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@confidentlocal8600 4 ай бұрын

Fourth.

@Mik0Um1 7 ай бұрын

Idk if i have scd but my personality is way too trusting, doesn't understand sarcasm(sometimes) having trouble in making friends at places except for school and gets distracted too easily

@adrienne3334 Жыл бұрын

I don't have any problems communicating with other people at any level..but have in the past been vocalised as a snob!? Why? Could it be I was brought up in a differing dialect in an area close to a city, by intelligent parents whom didn't mind whom we became friends with as long as we knew they could be relied upon to be friends. Moved to another area 40 odd years ago and discovered after all this time of having raised and schooled children in this community and worked and payed taxes in it and developed friendships and relationships without any offence whatsoever, apart from recently...whereas I have been referred to as an 'Emmet' that should go back home...presuming to place of original birth, as I don't fit in here...why? Well I keep myself to myself and don't do drugs or have wild noisy parties so no I don't fit in then! So just what is an 'Emmet' it's an 'Ant' and we crawl everywhere, block beaches, shops and even places of work! Why? Because we are industrious people and so are 'Ants' so if a name wishes to be used to upset us, make sure it is at least one that is understood and makes an intellectual statement of whom people from these parts are, and what they are not! It's best left alone. And locals brandish it to the folks they least like, for not doing the things they do, which are often illegal and unlawful.. Emmet s the same difference as nigga is to a black man...and name calling of this proportion stopped long ago...Still one has to be clever enough to apprehend a user of this style of verbal as the locals will state they didn't associate its usage with being offensive! Lol a misdemeanour if ever I heard of one!

@adrienne3334 Жыл бұрын

I don't have any problems communicating with other people at any level..but have in the past been vocalised as a snob!? Why? Could it be I was brought up in a differing dialect in an area close to a city, by intelligent parents whom didn't mind whom we became friends with as long as we knew they could be relied upon to be friends. Moved to another area 40 odd years ago and discovered after all this time of having raised and schooled children in this community and worked and payed taxes in it and developed friendships and relationships without any offence whatsoever, apart from recently...whereas I have been referred to as an 'Emmet' that should go back home...presuming to place of original birth, as I don't fit in here...why? Well I keep myself to myself and don't do drugs or have wild noisy parties so no I don't fit in then! So just what is an 'Emmet' it's an 'Ant' and we crawl everywhere, block beaches, shops and even places of work! Why? Because we are industrious people and so are 'Ants' so if a name wishes to be used to upset us, make sure it is at least one that is understood and makes an intellectual statement of whom people from these parts are, and what they are not! It's best left alone. And locals brandish it to the folks they least like, for not doing the things they do, which are often illegal and unlawful.. Emmet s the same difference as nigga is to a black man...and name calling of this proportion stopped long ago...Still one has to be clever enough to apprehend a user of this style of verbal as the locals will state they didn't associate its usage with being offensive! Lol a misdemeanour if ever I heard of one!

@adrienne3334 Жыл бұрын

I don't have any problems communicating with other people at any level..but have in the past been vocalised as a snob!? Why? Could it be I was brought up in a differing dialect in an area close to a city, by intelligent parents whom didn't mind whom we became friends with as long as we knew they could be relied upon to be friends. Moved to another area 40 odd years ago and discovered after all this time of having raised and schooled children in this community and worked and payed taxes in it and developed friendships and relationships without any offence whatsoever, apart from recently...whereas I have been referred to as an 'Emmet' that should go back home...presuming to place of original birth, as I don't fit in here...why? Well I keep myself to myself and don't do drugs or have wild noisy parties so no I don't fit in then! So just what is an 'Emmet' it's an 'Ant' and we crawl everywhere, block beaches, shops and even places of work! Why? Because we are industrious people and so are 'Ants' so if a name wishes to be used to upset us, make sure it is at least one that is understood and makes an intellectual statement of whom people from these parts are, and what they are not! It's best left alone. And locals brandish it to the folks they least like, for not doing the things they do, which are often illegal and unlawful.. Emmet s the same difference as nigga is to a black man...and name calling of this proportion stopped long ago...Still one has to be clever enough to apprehend a user of this style of verbal as the locals will state they didn't associate its usage with being offensive! Lol a misdemeanour if ever I heard of one!

@yeahokaycoolcool Жыл бұрын

Third? You get one a year apparently

@bogchamp5627 Жыл бұрын

Is this not just autism

@Mandy-rx7rq Жыл бұрын

My 4 year old daughter has just been diagnosed with SCD. This video has helped me understand it more

@buildingblockstherapycentr4947 Жыл бұрын

Hi! We're really glad you found it helpful :) Thanks for taking the time to comment.

@somber087 Жыл бұрын

I have this and it makes me hopeless because theres no cure and it can only relapse once Ive gotten better

@birdlover6842 Жыл бұрын

I have moderate intellectual disability with social pragmatic communication disorder and feel socially blind. Everyone hates me and I don't know what I do. I am friendly and maybe have boundary issues. Told I look goofy or am goofy forgot which. I am elderly with cognitive issues and memory issues so worse now than ever. During my era maybe there was no help available.

@fallenflame1940 2 жыл бұрын

I might have this but its a bit different for me, yes i talk normally to family members but at school and other places i just dont know what to say, i can speak but i cant speak to people like i would speak to my family members. The only words i say are "yes, no, maybe, sure". Do i have this or not?

@81194.z Жыл бұрын

no

@lydiacheballah2490 2 жыл бұрын

Im an adulte i strugle that which makes me hates myself and i feel so worthless ans stupid and weird...

@arcitv9367 2 жыл бұрын

My son has this condition too and I'm very worried about this because he doesn't want to play to other children because he can't talk to them. Can anyone tell us about this SM and where to seek help. Thanks a lot😊

@bluestitches 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you found help 💙if not here’s my opinion never force them to talk :) I hate when adults forced me too during class or a disappointment look from my parents when I stayed silent. Just remind them you love them who they are💙 a quite being

@DDDD17890 2 жыл бұрын

Second? 😅

@khanimations9462 2 жыл бұрын

oh yea ive had this since i was really young, and i always just sqeezed myself in a corner and cried the whole day at school and daycare

@bluestitches 2 жыл бұрын

💜💙💙

@TheWickedgit 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 60 and still feel like this. My daughter is the same. When I was young it was unheard of. In those days people with this disorder were simply bullied to try to make them speak. It was literally torture.

@bluestitches 2 жыл бұрын

💙💙💙 :(

@Shiina_Mashiro 3 жыл бұрын

this is definetly me when i find shelter from the rain

@Atlantis.account_no_name 3 жыл бұрын

My parents don’t know i have SM. Because I talk normal to them. To my family it’s harder, but still possible. But to other people I’m not able to speak. And I’m going to a new school soon, and I know they’re going to ask my name. I can’t speak to them. It’s hard.

@bluestitches 2 жыл бұрын

Hiii stay strong Im with you 💙 I hope everything is going well I also have this And hope the best for you 💙

@MaxoRoblox Жыл бұрын

That’s not how it works because unless you are like 4 and it’s your first time ever going to school then the teachers are gonna realise you aren’t talking and tell your parents and they will probably go to the doctors -a person with sm

@Bookwormtalksabout 3 жыл бұрын

I have this, so I’m trying to learn more about it. I also have anxiety.

@sagal3030ali Жыл бұрын

Same tho😓

@Saffie15 3 жыл бұрын

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@Saffie15 3 жыл бұрын

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@Saffie15 3 жыл бұрын

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@Saffie15 3 жыл бұрын

this is me so true, like say if... I tried talking to someone it sounds quite loud to me how im saying it but then they say "speak up, I can't hear you" and its like they can't hear me or don't wanna listen and if I tried shouting really loud still no. and its like they give up or something smh. I hope this isn't just me but its the worst feeling in the world I hope you can understand. :((

@bluestitches 2 жыл бұрын

I hope your doing well 💙💜💚 Yes I also fell this :(

@stephvalencia872 3 жыл бұрын

This video is so helpfulllllll

@iseeicy6154 3 жыл бұрын

im the 100th like UwU

@joannamonique707 3 жыл бұрын

I need therapy so bad but I can't afford it and there is no free government healthcare in my state. Feeling kinda helpless. Everyone likes me at first but then my problems come out and people can't handle it. Feel like I'm never gonna be able to connect with anyone and heal. Feeling hopeless, lonely and unsure of what to do.

@PiscesSun_Capricornrising Жыл бұрын

save up for a therapy book theyre $10-30 written by therapists and psychiatrists or check a few out from the library. Its a nice alternative to therapy

@shirley34 4 жыл бұрын

I kind of see myself as an insecure avoidant but not completely because I did feel close to my parents but I mainly hanged around with my brothers, & i do have empathy but I do have trouble trusting others, I do prefer to be alone & I do have trouble making friends, I’ve never had a true friend even when I was at school, the teachers put me with other kids & told them to make me feel welcome & to be nice to me etc, I do have social anxiety as well..so I guess I’m an insecure avoidant with social anxiety

@findingme9821 4 жыл бұрын

I think my Child has it😔, .....Social cues/ communicating her thoughts is an issue for sure. What should I do? Can she get therapy or training? Does it get worst with age? I am confused and worried. We just got her report card, she’s above grade in Reading and Math, the other subjects she’s doing well also, meeting expectations for her age.

@susanah0202 4 жыл бұрын

But, then how family member can help? I visited a Pscologist to explain that a cousin is affected by that but he said that she have to come with her mom and her mom is like she is just too shy, she dont need a doctor! 😑

@susanah0202 4 жыл бұрын

But, then how family member can help? I visited a Pscologist to explain that a cousin is affected by that but he said that she have to come with her mom and her mom is like she is just to shy, she dont need a doctor! 😑

@ivy-dd7pw 4 жыл бұрын

does anyone know what it’s called when you’re incapable of like saying stuff like “i love you” or hugging someone, and if someone does that to you it’s just feels really awkward and you have a mini panic attack? i have sm but this applies even with family

@user-hw7dz7mg5n 4 жыл бұрын

I had maids take care of me in rotations, so I never really had a primary caregiver taking care of me. Even so, my mother is dismissive of me and reprimanded me for crying.

@strawberryjpeg6000 4 жыл бұрын

someone i like is like this and idk what to do :(

@RoseGold1224 4 жыл бұрын

I Don't Know Elisa they are very hard to love

@nompumelelo_skhosana 4 жыл бұрын

Dont do it girl, walk away. You end up hating them in the end becasue the take so much from you ad hurt you

@aerofilmes 4 жыл бұрын

I don't agree. What such person needs is a firm support and predictability. If you walk away this will reinforce his trauma and sense that no one wants to be with him and love him.

@yodelissosa7791 3 жыл бұрын

I'm this type of personality type and I'm actually in my first relationship. He's been quite Great with me considering my behavior (unintentionally). I think one of the main things is to be Patient, Understanding, and to NOT Give Up!! (Like seriously, I've tried getting rid of him So Many Times and He's Still Here!! Lol) We don't Mean to be this way!! It's just our defense mechanism; to not only protect ourselves but the person trying to get close to us. I guess we're afraid of how that person will react once they get to know us closely and we feel the need to push them away Before they push Us Away. (We hate feeling neglected or rejected. It feels better when we tell ourselves that it's best to push them away Early rather than wait for them to get too emotional and do it Later. My guy is very patient. Whenever I'm upset, he basically doesn't do or say anything; he let's me blow off steam because he knows that most of the time I'm either upset at something/someone else or overreacting (looking for a Reason to end things or push him farther). After my episode, we'll talk about it and sometimes he'll even act like nothing happened....?? I'm also in therapy and struggling with depression, anxiety, etc. He's also very supportive. Oh and PS: Give us SPACE!! (A Breather; Some Room!!) (Especially if he/she is is also an introvert ; or jut prefers to be alone most of the time) (My guy works all day, so I have a lot of alone time and see him at night.) 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Either way, Don't PUSH!! PLEASE TRY TO UNDERSTAND: We Don't CHOOSE to be like this!! We Want to Change and Be Better but Don't Know HOW. This is all we Know....🤷‍♀️😓 Who knows, you may be THAT one Person who can help him/her Open Up and/or make a Change, even slightly!! We just need help rewiring our Minds that We Can Be Accepted and Our Boundary Wall can Come Down; at least for a little while....😁😁 Good Luck!! & I Hope He/She Can Get Past This Difficult Journey!! 💝💝

@007Fusiion 3 жыл бұрын

@@aerofilmes this happened to me. But I also understand I was given multiple chances, plus six months to think things through and I still could not open up and tell her what she needed to know.

@peachgingerale4811 4 жыл бұрын

I have it and I write on paper to communicate to people

@jeannius1716 4 жыл бұрын

My little sister has had SM since Pre-k. She’s in fifth grade now and next year, she’s going to middle school and I’m really worried for her because people in middle school become a whole lot meaner than elementary. One time, some idiot anonymously told the school that my sister was being “bullied” and she was going to bring a gun to school. That was the day I realized how serious my sisters problem was. I always thought that “oh this is probably just a phase she’ll talk at some point” but now I realize this isn’t so easy. She won’t talk to anyone, she would always watch all the other kids on the playground play and laugh and she would sit there.. alone. I feel like crying right that I’m typing this. I hate how people talk to my sister. One time on the bus some kid was asking her questions like “Are you death?” “can you say at least one word” “talk” and I couldn’t take it anymore so I told “Yes she can talk, she just doesn’t want to, and she’s not stupid, just because she doesn’t talk doesn’t mean she doesn’t know what 2 x 4 is okay?” And then when I wasn’t looking he stuck his middle finger at her and asked “do you know what this means?”. The only reason I knew this was because my sister told me. I’m crying so bad because I care about my sister so bad and I don’t want anyone to hurt her. And I hate that I’m not always going to be there for her if I leave. At home, she’s one of the most caring and funniest and coolest person I know. I hope one day she can speak up and learn how to defend herself ❤️

@snoflake9485 4 жыл бұрын

I ❤️you SCD people. You are bringers of truth and honest relationship while elevating others like an English teacher. You call out society: you’re darn right it is raining water and not cats or dogs! Do they even know why or what they are saying? Maybe they have a worse disorder. Would rather be friends with you! But please, do not do to others what you wouldn't like done around yourself like high volume in the library where people are reading.😉

@yurisands2082 4 жыл бұрын

So, would there be stimming behavior such arm flapping for SCD in young children if there are no restrictive/repetitive behaviors? My two year old was given a diagnosis oF ASD but she does not have any restrictive or repetitive behaviors or sensory issues.

@moon_lyrics 4 жыл бұрын

I feel so unlucky sometimes because I want to make friends and talk, but I cant.

@englot20 5 жыл бұрын

When I was 6 or 7 I wouldn't talk in class at all, never participate, it was so bad that they called my mom and told her that I don't talk or participate in anything, at the time I didn't understand what was going on, but as I grew up I realised there would be certain situations where I literally couldn't talk and would freeze when somebody asked a question. Now that I'm older I know it's Selective mutism, but since nobody knows it's very hard to deal with, my parents and my brother are always like: "You should go out more", "why are you always so silent?", then when they're talking on the phone with relatives they force me to talk with them which makes my anxiety worse and they know I hate talking on the phone and they still force me to talk to them. I haven't ever gone to therapy since my parents don't know anything but I really want to, hopefully one day I'll get the courage to tell them everything so I can get better.

@bluestitches 2 жыл бұрын

Hi so just wondering did you tell them I hope it went well! I just told my parents last month :)

@k-vy5nt 5 жыл бұрын

I say “do” not “have”, as SM is not a disease, it is just a phase! For those who do SM, I know the struggle of this: little kids who won’t stop asking your name, people trying to use sign language, nonstop questions of “Will you talk to me?”, etc. It’s all very akward. I’m in the middle of fixing SM. When I was little I never smiled with friends. Now I smile at random strangers. One time at a party in Kindergarten I was shaking like crazy when I was eating cake only because my teacher was there. Now, I whisper to my whole class and most of my teachers. (This took a whole year) The next step I whispering openly class instead of in people’s ears. Next, talking. 😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬 I know what being pressured to talk is like. Same with stepping out of line / doing something wrong (AHHHHHHHH) And when people don’t understand that you don’t want to talk. And when you are the center of attention. People judging you, people asking if it’s because of them, feeling like you are a tiny ant in a world of sky scrapers, feeling stuck in your own head, being on vacation and scanning the room for that one family member you don’t talk to before talking, feeling like you are drowning in a room echoing with loud sounds (like talking). Selective Mutism may be scary, but (if you do it) YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS!!!!!!!!!

@DJ-Gameday 5 жыл бұрын

I was diagnosed a few years ago and it just makes me sick. It screwed me up and my mom believes her and I don't and I have to listen to people. I believe that it is made up and I feel terrible about it. I have tried to tell my mom that it is not true and she doesn't listen

@themeitarrubin 4 жыл бұрын

DJMARLEY HYPE maybe you might have something different... I don’t know you or your life but you might have it or you might not. It’s hard realizing that something was always different inside even though you don’t know any different and I’m guessing you feel terrible about it because you don’t know what it means and how it (possibly) affects you. I myself didn’t understand what was it that kept me from having friends or understand something because I didn’t know any different. From the way you write and punctuate I am reminded of how I sometimes write and communicate through text, especially when I was a few years younger, and very very bitter about the world that seemed like it was against me. It’ll get better dude, all it takes is self awareness:)

@shay2688 5 жыл бұрын

I am pissed. No one knew until I was 13.

@themeitarrubin 4 жыл бұрын

Shayna W:girl no one knew yet when I was being tested for any learning disabilities or other behavioral issues back in 2010-12 I was only diagnosed with SCD at 13 back in 2017. Many people who say that nobody understands them don’t understand themselves. Except for us peeps with SCD neither we or everyone else understood us and still don’t fully understand

@quirkynugget9626 5 жыл бұрын

I have autism as well as selective mutism but the thing that makes me sad is that I can’t even ask for a pen or ask to go to the toilet and that’s just pathetic like whyyyyy can’t I? Stupid brain!

@xprim_cosmo.1127 5 жыл бұрын

I have got selective mutism and for me it feels like something is holding my throat closed I really want to talk but I just cant and I get to nervous ( it happens at school most of the time ) so I just don't talk that much I don't really have any friends, I might but I feel like they don't want to be around me. Some people if they hear me talk they say something like " Wow she can actually talk" and sometimes they ask " Can you talk ?" Or say " I have never heard you talk.

@MJJFan-fp3jr 5 жыл бұрын

By the way I had it since I was 6

@MJJFan-fp3jr 5 жыл бұрын

I have it and I'm 12.... Is this normal at my age?

@somerandomperson7488 5 жыл бұрын

Yes, I'm 13 and I've had it since I was 6

@peysonstanfield955 5 жыл бұрын

I have ptsd, and I have this- as an adult. I get it at work. Thankfully, I don't have to talk to people at work that often. Forcing me to talk will cause a panic attack. I also get it at family gatherings.

@0161illusion 5 жыл бұрын

I have SM dude

@MsMatilda24 5 жыл бұрын

Wow, suddenly EVERYONE has it? 🙄😒

@yu1821 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly.... It's annoying me they probably just lie about it it affects my whole life I wanna commit suicide

@somber087 Жыл бұрын

Only less than 1% of the world have it

@AvOiD_tHeDaRkNeSs 5 жыл бұрын

Never heard of sm until now

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