How I made friends in my 20s

[@yomokogirl2074]

I'm on the other side of this. I started off having many friends, always got along with everyone easily. Over the years I'd find myself feeling unhappy in big groups, and I was unable to keep up with providing everyone with the love and attention while simultaneously taking care of myself. These days I have no friends and I feel more like myself. I'll be anyone's friend for a day, sometimes a bit longer. I appear and disappear, come and go, and this is just the way it is. A tip I give to anyone is to just go outside and be in a moment. You'll see someone who isn't in a rush to get somewhere, and that just might be your friend of the day. You can ask any question. You don't need an outline of what a conversation should look like. As long as you don't want or expect anything from anyone, you'll be friends with everyone around. Anyway, it's sweet of you to make a video like this. You come across as caring and likeable. My well wishes go out to you, my friend.

[@indiesorcerer]

Thank you so much for this comment, providing a different perspective :)

[@PainReaverX2]

Unfortunately, I found in mid 20s, most people are passbyers. They stay for a bit and then the relationship fizzles out. But I have a small group of close friends. Some I have known for 20 plus years. And that’s actually pretty good especially nowadays. No one wants to seem to have the hard talks and weather the streams. Or compromise. I feel pretty lucky with my group of friends!

[@pablobenz]

I was a total nerd too.

[@indiesorcerer]

My team!