Need to have at least one real passion that is not chick related.

I have no idea why youtube recommended your channel, i'm definitively not the peer group, but that is rock solid advice and it needs more attention so i'm commenting here for the sake of the algorithm. There is nothing more attractive than a person who is able to live and thrive on their own.

Sorry women don’t care and we don’t care either

09:05-10:00. Spot on! In my 40s now and only starting to live my reality. Many sacrifices being made over 10 years in one "idealistic" relationship. Now finding my solace in a rural setting again after having left country living back then by compromising too much early on.. "Can't take the country out of the boy" as they say. Society pushes us in many ways ...ironically pushing us away from our own truths sometimes. We need to make sure we know our own truths at any age to avoid these compromises from happening / or at least know what we really need

Do you habe 9-5 Job and what kind of job?

I relate a lot to your experience moving to the Finnish countryside. It's been almost three years since I left the city I grew up in and moved 3 hours west to a small country town in the Darling Downs region of Queensland, Australia. People I knew in the city and even folk out here ask all the time what I'm planning to do about being single, how I plan to find a girlfriend etc. I simply reply that I'm not trying to do anything. I simply want to live my life in a way that aligns with my values and allows me to maximise freedom, fulfillment, and prosperity, building the life of my dreams. While I haven't given up on women and dating per se, it's really not a focus at all right now. Since moving out here I'm less lonely and depressed compared to in the city, have stepped out of my comfort zone with off-grid living, solo travel etc. and as a result feel more connected and alive compared to when I lived in the city, sitting in my room all the time addicted to corn, video games, never going out etc. It's a night and day difference. Ultimately we need to be honest with ourselves about what we want, what is the ideal life we want to live, then break it down into manageable goals and action steps, taking consistent action to get there. If it involves finding the ideal partner, getting married etc. then great. But it's not the be all end all. There is no single set path to follow

I wanna run like a tiger in these woods. Almost 30, saving up and prepping. Ideally Scandi navia would be my choice but Poland is not out of the question. Cheap cabin plus job is the name of the fcking game bic. Lets go boys!!!! Grab your fcking balls and stand the f up!!!!!

Im 25 and haven't had a girlfriend since 16

I'm 39 female, when my friends and I were late teens and early 20s we never even talked about how much a guy makes, it just wasn't considered as long as he had a job or was going to school or making plans to do either of those. We didn't have high standards for hight. A few of us were with guys an inch or 2 shorter. There just wasn't all this hype around that stuff and men weren't disposable means to an end. Now there are some super toxic influencers basically shaming woman into having a trophy man and creating competition to 1 up other woman using men as social status. So incredibly toxic

Erno I am masturbating 3 times per day.I lost hope. It seems all doors are closed.I ended up being mediocre .no one is helping me to overcome this addiction

Over time I've become less specific with my goals to the point where I sometimes feel I no longer have goals. I used to constantly overthink and focus on the details to the point I would become overwhelmed and paralysed with the constant over-analysis and give up on everything. Right now I'm in a season of spontaneity, but there will no doubt come a time where it's time to pivot and shift to a more structured approach. Overall, if you want something badly, it is important to be clear and specific with what you want, but not to the degree of becoming hyper-fixed on minor details and missing the big picture. And importantly like you said, we need to learn to focus on what we can control while letting go of what we cannot.

You vikings are made of stronger stuff! 💪

I didn't give up. I just moved on to other things. Better off without women. Staying in the game is horrible advice. Will not subscribe to this channel.

I ended 2024 with a divorce. She was cheating on me, so I filed. Sounds like a lot of dudes in here are complaining about never being married. Lemme tell ya something…you’re not missing out on much. My life is way more peaceful and my bank account is way more stacked now than it ever was when I was married. Marriage and long term relationships today just ain’t worth it anymore. People today have no sense of loyalty or commitment. Sure they still exist, but they are unicorns. I’d rather spend my time bettering myself.

I hear you loud and clear, women have a lesson to learn but you are very lucky that you are handsome...good luck my friend!

I gave up when I ended my engagement to the woman I'd asked to marry me 8 months earlier. That happened on Christmas Day 2017 when I was 51 years old. Haven't dated a single time since. Got better things to do with the rest of what time I have left.

Don t worry! Be happy without a woman! Life is beautiful!

She's a woman, not a child. Gotta love how men call themselves men and women girls. We still have the patriarchy sadly. I hate to break it to you, but even MARRIED men are all over Porn and OF, barely any men don't watch porn, so quit trying to blame women. If I were single, I still wouldn't watch porn as I don't support rape and sex trafficking and can't tell which are not involving that. I believe she has issues, but I'm not sure why she isn't getting help but knowing the UK's healthcare, there could be waiting lists of many years. Would be interesting to know if she's going for any Therapy. She knows this is really dangerous to do and not wise, trauma or not, and the men know this isn't ok but some people are messed up in this world. Feminists are men too btw, most people are feminists tho nowdays it's just beliefs not action and the later waves are bs. Yes, she gets a lot for doing sex, but men get a lot for kicking a football. BOTH are not good. Men also do OF. I totally agree about the immigrants seeing this stuff, it really doesn't help us. The fact she wants to do 1000 is terrifying

Thank you

The hackneyed topic "height" seems to me like just a lame excuse....there are lots of single tall guys out there struggling to find a woman while lots of short or average height men are happily married with kids. There's more in it than meets the eye....women are definitely not so superfluous as you might think.

Confidence is everything and to get Confidence you need success. Be good at what you do. Be financially stable. Be open. If someone reject you, remember that you rejected plenty so it is fair. The world is full of people and you need only to find one amongst those that likes you, so relax

Good idea. It is important to realise that viewing videos even when they are live about situations in another part of the world is nowhere same or nearly similar to real life experience of living inside that place. People can experiment and check that out and I am confident they will find thats true, for one logical reason it is different experincebof seeing someone on video and meeting someone face to face and another reason could be that videos so far are not able to create the environment, give thr real life experience of surroundings and weather for example. So,, maybe the problem of internet intruding into everyday life will pass off sooner than we expect.

I'm giving up watching people walking in the woods or down a track or on a beach and recording themselves talking to their phone.

come to the philippines and try your luck to get a feminine woman who will make you their king.

Maybe in your society

Men givin up cause modern women have unrealistic standards in dating . Birth rate is declining it's good for humanity to extinct .

I love your honesty! Great talk!

Not enough of y'all are giving up. And I'm tired of it. Please go tell your friends cuz they don't know.

The hypocrisy..---- Str8 women want all the benefits of independence, but they still want to ultimately be supported by men. They want to be protected by men, but are NOT able, and do not want to do 50% of the protecting. Lying hypocrites...

Technology has allowed men to see women for what they really are why would you want to take that away from us

I think many people are giving up. If I am single again at any point, no way I will waste my time with ghosting, love bombing, dating (read sleeping with) 10,000 people until you decide you are exclusive. I would just try to have an exciting social circle so innthe worst case scenario will have an interesting time before kicking the bucket. And I have more chances to meet someone decent in a social circle. If he is not serious about me me he will leave me alone despite the mutual attraction. He will not mess up the mutual friendships and social circles by leading me on.

Thank you

Try another guy it could work out.

Have you ever given it a real thought as to how exemplary men are these days? Most think cheating is completely on the table. Most think women should put up with an awful lot of bad behavior from men. Most men seem to think that women should hold down a full time job, keep a home clean, do the laundry and at a minimum, go to all the PTA meetings and extra curricular activities of their children. In short, women are to take the largest role in raising their children. Men often can be violent, alcoholic, drug addicted and under earners. There is so much wrong with so many men and they still seem to think they are more than entitled to a “ good woman.” Hmmm……. Men might want to do a little deeper soul searching rather than just saying, I am short, and poor and women are just universally awful people.

Go GAY men you will be much happier.

Sorry I don't agree it is not technology that is driving men away from women, it is the perverted law system that offers a women a career path to easy street through entrapment of men, so as to secure for themselves a slave that through the law will ensure they have custody of any children, get full entitlement to the family home and any other wealth the male has accumulated. And continue to bleed the male dry long after the relationship has ended. Reflect on this, te statistics tell us around 40 to 50% of marriages end in divorce. What statistics fail to show is in the addition 30 to 40% of failed marriages, which do not end in divorce, but lives full of suffering and anguish because they do not have alternatives. Women are the opposite sex, this is not a new realisation, but the way society dealt with it is certainly new. Men are demonised, and anything that goes wrong in a marriage is blamed on the male. Just suggesting the female might have been the antagonist in any marriage publically gets shouted down. That is not the sign of a fair and just society. But a sign of a society that has gone off the rails. To all men I would say have a long hard think about this do you want a life with the opposite gender in which you will never understand their thinking, be the payer in the eyes of the law, and spend a life of endless compromise, never knowing if one day you will come home to find she has put a few of your basic possession on the front lawn, changed the locks and made up some lies to get a restraining order against you. Because chances are your perfect soul mate is not the opposite, but someone that thinks the way you do, likes the things you like...and is your true equal...the sort of person that when your with them the sum of the parts is greater than one plus one... That person is very likely to be of the same gender as you...... another thing to keep in mind, life long relationships do not have to be sexual. So if your a male with a best friend you really get along with and have such great times you wish they never had to go home.... don't let the society that demonised men, set you up to be another male victim of the system.

Bro thank you for acknowledging what an uphill battle trying to socialize and date while dealing with long term or frequent illness can be. This is something that is never acknowledged probably cuz most people aren’t dealing with it.

I thought this trend is more prevalent in US/UK Used to think at least countries with more equality like Scandinavians had it better!

Oh noh... ditching women? Maybe gay men? little maintenance! lol

I have a 4.5 inch hard penis 😢 life sucks I gave up at 18

You young man are very attractive and there is no reason you can't find a decent woman ..Maybe you should go fish in a bigger pond.

Very good advice

If you're focused on chasing women, then you're doing it wrong.

True the internet has ruined women most of all across the board!

Think about what you can give instead of what you can get. Not all women appreciate expletives. They hear those right at first and they consider that as they are more focused on a wide range of attributes versus men who are more focused on the appearance such as height and fitness.

Understand the sentiment. However, men are getting smarter realizing it’s a zero sum game. It’s a rigged system. No fault divorce has destroyed marriage and the family unit. I’ve being feeling like this for how many years. Honestly, is it any wonder why men and boys have higher suicide rates! It’s a fallen world and full of fake, pretentious and superficial people. Jesus Christ is the only hope for this world! 🙏

Great inspirational video !!!

Read the comments. Guys are tired of trying to date with women they way they are today. Just not worth it

49 and still a virgin and don't care!