How To Stop Hiding And Lying
28:21
Inside Out 2 And Porn
10:29
3 ай бұрын
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@todd_euliano
@todd_euliano 5 күн бұрын
Dangggg...this is incredibly powerful. The discussion about wrestling God and surrender was the most profound spiritual advice ive ever heard. This interview was the tool that put my entire journey into order. Id love to connect with you. Let me know if you are available
@Twzzl
@Twzzl 6 күн бұрын
not gonna lie i got sleepy just looking at you i think im good now 🙂
@loum111
@loum111 6 күн бұрын
Some of the parts seem to use their own words and put words in the mouth of the client. Why is that?
@DannyDiamond321
@DannyDiamond321 6 күн бұрын
My heart breaks for wives whose husbands don't do the recovery work needed for healthy marriages. And I'm grateful for groups like Husband Material that give men a place to heal and become the husbands their precious wives deserve.
@MauricioSilva-ny7qz
@MauricioSilva-ny7qz 7 күн бұрын
Hi, does anybody knows, Can I get a meeting with Dr. Capuracci?
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial 7 күн бұрын
Email edcappa@gmail.com
@JosephBouchard-hh8np
@JosephBouchard-hh8np 9 күн бұрын
God bless you Drew❤.
@JosephBouchard-hh8np
@JosephBouchard-hh8np 9 күн бұрын
Thank you for your lovely message ❤.
@kso808
@kso808 15 күн бұрын
I stumbled upon your You Tube channel, the bullying episode in particular, and proceeded to watch some of your other videos. In this Bent On Men video it sounds like you are blaming the victim, in this instance either a gay man or a man with SSA feelings. I believe God has a Divine plan and we human beings are a part of his plan. Our sexual orientation is indeed a gift from God. It should not be something to be ashamed of. A person cannot change his sexual orientation since it is an inborn trait. A man who has gay feelings is not going to change his orientation by going the straight and narrow route. That is a gift from God that will always be with man. BTW, how would you regard gay men who are NOT porn-addicted? Are they “acceptable” to society? God urges us to pursue the truth and social justice and to avoid hypocrisy, and so spoke to me to speak out about the disingenuous position you advocate on this issue.
@AndrewBryantFuentes
@AndrewBryantFuentes 18 күн бұрын
How do you know that bullying isn't just something everyone has experienced, regardless of sexual orientation?
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial 7 күн бұрын
Neither Jordan nor I view bullying as limited to certain sexual orientations.
@Itsokayyyyyyy
@Itsokayyyyyyy 20 күн бұрын
Amazing topic , i hope more poeple sees this
@TheIrishPizon
@TheIrishPizon 21 күн бұрын
Desperate for help from this addiction. How can I get in touch with this guy?
@colins1316
@colins1316 23 күн бұрын
My Grandmother always preached to me the evils if sex. Her husband was a cheating alcoholic narcissist piece of shit wife beater. But she wouldn't leave him because of the Catholic faith. Her Blind Faith destroyed her into a bitter sad unhappy woman
@colins1316
@colins1316 23 күн бұрын
How many priests secretly visit Prostitutes ? Or molest children ? I love God but I couldn't stand the old asshole judgemental priests I met as a kid !!
@davestephen8679
@davestephen8679 23 күн бұрын
You cannot on your own but through Christ who strengthens me I can. That's what's wrong with Christian s lack of discernment and thus conviction the Lord is the source of my strength ask Him He intervenes in any addiction. More time with Him in prayer and seeking to know Him not just during fellowship with others at church. As I see in bible church's were Christian s TRUE Christian s go. 🙏💜
@johnnyrockit
@johnnyrockit 24 күн бұрын
If you like guys- it’s hard to pretend you’re attracted to women. White knuckling I guess.
@youngcolt5305
@youngcolt5305 25 күн бұрын
I kind of feel hopeless in fixing my same-sex attraction. No matter how much we talk abt the origins, it's a life-long illness now. It's a curse for life for those of us doomed with it 😒
@luismedina530
@luismedina530 28 күн бұрын
You are doing great work Drew. Gods work. Your videos have helped me a lot. Ill start giving back for sure.
@tonyzamberlin
@tonyzamberlin Ай бұрын
Great video! Im currently changing the way God sees me. I don't believe he sees my relapses and I believe it was all oaid for on the cross if you believe we were even condemned in the first place. I'm not sonsure rhat Jesus died for my sins and instead came to show us Gods love for us that has always been and to show us how to love.
@PsychoBible
@PsychoBible Ай бұрын
It's rare for a client to dwell on the past. I have some clients who get stuck ruminating on their developmental wounds. But most are just completely clueless about the importance of their childhood experiences, and some are absolutely averse to exploring their childhoods. Sadly, it's my fellow conservative Christians that need the greatest help with this all.
@dkthompson83
@dkthompson83 Ай бұрын
The problems (“myths”) that are listed in this video have been around a whole lot longer than the 90’s. I think that you are blaming “purity culture” for sexual teachings that have been passed down from many previous generations.
@chrismalice_music
@chrismalice_music Ай бұрын
Thank you , i would like to thank you for this, hoping it will help me get stronger and learn how to resolve this thing that has messed up my freedom for so long. Much Love to you for sharing it.
@anabolicboy4010
@anabolicboy4010 Ай бұрын
Transitioning from fantasy-driven arousal to finding connection, vulnerability, and trust sexually arousing is a process that takes time, intention, and patience. It’s about rewiring your brain and heart to find joy and fulfillment in real, authentic intimacy. It will happen slowly ❤
@KittyMeowxxx-s8r
@KittyMeowxxx-s8r Ай бұрын
The father having hook ups while his wife is staying with their daughter in the hospital while she’s having cancer treatments is absolutely the lowest man on the planet I don’t care what his upbringing or problems are. as a mom to a cancer child that has been cheated on, that is the absolute lowest of the low anybody could be and I hope that left him and he has nothing
@tonyzamberlin
@tonyzamberlin Ай бұрын
Great video! I cried watching some of this. I can see where this can help someone heal some of their wounds.
@Niflaco77
@Niflaco77 Ай бұрын
I don't know how to be ok with gaining weight. I don't know how to heal.
@Niflaco77
@Niflaco77 Ай бұрын
I'm attracted to fat and bellies and I'm extremely self conscious about gaining weight. Gaining weight causes me to desperately want to masturbate.
@BoosterShot1010
@BoosterShot1010 Ай бұрын
Recovering from purity culture is just another way of saying: Let's make promiscuity great again!. Please do not be deceived by these New Age Christians! Seggs is good but there's more to life than dopamine hits!
@BoosterShot1010
@BoosterShot1010 Ай бұрын
Sexual immorality is not something that should be sugar-coated. Sex belongs in the boundaries of marriage. You guys are just "Christians" who don't actually read the Bible. You should be ashamed of trying to make people feel good about promiscuity.
@JoshC-End-Abortion-Fear-God
@JoshC-End-Abortion-Fear-God Ай бұрын
I didn't get that impression listening to it. They didn't say that having sex outside of marriage was bad.
@AmateurHour1111
@AmateurHour1111 Ай бұрын
I was expecting a generic video. But you hit me with the realness and it caught me off guard a little but I think it’s exactly what I needed. I’m listening to this at nearly midnight, just after porn use because I felt I couldn’t sleep. You got me thinking about childhood memories I wasn’t really ready for. Like bed time rituals and also sexuality as a younger boy with friends throughout childhood. Interesting.
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial Ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you for listening. I'm glad it was helpful
@jasartstudios
@jasartstudios Ай бұрын
Wow, very good video. Thank you for sharing.
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial Ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@UpDog-lr8qw
@UpDog-lr8qw Ай бұрын
I’m autistic and I love porn
@IzVI-q6l
@IzVI-q6l Ай бұрын
You are just healing me. Now I discover fully what made me addicted to pornography. Every causes you listed happened to me.I was abuse sexually by both at my 5, No intimate relationship with my parents especially my Father, Abandoned by my parents on sex education, Always struggled to belong in my family and because of my spiritual experience at my early childhood I was called demon possessed child. This and many more struggles at my early childhood contributed to my addiction.May God Bless you
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@IzVI-q6l
@IzVI-q6l Ай бұрын
Thank you so much want more healing video
@IzVI-q6l
@IzVI-q6l Ай бұрын
Feeling like crying
@IzVI-q6l
@IzVI-q6l Ай бұрын
Everything thing you said is exactly
@bryankelly148
@bryankelly148 Ай бұрын
Drew, thanks for this timely video. I went to Andrew Bauman's mens workshop this past weekend and this was a huge part of my journey and how I've hurt my wife for over 15 years. I've been numb for about 30 years from sexual abuse as a kid. I was conditioned to embrace pain and embrace hiding and lying. "Trauma unhealed is trauma reenacted." I'm glad I've found your channel. Thanks for doing the work.
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial Ай бұрын
You're welcome and thanks for sharing.
@bryankelly148
@bryankelly148 Ай бұрын
I went to Dr. Andrew Bauman's workshop this past weekend and shared both of my major trauma stories from 10yo and 16yo. Hardest, terrifying, and most beautiful surrender to these stories to find my inner adolescent, regain healthy anger, and deeply grieve the abuse, manipulation, and deception that I've perpetrated since I was a teenager. I highly recommend Andrew's workshop. Overwhelmingly meaningful work. ❤
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial Ай бұрын
I'm so glad you went! Going to an intensive with Andrew is an amazing experience.
@KUNALLFIRUPAMISHAL
@KUNALLFIRUPAMISHAL Ай бұрын
❤God Bless You Brother ❤
@rjclauson
@rjclauson Ай бұрын
Great video, just found your channel. This is the best overview!
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@johnz4328
@johnz4328 Ай бұрын
As a Christian one day you may not get married, people exposed to this purity message better hear that loud and clear and early.
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial Ай бұрын
I totally agree
@hoop-a-loop
@hoop-a-loop Ай бұрын
Please keep up the good work!
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@joergstrate9345
@joergstrate9345 Ай бұрын
I'm glad I caught this one. Typically when something goes sideways we are talking early signals, subliminal voices and little pain or damage before the semi gets totalled leaving an entire Christmas Market population dead on the floor. This one - the clip, the eyes, the attire, the church... I mean not only are the ingredients perfectly in place but dished up for me to pull out of you, USA for good and all foreseeable time, when the Lord and the Lady and the thing in a barn shell cradle have you dance around a fire place hoping to be seen. This is next level overboost in a department of level minded me plus few others and then some. This is red light dedicated to paidophil obsession catwalking my sidewalk of pristine innocence notoriously misinterpreted for tempting naivety. My Lord and Lady, with or without you won't make a difference anymore. They know better and will tank it in gasoline.
@Garthstimpson
@Garthstimpson 2 ай бұрын
You speak directly into my heart past my fears and guilt and regrets and pain. I resonate with many of the experiences you relay and have for so long carried confusion and guilt which has held me locked in time. Thank you brother In the love of Christ.
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial Ай бұрын
I'm so glad this resonated with you.
@PeterShieldsukcatstripey
@PeterShieldsukcatstripey 2 ай бұрын
Perhaps that is why bdsm resistance is appealing.
@PeterShieldsukcatstripey
@PeterShieldsukcatstripey 2 ай бұрын
Men outgrowing porn.
@PeterShieldsukcatstripey
@PeterShieldsukcatstripey 2 ай бұрын
Yeah I went to a tantra weekend and there was some blokes who felt very unsafe.
@PeterShieldsukcatstripey
@PeterShieldsukcatstripey 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, I found that jiu jitsu solved inner wounds of male rejection and previous wounds and trauma.
@SH_BAR
@SH_BAR 2 ай бұрын
Do many years PMO develop OCD
@jacobgraf7284
@jacobgraf7284 2 ай бұрын
This is an awesome video! God designed us to be a gift to others. Jason's story and others' stories of transformation are gifts to the world.
@HusbandMaterial
@HusbandMaterial Ай бұрын
I agree
@allisonscanlan4144
@allisonscanlan4144 2 ай бұрын
relate to this quite a bit even though I'm a woman
@lerouxliebenberg3534
@lerouxliebenberg3534 2 ай бұрын
Chris, you really inspire me. Thank you very much.