Many times, not nice means the truth. The truth often hurts and people’s feelings are hurt. Too much PC today. I am not responsible for others feelings since I’m not in charge of managing their feelings. Grow a pair.

You talk with such wisdom it all makes sense Thankyou

Put it down. Genius! Thank you

After you have listened to someone who has interrupted you, you can resume that point in the conversation by saying "as I was previously saying". This is a non-confrontational way of letting them know you graciously allowed them to interrupt you, but you are still going to make your point.

Usually they deserve an apology. I answer 4 days later, forgot the details or missed something

Amazing information😊

"The don't have the ability to care"-Read that again.

Great content, thanks 🙏

That is what I do, especially with the "I am sorry that you feel that I..." I work hard sometimes when someone pulls that. I educate them that it is not an apology.

` `What good advice. I often wondered how to handle that. type of situation. Thank You

So useful. With much thanks.

I value the insight and guidance you provide, I thank you❤️

Constant apologies could be interpreted like weakness or insecurity, and this is a image that no one wants to do. Sometimes silence talks more than 1000 words!!

This is so hard to accept, but it looks like the only mentality that would work with my husband.

Great words of wisdom

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This was so helpful and insightful! Happy it showed up on my timeline.

Wow, such a great podcast! Much appreciated on so many levels.

Great content and immaculate hair 😀

I am the cheekey one in such situation... and ask: "are you getting me a Capuccino?!! awww, how thoughtful" 😂 we both end laughing and i get a free caffeine rich drink 🤪🤭 Also, some people have no filter at all nor do they care to say that in front of strangers... so yes, we got to get that free coffee babies😂🥰😇

Thank you for your content. It's extremely helpful. I've got something to ask you with regards to this particular topic about apologies. I'd rather not do it on this platform. If you read this and can email Me oneday, I cam ask your advice about something. Thank you. Have an awesome day . 😊

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I just love you. Wish you were my boyfriend/best buddy.. Helped me more then you will ever know

I don’t give them the time of day SILENCE IS GOLDEN. I have no desire to raise grown mean people

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My mom tells me the sam thing all the time. I’m so sick of it

I always enjoy the " you are the only one in the history of mankind that's happened to"! The rest love us.

I am definitely following you. You have worthwhile things to share, and I am grateful for your teaching.

I'm in this situation at the moment and gently reminded this person that sometimes we might forget to consider the other people's boundaries, which were already mentioned before-twice. This person doesn't feel they said anything offensive and are suggesting I'm "just over-sensitive", which feels a bit like a form of gaslighting. I've had to directly tell this person that their comments are inconsiderate, but I get an "eyeroll" sort of response. I'll be taking a break from communicating with them and reconsidering our friendship. I don't need this.

I like the coffee one!!😊 ☕️

I love that you teach what most people don’t know.

This shirt is easily my favorite now. Curious, though. Has anyone ever used your tips and advice on you? 😊

I like the asking for a solution idea. Unfortunately, its not always this simple because if they know you're willing to hear there complaints they'll probably keep coming back to complain more.

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I could have used this advice for years!

Love this advice. What about when someone sends an email or text telling you something about them, you reply back with quite a lot of info, then nothing. No response. It's like they don't care what you have to say. I have friends that do this, so far I've let it go, but it really affects me and makes me feel like it stops us having a good connection. Is it just me or anyone else experience this?

Thank you! Very useful advice.

I love this !!!!❤

I had a manager who had to apologize for a comment she said to me, she said “I was told I have to apologize to you” “Sorry you didn’t like what I said” I obviously didn’t accept her apology, she had to tell corporate that I didn’t accept the apology.

I have a crush on Jefferson lol

How do you handle an apology that never happened. Great ideas in this. Thanks. Watched until end and you answered. Thank you

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The info is great. This should be used in premarital counseling. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world. Tina

Excellent. Accountability is key!

I just learned how to handle manipulating apologies. Awesome. Thank you!

I think you need to have a button like those they had at Staples, it would be called the Jefferson Go-to. Every time you want to hear a good advise people can press the Jefferson button 😂

I couldn't last more than a couple of minutes into this podcast. His unskilled "opinions" are sooooo wrong . ( eye roll ).

Better ADVICE coming from the comments here than what that guy is saying . Lmao ....HE IS CLUELESS.

This was very helpful. Thank you! I have a question, how do I respond with a person that feels no need to apologize because they state they are simply telling me the truth and do I have a problem hearing the truth (Truth based on what they think even if degrading and demeaning to me personally and comments about my life choices, parenting, my children Etc). I hear many times, would i rather that person lie to me? Or tell me the truth ? Couple people in my life tend to do this a lot, making me feel like I have to defend or explain. And they see absolutely no reason for a need to apologize to me, since they see their comment as caring enough about me to be risking upsetting me by telling me the truth Sigh Never get apologies from certain people I am made to feel that an apology is laughable, will never happen. ….even in circumstances where this person has been wrong with their perception, and I have been able to clarify that to them, I still don’t get an apology

This guy....all he is saying is blah blah, blah , blah, blah .