That is so good. Well done. Trust you have a great life. I didn't come out until I was 70. It was illegal to be gay here before that and I could have been jailed for up to 21 years for being gay. Many were. Married to my accepting wife for 51 years before she passed. Both my adult kids are very accepting which is great. That fact that I am gay was medically proven. It is so much easier now.
@timpekarek91594 ай бұрын
I'm 65 and I almost never have these conversations any more, but obviously we all find new people coming into our lives all the time, so it feels like it never ends. I remember going through a lot of the extreme emotions that you had. 💜
@113nightbird7 ай бұрын
Hi! Great video! I recently came out as lesbian. I am 50 years old. I noticed that I had a rapid heartbeat when I talked to women and I think I was flirting with them without realizing it. I am getting better at accepting myself even though I was shocked and scared at first.
@UnconditionalMotivationJB6 ай бұрын
Congrats, it's a journey eh?! Starting it feels like the hardest part, but it all snowballs into a life more full of alingment from there!
@garywesthoven17458 ай бұрын
Damn, bud, your genuineness is so endearing. In every way, you are beautiful. There, I’ve said it.
@garywesthoven17458 ай бұрын
I was the same way. I remember being aware of older guys,f in a physical way, way back in the first grade, like even dreaming about an eight grader being naked. I didn’t even know the kid, but I was physically attracted. When adults talked about ‘body’ I thought ‘penis and testicles’.
@keithmartis-nx5gu8 ай бұрын
Thank you for being u and may I add your a very handsome man. ❤️ thanks again😊
@UnconditionalMotivationJB8 ай бұрын
Thank you too!
@keithmartis-nx5gu8 ай бұрын
Your welcome. We need more people like you. ( unconditional motivation. ). Peace. & love always❤️💋 plus you are a handsome dude but don't let that go to your head🤪
@garywesthoven17458 ай бұрын
Wow, dude, you are powerful. Straight forward and genuine. Thank you.
@gijoelover8 ай бұрын
This is before LGBT went crazy. 9 years ago...wow
@veraluxmundi20328 ай бұрын
You've just been on the Grand Tour 😂
@l7weenie2738 ай бұрын
So handsome. 🥵
@scottkane56218 ай бұрын
I love that song! Thankyou for the uplifting message!
@DaleRussell28 ай бұрын
Hang in there. You’ll eventually meet Mr. Right.
@MrStevensgr8 ай бұрын
Jesus call everyone to repent and turn to Him for Salvation and Eternal Life!! We've all sinned and have fallen short of the glory of God!! I know where you're coming from!!
@kouroushsamsam32368 ай бұрын
UR SUCH A BOTTOM
@kouroushsamsam32368 ай бұрын
BUT IN ALL HONESTY ARE U NOT A VICTIM OF PORN AND JERKING OFF
@kouroushsamsam32368 ай бұрын
U AINT GAY UR PRACTICING GAYNESS STUPID
@kouroushsamsam32368 ай бұрын
UT A DISGRACE TO ALL COLORS
@kouroushsamsam32368 ай бұрын
SO WHAT IS UR TRUE COLOR I HOPR UR NOT A BOTTOM
@RY-fe3rt8 ай бұрын
Yeah, Mitch definitely had the more desirable reaction. This story reminded me of an ex friend who, after finding out I'm gay, told me he never wanted to discuss it with me and I should rather feel free to discuss it with our other friends. Years later, he would sneakily try and orchestrate me living with a girl he'd fallen out with behind my back and both friendships totally imploded... So, I guess you didn't have it too bad. 😁
@RY-fe3rt8 ай бұрын
Great story! PS: Hot Damme! Mussels in Brussels? Jean-Claude would definitely approve! 😁 Subscribed!
@UnconditionalMotivationJB8 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@kanenbreen6778 ай бұрын
Hi Johnny, I’ve just come across your channel, watched the vids and thoroughly commend your spirit, courage and honesty. I hope that your world continues to expand in kindness, compassion and clarity- as someone whose “coming out” was in a previous century(!), I wish that examples such as yours had existed back in the day to bolster my anxious spirits, but I watch the new generations and their language, ownership and decency with great pride. Be blessed and continue to strive for those remarkable truths which unite all humanity x
@mwmurdock8 ай бұрын
You’re growing, dude. Proud of you! Very handsome with the facial hair 😊
@mwmurdock8 ай бұрын
You have a great soul, dude! Live your truth! I know how hard it is to open up to family and friends. It was for me. Love the song you chose!
@ted10918 ай бұрын
Great video thanks
@UnconditionalMotivationJB8 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it 🫶
@genebathe96868 ай бұрын
Out N Proud of you. I am 71 and have been out for over 50 yrs. It is totally freeing. Luvya.
@RobertShaw-fl3os8 ай бұрын
i.m 73 yr old gay guy. i want a boyfriend so bad . I, M loely n tired of not aving any love n fun in my life .
Aye, what mesmeric magic your essence creates! Danke!
@UnconditionalMotivationJB8 ай бұрын
Thanks, glad you enjoyed the vlog 🫶
@hansherrmannshausen96698 ай бұрын
so present, as if he would talk to me directly. fine guy
@hansherrmannshausen96698 ай бұрын
fine guy
@hansherrmannshausen96698 ай бұрын
fine guy
@larryjones-emery8078 ай бұрын
I have never had a group of close 7:48 friends nor the opportunity to travel. The years of my life between 12 & 63 were hell..Much anxiety, fear ,deception. I was 63 before I encountered God during a. Sermon based on I Kings 18 in the Holy Bible--the subject was about building altars on we which we would be the living sacrifices. The stones that we were to use to construct our altars were our problematic areas of life.😊 Whoa! I had many! As I built my Altar, confessing sins, lies, and ot 7:48 her short comings, I was SET FREE of them!!! I was alone, in prayer. Of course, I have had to add further stones. I now. 79. I have been able to be celibate for 16 years. I am a lover of the Bible and I constantly read and study it. I am not perfect yet , but I trust Jesus! My time is coming! Hallelujah!!! Build your altars!!!!❤😅 (By the way, I was born and raised on the Southside of Chicago. )
@timkerslake29938 ай бұрын
Lovely man, lovely story. Wise words.
@UnconditionalMotivationJB8 ай бұрын
Thanks for listening, glad you liked it.
@lisagehrling38218 ай бұрын
In this day and age everyone should be proud of who you are! LIVE LOVE AND LAUGH!
@kelownadug8 ай бұрын
Moms ALWAYS know! Great work!
@matthewtuttle12728 ай бұрын
You must have a lot of money to be able to go to all of those places in Europe. I never came out.
@Will-bm5cw8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@incumbentvinyl92918 ай бұрын
Boooo...
@philparisi91759 ай бұрын
listen to Tuck and Patti's version....good song choice.
@philparisi91759 ай бұрын
let me guess...he wasn't surprised? well see.....i am a fucking genius.
@UnconditionalMotivationJB8 ай бұрын
😂
@travis68939 ай бұрын
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@virag569 ай бұрын
You are so handsome. Best of luck.
@anthonyalvarez47889 ай бұрын
Dam your awesome and cute bro.
@UnconditionalMotivationJB8 ай бұрын
Thanks 😅
@carlosalenduran4630 Жыл бұрын
Parents will always understand
@carlosalenduran4630 Жыл бұрын
Whatever you are your still beautiful.
@georgehicks40352 жыл бұрын
I seriously didn't hear a word of your story because you're so incredibly handsome
@peterchan50972 жыл бұрын
you possess the true love of Christ. You are inspirational, relatable human being.
@marcobecerra67752 жыл бұрын
Hey, congratulations I'm never say nothing about my sex orientation I think my family and friends for sure have idea about me. All the time is respect
@virag562 жыл бұрын
thank you for this. what you say is so true!!!
@jackdeweese19712 жыл бұрын
Great video and your emotions come through strong! I came out 27 years ago - a different time but emotions were the same. You seem like a very sweet man and I hope you have found someone very special to share your life!