Wait why isn't there an official release of this vid?

Dan is really smart and impressive - loved his insights very much

You can't tell me Dr. K does not look identical to Joey Bizinger without facial hair.

Yeah, I feel that, sometimes I wonder why it's so hard to just say thanks when being complimented, you gotta throw it back like a ping pong like Dr. K says. LOL

Kinda funny in a way to see just a pretty stable, quintessential male do one of these. Not to minimize Connor, but Dr. K started this channel cause, well gamers are fucked up lol

1:48:37 smart ,Iq

1:37:21 harmful googling stuff is bad

1:32:04 vaping

Food addiction 1:12:40

Self love 1:08:35

1:04:47 dharma

15:57 how to become a different person

There is no time like the present for procrastination.

I have a guess as to why this isn't on Dr.K's main channel... That maybe Conner requested that the video don't go up because of the subject matters and how his emotions were in this "Dr.K talk". But I'm just guessing idk.

The fact he didn’t upload this to his main channel says a lot about his clout chase.

Imagine the monk convo between garnt n dr k

1:24:00

I already am a huge fan of both of them. It was really beautiful to see Connor very raw and vulnerable because I'm so used of his consistent hilariousness. Also Dr. K as always shows you things from a different perspective that you might not have been able to see before. I can't wait to watch Gigguk, Mouse, and Asmongolds. These streams also help you even potentially learn something about yourself. I really dig these videos from Dr K and the people he brings on.

Thank you, mate. A real good one

I want a podcast on shut-ins, hikkikomoris, hermits etc. Perhaps just a podcast on the origins that such phenomena have in common, and how to address the main respective issues. For more in depth content, a comparison and differentiation of these phenomena could be interesting and useful as well.

Bless

This was super helpful, the indebted vs gratitude and the blaming ourselves and feeling guilty part is so useful to identify.

Didn't women and the feminist movement put that new expectation on themselves. like we want to be equal and the world was like k... and now here we are.

“Process the emotion without action” 1:24:00

"Kind???" ".... Kind???" 🤣 I laughed at that so hard.

you're doing God's work with your channel, thanks

2:04:07 oh

1:14:25 oh my god why are all of these issues so relatable 😅

Do you know why this one is not on Dr. K's official channel?

this was pretty cool to see. maybe the first of these interviews I've seen (I've seen a few but not that many tbh) that resonated with me personally.

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"I can fix her" ahahhaha

I have the exact same problem where I don’t understand lyrics

43:15

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Thanks for posting this 🙂

Btw whole binary aspect was amazing to hear. I am a impulsive person and also feel things very strongly but I’m also logical. However when faced with complicated emotional events I tend to ping pong between two states, my heart and my head and make a impulsive decision. But now I understand to try too combine the two and make a choice like that.

HUGE W Recommendation with Psycho-Pass. SO GODDAMN GOOD!

This dude is a very good talker. Even if he is just talking about random things, he is pleasant to listen to. He is a good storyteller.

As to the anime recommendation question you asked him, I wonder if you would be into some retro anime, or at least what a lot of people call retro.

23:50 You need an asshole side because if you hold all your shit in, you are going to get hurt (i.e. be taken advantage of).

Love how you know exactly when the core theme is uncovered when near the end, the "any new questions we haven't covered" and Connor mentions that he's curious why his anger issues disappeared despite it being readily apparent in their formative years. Only for the metaphorical nerve to be struck when it's recontextualized as it being transformed from external shows of anger into internal judgement and shame for not being good enough. Going from angry at external stimuli to becoming angry at yourself. The perceived imbalances in social interactions where the gratitude you feel the more you must reciprocate it to clear the debt, a debt which makes you angry for being inadequate. The chronic thought to improve since otherwise you're stagnating or even reverting to a worst state. All of it viewed from the new perspective that the anger isn't gone it's just been turned inward after the realization that it was an ugly emotion to be ashamed of. The target of anger changing was what birthed the need to improve and/or optimize everything from social interactions to behavior and even to quality of work. Connor was going through the motions, as if answering a series of surveys each one giving a general theme for a plan of actions. The general theme being to sit and stew with your emotions, identify where you can, and acknowledging what you will do next before you do so. Just recognizing that you feel an emotion before you proceed and not to outright ignore them. Then Connor offhand mentions his unusual lack of anger, and it being rephrased as the source of his shame and guilt since he's angry at himself for not meeting expectations he himself perceives to exist. Tldr, Connor's anger being the source of the majority of his issues being revealed near the end was great, and so is the metaphorical light bulb going off when both of them connect the dots!

Anime recommendation: Kotaro Lives Alone.

25:31 I get this soo much. I don’t have a lot of friends and I unconsciously only give people who tick all the boxes on my unconscious “standards” list a chance. It’s not that I look down on others it’s just if someone ticks enough boxes I can be 90 per cent sure we’ll get along and can talk about whatever

Wow at the end Dr K is talking about some scary stuff, how do I prevent it from happening to me?

stream starts a 5:47

42:29 imagine Sydney on here ....sheeeeesssshhhh😅

1:04:08 but in my perspective, is it not in a way that to try hard is how a good kid would be? Aren't I good because I try hard?

Wtf ..idk how i ended up here....but im here for my boy connor

"Take care of yourself and be good." Isnt that the exact phrase ChubbyEmu also uses? Is that a doctor thing or did someone borrow the phrase from the other? Its a good tip though!