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@workedfortheciawhenisoldrock 2 күн бұрын
This is bs. 😂
@zackhamilton8444 6 күн бұрын
What a load of shit. Is there anything that blacks have control over with their lives?
@MadArtLang 7 күн бұрын
For people who are saying that sex is not taboo in a black community trust me if you grew up in a black church you know someone who has suffered from religious drama and the obsession with virginity. I know I am not alone in dealing with this. Also if you're sexually active people will call you fast and a hoe so if sex isn't taboo that wouldn't happen Words like she's ran through or she's for the streets wouldn't exist if sex wasn't taboo. It is taboo and it's denial to say it's not. And if folks want to insist that sex is not an issue for non-western black people it is. There are plenty of African countries where a woman can be kllled for not being a virgin. There are plenty of African countries where female genital mutilation is a cultural practice and the vagina is sewn up tight and the clitoris cut off at a young teenage age ariund 13 so that sex can be more pleasurable for their husband and so that women cannot pleasure themselves without the man. There are places where even though it's outlawed, it's done in these remote villages and the women will say no one will marry them if they don't do this. Sex is stigmatized for Caribbean black women and Afro Latina black women, religion plays a part and so does patriarchy. There are Muslim black girls that suffer from this conservative ideology that the woman's body belongs to the man and that virginity is her only value and that that is supposed to be kept until marriage. If it wasn't taboo then why are baby mamas so stigmatized? If it wasn't taboo why were people in the generation before us sent away when they got pregnant and shame and have families have to lie about where the baby came from? If it's not taboo why do older black women look down upon younger black women and drag their name through the mud who are sexually active?
@WeatherKatsStormyHorizons 8 күн бұрын
❤️🩹🐦🔥🫂
@WoodyDinosaur21 9 күн бұрын
No. Black women are the least sexualized group of women. That’s why men use them the most.
@TLW369 10 күн бұрын
Wait. How is sex taboo in the black community when many black folks have too many damn kids? The math isn’t math’ing! 😂🙃
@Cranberries87 11 күн бұрын
Religious indoctrination.
@JamesPain1203 11 күн бұрын
The lack of accountability it just sad. Bw sexualize themselves in todays time. Nobdoy is forcing yall to behave in that manner. Yes, during slavery yall were sexualized even Jim Crow, but the difference is yall respected yall selves and didn't sexualize yourself also. Today, we have bw sexualizing themselves and then complaining about being sexualized. Zero accountability.
@CecilyMusic 13 күн бұрын
💯💯💯
@marcusAurelias-y7c 13 күн бұрын
Sex has never been taboo in our communities in the West or on the continent. Wtf are yall talking about?
@tracyaskew1651 15 күн бұрын
I'm sorry. But none of this makes sense. When did sex become taboo in our community?
@marcusAurelias-y7c 13 күн бұрын
EXACTLY
@kodyb5869 16 күн бұрын
This is just so sad that as black people we are never allowed to just be people and be ourselves. We always have society trying to bully us into what it wants us to be and it’s so sad because all we want to do is live but we’re just hated cause of something that’s out of our control
@the-lil-x 5 күн бұрын
This is what your culture is for The problem is black folks always pining for the acceptance of the dominant culture instead of celebrating your own.... Why do you care what they think
@ipityplaystationpeasants2305 21 күн бұрын
Always am outside factor on why they whores today lmao. Incredible
@SinaAla 22 күн бұрын
Sex is taboo in the black community in America?! If anything it seems like black people here are more explicit about it than other ethnic groups.
@WardMB 22 күн бұрын
?? What!? I am sorry but sex should become a taboo because of the over sexualization of almost everything in the west. Why is there so much single motherhood if it was taboo and why is there so much nudity and sexualization in music industry and dance? I thought you were talking about a Christian country in Africa but was surprised to know you’re talking about America.
@Feliciations 22 күн бұрын
Sex isn't taboo I'm Africa. These two are very wrong.
@truecamillec350 20 күн бұрын
I study specifically what you’re talking about and have a few pointers. 1. The reason single motherhood is high in today’s society is because many men are unfortunately, not held to the same high standard that women are when it comes to raising their children. Women are the ones who physically carry the baby and deliver them, so walking away from raising them isn’t as easy for us as it is for them. This phenomenon shouldn’t be a reason why sex should be stigmatized. If anything, it could be seen as more reason why it shouldn’t be stigmatized so that more ppl can become aware of their many options for protection, how to use it and where to find it. I can’t tell you how many of my married friends who grew up in a highly religious and strict household that stigmatized sex, asked me where can they get condoms and birth control. 2. To answer your 2nd question about nudity and the over-sexualization in the music industry, that also derives from society’s lack of respect for women and their bodies. 100 years from today before the music videos and such, women (especially POC) were still being over-sexualized with the use of “the Jezebel”, “Black velvet”, “Harem girls”, “China dolls” and “Princess Pocahontas”. So it’s not about how “sex should be more stigmatized” (because less education and knowledge of it usually leads to more single motherhood, STDs, etc. and this has been proven statistically) (I worked in statistics as well, so I’ve seen it myself.). What you’re thinking about is more in the realm of how society throws a big middle finger to women regardless if we’re Christ-loving ppl loyal to men who will eventually leave us or “sluts” with no home training trying to find a way to pay for their next meal…
@WardMB 12 күн бұрын
the lady in the video is saying American/black community considers sex taboo. Taboo means prohibited, forbidden, socially or religiously. On a large social scale close to generalization, in that sense do people in the black community fear to listen to Cardi B or Megan the Stallion music, if a person twerks in a party, does another person run to cover them? Also, is sex uncommon outside of wedlock. The most used cuss word is fu#k, what does this word signify? is anyone afraid to say it in public. I agree with your points but not in the context of taboo.
@YogawithTianna 22 күн бұрын
Yasss, I love this!
@ulknatmelknatu 23 күн бұрын
Whatever came of BLM? Yeah, I didn't think so.
@Feliciations 24 күн бұрын
It really isn't in Africa, like at all.
@SinaAla 22 күн бұрын
Africa is not a monolith, views on sex differ by region, ethnicity, and religion.
@Feliciations 22 күн бұрын
@SinaAla but sex is not a prohibited topic, in fact it is openly talked about all over the continent. The premise of the conversation I'd wrong.
@SinaAla 22 күн бұрын
@@Feliciations ‘Openly talked about’? As with views, depends on the culture and religion. I would definitely say in some parts of Africa (particularly more conservative Muslim and some deeply conservative Christian areas) sex talk can be more euphemistic and private rather than open. I find modern black America is more open about it than some parts of Africa, but not always the case.
@Feliciations 22 күн бұрын
@@SinaAla are you African? I am guessing not. Please don't impose Western cultural norms on the continent.
@truecamillec350 20 күн бұрын
When they say, “black” they mean specifically “African Americans”. Many ppl African Americans say “Black” to refer to themselves because it’s more simple than saying African American. But they’re not referring to African ppl (which is waaay too large and general to make a conclusion about anyways since African ppl aren’t a monolith)
@jaynebarry5658 26 күн бұрын
Government and religion should step the heck out of our bedrooms.
@paulagrant1073 Күн бұрын
Government yes Religion is another thing if you believe in the God of the bible. We are to warn all about sin. Go and sin no more.
@AyishaZakiaBeautifulLYF 29 күн бұрын
The beauty is knowing this. Usually people who hurt have a story, and I try my best to harness in on the story before retaliating 💗
@AyishaZakiaBeautifulLYF 29 күн бұрын
Yes, there are resources. I love this conversation 💗
@user-dt4eg2ev5p Ай бұрын
You said so much in such a small amount of time. I think conversations like this would aid relationships in the black community better. BTW where did you get that wallpaper??
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@vaughnpowell9331 Ай бұрын
Has the influence from Hip-hop and Rap, especially from those like Lil Kim, Nicki Minaj, and Meg (and even those before them), not made a change in the way Black American women view sex and intimacy?
@DAD2286 22 күн бұрын
Yes, I think it’s more so given us permission and encouraged us to break free of the “chains” or control that black women have felt. But when we become more free, we get torn down. So it’s damned if we do damned if we don’t.
@vaughnpowell9331 22 күн бұрын
@@DAD2286 What change would you like to see, so that you don't feel this "damned if you do, damned if you don't"?
@hottafyah6278 Ай бұрын
Also sex in ancient African culture that does not lead to procreation of children is seen as sinful/ taboo. great conversation, we need more of theses. Thank you Queens.
@Feliciations 22 күн бұрын
No. Very wrong.
@moorthanreal5627 Ай бұрын
Keeping it real, simple and sweet 🙏🏾💞
@nellyd9280 Ай бұрын
Hmmm. Food for thought
@selinab.8611 Ай бұрын
Lovely ❤
@Exodus26.13Pi Ай бұрын
Been thinking the same thing for America. It's REAL community. 🎉
@blazegroupapp Ай бұрын
It was so great being on the show, Dr. Kristian! It felt like HOME. 🌿
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My hair care line is KPAPSHI HAIR NATURALS and hoping to be on the platform. Y’all are soo nice and encouraging n I love your story. ❤❤❤❤love froM 🇳🇬
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"Promosm"
@tesaparis3806 2 жыл бұрын
I love your story. I am definitely taking part in this. I survived a serious battle with cancer a bad marriage and a toxic family. I chose to love and be better. Never looking back. I can only go up from here. It feels good to have a purpose. I was a pleasure seeing u today on Ms Koya Webb live. 💜 I am going to look at your ambassador program also
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Thank you so much! We love your intentional choice to choose love despite the challenges of life.
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@RedLipDiary 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful, Very informative.
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Love her and you all! 🤎
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@babylimonlips01 4 жыл бұрын
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