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@AxiomEcho
@AxiomEcho 6 жыл бұрын
nice video and your dogs are hilarious!! Its so great that you feel positive and at peace!
@DorysStories
@DorysStories 7 жыл бұрын
Your dogs are so cute! I hope you get that job & I hope you stay happy 🦄
@ReviewsGaloreUK
@ReviewsGaloreUK 7 жыл бұрын
Sadly after a few bad experiences getting dragged in and involved I tend to leave alone now sadly :(
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Reviews GaloreUK Very true. I try to give advice on how to remain positive and love yourself when a friend is in a bad way, rather than try to fix their problems. Sometimes it's just good to know someone is there. A hug can be enough I guess ❤🦄
@ReviewsGaloreUK
@ReviewsGaloreUK 7 жыл бұрын
Dogs were far to distracting lol just for that liked and subscribed lol
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Reviews GaloreUK Aaah! That's excellent! I'll have to film the dogs more often! 😂❤🦄
@xingcat
@xingcat 7 жыл бұрын
Great video! I tried to pay attention, but PUG IN THE BACKGROUND! PUG! DOGGIE! DOG! PUPPY! Knowing what we want and what we are working towards is very important, for sure. Thanks for the link to my blog! Very nice of you.
@nieniemiauw
@nieniemiauw 7 жыл бұрын
I know right! Hahaha
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Nienie Miauw Isn't he the cutest?! I love my little man! And he'll never get any bigger! He's fully grown! 😍😂🦄
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+xingcat Thank you so much! Doug makes me laugh so much... my little guy. Thank YOU for your blog! The articles are amazing and really help and inspire me. ❤🦄
@Shavinism
@Shavinism 7 жыл бұрын
Awesome advice. On a lighter note - people always ask me for relationship advice, only to do the complete opposite, lol
@xingcat
@xingcat 7 жыл бұрын
I always think that the person who continuously gets into terrible relationships gets something out of them. And maybe a closer, more intense friendship with the friends who support her through all these crises is what she gets.
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+xingcat That's a really good way of looking at it actually! See, you're so lovely! This question certainly made me appreciate Claire all the more as well, which was nice x
@DorysStories
@DorysStories 7 жыл бұрын
This is great advice. It really hurts to see a friend suffer, but self preservation is super important.
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Dory's Stories Thank you. It took me a long time to realise that looking after myself was just as important as looking after everyone else, even though it's one of the first things in any self help book lol. I'm glad I'm slowly taking all this learning on board! 😜🦄
@DorysStories
@DorysStories 7 жыл бұрын
That is such an amazing answer. I am so excited about your characters! <3 :-D
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Dory's Stories Thank you so much! I need to get back on with writing the book actually. Stumbled a bit over the last few weeks but I don't want to lose too much momentum or it'll never get finished! Your AAA piece is AWESOME btw! I'm about to head over to your channel to rewatch the video xxx
@DorysStories
@DorysStories 7 жыл бұрын
I am so glad you are feeling a lot happier! That little book is super precious! What a lovely gift! Xingcat is an angel. I don't know how he can stand being so kind and amazing all the time!
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Dory's Stories I know, he's an absolute STAR. He deserves so much awesomeness in this life, and so do you for being such a wonderful person. I'm so glad I get to interact with people like you a Xing ❤🦄
@DorysStories
@DorysStories 7 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you have been struggling! I have chronic migraines and depression as well, so I understand! Take all the time you need and focus on feeling well
@PrabhKaaSimran
@PrabhKaaSimran 7 жыл бұрын
awesome video :}sub me back
@PrabhKaaSimran
@PrabhKaaSimran 7 жыл бұрын
awesome video :}sub me back
@Poodlepaws44
@Poodlepaws44 7 жыл бұрын
Very glad to hear you're feeling better and you have such an awesome support system. That really makes a big difference. :)
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Poodlepaws44 Thank you! Yes, it's much better to feel better lol. I don't know where I'd be without my support network. Which includes all of these amazing comments, so thank you so much for being part of the net of joy that keeps me from sinking too deep. 💕🦄
@Poodlepaws44
@Poodlepaws44 7 жыл бұрын
Always happy to help when I can :)
@Poodlepaws44
@Poodlepaws44 7 жыл бұрын
Also, I should say that your videos always brighten up my day too. So it's a two way street. You give fantastic advice in them as well and Claire has written some really thoughtful and interesting questions. It's also really great to hear that you've been getting some good writing done.
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Poodlepaws44 She does write awesome questions, doesn't she? My awesome wife. I'm glad my videos brighten up your day, too. That's the whole point. Share the love and happiness 😁🦄
@xingcat
@xingcat 7 жыл бұрын
Aw, I'm so glad you're feeling happier!! George would be VERY HAPPY to hear that he's been of help. I'll let him know when I get home. :) It's World Puppetry Day, so it's extra special for all the other folks in our house. And I've just written about them all as if they're sentient, so now I have to go and reevaluate my life. :)
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+xingcat HAHA! They are!!! ... Aren't they?! Lol. I do the same thing with my characters. I have to warm people before I go out to dinner or shopping with them that I'll often say stuff like, "Nico would LOVE this!" Otherwise they don't know who all these people are in my life. Hehe. Happy world puppetry day!!! Everybody loves puppets!!! 😍❤🦄
@JessaJay
@JessaJay 7 жыл бұрын
I love your little giggle and the unicorn drawing! Did you draw it yourself!?
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+JessaJay Hehe, thanks, it was completely off the bat whilst I was recording another intro "weehee" sound that I wanted. Couldn't resist the giggle. My wife actually drew Marvin the Unicorn for me based on a really rough sketch I gave her, and she drew him upside down to make me laugh and he stuck as the logo. She's Blacksummer Colouring btw if you wanna check out the video where she draws him (I do the voice over, tee hee hee hee) I've started doodling more of Marvin now... watch this space for my attempts at Unicorn madness! 😅🦄
@JessaJay
@JessaJay 7 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this video on a spiritual level. I have chronic pain and depression and lately I haven't been able to push myself to create. It's heart breaking.
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+JessaJay Oh no! You poor thing! I admire you so much for producing your videos as frequently as you do. Your video on depression was spot on, it was brilliant. You stay strong and be amazing, Jessa. You're fabulous ❤🦄
@Inktangles
@Inktangles 7 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear how low you've been. 😔 And I can totally relate to where you are right now. Take things one day at a time and you'll pull through beautifully. 💖 🌹
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Inktangles Thank you so much! It's true. I'm definitely taking one day at a time right now and I am improving tenfold. 😄 I can't wait to be completely back to myself! 🐒🦄
@ArtAdditive
@ArtAdditive 7 жыл бұрын
i really admire how you can put it all in words. I'm in a similar position and it's just so hard to do things sometimes.
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Chelsey Austin Aaaaw! I hope you feel better soon as well! Yes, sometimes getting up is the hardest thing. Pat on the back to us all. We got up and spoke to other people via this comment thread. That's a big achievement. I'm doing so much better day by day now. Feel like I've passed through the storm that it was... it's inevitable that it'll return but right now that's okay and I'll be alright. 😁 Stay amazing, you strong unicorn, you! 💕🦄
@Poodlepaws44
@Poodlepaws44 7 жыл бұрын
I really love your videos and I'm glad you're back but the important thing right now is that you take care of yourself and focus on getting well and feeling better. I'll keep my fingers and toes crossed that you will hopefully get some good news as far as lab results and treatment options go.
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Poodlepaws44 Thank you! I'm sure I'll be fine. It's not life threatening so that's always a plus, it's just incredibly annoying. Good news: I'm feeling soooo much better today! Day by day I'm peeking out of the Cave of Sadness. Give it another few and I'll be frolicking in the Meadow of Joy. Haha. Might have to create a children's book with that in... Stay amazing, you awesome herd-member! 💕🦄
@xingcat
@xingcat 7 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you've been feeling low! Definitely take good care of yourself and let Claire take care of you, too!
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+xingcat Thank you! I definitely will! Feeling better today, and watching George the Self Esteem Cat has been helping me as well. Such awesome messages of hope and love! Thank you so much for those videos. They really keep me going xxx 😄🦄
@Poodlepaws44
@Poodlepaws44 7 жыл бұрын
Your book sounds absolutely awesome. I'll be honest and say Vampire stories aren't especially my cup of tea but there are definitely exceptions, like the Buffy series, and your book series sounds like it would be more than worthy of a spot on that list. I have several friends who I feel would also really enjoy your books so as soon as they're out you can count on me to spread the word! :D I completely agree with your answer as to why these sorts of characters and stories are important for LGBTQ+ youth. I would have killed for a book series like this growing up. Instead... I was force fed the Bible and... while I have nothing against believers, that really really messed me up. 19 years to figure out the basic idea of who I am and then another 10 or so years to finally accept myself and just let go of all the religious dogma that caused me extreme amounts of mental grief and all of the self loathing that went with that. It is so important for LGBTQ+ youth to realize that things can and will get better. That there is a place in the world. There is hope for a future and you can definitely find love and anything else you're looking for in your life. And yeah, things are better in the media today. There is more visibility and more acceptance. But more representation and more LGBTQ+ friendly stories and characters never ever hurt. And in many ways we still have a very long way to go. Also, I totally agree with Claire and wouldn't mind future videos exploring the characters a bit more in depth. :)
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Poodlepaws44 Aw, thank you so much!!! I've had so much fun doing so much writing at the moment. I think this video also inspired me to get more writing done as well. I definitely think there can be more LGBTQ+ stories out there, just to normalise it, since it is normal but lots of people don't think it is. Wow, Bible huh...? You'd be a fount of knowledge for another story about angels that I wanna do in the future... lol. 😇 Shameless! I'll take ANY opportunity to get more characters! Lol! I'm glad you discovered yourself and managed to overcome the difficulties... Well done you!!! You stay amazing! You're absolutely fantastic! 😁😘🦄
@xingcat
@xingcat 7 жыл бұрын
Wonderful! Now you need to finish this book so I CAN READ IT!!!!
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
xingcat Aaah! Yes I do! I'm planning to have it done this year... fingers and toes and eyes crossed! lol 😅🦄
@IllustrationWithEveii
@IllustrationWithEveii 7 жыл бұрын
yes. this video is so needed ! I do have a question kinda related ~ Q: how to deal with un necessary negative comments, bullying ect ?
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Illustration With Eveii Ooh! I LOVE this question! Definitely gonna answer this in a video soon... ooh, I'm already planning an answer... 😁❤🦄
@Shavinism
@Shavinism 7 жыл бұрын
The power of positivity! Thanks for linking my channel :) Here's are a couple of other discussion topics: biggest fear - both physical and hypothetical (examples spiders or flights vs dying tomorrow, or failure). 2) If optimism is a state of mind, how do you think one can become more optimistic? If not, why not? Hope to see you answer these :)
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Shavinism Ooh, thank you! I can't wait to answer these! I'm going to film the answers this week... ooh, you've really got my brain whirring! Thank you!!! 💕🦄
@Poodlepaws44
@Poodlepaws44 7 жыл бұрын
Agreed 100%. Another great video
@Shavinism
@Shavinism 7 жыл бұрын
Hard question! Not sure why it's important, but I think that kind people are happier, like you said. I did see a TED talk (will watch your vid in a sec, just saw it's up) about what makes certain people happy and the 2 criteria were - growth and contribution beyond oneself. Those are the key factors.
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Shavinism That's so true! The happiness consultant we had at work mentioned growth, getting into the flow of something, as well.as helping others. It makes sense to me. We're communal and intelligent creatures... we give and we learn, and these things make us happy and satisfied. It certainly works for me! Thank you for another awesome comment! 💕🦄
@xingcat
@xingcat 7 жыл бұрын
Oh, I've fantasized about giving TED Talks all the time. I love the idea, even though TED Talks are kind of problematic for a variety of reasons. I just like the spotlight, I think. :)
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+xingcat Yeah... I may have been a bit more bashful in the video than I am in real life sometimes... I may have practiced a few speeches in the car, for example... lol 😅🦄
@SashaFitzgerald
@SashaFitzgerald 7 жыл бұрын
Great advice! I like the glitter metaphor. 😊
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Sasha Fitzgerald Haha, thanks. I like thinking in glitter. Makes me happy and sparkly 😁💕🦄
@Poodlepaws44
@Poodlepaws44 7 жыл бұрын
100% agreed. This is something I struggle with too. Great advice, as always :)
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Poodlepaws44 Thank you! It was a tough question! I love how I basically did a 180 from my initial response haha! 😅🦄
@xingcat
@xingcat 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's a fine line between "nice" and "pushover."
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+xingcat Absolutely. I've been a pushover far too often! Lol. We bounce back though 😁🦄
@xingcat
@xingcat 7 жыл бұрын
Hooray for livig with artists!
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+xingcat they are a special bunch of people! Lol. Truly awesome though. Wouldn't wanna be without them, and anyone else who's creative, unique and imaginative 😆💕🦄
@IllustrationWithEveii
@IllustrationWithEveii 7 жыл бұрын
Haha the mess means there's just reminders of us all over the place ~ xD I'm forever leaving pencils and stuff in random places, found one in with my toothbrush the other day 😂
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Illustration With Eveii Awesome! Yeah, the creative part of me loves the mess and honestly sometimes I wish I could be that free... then I look around and get the urge to out it all in a drawer lol 😂🦄
@SashaFitzgerald
@SashaFitzgerald 7 жыл бұрын
We artists are a messy bunch haha! I'm excited for your new channel! I hope you'll let us know when it's up! 😊💜
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Sasha Fitzgerald Lol. You certainly are! Thanks, I'll definitely be raving about my new channel. Just need to finish my little presentation for it and then I think I'll take the plunge... I just need to do it! 😅🦄
@Poodlepaws44
@Poodlepaws44 7 жыл бұрын
Generally I'm like you. Everything has its place and I'm normally very tidy and organized. Unless I get depressed. Then... stuff just kinda stays where I was last using it. And then when I feel better I get annoyed at not keeping up with things. Also, I really wanted to say that your hair looks extra lovely in todays video. :) Or maybe I should say Extra sparkley Unicorn-esque? Either way, love it.
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Poodlepaws44 Aw thank you!!! I love curling the front bit of my hair, I think it brings out the colours better. It's looking extra sparkly unicorny lol 😍🦄
@HettysArt
@HettysArt 7 жыл бұрын
Yes I've been wanting for this!! 😁 nice to know I'm not the only one that's messy haha 😅
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Hetty's Art I think it's a creative thing...? We get lost in the flow and the real world falls away. It just means you're busy being inspired! It's a good thing lol 😄🦄
@SashaFitzgerald
@SashaFitzgerald 7 жыл бұрын
I love how you have a story and characters for your positive and negative feelings. That crocheted unicorn is adorable! 😊💜
@IllustrationWithEveii
@IllustrationWithEveii 7 жыл бұрын
Id love to see claire draw steve, such a cool way of explaining things
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Illustration With Eveii It'd be so awesome! I've sketched him again but I'd love to see what Claire does with him. I think I can persuade her after fanart Feb... 😉🦄
@xingcat
@xingcat 7 жыл бұрын
Aw, little Marvin crocheted unicorn! So cute! I don't think I followed a lot of this because I'm sick with a fever today, but I hope your demons and monkeys are all glittered up somewhere.
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+xingcat Aw! You poor thing! To be fair, it didn't make a heck of a lot of sense anyway... I hope you feel better soon! Unicorn luck to you to boost your immune system! 💕🦄
@SashaFitzgerald
@SashaFitzgerald 7 жыл бұрын
Another great video! It's so important to be able to talk openly about mental health. 😊💜
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Sasha Fitzgerald Thank you! I'm a big advocate for getting more support and discussion about it, especially for young people as well. Glad you enjoyed! Stay amazing!!! 💕🦄
@xingcat
@xingcat 7 жыл бұрын
Indeed! I had a miserable 10-year period where I was basically unable to function, and now I'm doing really well. You can get through it and to the other side.
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+xingcat I'm so glad you made it out the other side. We're lucky to have you. You're amazing 🦄
@IllustrationWithEveii
@IllustrationWithEveii 7 жыл бұрын
Sometimes just talking to somebody can make you feel so much better I think, sometimes it's just nice to get what your feeling out of your head and off your chest
@HettysArt
@HettysArt 7 жыл бұрын
Another great video full of amazing advice! ^-^
@Poodlepaws44
@Poodlepaws44 7 жыл бұрын
Claire is really good at putting you on the spot with these questions! If I had to think of 28 things it would probably take me forever. You have so much great advice and insight in your videos. I love them so much! #19 was probably one of the most important things I've learned in my life. And also one of the hardest. Self acceptance really does make a huge difference in pretty much every way. This can be one of the most difficult personal battles someone faces in their life, especially if they are different or feel different in any way. Another big one was... number... 20... 21? 23? 23! yes! Never go to sleep on an argument. This is extremely important. It was recently proven by science that negative emotional memories are hard to reverse after a night's sleep. I don't know what it is, but even trying to go to sleep when there are unsolved problems in my relationship seems to amplify the negative feelings so much more. My boyfriend is the kind of guy who isn't great at dealing with tough questions right away... he has to take time to think about it. Meanwhile I wanted my answer yesterday. And trying to go to sleep while these things are left unfinished not only makes it harder for me to actually get to sleep, but seems to make everything seem worse than it actually might be. *sighs* It's really hard loving someone who is bad at giving you the things you need. >< The only things I would add to the list are, Suicide is never the answer and It gets better. No matter how bad things are today they can always get better. The waiting can be really painful and it can be hard to be patient but the wait will be worth it.
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Poodlepaws44 Aw! Thank you so much! Yes, accepting myself continues to be my toughest challenge. All I want to do sometimes is be someone else, but then I wouldn't be able to do all the things that make me me... Anyway. 😂 Claire and I spent a long time figuring out how we were going to sort through any disagreements. Believe me, it took a while! Lol Speaking of taking a while... those 28 answers? 12 minutes to think of! Haha! I just snipped that bit out (me staring gormlessly at the computer screen) haha. You're absolutely right. It does get better. I'm so glad I got to stick around. Stay amazing! You're such a unicorn! 😉🦄
@SashaFitzgerald
@SashaFitzgerald 7 жыл бұрын
Great list of things, I could relate to a lot of them, especially the 'take the medicine you've been prescribed' bit haha! I also love Disney too! Hmm a couple things I've learned: True friends are hard to find, if you find one, work hard to keep the friendship strong. Disneyland is the happiest place on Earth 😁 Keep pushing forward even when times are hard. Never give up Always be thankful for everything you have in your life That's all I could think of on the spot! Great video! 😊💜
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Sasha Fitzgerald Thank you! They're fantastic things to have learnt. It's very true; good friends are definitely hard to find. I've definitely been digging deep and finding out just how strong I can be in tough times at the moment. Stay amazing my fellow unicorn! 😉🦄
@xingcat
@xingcat 7 жыл бұрын
Some great life advice in this! Tackling 28 things! Good work!
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+xingcat Thank you! It was a tough one! Can't wait for 40 things in 40 years! Lol
@SashaFitzgerald
@SashaFitzgerald 7 жыл бұрын
You're very brave to talk about your down times. I hope your spirits pick up soon! 💜💜💜💜
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Sasha Fitzgerald Thank you! I am feeling much better now 😁💕🦄
@DorysStories
@DorysStories 7 жыл бұрын
I know the struggle! I hope it gets easier soon 😶
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Dory's Stories Aw! Thank you! I'm doing much better now. This morning was hard but my lunch cheered me up and I'm me again! Chips have saved the day! Lol 😂🦄
@strawberrydolls
@strawberrydolls 7 жыл бұрын
I hope you have a better day tomorrow
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Strawberry Doll Thank you!!! I'll definitely be happier in my next video!
@HettysArt
@HettysArt 7 жыл бұрын
You did so well talking about your down times 😊 and it's great that you spoke about this as it tends to be a brushed over topic and ignored ☺ Another great video! ❤
@projectunicorn7777
@projectunicorn7777 7 жыл бұрын
+Hetty's Art Aw thank you!!! I think it helps. Just took a while to find the balance between honesty and too sad! Lol