So frustrating. Ya Allah, guide the ummah . Ameen

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Black people came from Adam 's left shoulder and are destined for hell and I don't understand why blacks are Muslims 😐

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I know calling for death is forbidden, but some time it feels like death is easier than life , may Allah swt strengthen the iman and make us steadfast on islam ameen

The way I dealt with it was by completely disconnecting emotionally from my mother. Her words don’t hurt me because my heart is on ice. I also don’t engage with her unnecessarily. I also stopped sharing things with her. Basically, since I’m not going to accept your abuse, I’m also not going to accept your love. That way I’m not using you, and you’re not hurting me. Win-win. You have to take control of your own life in order to be able to separate from your parents, which is actually a good thing. I don’t mean like moving out, I mean like maturing up and then getting married. Emotional separation.

I am women😔 where can I go may Allah show me a good and safety path

The host.....could be better

In loud prayers behind imam what we have to pray zuhr and isha farz namaz especially in 3 rd and 4th rakat while imam reciting 1 st and 2 nd rakat recite al fatiha and a another surah as well and after 3rd and 4th rakat imam is silent what we have to recite on that time is it okay to recite fatiha or add another surah as well please explain it

ALLAHUMMA BARIK

‏صلى الله عليه وسلم

Why am I getting punished when I got asked forgiveness

Your normal day is someones dream, so be thankful to ALLAH look back and thank ALLAH and look forward trust ALLAH ❤️🤲🏼

So I guess I need to forget about being a cosmetic nurse all together. Allahs swt knows best.

I thought freeing yourself from the haram is mandatory. When you return from hajj you Still will be involved in the sin after being forgiven. ESPECIALLY if you return from hajj and dont try with all your heart to get out of riba. Allah knows best

If that’s the case then when she is emotionally stressed she doesn’t have to have intercourse with her husband, when that’s not true she still had to unless sick

What if whenever you try to talk to her and she makes a big issue with it and plots it against you always!! She feels she is entitled to talk rubbish and i just have to keep silence!!

If there was an option for dialog most people wouldt take it. Sometimes there is nothing to talk with certain people. Best thing you can do is get as far away from them as possible

Whenever we interact, my mother often reacts with criticism, hurtful comments, and belittling behavior. She frequently makes negative remarks about my appearance, saying I'm 'ugly' and 'black' like a 'maid'. Her words cut deep, making me feel worthless, unloved, and like I'm not good enough. She's also constantly telling me that I'm not intelligent or capable enough. Her words and actions are emotionally distressing and have taken a toll on my self-esteem. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells around her, never knowing when she'll lash out with another hurtful comment. I wish she could understand the pain she's causing me and treat me with love, respect, and kindness.

Not going to lie, they would have pissed me off by acting like they don’t know what you’re talking about.

is the adhan from these apps substitute for the adhan made in person? for example, in our nearest community we are the only muslim household in our neighborhood and the masjid is a long distance where we do not hear the athan at all. so we rely on these apps instead - we let the app do the adhan and then proceed to perform salah

One of my friends shared a story with me which gives us a glimpse of how parents can be extremely hurtful even when they are outwardly doing nice things for their children. She said her mom let her borrow some money to go to umrah and she had been paying her back and only had two payments left to complete what she owes prior to departing. When it was time to go to the trip orientation, the mom insisted on showing up to the orientation and there she found out by a coincidence that two other sisters were going with their mothers. She got upset and told her daughter "you are not a righteous child" just because she didn't find a way to take her on the trip. My friend reminded her that she tried to ask the organizers and they responded it's only for youth. She insisted that the daughter could have spoken to the leader and worked it out like the other two girls. She said to my friend you should have insisted like those two sisters and then she called my friend stingy right there in the middle of the orientation. It wasn't loud enough for everyone to hear but it was very harsh. Naturally my friend was hurt. She bottled it all up, sat down, and started scrolling on her phone. The mom noticed my friend got upset and said "good I want you to be sad". This is not normal behavior. It's spiritual abuse, guilt tripping and manipulation and it's really sad that these are the feelings and experiences she had tied to parents and the holy land. No wonder so many youth are feeling detached from their religion or feeling like Allah SWT hates them.

majority of scholars say its not the same thing? You mean scholars of ahlul bidah like you?

Does this ruling apply to men with braids as well?

Assalamu Alaikum can she wear full face of make up but make it look naturel not party make up

Where's the unity .. where's the love...how do you learn..😮...😐

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I have a son who has global delay development. Autism n non verbal

Is masjid aisha a miqaat

Brother sharing images of the footwear would have been a great help

This always come to my mind - If one day Allah asks me , " what is the one thing you want to change in this life?" My answer would be - I wish to have a righteous mother without: a cursing tongue, bad- mouthing, mentally abusing, belittling, envious heaŕt, and who does not ruin my relationship with others whom she sees close to me.

You can't solve this with a parent who feels she is a 'maksum'.

If you think a Sheikh will side with the victim over your parents is laughable. I’m sorry it’s a nice video but he’s not at least being bold to the parents. Tells me everything

I've learned that birthdays were celebrated by the pagans so it's their tradition and they would make cakes for the moon god and light candles on. Do basically having cake and lighting candles would be wrong, am I right in saying this?

Probably the best answer i have seen. Because you did your research sir. Thank you❤

Brother you just did Siḥr. Because you are quoting mecca verses. And you know the Quran is true till the end of time. So every verse in the Quran is to be followed till the end of time. You can whitewash as much as you want . Do you know it is written in the Quran that this text is given in your language so that everyone can understand? Still you need hundreds of books to explain what God has revealed. Did any human after mohamad get any revaluation from Alha ? Then why are you reading those books ?

All I can do is to be patient, inshallah in future this cycle of abuse would be broken by me. May Allah grant me the willpower.

Can i stay away from my mother till i get married just to remain sane

Im confused here as im i the one who is overly sensitive or my mother is actually abusive

Brother, this video really doesn't help anyone who's faced real parental abuse, whose parents wont ever have a conversation with her or him and no relative, near or otherwise is going to do anything about it. How can you honor such parents? Shouldn't the order of the day be saving yourself from further abuse?

Beautiful explanation

Keep changing the fact written in your Quran

Allah is the best deceiver. Suggest you to debate with Christian Prince.

Mine father is suffering from Insomnia and Bad Dreams. All Muslim Ummah is requested to pray that he may get rid of dangerous dreams. Ameen

Thank you may allah bless you shikh.

bro again with sheiks trying to avoid answering the questions directly. im tired of this they cant adress the problem

I have a toxic grandparents 😢maybe i'll go hell when I die 😢

35 years later, the effects of this still carry on and now trying to actively and cautiously not do the same with our own children. It’s not easy holding this resentment and still being present with our parents.

Most people are not really gonna help/take care unless they’re getting paid or it’s like their own parents or something. I am blind in Southern California and it’s almost impossible to get almost anyone in the community to do anything to help. Like if I wanted a ride somewhere, they’re only gonna do it if they’re getting paid otherwise they will tell me to use the government services like paratransit or something like this because they don’t really care if I have to go through something like that or be in that type of environment They’re only helping to either get paid or summon senses to win brownie points by showing off in front of certain people that they are trying to impress.

Shek: How can i treat if my mother abuse me for greater than 10 year?