I always start great. But bored once it starts really.
@princechuofficialКүн бұрын
Thank you for your insight on relationships. I'm planning to start a channel and you are a great source of inspiration. I see a lot of trolls in the comment section but don't let them sway you from doing you!! Wishing that your channel will grow to great heights.
@enemenemooКүн бұрын
Thank you for doing what you’re doing:) you’re an inspiration
@kernalfleak2 күн бұрын
im ready to open my asshole up again after my anal fissure healed
@kylatate1902 күн бұрын
This is great.
@DancingBluebird4 күн бұрын
That's a question, I really needed to hear today. Thank you for the timely reminder to connect with our feelings first before rushing into something! ♥
@Mark7234 күн бұрын
After opening up my heart and bearing my soul to someone who spat on them both, then took my heart, threw it to the ground, stomped on it, snatched it back up again, chopped it with a meat cleaver into tiny pieces which were then thrown into a vat of alcohol, stirred violently before being dumped into a gutter filled with refuse and sewage - no, I will never go through that experience again. Being single has so many advantages over the supposed benefits of being in a relationship, especially when I witness the misery of couples who are "devoted" to each other. Table for one, please. Nonetheless, thank you for the question and the video. Happy weekend.
@chalupapoopa15624 күн бұрын
You don’t crave intimacy with somebody that sees you as special to them? Maybe you need more time to heal. Being alone is definitely more productive for many of my life goals, but having somebody to share experiences with makes it all that more exciting
@Canceledopoulos4 күн бұрын
You definitely look like you’re ready to open your a$$
@chalupapoopa15624 күн бұрын
Yooo??? 😭
@Canceledopoulos4 күн бұрын
lol
@kernalfleak2 күн бұрын
you beat me to it bitch
@AenaMustafaBBA262-e5oКүн бұрын
is this some inside joke
@CanceledopoulosКүн бұрын
no, it’s what free speech gets you
@barbmcdonald15324 күн бұрын
I enjoyed this video! Thank you! ❤️
@Richard-zm6pt4 күн бұрын
I'm not.
@chia-liamyyu1096 күн бұрын
I was able to feel a sense of inner peace and clarity after watching this video
@Mark7239 күн бұрын
Recontextualize - good word. Thank you for this excellent video filled with such insight. I am glad to heat that you are realizing your goals in making these videos. You are a blessing to this community. Cheers.
@playcost9 күн бұрын
thanks for the video
@Me907010 күн бұрын
0:56 Nice! You know these are Arabic/ Islamic Tiles?
@ClaudeGraça10 күн бұрын
This is a raw video with valuable information presented in a clear and easy to understand way, with actionable steps, which is amazing. I closed my eyes halfway through and just listened. This video got recommended at a strangely perfect time, I was just trying to do this before opening the app. You're going to blow up, I'm sure. Wish you the best
@Raphael065410 күн бұрын
Good vid.
@tharushis_space12 күн бұрын
thanks. it was like you were speaking directly to my experience.
@Dan.p.12 күн бұрын
How do u recommend healing from a traumatic childhood/neglect. When it's something in the past that I never had that fundamentally disrupted my being as I am today.
@chickencranium13 күн бұрын
A good time for this. I have been practicing feeling my feelings all this year and often my feelings are so prolonged in contrast of how people decribe them to be. I have been given the advice to feel them for 90 seconds and then release them (what ever that means) and they will pass and so I feel them for 90 seconds...and I release and it pops back up...Or they last for hours....and I frankly, most of the time I don't have the time to give them as much time as they need it seems, I need to do other things...What I'm getting from your video is invite them, recognize what they are, what they feel like, not worry about why they are there, but how they feel, and believe i have the power to let them pass through me...I never really gave myself that power to believe that I can intuituvily let them pass through me. Also, perhaps I will give myself some extra time. I'll try 10 mins...I have alittle time right now so I am going to do just that. (deep breath) Let you know how it goes.
@Jay-pc2fp12 күн бұрын
I’ve always struggled with this! I’m an intellectual so have a habit of thinking through any situation or emotion rather than allowing myself to feel it. I always wondered, what in earth does it mean to “release”? “Let go “? Like… I just don’t get it lol. I’m like ok what now? What do I do? Or don’t do? lol.
@SueEllenSmith-ju4ot13 күн бұрын
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@SueEllenSmith-ju4ot13 күн бұрын
x confess mercy zeal
@SueEllenSmith-ju4ot13 күн бұрын
Have Hope RYZE. Achieve CL airTy
@SueEllenSmith-ju4ot13 күн бұрын
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@SueEllenSmith-ju4ot13 күн бұрын
Higher Ground. Press on toward the goal to win the prize. - Philippians 3:14. By faith on heaven's ta-ble•land A high-er plane than I have found: <3
@Plop_I15 күн бұрын
Yes
@Plop_I15 күн бұрын
oh your time sense was right on point
@eilishbrennan607615 күн бұрын
I relate completely to the feelings you describe of this pervasive, uncomfortable lack or block that seemingly arises in defence to some potentially unrealised or uncomfortable emotion. It can really be quite overwhelming and I have been struggling with this a lot recently to be honest. I was trying to recall some of the forms this feeling can take and realised how it can stem from so many different things, but all of which seem to lead to this same "protective" responsiveness of needing out, or needing to fulfil some kind of emptiness, or distract, or block. Perhaps because it feels like we don't have the "right" to feel these things. Most of the time I find it is because they are deeply uncomfortable and as you said, they can re-expose these deep-set wounds and make ugly parts of our thoughts remerge from the dark. I have been most recently triggered by this incredible fear of missing out on life experiences or of running out of time to feel certain things that in my head I think I want more than anything. And the wanting is the hardest thing of all to let go of and is something I'm not sure I yet understand. Because in many ways I think our desire is very anchoring to our human experience. When we let go of that which we think we want, we are left rather detached to some extent. And so by detaching we might be saving ourselves from the inevitable suffering that comes with the inability to fulfil a never-ending stream of desire, but then does it make life lack in some way like in hope, or belief, or does it make our experiences less "full" and realised or something ? I don't know. I like your channel thank you for sharing.
@theWaywithWayne15 күн бұрын
content seems good but hard for me to keep listening. A bit of variation in tone and pace would help a lot. just a bit of feedback i hope that will be helpful.
@elizabethz900117 күн бұрын
Thank you for your presence🌞
@elizabethz900117 күн бұрын
💛🤝🕊️
@kimtopology425717 күн бұрын
Channel your feelings into some artistic endeavor something cathartic .
@a_sm9817 күн бұрын
You are just in time for this when I need it haha thank you for the video.
@Alazsel17 күн бұрын
Ok I'll go watch your other vidyo more
@Alazsel17 күн бұрын
Too Good and too much feeling❤
@VNs4brazil17 күн бұрын
Your channel is so necessary
@ВиолинКръстев17 күн бұрын
dude, luv it..keep up the content
@jaylinjohn383117 күн бұрын
I love how you remind us that it's ok to express our emotions and that it's necessary, because if we don't we prove those critical voices right. It's unfair that those who aren't taught that it is ok to express their emotions, feel them so much more intensely. I love you and I love your videos. I hope you are feeling ok. I know you don't know me, but I, along with the rest of your audience, are here if you need an open ear, a hand to hold, and a virtual loving embrace. ❤
@chickencranium18 күн бұрын
❤loved this series. I have been trying to be more comfortable looking into others eyes and receiving when I am both listening and speaking to. And it is so uncomfortable because of the boundaries I had to put up being exposed to abusive people for several years. This is the hardest thing for me, but that directness when I consciously practice it is always so rewarding. And yes very intimate
@Nathanelder.expressthis18 күн бұрын
Appreciate always seeing you come up on here, thanks for sharing
@andreaparedes621018 күн бұрын
first video i’ve watched of you and subscribed immediately! impressive way of articulating this it resonated so much
@Nathanelder.expressthis18 күн бұрын
Appreciate you!
@ShanilR19 күн бұрын
you sir are a great master of our modern time please carry on doing with ever you are doing with peace and love
@Nathanelder.expressthis18 күн бұрын
I don’t know about great master! But thank you 🙏
@JEHOVAH48519 күн бұрын
Thank you
@barbmcdonald153220 күн бұрын
I loved your "Intimacy" series! This came at a good time for me! Thank you! ❤
@Cardas_Copper21 күн бұрын
Loved this series, thanks!
@chalupapoopa156221 күн бұрын
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@barbmcdonald153222 күн бұрын
A good video as always! I used to suppress my feelings thinking it was wrong to feel anger or maybe even to feel too happy. About 30 years ago, I learned to acknowledge what I was feeling and that it was okay. I enjoyed your video and I realize sometime I can slip back into my old habits, so thank you for this reminder to just feel what it is I'm feeling!❤
@Vazecrow23 күн бұрын
As isfp enneagram 9 this topic indeed in my area of interest.
@huiyingLyu24 күн бұрын
I watched this video while I was having meals in school. When you asked,“What is it to be distracted even when u watching this video? ”, I allowed myself to feel the distraction and did nothing about it,which was a whole new experience. For the first time in my life I struggled to find the right words to describe distraction, instead of correcting or suppressing it. Thank you so much for your sharing.❤
@PlumpLumps26 күн бұрын
How do I actually do this though. Maybe I missed it, but how do I practically allow myself to feel? Is there some exercise?
@Nathanelder.expressthis25 күн бұрын
Well, already we’re feeling always, but as we mentioned, a feeling may come up followed by the thought (and another feeling) that this is not right to feel. For example: say we have a feeling of anger towards someone we’re close with - that feeling of anger is as it is. But if there is a feeling of guilt about feeling anger towards that person the initial anger is drowned out and suppressed by virtue of the guilt. So practically in that case we opt to feel into the guilt and allow it entirely. And then we do the same with the anger. The idea is just to continually give yourself permission to experience what it is that you’re truly experiencing. Hope this helps 🙏
@PlumpLumps25 күн бұрын
@@Nathanelder.expressthis This helps! Appreciate you.
@chickencranium27 күн бұрын
I am going to try this exersize today. Let you know how it goes.
@stevenwilgus542227 күн бұрын
Wu wei is about aligning your actions with nature and the flow of things around you. It's not about being lazy or giving up, but rather about flowing with life events and incorporating them into your life. Thank you, Nathan. (Life is not restricted by a script. We exist beyond three D reality.)
@Nathanelder.expressthis26 күн бұрын
Funny, I had a random talk on Wu Wei shuffle onto my Spotify the other day (after I’d filmed this video). So clearly it’s in orbit 😂 Appreciate you tuning in 💜