What if his wife is late?

She definitely can’t coparent and be mature. And she definitely doesn’t speak but I don’t speak either because that nice shit been out the window 😂

JUST RUN DONT DO IT AVOID IT AT ALL COSTS RUNNNNN

Dont speak at all, even worse. How are we supposed to co parent, when she acts like im invisible for 8 months. But she got plenty of reasons. New baby daddy #3 (of hers, i have no children) and that man didnt hang the moon for her. Smh....and im 10 years older. Im done with this.

Mad at me because he left u why y'all be mad at these other woman about y'all baby daddy leaving y'all🫵🏾🤔🤔🤔🤔

Dating a man with kids is one thing...dating a man with MULTIPLE kids by MULTIPLE women is a disaster waiting to happen. Chances are one, some or ALL of the baby mommas will bring some sort of drama to the relationship, and he has to be man enough to put his foot down and set boundaries. If he doesn't and he allows it/makes excuses for any bad behavior...keep it movin'...RUN 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️...head for the hills. Dating a man with grown kids who question and control everything the parents do...especially what they're doing with you...and the parent(s) are constantly allowing this...RUN 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️...that's proof positive that the parents didn't set boundaries with them prior to and after you came into the picture.

Have. Thou Ht go too. A barber shop

Im going through this in my marriage. His baby mama is NOT over him and he has made it soooo clear that he doesnt want her and we BOTH question the child. She hates me honestly, because she thought he was gonna go to another hispanic chic and came back to the motherland. And she makes it so obvious. Too obvious. She even showed up to my house.

This is funny 😂 why yal dating Baby Daddies. Pls have higher standards for yourself

Got a new man and moved him in to get him upset. We thought she would go on about her business with a happy relationship, and when she saw that didn’t work and nobody cared right back at it Girl! We planning our wedding Jesus

I’ve always had in my mind that I didn’t want to date a man with kids, but was opened to dating one. Got with my current boyfriend that has kids and I didn’t put into perspective of what I had to really consider. Of course I knew about the drama which we talked about . I was really open to dating him because he was very open about having kids and the relationship with the mothers from the first conversation. Everything moved very fast and now I’m pregnant and feel like I’m being put last to everybody. After the incident that just happened this weekend, he pretty much confirmed how I been feeling. It’s like how do you leave when you accepted it from the beginning.

how to take his phone word with he is done i want proof lol

No joke the baby daddy crap pisses me off, i been seeing this girl and today we went and seen a movie she got up and left me in the theater for like 5 mins to talk to her baby daddy on the phone and kept checking her phone its like who tf are you with me or him? And they make an excuse oh i gotta keep them around for the kids sake at the same time while treating her kids dad just like me she wants to keep playing she is gonna find out what its like to lose someone great.

A relationship(women) comes first not their kids from previous relationship. if he puts his kids before the relationship then the relationship will not worth it.

no drama 😂

My preference is no single dads. No drama with baby mama/mama's, and I'd rather be my husband's top priority. That said, no single dads for me.

Praying for boldness to end my relationship with a man with kids ASAP! I’ve suffered silently for too long. Too many issues and the mother… 🤦🏽‍♀️

I'm in a relationship with a guy who has 5 kids, i only have 1. That's d worst mistake I've ever made. I'm always #6. He still tells me that he wants to have a baby with me.

That last part. Also, don’t feel like putting a whole long post out but I’ve loved, supported and protected my boyfriend‘s daughter for almost a year now his daughters mother had her first child taken away by CPS and was about to get her daughter that I know taken away as well by grandparents That thought that this was their first grandchild because the babies mother lied to her boyfriend and her boyfriend‘s family saying that this was his child and my boyfriend had to tell these people that he was in fat father and then he was so sorry and she never apologize for that shit at all just trying to paint Meanwhile I’m a child this woman not my choice not my facility life is what it is. I have protected their daughter. I am spent every waking moment when she’s with her father and he’s not there with her making her laugh making her happy feeding her doing everything I would love to do for my own, and I know she’s not my own and her Happily gotten her things that I would like to get any child I’ve gotten a child last night I was putting a bed on a bed that I found for her. Her father paid for but was really high quality and I wanted that for his daughter and I was hoping her mother would’ve wanted that for her too. I’ve never thought nor acted, or even had it comment my mind that this beautiful baby girl does not have a mother I am not her mother as much as I wish that I could have my daughter as her. She has a mother carried her for nine months, and I can never ever take that place nor I want that place I told her how much I love her for bringing so she got upset with me. First time we met in person heard some nonsense from the baby’s father about me because he was upset with me big red flag but it was never anything that was a true be that she hasn’t done in her own life through her own children. She’s done way worse came into the apartment that I was cleaning put a bed on her baby bed. I hung all the clothes that I got for her I clean the entire apartment not just for his daughter not just for him for her too because I’m gonna say baby daddy he partakes other things that are things that could get their child taken away from them. I don’t mess with police I don’t snitch and do that stuff. This mother punched me in the face that she doesn’t think I should be around. I’m heartbroken. I’m mad at myself getting so attached, I don’t know there is this age of my life I will be able to have a child. I’ve been pregnant twice and had a complications after punching me. This woman continue to tell me that I wasn’t worth having a child. I shouldn’t have children and she’s happy that I don’t have children. I don’t deserve them. I’m saying a lot without my heart it’s so broken right now. End of the day, it’s his my boyfriend, her baby’s daddy, it’s his role and responsibility to handle things maturely when it comes to his child when it comes to his girlfriend, and when it comes to the mother of his child and he created all this. And now I’m alone, feeling like I lost love which was his daughter it’s my fault for getting so attached. And also knowing that things will never work and the only reason I stayed with him last several months because of her daughter Baby created with her mother and Still grateful they brought this wonderful human being as well. I am grateful that I got to spend, some of my life learning and growing happy spending time with their baby. I just can’t do this anymore. I would’ve laid my life down on the line for their daughter, but at the end of the day I am not her birthmother. I am not her mother and I know that there’s nothing I can do but respect wishes of the people that brought her here.

#1 and #6 is what I struggling hard with real real bad! I live out of state but my bm makes it so hard for me to see my child. I my daughter every other month but even times I fly to see my daughter outside of what courts ordered but she still doesn’t let me see my child. When its my visitation time she always wants to drop off and pick up my daughter and go inside the hotel or airbnb and be super thristy looking around and try to be by me like she wants to be in my space and around me in general but still have a pissy mad attitude face always and every single time! Its been almost 5yrs now and she is bitter. She even has a boyfriend now and still treats me like I’m a sperm donor or I’m not nobody. I wish everything could stop and I can have a normal life with my daughter

Ima Jamaica America man and your on point on everything 🫡😀

Yep, we still be giving our bm hope, on the low because we aren’t sure that your a better replacement yet.

As a woman with kids I prefer to date a man with none 😂. I’m not the bitter BM. I was married when I conceived mine and am happy if he found someone new. Ladies, the part about the woman sleeping with him, I swear many women I know who are BM have proof THE MAN wants/ask for sex not them. You do have the bitter ones but many of us aren’t.

All of these the signs! She aint want shit to do with him until he got with me. Wassup with that?!?! Like chill

It aint easy tryin to find someone without kids

Dating a single parent means their kids always come first and that’s how it should be. If you’re dating someone who doesn’t put their kids first then that ain’t a good look. This is why I say single parents need to date each other because only a parent truly understands the priorities.

This all sounds like a headache

Men only like the activity to make kids but not the responsibility it produced

This black guy i just met in muslim dating app turns out having 3 kids, all are babies from 2 to 5 years old lmao, fuck me i thought i won a hot practicing muslim man lol

Dating a baby daddy is a form of self harm. Unpopular opinion.

Actually I prefer his baby mom ex to be psycho rather than if shes a sweetheart that his family still loves 😅 so yep rather the drama than that

I Made it to the end…no drama

I'm single and have been single since 2019. This just came in my feed and this really isn't for my situation. Besides that, I don't deal with baby daddies anyway. If you're single you should never want a baby daddy! Women deserve better than a baby daddy situation. Blessings to whoever reads this and Happy New Year!✨️

If you date a man with kids. Date other men as well. When you find a man with no kids, dump him, and transition into your new relationship. The only time I dated men with kids, they were place holders until I could find something better. Let them take on dates during their child free days. Unless you’re married, you’re technically single.

I broke it off with a guy recently who has 2 kids but I haven’t met them yet. Everything was going well but the more we dated, the more I realize I don’t actually care to meet his cares, like ever. I also don’t think his baby mama was over him. So I called it off. I prefer a guy with no kids honestly. But sugar daddies are an exception. Haha

Fellas, dont deal with baby mommas. They should have married the man they gave the womb to

Reasons not to date them: 1. Their kids come first (which is how its supposed to be honestly) 2. Their baby mom is a permanent part of his life. And she could bring drama 3. Their kids might hate you for no good reason 4. Their financial commitment to their kids can impact your finances 5. If baby mama wanted him back, there's always a chance she could get him back 6. You will be expected to handle parenting responsibilities (like feeding kids, cleaning up after kids, buying kids thing) but you won't get the respect/authority that a parent gets. 7. He will turn you into a nanny bangmaid. 8. The man already failed at creating and leading a family. Dont expect him to create a healthy family with you when he already created a broken home. 9. If you're child free DO NOT date a man with kids. Even if he's just a weekend visitation dad. If something happens to baby mama, he will change from fun time dad to full time dad, and you will be expected to fill a parental role. 10. If he's not healed from their break up he could get jealous and bitter if baby mama is dating or gets re married.

Only reason why its hard for us to co parent is because he doesnt ask if my son needs anything he barely calls and all the money that he spends go to her. The girlfriend even called cps because she felt like i was abusive.

It’s hard. I expect to be a priority. I

Selfish advice

Thank you

I feel like I met my partners child too early and their is no boundaries within their dynamic. I don't have kids myself but it's a lot of red flags that I see and I really don't want to deal with it. I'm learning that I’m selfish and I'm okay with that because I deserve to be someone’s number 1 🤷🏽‍♀️

These men leave messes and don’t clean them up. We woman have to have self love and know when to move on. Don’t stay in the toxicity. The baby mom is mad because she is hurt, and most likely in depression. Time will tell of your man is full of, you know what and did her dirty. Leave him and let him get his Karma.

*For me it’s a „no“! It’s not about the ex or the kids! He is just constantly BROKE! And I don’t rock with that! Ex and kids take distance, I don’t care! But he can’t even provide or plan cute dates! No bueno!*

Am dating a guy with a child buh we are in a distance relationship when he comes to me,he keeps on talking with the baby moma n i hate that buh didn't no how to tell him...but he hasn't shown me to his family members tho...so oneday he jxt call me and told me his mother said i should leave the house the guy has rented😢and i ask him y,buh he didn't say anything to me.i think the his mother likes the baby moma than me.and theguy keeps on talking to the babymoma n he knows i hate that i don't noe what to do if i should break up with him.😢😢😢am hurting ryt now pls need ur help.he also tells me bcos of the child they had that is y he talks to the babymoma but he doesn't love her..pls any advice 4 me?pls...

These men and their modern day harems. Divorced (or separated)is just a magic word, especially if they have kids. THEY HAVE A FAMILY. …you’re just the volunteer fun.

He don’t pay her any attention, and they haven’t been together for five years! She stalks me and copies me. She still obsessed with him and me. girl we’re married!! Move on.

I’m glad I came across this page. Idk why his baby mama like to tell my man she loves him randomly. Or I love him so much . Am I tripping?

The first 3 are spot on about my bm mind you she has a little boo thang and been sleeping with him yet she always wanna be in my business when the baby is with me like foh 😂😂😂😂

A lot of people trying to move in with their parents or family now