, simultaneously trying to get to know and understand your new self. As a first time mom of an almost 2 year old I want to tell you; embrace it… embrace it all, because it is part of the process!! life comes in waves and after some time adjusting, most of the pieces will fit - it will all make sense and waves definitely become less intense. From what I hear and see in your videos your an amazing person, mom and wife. Hugs and kisses from the Netherlands

Im 15 and I’m already starting my life being productive and working for myself to one day be a great mother but to know that you struggle still is something that is improtant to remember and acknowledge cause everyone’s experiences are valid and overall it’s a blessing to be able to say I went on a walk today because others aren’t given that chance but your seen and heard and the passionate content you share is a blessing for me and others and overall like a inspiring community to strive for productivity and happiness.

No matter the money, the job, the support, etc. all moms have guilt for some reason or another. You’re just doing your best and if anything, be proud of yourself. You’re amazing, beautiful, so loving and are doing everything in your power to be what you and everyone needs. Chin up mama bear! If you need a break or help, take it! Love you girlie. You’re too fabulous for the bs. 💜😆😘😉💐💐💜💜🥂

I am the same age as you and our babies are actually only a couple weeks apart. I have watched you for years.. when you are raw and real like this I really cry with you because I feel the SAME WAY. I create content and I’m a stay at home mom so you are honestly one of my mom friends. I think you are doing an amazing job and you inspire me so much. Just remember when you think you aren’t doing “anything” you are EVERYTHING to your baby 💕💫

I’m 43 with a 9 year old and I think you’re doing great. I had her at 33 and it was still a struggle as a first time mom. Motherhood is different for all of us and there’s no manual for any of it. We all have our own path and this one is yours. People can be mad about it. They can put on a cape and be super mad about it. Where some may see self absorbed I see self aware. Keep doing you because the rest of us are here for it.

Awwww ur so sweet lauren ive been watching for years and even when i can see the loo of exhaust you still smile.

only lauren could be having a very vulnerable about finding balance as a mom while also being on a very determined hunt to kill the mosquito in the room… lmao she is a multifaceted queen 💗

I’m happy the purple hair is gone! Lol