The Hidden Cost of Busyness
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2 ай бұрын
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@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: What recent physical discomforts have I experienced, and what might my body be trying to tell me?
@MindfulCreativeMuse
@MindfulCreativeMuse 2 күн бұрын
Yes! We are wired for connection, and are all worthy of love. 🥰
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Күн бұрын
🙏💛✨
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 3 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: What emotional support did I receive from my caregivers growing up, and how does it influence my relationships now?
@YourNextCast
@YourNextCast 3 күн бұрын
Good way to get my day kicked off. Thanks my friend. Happy Thursday
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 3 күн бұрын
Happy Thursday Titus! :)
@YourNextCast
@YourNextCast 4 күн бұрын
definitely going to have to watch this one again. always appreciate the insights.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 5 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: What emotional support did I receive from my caregivers growing up, and how does it influence my relationships now?
@Mychhattuvillage
@Mychhattuvillage 6 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 8 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: What choices in my life am I currently overlooking, and how can I reclaim my sense of freedom?
@YourNextCast
@YourNextCast 8 күн бұрын
Love the view you have Mike. Everything is teaching us something. The key is to lean in to the lessons. Guilt and shame can definitely hold us back.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 7 күн бұрын
Yes! Even during difficult times, part of me is excited haha. Because I know growth and deeper understanding of myself is right around the corner :) Thanks Titus!
@YourNextCast
@YourNextCast 9 күн бұрын
So very true and important. Thanks for the great words as always Mike.
@7onefour
@7onefour 10 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video!! I really needed this. I too was a byproduct that feeling sad is wrong. But, you helped me see that it’s a signal that is helping me process and heal my recent break up. This message gave me comfort.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 7 күн бұрын
So glad the message resonated with you! Embracing those emotions is such a key step in healing. Sending you comfort and peace as you move through this.
@7onefour
@7onefour 7 күн бұрын
@@MikeWangCoaching thank you 🙏
@morgyndanaewellness
@morgyndanaewellness 10 күн бұрын
Such important points you make, Mike! 🙌It’s about being in order to receive clear guidance for action in this extreme time of hyperactivity and distraction.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 10 күн бұрын
💯😊
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 10 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: In what ways have I resisted action, and how can I shift into conscious doing while staying grounded in being?
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 12 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: What new experience can I embrace today to challenge an old pattern?
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 12 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: How do my automatic emotional reactions affect my relationships and decision-making?
@hollykuhlman
@hollykuhlman 12 күн бұрын
Great perspective! Very helpful. Thank you!
@durgeshshravan5802
@durgeshshravan5802 12 күн бұрын
hey whats the best place to reach out to you ? is your instagram active
@nicojar
@nicojar 13 күн бұрын
Are you in any aspect a psychologist, a neurologist or a doctor? You use a lot of scientific jargon to explain your thoughts, but you're unlicensed, and are just a kung-fu/tai chi specialist of some sort. Why do you use pseudo-scientific jargon to give any kind of credibility to your speech if you have no scientific background/credential to start with? Why scammers who promote placebo/BS approaches always take the pseudo-scientific terms, and never have the credentials? I know you're probably making money out of this and it's the fastest road. But don't you think you should finish your studies, instead of building an easy-money scam based on belief and BS? Then you would be a real psychologist, and you could actually promote an honest work with dignity. You have no credentials whatsoever to give any advice about psychological or emotional issues, you have no connection whatsoever with "high performers" (you are not one, you didn't study anything that led to any license either), you are not a specialist in what you give advice for.
@nicojar
@nicojar 13 күн бұрын
Are you in any aspect a psychologist, a neurologist or a doctor? You use a lot of scientific jargon to explain your thoughts, but you're unlicensed, and are just a kung-fu/tai chi specialist of some sort. Why do you use pseudo-scientific jargon to give any kind of credibility to your speech if you have no scientific background/credential to start with? Why scammers who promote placebo/BS approaches always take the pseudo-scientific terms, and never have the credentials? I know you're probably making money out of this and it's the fastest road. But don't you think you should finish your studies, instead of building an easy-money scam based on belief and BS? Then you would be a real psychologist, and you could actually promote an honest work with dignity. You have no credentials whatsoever to give any advice about psychological or emotional issues, you have no connection whatsoever with "high performers" (you are not one, you didn't study anything that led to any license either), you are not a specialist in what you give advice for.
@MindfulCreativeMuse
@MindfulCreativeMuse 15 күн бұрын
Yes! I loved your road metaphor for neural pathways. I often think of neural pathways like a groove in a record player - the needle is more likely to slip into that spot because there's a deeper path laid.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 13 күн бұрын
Ooh, I love the analogy of grooves in a record! I'll have to use it in a future video (I already recorded tomorrow's video before seeing this comment haha). Reminds me of a time I hiked Mt. Parnassus here in Colorado. It's "only" a 13er, which many peak baggers look at in disdain because it's not a 14er 😂 But since not a lot of people hike it, there was no well-worn path to the top. So I had to create my own, which was both fun and scary at the same time :)
@MindfulCreativeMuse
@MindfulCreativeMuse 13 күн бұрын
I'm so glad you loved the analogy! I have to admit, I can’t take full credit for it-I’m pretty sure I heard it from a yoga teacher years ago. 😄 Your story about hiking Mt. Parnassus is such a perfect example! I love how you had to make your own path-there’s something really special (and a bit scary!) about taking the less-traveled route. It sounds like an amazing adventure! I can definitely see you sharing that in one of your videos-it ties in so beautifully with what you do. 😊
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 12 күн бұрын
@@MindfulCreativeMuse The analogy fits well, so thank you! I’m sure most of the ones I use originally came from somewhere else too :) Just evolving along the way. It was really scary lol. Complete with scrambling up rocks with an approaching thunderstorm (totally outside my comfort zone haha). But I made it to the top, and it was an amazing experience (that I lived to talk about). Thanks Cynthia!
@MindfulCreativeMuse
@MindfulCreativeMuse 12 күн бұрын
Glad you lived to tell the story! ☺️
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 17 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: Think about a recent impulsive reaction. What emotion was driving your decision?
@kaylilarkin
@kaylilarkin 19 күн бұрын
Yes! "State control" - basically our control over ourselves is the most powerful of all. Great exploration!
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 19 күн бұрын
Almost like a highly agentic individual 😂
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 19 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: Where in my life do I notice myself relying on force, and how could inner alignment create a different outcome?
@durgeshshravan5802
@durgeshshravan5802 19 күн бұрын
hey man where can i contact you ?
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 22 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: What recurring patterns do you notice in your relationships, and how might they reflect your inner emotional state?
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 23 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: What recurring patterns do you notice in your relationships, and how might they reflect your inner emotional state?
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 23 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: Where in my life have I mistaken awareness for transformation?
@danimadeline
@danimadeline 23 күн бұрын
So true! I recognised patterns in what I was attracting so promised myself I'd spend time alone to work it out and I feel so much better for it.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 23 күн бұрын
Awesome! I've definitely taken periods to transform patterns too :)
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 24 күн бұрын
Journaling Prompt: What expectations do I hold around transformation happening quickly, and how can I shift toward patience and consistent effort?
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 13 күн бұрын
Wow, thanks! I appreciate the feedback. Tomorrow's scheduled video is going to further expand on this topic :) And thanks for sharing how you've framed things in your mind. Focusing on what you want, rather than what you don't want. It is indeed a fun space to be in!
@SamwelSenwa
@SamwelSenwa 24 күн бұрын
God blessing you. You touch my heart. ❤❤❤❤❤ I ready this from Tanzania
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 24 күн бұрын
Greetings!
@SamwelSenwa
@SamwelSenwa 24 күн бұрын
I received in the name of jesus. Thank you for your prayer to me . We are in hard situation of life. I am a maasai from Tanzania. My parents are suffering do to poverty and effect of climatic change. I have a small bussines. I lacking enough capital. Pray to me and my familly . God bles blessing you​@@MikeWangCoaching
@DawnZimmermann
@DawnZimmermann 26 күн бұрын
Thank you. Iv come far. Iv healed from cptsd but right now Im going through a crazy situation and Im quite hard on myself for not coping perfectly. I thought I had this figured but what you say makes perfect sense. .
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 24 күн бұрын
That's great aboutbthe CPTSD. Sending you strength, peace, grace and compassion during this time.
@danimadeline
@danimadeline 26 күн бұрын
I've found myself getting stuck in the intellectualising trap time and time again! It's an important step but it doesn't lead to real change.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching 26 күн бұрын
I totally hear you. It can definitely feel like progress so it's so alluring :)
@zelshamada_v
@zelshamada_v 27 күн бұрын
"Commit to the process even when it feels uncomfortable." -- Thank you. I needed to hear this.
@danimadeline
@danimadeline 29 күн бұрын
Love everything you're saying here!
@MindfulCreativeMuse
@MindfulCreativeMuse Ай бұрын
Such a powerful discernment between patience and passivity! 🙏
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Journaling Prompt: What inner patterns keep repeating in my life, and how do they affect my experiences?
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Journaling Prompt: What does success feel like to me internally, and how can I prioritize that in my everyday actions?
@morgyndanaewellness
@morgyndanaewellness Ай бұрын
Such important points! 👏 It’s a very different foundation, consciousness, and quality of life.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Great point about quality of life! 💯
@kaylilarkin
@kaylilarkin Ай бұрын
I didn’t know about this distinction, it reminds me of the difference between “someone with high standards” vs a perfectionist. Thanks for the excellent video!
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Ah, thanks for the video idea 😆 I didn't come up with this distinction. I believe Brendon Burchard also has similar thoughts. In my mind, the importance is just having awareness around what's driving us to create and achieve.
@danimadeline
@danimadeline Ай бұрын
"Recognising whether you're driven by fear or purpose, by external validation or internal alignment" Wow. Love that.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Thanks Dani! Learning and working with this has been a big part of my path :)
@cobbyh9010
@cobbyh9010 Ай бұрын
Oh man, I am at work right now and need to hear that. Thank you for taking the time to make this video. I appreciate you
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Thanks for being here :) Glad it resonated 💛
@AtTheIntersection
@AtTheIntersection Ай бұрын
Thank you for making us aware of the connections between our emotions and my body. My stress lingers in my body for days before it goes away. I need to divert my mind on other things so my mind won't keep thinking.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing! I'm curious if you've found anything that helps you, in addition to directing your attention onto other things? For example, intentional breathing is something that I use with my students. I imagine from your recent community post that hiking and movement helps you :)
@danimadeline
@danimadeline Ай бұрын
It's absolutely so important to address emotions rather than supress them, no matter how painful it is. Bottling them up causes more pain in the long run!
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
💯 We hold unprocessed emotions in our bodies, which can lead to physical tension and illness over time. This is a big part of what I help people with at my studio teaching kung fu, tai chi and qigong :)
@KingaGorski
@KingaGorski Ай бұрын
Spot on-it's normal, natural, and to be expected that we'll experience negative emotions. Welcome to being human. These emotions are actually beneficial to us because they provide us with information, such as there being some type of 'threat' in our environment that we must respond to and resolve. It's only when those lower frequency emotional states become chronic that they start to become maladapative. 〰
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Absolutely agree! Emotions are like muscles-we train them over time. When we repeatedly engage in certain emotional states, they become our default. It's all about consciously choosing the ones that serve us best.
@davidwhitcher1972
@davidwhitcher1972 Ай бұрын
My only emotions are Anger, Guilt, Sorrow, and Shame.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
I hear you. I've been there. It's natural to feel like anger, guilt, and shame are all there is. Especially if they've been with you for a long time. But I believe these emotions often mask deeper feelings. For example, for some it's sadness or a desire for connection. If you're willing to look deeper, you'll likely notice there's more to you than just these emotions. They're not who you are. I truly believe you have the power to transform them.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Journaling Prompt: Think of a recent strong emotion. How did your body respond, and what does this reveal about your emotional patterns?
@danimadeline
@danimadeline Ай бұрын
Focus on possibility, not limitation!
@hollykimball
@hollykimball Ай бұрын
Trying to understand this way of relating...my child is an international adoptee and she self protects by being transactional. Its very painful to live with....
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this - it’s great that you already see her behavior as a self-protection mechanism. Transactional behavior often comes from a place of needing control or safety. While it’s painful, I truly believe that through consistent love, patience, and presence, things can slowly shift as she begins to feel more secure. Healing takes time, but your understanding and patience are powerful first steps. Sending you both strength.
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Journaling Prompt: What would change in your life if you consistently believed, “I can do this”?
@MikeWangCoaching
@MikeWangCoaching Ай бұрын
Journaling Prompt: Think about a time when you experienced unexpected joy or peace. What was different in your mindset or actions that allowed you to feel that emotion?