Agreed - it's the second-most wonderful time of the year.

I’m stressed bc do we really need school ? I struggle to feel smart despite me being very confident and I just am stressed , I do works outs everyday and have my own routine but I feel like when I go for a job it’s gonna be hell

I struggle to feel smart and I feel like my academic mind isn’t up to par w everyone else’s. I have a routine everyday that I do but I still feel stressed bc I feel like it will be hard for me to get a job. How is it ? Do you have a nice home or apartment despite u never going to school ? It makes me anxious also bc my mom and sister have told me I’m dumb my whole life.m so it got ingrained into me. I just am stressed! Like do I have a nice job despite this ?

Hey :) I’m going to tell you something, and I want you to remember it when you’re feeling uncertain: everything is going to be okay. It might not feel like it in the moment, maybe even everyone around you isn’t acting like it, but everything is going to be okay and you’re safe. I want you to remember that because honestly looking back that’s what I needed to hear when I was your age. And that is the case whether you go to school or not. As for the other stuff you asked: I’m imperfect just like everyone else and don’t have everything in my life sorted out. But I’ve been able to support myself and pursue what’s most interesting to me, and so I’m pretty happy with that :). Instead of being successful or whatever, I wonder what you’d find in your heart if you asked yourself what you’re most interested in in life? You’re so young! Take some time to follow what you’re interested in and excited by and follow that! Thanks for tuning in

@@Nathanelder.expressthis Thank you so much Nathan ! You have really encouraged me just by this comment. Im screenshotting and coming back to it when I need it , I really do appreciate this. Have an amazing day. 🌸🩷

he is so fine stfu

You thinking he is gay means you think he looks feminine which also means you find him attractive. So basically you are gay.

Are you insane?

This is not the insult you think it is

What a world we live in where 1 opinion will define you as a person to some, you need to do some self reflection friend

No, he has a deranged look in his eyes.

@@Yanay_A Everyone has their type it seems

Time you cant get it back

99% of guys have never been approached by a girl either, so it’s unfair for all of us

@playcost let's start a group lol United but our singleness

To be honest, that doesn't say much about your actractiviness either, especially on today's day and age, since man aren't doing the approach anymore.

@@lulzinfinito thank you, I guess lol I asked people around me why it happens and they say it's because I'm scary since I'm very quiet. And the part about man not approaching anymore, I guess it's because of insecurity, that's sad... Hope it changes. And it's not like I only wait men to take the first step, if I'm interested in someone someday I'll surely try to approach him.

@@nathaliemartin2114 someday lol

I think it sadly depends a lot on your physiognomy. If you project drill sergeant masculinity in your facial structure, physique etc. women might find it incongorous when you show a vulnerable side. Whereas if you’re more baby faced pretty boy etc then women actually find it quite endearing when you show your vulnerable side.

I respectfully disagree. Emotionally immature women might tend to seek men who are 'less emotional' as they can't deal with their own emotions so how could they deal with their partners'? Emotionally mature women however seek men who can be vulnerable with them, because this is the ONLY way to create emotional intimacy, safety and a deep connection which is crucial for a healthy relationship (and also for women's sexual drive to work, wink!). Also, stability doesn't mean no emotions, it means when an emotion comes up, you can regulate yourself without causing harm to yourself or your loved ones. That is how you keep things 'under control', not by hiding your true emotions from your partner, who should be the closest one to your heart and who you should be able to express anything without the fear of their reaction/rejection. The right person will cherish your vulnerability as they know it's a sign of bravery, not weakness. I'm truly sorry if you haven't experienced this level of safety in a relationship - but please, please do not advise other people to lie to their partners. That will never help you achieve a succesful relationship. (This all goes for both ways and all genders btw!!)

people like you say that all the time but I just don't think that's true. Men often only show emotions to their partners and not to their friends

Hey, just want to say that reading this was beautiful. The way you’ve tied all this together in a sentence says a lot. Big respect 🫡

Pretty much. It is risky. Chicks say they want a sensitive guy but few really do. And if you are addicted to the p 00n ani then you risk losing it by opening up. Know thyself. Know thy chick. Act accordingly.

Appreciate you 💜