Hey Sara, It's Borhan here! I'm a huge fan of your "Sara Jane" KZbin channel. Your content is always top-notch, and I can see the passion and effort you pour into each video. I believe you have incredible potential to reach an even wider audience with a solid KZbin strategy. I would love to schedule a short meeting with you to discuss how I can help you grow your channel faster. This is not a sales call, but an opportunity to share ideas and offer assistance. Let me know if you're interested, and we can find a convenient time to chat. Thanks for your time and for creating such amazing content.

I can be extremely mean and manipulative, and I'm told I'm very good at it, but all that sardonic anger, in my head, is reserved for the people who really deserve it. It goes to people who have long established themselves as extremely predatory, but think that they can just hide in plain sight, and get away with whatever they want indefinitely. I outwit them and make them fall for their own traps. We've all known a few. Otherwise, I strive not to hurt anyone. Sorry this comment sounds so "all about me", I just wanted to make the point that evil people should be made to know that they aren't invincible.

We don’t listen to old people who were once young but likewise the young who will grow old. An old Eskimo saying is “there’s no igloos without snow”

So wise! I'm 72 and always heard that With age comes Wisdom, and never thought that I was wise. So much wisdom I hear from other older people like you, just seems like normal common sense to me, but apparently, from what I see, people don't have this common sense anymore! Love your videos! God bless you!! ❤🤗🙏🙏

The seeming western world-the external has become clever in its ways to keep one trapped in the conceptualized and conditioned mind. The ego’s motto then is seek and ye shall not find. Hypnotized so many are walking amidst the land feeling helpless and unable to discern/wisdom for themselves. Labels, images, interpretations all imposed to compose a narrative of I need this or that. True intelligence is within. Know thyself the great Greek dictum is full of live spiritual food not dead and out grown concepts - be still and go within. Sit quietly in a room and discover the joy of just being -out of this intuitively one will know how to handle that which baffles. 🙏🏻

Just happened to see this video pop up and I LOVE IT!! I'm struggling with someone like this now, but at 72 and have had lots of surgeries, I feel if I stand up for myself and they no longer come around, that I might need help after a surgery and no one will help me. Have a great neighbor who is willing to help, though!! Guess I need to stop letting people manipulate me, and trust God to provide help when I need it!! Subscribed to your channel to hear more of your wisdom!! God bless you!!

Love the title and it is so accurate . Try getting a "friend" to finally return a favor and see how well that works. Saying No is sometimes the right thing to do.

Being nice has ruined my life. Appreciate your content.

people pleaser for decades. did me NO justice. So many manipulators out here now a days. Thank you Sara.

Thank You for your message. I’m going to subscribe from across the pond!❤

Beautifully and succinctly stated. Thank you.

Stepping outside my comfort zone this year! It’s MY Life to LIVE!

❤Exactly. Kind Courage Free

Amen amen amen amen amen ❤🎉😊

Amen!

thank you so much

Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

Beautiful poem / prose🕉️🌳🙏🏼💜

You are obligated to give me everything you have!

Dr Wayne Dyer..

You need wholeness you are correct being completely true to who you are showing up for yourself in the best holy ways possible. It’s not selfish being holy in Christ the lord everyone has their own journey in this life it’s up to them to complete it or not. Your truth is your holiness agree ❤

Always challenge yourself it will make you grow in incredible ways and help you to guide others better when you go through a lot of difficult situations and learn and and expand in life in all the experiences you go through. No one’s here to live your journey correct everyone has their own life journey they must focus if they choose to do so. Excellent message beautiful soul ❤

You are a beautiful authentic soul giving beautiful understanding and encouragement with the light of God inside you.

Glade you popped up they get very angry and their Narc behaviors they project come out when they no longer can manipulate us. Stay in Jesus love and truth and peace and joy. Beautiful message ❤

Thank you sara

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this really hits home for me. i've struggled with people pleasing since i was young, and it got particularly bad when i got around teenage years. now, i am only 20, so not a whole lot older, but i have started to heal myself from my traumas and put up boundaries that i didn't feel i had the strength to before. it has been so good for me to let go of trying to keep up appearances for people who do not truly care for me. i've been able to open myself up, be who i really am and voice the opinions i truly have, and find better people who have the heart to care and the ability to be patient with me as i am still healing. i really feel for all of us out there with similar experience with this kind of thing. remember that you must love yourself and stay true to yourself to be able to heal. many thoughts and much love to all who need it.

Great title, this would help with dealing with narcissism

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Good information because the "flesh" is weak

Great information

Great video sara

Thank you for the inspirational message 🙏 😊

One can't know a swindler, unless one was once one themselves. One can't know what it is to be a fool, unless one has been a fool themselves. They know not what they do. Its not about "You" or "I"

Yes Ms. Jane 🔥👍🏿🔥

This was super helpful. Thank you! ^-^

It’s my story and I’m sticking to it!

i like what you are saying but i totally disagree when people say that thing of "what other people think about us is none of our business"..i say this because VERY often what other people think of others DOES, and CAN have HUGE and serious consequences for people who are being thought about with malice or hate or envy or bitterness even when we are very happy, that can lead some people to be very bitter that we ARE happy.. and that can lead to the bitter people using things like character assassination in small communities or at work, which can ruin a persons life sometimes so what other people think about us really DOES affect us in very bad ways sometimes, if the person thinking about us is bitter and abusive to us it's not something we manifest by us thinking it will happen.. often bitter or abusive types will attack us just BECAUSE we are feeling really good and optimistic and they want to stop us feeling good or being liked by others etc.. so what other people think about us really IS our business, because if we just let them attack and we don't protect ourselves that can have dire consequences in our lives or careers

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Projection: You calling me selfish, in the thousand subtle ways there are to do it, is something I could hear as 'I'm trying to manipulate you to do something out of my own selfishness.' I'm just repeating what you said in the video.

Ever hear of General Semantics? Ever hear of Albert Ellis?

Master, speak to us of projection. Is that Freud?

Worth listening to twice.

I was just thinking today I should try the flying thing during meditation lol😊

I'm really happy to see a channel like this on youtube. Thanks

There came a moment when I said exactly what I wanted to say. There are consequences and rewards for speaking your mind. Be prepared…I have no regrets. I have not deserted my soul.

Thanks You Sara Jane from San Jose CA❤🎉😊

You also randomly showed up in my feed, Ms. Jane, but thank you very much for your wise words. Greetings from South-America.

Ohhh myyyy goodnessss you got very beautiful voice mam. I would love to fall asleep while listening to children's stories by you😅

Sara Jane---vocal Reiki, I wonder what you have to say about the Fundy Baby voice as exemplified by senator Britt's SOU response speech.