looking like you hit the wall full speed

I’m 38 married with a child. I have come to realise that it’s a scam. I’d say almost all women who have gone down this path are living an unhappy life. I don’t know anyone who is in this category is happy. Women have been groomed to be slaves and lie to themselves about how it sucks. They have learnt to settle to please others.

I’m 21 and don’t plan on having kids ever.

@wanderingwithjenny671 - I'm late to this discussion but thanks for clarifying this. You said, "I was so lost without a partner when I first became single. The pressure that was put on me because of my age was unreal. When I finally told myself I needed to love myself first, that is when I realized I didn't need another person in my life." I can tell you from experience that single people are given so many mixed messages: if you stay single to focus on yourself, it's often interpreted as selfish and/or immature, or that you have the wrong priorities. If you're preceived as rushing into a relationship, you are told to work on your personal growth or get therapy to figure out why you're not comfortable being alone! it's gets to be too much at some point.

Women typically outnumber men 4 to 1. There will always be more women than men. The law of averages is against women. If all men are mated, given that homosexuals never existed, then there are still millions of women who are not mated. Every woman can't be a winner. The math dictates this fact. This video and others like it are about Nature's losers.

I definitely know what I want in life at 41 going on 42

I’m 49, never married and don’t have kids. I keep hearing this narrative about soul mates etc. Society is changing so much now. Through hearing voices like yours, people are given another side to this Disney/romcom view of life. I couldn’t stand all the compromise that comes with marriage. Personally, there are drawbacks like living without intimacy. But I don’t think that marriage solves that problem either! I’d rather go without intimacy as a free and single man than have no choice in it in a marriage.

Wish I could go back date the right person..😂

Is it because of your nose? I have an ugly nose too no partner no kids I am 52 contemplating a surgery finally

I am 40 years old and divorced because I have no children. The pressure I have to bear in my hometown will be very great, and my personal value and anxiety will resist each other

LIFE WAS A FANTASY... FROM THE TIME U WERE BORN.. U WERE BORN ALONE.. UR PARENTS LOVING U AND RAISING YOU IT WAS THEM SATISFYING THEIR FANTASY OF A CHILD FOR COUPLE OF YEARS.. UR FRIENDS AT SCHOOL WAS A FANTASY SO THAT YOUR LIFE HAD MEANING AND TO RELATE TO OTHERS TO MODIFY HOW U WOULD WANT YOUR FANTASIES AS ADULT.. UR WIFE OR HUSBAND WAS SO THAT YOU WAS NOT LONELY AND PROCREATE KIDS SO THAT YOU FELT LIKE U HAD A PURPOSE IN LIFE.. THEN CAREER AND MONEY WERE TO HAVE THE MEANS TO BUY OTHER FANTASIES THAT WILL FILL UR LIFE AND NOT FEEL DEPRESSED.. THEN UR GRANDKIDS FOR THE SAME PURPOSE AS UR KIDS. THEN YOU AGE.. AND UR KIDS LEAVE TO DO THEIR OWN LIVES... THEN U CANT WORK... THEN U GET SICK.. THEN THE PAINS.. THEN U RETIRED... THEN UR SPOUSE LEAVES OR DIES.. BUT WHAT YOU FAIL TO BELIEVE IS THAT THEY WERE THERE TEMPORARY.... THEY WERE FANTASIES.. CHARACTERS IN A STORY WHO PLAY ACT A ROLE FOR WHICH THEY ALSO RECEIVE BENEFITS.. LITTLE BY LITTLE BUT SURELY U LOSE THINGS.. AND WHEN UR OLD U END UP ALONE LIKE HOW U STARTED WHEN U WAS BORN... AND U DIE...U FAILED TO ACCEPT THAT ALL THOSE THINGS WERE FANTASIES.. FALLING IN LOVE THROUGH ROMANCE AND MUSIC.. SEX, ETG, THEY WERE ALL FANTASIES MY FRIEND... NOTHING TO IT.. U WERE HAPPY ONCE UPON A TIME, AND NOW UR SICK AS A DOG.. ITS TIME FOR U TO GO... THAT'S ALL IT IS.. DONT FEEL BAD.. LIFE IS A BITCH SOMETIMES.. CRY UR SORROS OVER THE BEST BEER EVER BUDWEISER... AND LET GO.

I'm a man, late 40s, not married and no children. This is not the way I wanted my life to turn out, as I've always wanted my own family but it just never worked out that way. I try to make the best of things but it's tough some days. I guess after I die none of it will matter. I just try to live day by day.

There’s a huge difference between dating someone, versus living with them. I lived with two girlfriends before. Never again But at the same time, I wanna thank my ex’s too. Without the experience living with them. I wouldn’t be the person I am today, and I didn’t miss out on anything in regards of being in a relationship. The only thing I missed is proposing to someone. Already got my experience living with someone already, which comes after marriage, and also on top of that, a risk of putting all my financial assets at risk if for some unforeseen circumstances a divorce happens. Yeah no thank you

society and culture told you you have to do it? You never noticed that when you got changed in the morning the child bearing hips and baby feeding breasts?

I did the marriage thing! NOT again I'm going to enjoy my single life and do what I missed out on, having fun with friends!! I'm very grateful for my 3 kids. So what if you never married or kids your choice!! Be happy enjoy!!

This video is bad advice if you adopt a child in your 40+ years it would not have to be an infant. We all know simple math 40+18=58 so when that child really needs you in college you will be too old or dead of old age...

I’m 35 never been I. a relationship and I never wanted to I hate people telling me what to do I like being alone

So it is possible for a man in his 40s and with no children to find women in their 40s with no children.

Ive been single for long time just turned 40 and sometimes i think what if but i know ive not been mentally ok for children and marriage.its pressure of people around you and family that can be hard. So Spending to much time thinking about things you don't have means miss stuff going on around you. Its about learning to get know your self first then if something comes maybe be your be better person.

I feel that it would have been nice to have a few children as I am older and much more lonely with no family now.

You followed your gut, had the courage to reject societies pressures and....it worked out. As it should have. I too, have taken my own path. At 54 I'm VERY happy.

Im 48, no kids and not married. Definitely no regrets although i still hold out hope to meet someone one day. As i look at the decline of society and the selfishness of most people in today's world it looks less and less likely that I will meet someone, I refuse to settle for someone without the same values as me.

Thanks for visiting Ajloun ❤. Ajloun native here 😅🙋

Sorry for you. If it’s any comforts we are all forgotten in a generation or two

I dunno why this popped up on my recommendations lol. I’m 46, never married, no kids. Went to college. Hasn’t turned into much. Not feeling regret, but also not as happy with my life. I will say though I’m glad I went child free.

I’m 54 and I’m a man and never been married or have kids. I do not at all regret it. I don’t like kids. They are incredibly irritating. No I have absolutely no desire for kids or a wife

It is so sad that we can't find the other half of us during our stay on earth though we might live happily. I understand that what other comments says. It is because when your standards high it is near impossible to find sb. Many guys have barely 3 out of 10 criteria. I used many years Facebook and some dating apps. People I liked never created relationships with me rest are just bunch of dudes with no goal and whatsoever calling me sick being single. I loved to have family of my own maybe one kid but I just can't go create it like my other goals. I am a social person but don't go to party or clubs. I don't think as well a husband can be found in such places. Singles in my apartment complex enjoy living with their dog. Even in elevator they ask for attention to their dogs. No complain but when society formulated to make you look awkward, shouting you are single, like some weird issue, it really affects your mental. As much as I like to feel OK about this, I am not and really disappointed not having that person in my life to share emotions with. I pray to cosmos to bring every single lady out there best of best abundance and joy

What a great bucket list to achieve. Thanks for a wonderful video of a memorable day.

Thanks for this video, it's so helpful. I'd love to do 1C or 1D per your recommnedation but seems that they are available only in high season. I go to April and I guess the two options I have if I want classic photo is 1B or 2A? Which one would you recommend? Is there anything i will see on 1B but not on 2A?

I'm 73 and never married and never had kids. The only down side I see is if everyone was like me there would be no people.

I was born in the 80s, not focusing on settling down, focusing on career is what led me to be single and childless at 40. Focus on your career they said - how the heck is that more important than having a family? I hate that I bought into that. And you can have a career your whole life as women we only have so many years to bear children.

Another great tour of some amazing stops. Thanks for sharing your journey in life.

Hi Jenny, thank you so much for joining us on tour! We are simply delighted to hear that you enjoyed your adventure with us. Please do visit us again anytime!

Another stunning video on Ireland. Thank you for sharing this adventure!

You have to watch it!

First of all you should meet someone you want marry, everything else comes by itself

Unfortunately, I have met many men and women in their 40s/50s/60s (mostly educators) that say "I don't regret it," but later they change their tone. The grass is not greener on either side (single or married), but if you are sane, educated, financially capable, emotionally available, and have a hint of selflessness, the option for starting a family should be a thought.

asking a 40 something year old is still too soon. they're old enough to ASSUME their conent, but young enough to still do anything they want because they're alleged to be healthy enough. if your successful and 40 the world is STILL your oyster. its the older folks who need to be questioned. and i hear a lot of stories of lonely old folks in nursing homes because nobody visits them either anymore or due to having no family.

So sad. You missed youth and fertility

So crazy that I’m watching this today and you’ve just posted that you did it!!! You jumped out of a plane over Utah!!!! 🙌❤️

Thanks. Going there in few days! I'll do the tour on the 1st day. Then go to nawarat bridge the next day as what you suggested. Though my problem is they said its hard to find a ride back to the hotel after😅.

Me 42.male. Never married. This World is heart of darkness

I'm 38, never been married and never had children. I'm a teacher and a godmother, so I am around children most days. I find that that fulfills me. When we have our summer and Easter breaks, I love to travel. I was in Colombia 🇨🇴 in July and had an absolute blast. Marriage and having children just isn't for me.

You have once again put a wonderful video together on your Ireland trip. The infomation you provide is a benefit for anyone looking to travel.

This is me, but i'm 35. Honestly, i don't think i will regret it. Meh.

I'm 39. Never married, no kids. But wish having a family so much.... It's my pain.... Thank you for this video. Now I know that I'm not alone in this situation. I'm watching you from overseas and thank you so much for your clear accent.

Hello! I know this video is a year old! But I just want to say THANK YOU for covering this topic. The pressure everyone places on women can be heavy! It also can make one feel like they aren’t enough! Thank you for sharing your experience 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

I'm 41, never married, no kids. I almost had a kid. Unfortunately, she had miscarriage 😢 But I think I enjoyed being free. You know that single life to go as you please. I don't have to explain why I'm coming home late, or why I keep leaving the toilet bowl up every night 😂 John Cena said that he doesn't want kids because he likes the free basically. However, I do for some reason want one daughter. I just want to say: "my baby girl"

This video is over in the first 10 seconds. You don’t regret it. You don’t regret anything. OK