TOPIC TUESDAY EP.5 IS SPF THE PROBLEM
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@laurawilton8844
@laurawilton8844 Күн бұрын
My heart absolutely breaks for this beautiful family. I am so so so sorry. The strength is truly admirable. Soulie truly truly is the most perfect name, what a beautiful girl and family. Sending all the love and peace in the world. 🫶🏻✨🩷
@imjoat7551
@imjoat7551 2 күн бұрын
You are so amazing and told your story so eloquently. How lucky Soulie was to have you as a mummy. You have absolutely done justice to her life ❤ she is beautiful x
@jessbaldwin
@jessbaldwin 2 күн бұрын
They really really messed up. It’s awful that they didn’t do anything to prevent this from happening. The nhs is so shit they don’t do there job properly x.
@RakeemDixon
@RakeemDixon 4 күн бұрын
Brooke deserves everything and more. She understood the mission. She’s a real one
@jennacohen2902
@jennacohen2902 4 күн бұрын
Everyone on the street does drugs ? Nope. We have to choose who we let into our lives. I'm zero tolerance.
@suzyska9390
@suzyska9390 5 күн бұрын
so brave❤️
@Jodiepetrol
@Jodiepetrol 6 күн бұрын
Oh liv. This is so sad! Can I just say you started by saying a mum of one? Please tell me if I’m talking out of turn but you will forever be a mum of two! I know grief is hard to process but Soulie will forever live a part of your lives! ❤ This hits hard! I had my son at 35.4 because thankfully I went for a few 3d scans mainly because he didn’t behave so they kept offering us to go back. The last was still unsuccessful in a good picture but she did pick up my waters had all gone. He was still breach. She demanded I ring the constant. High blood pressure and protein in urine. I was sent straight down to the ward and booked for a section. No hospital bag and I drove myself there. Again felt fine in myself! He was poorly but survived! All I was ever told was he had an infection. Until last year I thought it was sepsis. 7 years later I had similar. But just swollen ankles. I was left until 40 weeks. Has no idea of what contractions felt like because I’d never been there. Thankfully they just rushed me straight down again. I’m so lucky! I’ve since recovered the notes from my son and both were pre eclampsia babies
@nickiablett9537
@nickiablett9537 6 күн бұрын
Your honesty and bravery is so admirable 🥺💔 I also had very high blood pressure towards the end of my final pregnancy. At the time, having already had 2 children with very little complications, I didn’t know how serious it actually was. I completely agree - high BP needs to come with a health warning and should be monitored closely. I am so so sorry for your loss but your words will help another family in the future. The beautiful legacy that your Soulie has left will live on forever. Sending you all so much love xxxxx
@Tommys-together-for-every-baby
@Tommys-together-for-every-baby 6 күн бұрын
Truly incredible of you to speak in such detail about the loss of beautiful Soulie so soon after you’ve been through it. Thinking of you always Liv and here if you need us. Love, Tommy's xx
@cartermccallum9583
@cartermccallum9583 7 күн бұрын
This has just blew my mind, ur such an inspirational woman. I’m so sorry for your loss of your beautiful wee angel. 💖 I was in the very same position as you where, back & foward with high blood pressure ect. Very same as you . I got took in at 36 weeks & induced bang on 37 weeks. The week I got kept in I was prepped for thearter for the whole week. My baby boy was born bang on 37 weeks & listening to your story has just made me relise how incredibly lucky I am that he was fine & so was I. But how it could have been so very different. Iv never thought about it that way until hearing your story tonight. U have touched my heart liv, the way you have told your story, u should b so very proud of yourself. You where blessed to be soulies mummy , as she was blessed to be your daughter. Sending you, your hubby & nova lots of healing prayers and love. Fly high beautiful angel soulie. 💖
@catherinepoole579
@catherinepoole579 7 күн бұрын
Very similar story to my birth of my baby boy except I had a complete catastrophic placental abruption at home and by the time I got to hospital my babies heart beat was very shallow aswell. I was rushed for a c-section. lost so much blood at home I also needed a blood transfusion had low iron ect. My son was flat at birth and cooled for 72 hours due to doctors not knowing how long he was out for. Doctors done cpr for 22 minutes and my baby also didn’t survive. I was lucky to have him 2 hole days also. It’s been 3 yrs this January and that pain does not go away feels like yesterday. Everything u have said describes it to a T. I also didn’t understand the doctors and how baby was so perfect but so broken inside. I was 38+4 weeks full term. It’s something that will never leave ur mind that trauma stays u just learn to live with it. First yr is the hardest but u will never stop crying for ur baby. No body will ever understand ur grief unless they have experienced it also. May u find peace in knowing u will see u little girl again some day in the next life. ❤️
@catherinepoole579
@catherinepoole579 7 күн бұрын
Rest in paradise baby girl ❤️🌈👼🏼
@BL05000x
@BL05000x 8 күн бұрын
Felt every single word of this. My first baby was born sleeping in May this year. Up to which point, I had a normal pregnancy. Sending so much love, I wouldn’t wish this upon anyone x
@heatherjane4760
@heatherjane4760 8 күн бұрын
My heart is truly broken for you and your family. It makes me so angry these things are still happening! I had ICP went in for my planned c-section and they tried to send me home as they still had women waiting from the night before. They hadn’t even bothered to read my notes properly to see I had ICP and should have been first in 😕 You are so brave to be speaking out and raising awareness 💔💕
@dessieandme3100
@dessieandme3100 9 күн бұрын
God this was painful 😂 especially the ‘copying’ conversation - ‘Get in your fucking lane’ being the most alarming comment from the interviewer 😮 😬 this is giving mean girls burn book, thankfully society has moved on from this approach to life.
@sofishepherd6167
@sofishepherd6167 10 күн бұрын
Thank you for being so brave to share your story. As a mum with all the same concerns prior to birth as you I didn’t realise how important these concerns were. I can’t thank you enough. Rest peacefully Soulie ❤️ x
@kerrykinsxo1
@kerrykinsxo1 10 күн бұрын
I had my second baby in july. For the last few weeks of my pregnancy I had multiple episodes of reduced movements. Sometimes I felt silly going in and getting checked but also would never ignore any of my own concerns. In the end I pushed for induction as the episodes were so frequent. I ended up on daily monitoring for 10 days and sweeps every 48 hours to try and induce naturally. She arrived at 38+5 healthy. I however was extremely poorly after her very fast labour and delivery with hypertensive blood pressure crisis. I couldn't hold my girl for 6 hours. I never suffered problems with my blood pressure in my whole life and not in either of my pregnancies. I never understood how serious and how poorly your blood pressure could make you until after her birth. I ended up on labatole for 3 weeks after birth as my blood pressure was still too high.. but I know how lucky I am and I dont take a single day of being healthy and having healthy babies for granted especially after being infertile for 10 years needing ivf for my first born. Your story is so so incredibly heartbreaking and as a mum I could not even in my worst nightmares begin to imagine the pain, heartbreak, trauma and suffering any parent feels loosing a child. Your raising awareness in your beautiful daughters name will keep her memory alive and bring some postive to the most tragic of circumstances. She truly was a beautiful little girl and I'm so sorry your time with her was so short. Thank you for sharing yours and her story, as heartbreaking as it is, it needs to be heard. More women should question descions they are not comfortable with, know that it's OK to get a second opinion, get checked at every single concern and always be your babies voice despite how silly you might feel. It's always better to be safe than sorry. I'll cuddle my babies extra hard tonight and I'll think of your baby too. Rest in heaven beautiful soulie ❤
@katiealiciaduke4758
@katiealiciaduke4758 11 күн бұрын
I started following Liv about 3 months ago and my heart absolutely breaks for her and her husband, and daughter. All of their families. Soulie will save lives, you're so brave for raising awareness you absolutely incredible woman ❤
@shannonbarnett6377
@shannonbarnett6377 11 күн бұрын
What a heartbreaking story🥹 but an amazing woman and mum. So brave for sharing xxx
@AMANDA-b4y7q
@AMANDA-b4y7q 11 күн бұрын
I followed your pregnancy journey and the sad outcome.My daughter-in-law had high blood pressure,and I told her about your story and insisted she go to get checked out,and my grandson was delivered 3 weeks early x thank you from the bottom of my heart for your awareness x sending lots of love x remembering Soulie your special little girl xx
@alishakyla6310
@alishakyla6310 11 күн бұрын
Wow Liv, you are so brave for sharing yours & Soulie’s story. I felt every word of it. Soulie will always be remembered 🥹🫶🏻
@nataliehatfield454
@nataliehatfield454 11 күн бұрын
Liv, is such a strong beautiful women, soulie will be with you always, stay strong ❤❤❤❤
@ohsoshelly7453
@ohsoshelly7453 11 күн бұрын
I felt every word liv. I lost my son at Leicester hospital this march and held him as he passed and it is a pain I could never put into words but you vocalised everything I feel so beautifully. I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. I truly wouldn't wish this on anyone
@GD-ym5bu
@GD-ym5bu 11 күн бұрын
I hope I’m not speaking out of turn, but respectfully I just want to say how sorry I am for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain you have had to go through. Sending you love 🤍
@Georgialouise1xx
@Georgialouise1xx 11 күн бұрын
What an incredible woman! To sit down and speak so openly about something still so raw I have nothing but admiration for you Olivia what an unbelievable mother & woman you are! I can only pray that you & storm both find comfort in that soulie is and always will be with you both and nova 🩷✨🕊️
@rebeccawheeler7335
@rebeccawheeler7335 11 күн бұрын
You are so brave to do this Liv. Thank you for sharing your story xx
@sx8803
@sx8803 11 күн бұрын
Just no words 💔💔💔💔
@aprilapricotful
@aprilapricotful 11 күн бұрын
My heart hurts for you and storm, Liv. You are the most beautiful people. I am extremely sorry for this traumatic loss of your beautiful baby girl.
@paulanelligan6643
@paulanelligan6643 11 күн бұрын
Just listened to Lauren Goodger podcast with Paul C.brunson and both of your stories sound very similar. You are so strong & thank you for sharing your story ❤
@Dmjk08
@Dmjk08 11 күн бұрын
Liv is incredibly brave! I commend you as a Woman and a Mother! Thank you for sharing Soulie's story! I wish you and your family peace during this difficult time ❤
@bernie8418
@bernie8418 11 күн бұрын
This was my reality 21 years ago this coming Dec. I lost my baby girl Abigail in similar circumstances. My heart hurts for you Liv. You are so brave raising awareness on this awful condition, that more than too often is still being missed or not caught in time. Sending love & peace to you & storm may your broken hearts heal with enough time. Rest in peace beautiful Soulie 🤍
@Georgialouise1xx
@Georgialouise1xx 11 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry you went through this 😢❤️
@toni-annrimell9946
@toni-annrimell9946 11 күн бұрын
Followed Liv on Tiktok for years, and such a heartbreaking story - but such a strong and brave couple ❤ xx
@FK-cp8qr
@FK-cp8qr 12 күн бұрын
What a brave beautiful women ❤️ I admire your strength & bravery x rest in peace to your beautiful baby girl soulie x so sorry this what happened to you x
@elliebrackley1089
@elliebrackley1089 12 күн бұрын
No words to even comprehend the horror! What a brave and beautiful mum🤍 sending your family all the love💔
@OddFuture120392
@OddFuture120392 12 күн бұрын
Liv thank you for doing this, it is so informative and hopefully will mean situations like this can be avoided for others. Soulie was a perfect angel, and she’ll be with you everyday.
@DebbieLouise-d6m
@DebbieLouise-d6m 12 күн бұрын
An amazingly strong woman you are Liv. Much love to you and Storm. Soulie Dove will be with you both forever.
@ciarablack2466
@ciarablack2466 12 күн бұрын
This broke my heart😢 I had a horrific birth with my second son and I will never forget it, when ur going through it there isn’t a lot of information thank you for sharing this…my heart breaks for ur little angel, just remember it’s not goodbye your just behind her❤❤❤x
@Lemonsponges
@Lemonsponges 12 күн бұрын
So so unfair. I’m so sorry
@arianzamani1871
@arianzamani1871 12 күн бұрын
This was an incredibly hard watch. Firstly I am bereft for you and your family. I cant help but feel so overwhelmed as I was in a very similar situation with the preeclampsia however it was handled very differently at the Woman’s hospital. When I saw your tik tok’s about your blood pressure I couldn’t believe the hospital were sending you home. My BP spiked and my midwife sent me straight in and they wouldn’t let me home. I was desperate to go home as I had a home birth planned but I wasn’t responding to any medication, I had protein, headaches, swollen including my face and eyes and weeks before was in hospital with severe pain under my rib cage (sent home with pain relief as the other symptoms hadn’t come yet) and I know now this was the starting signs of my preeclampsia. My consultant refused to let me leave the hospital as I was in hypertension crisis and they made it clear the only option was to get the baby out for my sake and the baby. I was in shock. Thankfully both baby and I were fine however I was very poorly for over 6 weeks after on all the medication. I have trauma from it all going out of control but until I saw your story I don’t think I realised just how lucky I was for that consultant pushing me to get the baby out. I really didn’t realise how poorly and dangerous my situation was as my bp was over 200 and the risks associated. You need to get your full hospital notes for the whole pregnancy. When your strong enough enquiries need to be made as unfortunately I feel you were neglected. Someone is responsible for letting you go home, for not informing you of all the possibilities so you could ask more questions or push for more care. It won’t bring your beautiful girl back but it may help to process as this was nothing to do with you or the home you had for your daughter. With all my heart I am sending you and your family so much love and healing energy. 💕
@manorestatefarm9369
@manorestatefarm9369 12 күн бұрын
What an incredible woman! Thank you so much Lucy for giving this to Liv and thank you so much Liv, sending you all the love in the world 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
@jodiecater5369
@jodiecater5369 12 күн бұрын
Liv you are so strong and brave, you make believe that this video will help other women around the world, but as a newly qualified midwife who starts her new job next week, you have taught me so so much which I promise I will implement in my every day practice, to further support and empower women like yourself. You are articulate yourself so well and have reiterated the importance of listening to concerns and explaining things to women in a way that they understand. Low PAPPA-A I know is a relatively new investigation that hospitals look for on scans but until this video I don’t think I realised the true impact this may of had on Soulie’s precious life. Again, you have taught me so much and yourself, your family and Soulie will be in my thoughts forever ❤️ xxxx
@Kerrie-Annrobinson
@Kerrie-Annrobinson 12 күн бұрын
From one heart broken mama to another your so strong and brave rest in peace Soulie Dove ❤️
@lauramcnally6052
@lauramcnally6052 12 күн бұрын
You are such an inspiration Liv - such an amazing strong woman. Soulie will always be with you. Sending you, Storm and Nova so much love ❤️
@chloescott2983
@chloescott2983 12 күн бұрын
This had me in tears for the last hour. Thank you Liv, for sharing your beautiful Soulie with us, spreading awareness, I hope she is sleeping peacefully. This will forever be in my mind, to ask the questions, with my second, as a mother I cannot comprehend what you are going throw as a family. Nova being the best medicine I can completely understand having a 2 year old. She is your light in the dark, all my love and thoughts always🤍✨❤️
@chloescott2983
@chloescott2983 12 күн бұрын
Going through** Xx
@Be149xo
@Be149xo 12 күн бұрын
I had 2 babies at Warwick. Due my 3rd, have hypertension & protein in my urine at 21 weeks. I’m heartbroken that Olivia and Soulie’s story exists like this, but I will definitely take so much from it and absolutely advocate to myself (more than I ever would before!) if things get any worse towards the end. Nova & Soulie are blessed to have such a wonderful mum ❤️
@courtneybale5506
@courtneybale5506 12 күн бұрын
I don’t have children but I was in tears listening to this... Thank you for raising this vital awareness and god bless your beautiful baby girl. Strength and love to your family you are an amazing woman 🤍
@HayleyBrockhouse
@HayleyBrockhouse 12 күн бұрын
What an inspiration you are Liv. I too gave birth at Warwick with my second baby and was back and forth after being discharged with super high BP after. This was after having my first with pre-eclampsia. It was extremely traumatising and I agree that women need a voice in hospitals. I’m so sorry you are going through this and thank god that Nova has such a strong mumma x
@bethanymincher8329
@bethanymincher8329 12 күн бұрын
Liv, you are strength personified! Thinking of you, your lovely family. Sending you all the love and support 🤍
@KittyFisher-v2p
@KittyFisher-v2p 12 күн бұрын
Did anyone else see the fly flying around .? she’s so proud of her momma 🥺❤❤
@chloewebb3747
@chloewebb3747 12 күн бұрын
Lucy you have provided such an open space for Liv to talk and tell her story ❤ Thankyou Liv for sharing so deeply about Soulie and her precious life. I can undoubtedly feel how loved she is by so many. Time doesn’t heal, but it does help you to feel them close again, your darling daughter. Take care mama, sending the biggest cuddle to you and your family x x x
@HeidiSmith-h4x
@HeidiSmith-h4x 12 күн бұрын
Sending you all love and strength
@alt8991-i6i
@alt8991-i6i 12 күн бұрын
What an amazing women, family, host everything. Your story is heartbreaking but you are incredible and strong and your baby girls Nova and Soulie will be forever guiding you in this life keep that comfort forever 🤍