I’ve had things said to me. I gotta keep it more respectful on there, but I don’t know you guys have been around for a while and listen to a lot of people. I’m sure you’ve heard a lot of comments, but I’m telling you these hurt and at the time he was always telling me that I was crazy Stuff like that and I never realized until Dr. Ronnie turn the light on for me. It’s not me it’s And. He doesn’t own up to it. That’s all there is to it and if you did have empathy and love it would be I would think I would give up for somebody, it’s hard to

Eight years of physical abuse, emotional psychological gaslighting my nebulization eight years that’s just have a part of before it was. I knew there was control there. Thank you.

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This lady is lovely. I pray your channel grows exponentially

Thank you so much!

I was told by a male therapist to be kinder to the marc😮😢😅

I just ordered your book 😅❤

This is really insightful. Thanks Dr Ramani, I appreciate all your videos and the time and effort you have taken to do this. I am grateful that there is valuable content as such on KZbin, designed for audiences that have gone through or are going through narcissistic abuse. I had lost my self, gave up on my self, values and even passion for my career because of one nasty narcissistic person who threw me away in the bin in just one second, after a 1.4 year relationship… Thank you god and the universe for saving me from this evilness.

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Gary what a grace to hear what you’ve opened up for me to recognize happening within me Im 91 years old or young actually as spirit deeply in love with life now I all if life now more than II can hardly believe is possible especially that I’m a bit handy capped in body use theses days lovingly

Dr Ramani is my only voice of rationale that keeps me going.....

And it so sucks that the person was is goodlooking and I thought I did pretty good I felt good about that she was so pretty. That was gratifying that someone attractive would think I was attractive. But it was a narc so sad and I like her body and her hair is so curly and lovely and her eyes are very pretty. I'm not shallow but she was like an angel. Who turned out to be an angel of death. Now I got to put her on news weather and sports no personal or she will take me under water again and try to drown me period end of story. Hard pill to swallow but I will dang sure swallow it I'm not into suicide.

Dr.Ramani I am not there! I am divorced just over a month and hurting badly. I went to my mothers grave and told her off for constantly invalidating me as I was honest about my dads abuse. She cared only about protecting my dad who was a narcissist. Obviously this has been a huge day for me. But I watched another video of yours when in passing you mentioned a person choosing a narc because their mother invalidated them and the familiarity of it brought on the comfort and the narc brought the trauma voila trauma bond... But I am not there yet with my ex I am sending at least 1 email a day to her yet I have her responses blocked "I am trying to get there. This person got inside me on the love bombing and hooked me good. But my goal is news sports and weather. O, and my ex lives 100 yards away in another apartment I see her vehicle when I check my mail. This woman nearly killed me with stress... Whats weird is she had a couple mental breakdowns IDK what you call the narc breakdowns but she is still the same. But at least I understand what happened and have put so many pieces of this puzzle together and am slowly feeling myself coming back. I can't fathom news sports and weather but it is what has to happen period. What is weird is I have had therapy years ago and for over a year I thought I was pretty well rounded and am also struggling that I let this weak low vibe person take me down with such pure ignorance and insanity. At least I am the one who told her to get the hell out and opened the door! I knew I was being abused heavily but didn't know how.. Thanks for reading....

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Dr. Ramani has written a profound book , it will be life changing for many people who have been impacted by these relationships . It’s complicated and she is bringing it out into the light .

So True living their life..about food..vacation..i left my Job...move to his country..Great video..i am in proces od healing..Thank you ❤

Sorry Gary but I think you are wrong on many levels. There is still a lot of insight in what you ve written. Multi sensory doesn't mean it's an evolutionary upward step. There is not enough emphasis of relationship to God. I definitely do not see this in current generations I see them enslaved and addicted to self and self image.

I am SOOOOOOO glad that I walked away from that situation. My gut intuition notified me the very first time he did something and that never left. Yes, it did take a while to figure out what was happening and it was on the Universe's timeline since I had to really figure it out. I am now writing my new chapters in Life with so much excitement! I am thankful that my headstrong heart, soul, mind, and body with the keen gut instincts, were never brought down or destroyed. I learned a whole hell of a lot about narcissistic behavior from this person, and from Dr. Ramani during her many different podcasts, and have all that in my toolbox going forward. I also learned even more about myself and solidified more what I want with an emotionally stable/grounded gentleman in the future. Being true to me!! ♥

I felt the love in this podcast and am ready to embark on my Heroes Journey. Thank you both for sharing this with us 💗

How do i deal with a narcissist sister in-law?

Thank you - I think it’s potentially last video I’ve watched on this subject. Next one would be business development related content. I’ve lost this person forever. Great advice - I’m very grateful. Thanks x

Months???? Took me 15 years to figure what this is. Knowledge is power

So touching that Robin herself is going thru this, it is somehow comforting that this is not only happening to me😢

Please, what is the process that a narc goes from beeing gentle ro "heartless"?

Dr Ramani has saved my life!! That is literally! Thank you!❤

Thanks so much for your videos. I realise now its common to take about 1 to 2 years to wake up to a narc or the cheating in a long term relationship as we are blinded and put red flags on a shelf waiting to find out more or our brain goes into flight mode. I no longer feel like an idiot for missing the signs. ❤

Not a quick fix but a healing fix from here on

Have you heard about ......poking the bear

Any tools for coping with an adult narcissistic adult son who blames me for everything and constantly blame shifts. I can't take it any more and am distancing more than I have before. Broken hearted.

I need more support. I have a therapist I talk with once a week then they want to put on pills. I don’t want pills that is changing my brain and there’s nothing wrong with it. I just need to heal. It’s been 24 years of subtle control. The abuse really started back in 2000 1617 eight years of physical abuse, mental emotional financial neglect, name-calling gaslighting demeaning very very terrible statements that he has said to me I don’t wanna say I’m over this because some of them are pretty intense. I didn’t have a clue what was going on. I didn’t know until I listen to the doctor Romney, and I want to thank her so very much. I didn’t know why I was feeling this way. I was giving it my all. I’ve never cheated on him. I’ve never deceived him. I’ve never left him except when he kicked me out twice which I didn’t even know the law I didn’t know that he wasn’t allowed to do that and I have not really had much support the most support I’ve had is through Kaiser Permanente. They got me hooked up with a trauma specialist and Texas. I just wish I could get a support group that has been through what I’ve been through just sort of put me in perspective.

Good Luck on your healing journey. Thank you for sharing this content. I have been dealing with Narcissistic Abuse for the past 10 years. It’s actually a Blessing knowing that I’m finally free. ❤

My mom let me vent about my school day as a child. I missed this ritual so much when due to the death of my father she went to work and was no longer at home at the end of the day.

It’s not that people CAN’T change it’s because they just don’t choose to change.

Thank you much for this incredible interview! I really felt the part that I was always wrong ,selfish an ungrateful when some topic o behavior came up ,that I should behave accordingly because so many women in town wanted my life,my house,my family... I was the crazy one because he was always right . I gave up my morning green juice because the noise of the blender bothered him at 8am coming back from talking the girls to school. Simple as parking my car in the driveway coming from grocery shopping and kids and stroller to take down , but No! he had a client or a friend over and allowed them to park in my space and I had to meanwhile park in the guest packing. So yes the little unrespectful things make you live your life as other want to run it . 😢

Radical acceptance

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To recover from this 28 year relationship has been the hardest thing I have ever had to do. Just like Robin explained I gave up so much of what was me. Thank you Dr Ramani for your intelligence and insightfulness around such a complex issue. I have listened and learnt from you now for the past 3 years, and have read your book. Thank you for helping survivors recover and to be able to look forward. I am so grateful.

You are saving my mind ❤ I thought I was going crazy and my feelings of embarrassment . I moved my life to be with this Woman. Then my life became Toxic, I had no friends, my Son was miserable and arguing all the time. About how I changed. It was awful. Now, I am trying to get my sense of self back. In addition, I am a therapist? Now I understand I WAS THE SUPPLY😢🙏🏾

What a great discussion. Thank you.

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I love your book learning so much more and yes thank you for writing this book. ❤