Thank you!🎉

What test can a consumer use to identify when they are engaging with a “real psychologist”?

I agree wholeheartedly

Excellent

My son's pediatrician Dr. Brian Starr was also informed and invested much free time into your videos and was very concerned. He wrote favorably to the judge but primarily excluded himself from any fact checking...like all the rest.

Years ago, I met a mother in a trauma group whose child was placed with the father, even though he was sexually abusing the child. She eventually got her child back, but only after months of grief and fighting. At the time, I assumed CPS couldn’t make mistakes like that and even blamed her. I’ve since realized how wrong I was.

I gave up, no contact in 5 years, son is 15 now and lives with his half sister and boyfriend across town. I am 51 with a BS in HS, work with kids and adults. I still internalize your work but refuse to engage with any professionals in Billings that are not already friends or coworkers. I have endless contempt for the people working in or near the field I'm educated in. The degree(s) have little to do with with how much they know or how helpful they might be regarding this stuff.

I wish our case was assigned to someone like you.. my 8 year old stepdaughter is beyond alienated from my husband. It's so sad to see.

Therapists and lawyers have told me that we are slaves to the system. Very few professionals are familiar with the counter intuitive nature of this specific problematic issue. For people to fully understand the big picture, incorporate the videos of Steven G. Miller, Durvasula Ramani and Sam Vaknin along with everything that Craig Childress is teaching.😅

Should CPS be completing your assessment?

CPS is also failing by not properly assessing for psychological abuse.

Bullshit

Dr Childress, in maryland custody evaluators are clinical social workers (LCSW-C). can they be sanctioned for ethics violation by the APA or do they have to be sanctioned by the NASW? im in the process of filing a license complaint and i want to be certain i file it with the correct board of ethics.

I doubt anything will change until some Judges get sanctioned, lcpc's/lcsw's, forensic psychologists, GALs, and lawyers get their lives ruined, and felt the sting of realizing their entire careers have been spent either not doing enough or, entirely the wrong thing.

It’s abuse and it’s so overlooked. ❤️‍🩹

A dark personality parent is such a danger. ⚠️

This is all so heartbreaking. 💔

Thank you Dr. Childress.

You are spot on as usual.

Holding them accountable would certainly change the game.

Is it feasible for target parents to sue Custody Evaluators from their case…particularly when the target parent hasn’t seen their now adult children for years? My dream is to sue all the mental health workers that were involved, WITH my recovered, now adult children by my side!!

Gold.

Dr. Childress many thanks. The GOAT for sharing this. ❤ I’m ready to get this acknowledged. We need systemic change on the mental health system. Shame on you. shame on letting precious children be abused in the worst possible way. And parents dealing with this cruel reality- I’m there with you. Sadly.

I'm desperate to get the name of a therapist in Las Vegas or the surrounding area who you recommend I can see to help me save my child.

What should I specifically be looking for when picking a psychologist? My daughter is 16. The allied parent moved to Michigan 2 years ago. When she began to reject me started at age 14. Now she refuses to attend visits (video calls), uses derogatory terms (hoe, b*tch, liar, cheater) towards me. The previous therapist encouraged me to validate the false allegations of abuse. I refused to admit to something I was not guilty of. The allied parent also uses the abusive language in every email. I need a way to figure out how to use the legal system to overcome the 4th time motion to enforce since he obtained custody in 2016. Before they moved, I was able to see her and we had a good relationship. She seemed happy and doing well.

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Informative as ever.

Am I right to summarize: don't use discipline to handle emotional disregularion includnng protest. Only use discipline to instill self-discipline ?

Dr. Childress, I've been watching for a couple of years now. Im 7 years deep in the family courts and my life has been wrecked. I've been trying to understand the whole thing and I have reached a conclusion I want to share: I don't think there is any way to make this system work. I think the root of the problem is "family court" itself. Government and experts just shouldn't be involved in making family decisions. Here is what I think the real answer is - parental rights are inalienable natural rights. The system has no business unless someone has committed a crime, violated a contract or engaged in torte - abolish family court. Its not a real court, standards of evidence etc. Its unconstitutional, corrupt and harmful. We have real courts for real legal matters - we need a "default contract" for coparenting which is 50/50 and shares custody in every way. Both parents can veto decisions like schools and medical treatment. Religion is an issue of the home. If parents want to supercede the agreement, it require mutual agreement to a new contract. So there is no "family law" lawsuit. No courts. No lawyers. There is just normal law (which obviously covers abuse) Anyway, I just wanted to share my conclusion. The courts can't be fixed because what they are doing is fundamentally wrong. Just get rid of it and 99% of all this mess goes away

I have the Power of Discord and it is excellent but listening to Dr. Childress explain the concepts is tremendously helpful. Thank you, Dr. Childress!!

Watching this twice ...... carefully. Spot on..

Excellent discussion

Thank you Doctor Childress! 👍

This is such an amazing webinar! Thank you!!

Thank you Dr. Childress!

Because of the false allegations, harm to my reputation, and lack of professional knowledge ive been unable to get help for my children and I continue to be subject to the abuse myself.

Thank you Dr Childress. I'd like to contact you about something important. How can I DM you?

This absolutely happens. My stepdaughter went from adoring her grandparents (my husband's parents) to telling all professionals she wanted nothing to do with them. She's 8. Most recent complaint was they "forced her" to dip apples in chocolate. 😂

Are you planning to talk with www.youtube.com/@TheAnti-AlienationProject ?

Thank you again. What i cant understand why nobody else sees this...when it all makes perfect sense and fits with whats happening...

18:30 It is Child abuse one way or the other. It is always child abuse.

THANK YOU, Dr. Childress.

I very much look forward to learning what effective neuro-developmental child therapy looks like. I am excited to understand this! Thank you!

Thank you Dr Childress. I feel that, in the UK, we have Cafcass...who do their best BUT are drastically under qualified and not trained to diagnose the pathologies underlying child and target parent psychological abuse. Because of that they go with The Child's voice as being authentic. So, from your video, I can see that they then become part of the 'reenactment of that child abuse, because in a factitious disorder the child's voice has become part of the delusion shared by the allied/abusive range parent. This is so sad because it is leaving many children in emotionally abusive situations which pass the trauma of the allied/abusive parent onto the next generation. And there is nothing a target parent can do to protect the child because of the court's position.

I like this however, if the attachment parent has serious fictitious delusional disorder can we teach them how to parent ? is anything going to be viable? or do we get them out of the picture and let the other more balanced ranged parent take over ? what is the template if the Custodial Parent is seriously mentally ill? How does pathologies not transfer in this case?

In the UK the DV monkies with the support of members of the ACP are proposing CAMS (Child and Mother Sabbotage) - you couldn't make it up.

Must drive you mad, saying the same thing over and over 🙏 Dr C 🐐

Another excellent session imparting knowledge. This would have been a question on my list - so tick, tick, tick. Makes me so sad. How do you tell a good therapist - they fix the problem. They sure as hell don't leave one parent out of the process, align with a toxic parent and speak about matters they don't understand. A therapist I know told a parent they shouldn't worry about not having contact, they did their job by being around for the first 5 years. Ignorant and lacking empathy.

Thank you again, for another Sunday talk!

I also advocate to change “the system”, but legislators don’t want to take action. Be careful about generalizing and accusing victims of this. Consider “calculations” on the funding sources for the industry and begin asking APA to advocate for federal funding towards research grants so the industry starts to “want to change”. It’s amazing how quickly “professionals” adopt new “findings” when that’s what the grant money wants to see.