Respect man if you've overcome your inner barriers. I don't know if I'll ever get over mine. By the way, I really hope you have a pocket ashtray for those cigarettes by the sea 😊.
@ryan124007Ай бұрын
How hard is it to get girls in Sweden?
@alexanderSnilssonАй бұрын
Well, depends on what you're comparing with! Like any other place I'd imagine. If not harder. High standards. They sure as heck aren't gonna run after you, hehe.
@ryan124007Ай бұрын
@@alexanderSnilsson Well I have no game anyway. Jag har studerat svenska faktiskt. Jag har varit till Sverige. Jag kunde inte skaffa flickor. Tror du att de tycker inte om asiatiksa män?
@alexanderSnilssonАй бұрын
@@ryan124007 Vad kul att höra! Vart ifrån asien är du? Jag har varit en del i Japan, Thailand och så bodde jag ett halvår i Taiwan. Jag tror inte asiatiska män har några problem, har haft många asiatiska vänner jag vuxit upp med som skaffat fina flickvänner! Handlar bara om att bli säker i sig själv och bygga lite sociala färdigheter :)
@SpacioArteАй бұрын
Lmfao you made her feel so insecure when you mentioned her eating so much chocolate.. and to take care of herself AND IF SHE HAD A BF?!? No no no no no
@alexanderSnilssonАй бұрын
Hehe Maybe so, but still no regrets, only learnings and growth!
@sammusic7537Ай бұрын
I really like that there is a shorter version of this!
@alexanderSnilssonАй бұрын
I did it because I needed it myself at the time! Glad you enjoyed
@NicolasTsarouhas2 ай бұрын
Thank you one day we will all be able to talk if people like you pass the torch
@alexanderSnilsson2 ай бұрын
We need to take the shame out of the conversation and dare to have more dialogues around stuff like this!
@gitarbro21752 ай бұрын
Good job, continue!
@alexanderSnilsson2 ай бұрын
Hey Thanks man! How's are you doing?
@marojuajaykumar3 ай бұрын
Nice
@alexanderSnilsson3 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@chaseperez6773 ай бұрын
I cannot tell you how timely this is. I recently got the paid version of Chat GPT and have been trying to make insightful virtual agent experts to give me advice while working on various projects. I then thought, how cool would it be if I created my own board of directors? *I blew my own, mind* Then I figured someone else must have thought of it too, and here your video is. EXCELLENT work Alex. Thanks, brother!
@alexanderSnilsson3 ай бұрын
Great minds think alike! Appreciate the comment and that you liked it. Hope it will serve you well, and let me know if you have any feedback in how to improve it! :)
@ElleNaturally4 ай бұрын
Walking helps but since the summer heat and humidity kicked in, I haven’t been doing the daily walking as much. Need to get that back on track 💛
@alexanderSnilsson4 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing! I used to do so much walking when I lives i Stockholm. I find it to be way harder here. But in genereal any kind of movement workout helps me a lot!
@GiulioPaganini4 ай бұрын
you will reserve to have tons of followers!!
@alexanderSnilsson4 ай бұрын
Haha, I deserve what I get! Appreciate it though. Just started being active again, doing live streams every Sunday. Keep building that social confidence my friend, I believe in you!!
@ElleNaturally4 ай бұрын
Had no idea you settled on North Carolina. That’s pretty cool 💜
@alexanderSnilsson4 ай бұрын
Since mid April this year it's been my reality! Working for a consultant company here, so not unlikley for me to be moved around. But for now - this is it! Where are you living? :)
@ElleNaturally4 ай бұрын
@@alexanderSnilsson I’m in New England but previously went to school and lived in Sweden to make a change. So we did the opposite ☺️💜
@TrueCoombsey5 ай бұрын
"Do you have social fears?" "Yeah" 💀
@alexanderSnilsson5 ай бұрын
😎
@massiemontea088 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I'm here on East Coast in USA
@amohvac2710 ай бұрын
Great job Bro. I just asked a girl for her number at the grocery store and got the Im too busy all the time excuse but she was hot so I just said no worries stay beautiful and walked away like a man 🤘👍
@alexanderSnilsson10 ай бұрын
That's the way! Just let it rinse off you like a hot shower. Keep staying grounded and fearless!And Merry Christmas & Happy New Year :D
@borism102510 ай бұрын
Coolt Alex! 💪🏼
@alexanderSnilsson10 ай бұрын
Tack Boris! & God Jul & Gott Nytt år 🥰
@borism102510 ай бұрын
@@alexanderSnilsson Detsamma!
@sijiejiang144310 ай бұрын
will check it out, and thanks for sharing
@alexanderSnilsson10 ай бұрын
Sweet, let me know what you think of it :)
@abcha0s10 ай бұрын
I'll check it out
@alexanderSnilsson10 ай бұрын
Please do, and would love to hear what you thought of it!
@MarcelSamyn10 ай бұрын
Ahh yess I did the same thing!
@alexanderSnilsson10 ай бұрын
It's great, right! Have any good tips to share on your tweaking? I should do a more niched one for my main role models and upload scripts from podcasts, books, etc for better impersiations. Sometimes I get a bit too repetitive or generic answers, but sometimes that is just what I need to hear too. Just articulating the question, or whatever it is I want to vent, is half the battle! I saw you too have a common interest and channel on the topic - got yourself a new sub!
@alexanderSnilsson10 ай бұрын
Go to my channel or see the comments to see the full video! This is a GPT APP I've created. Also, the subtitles is autogenerated, I know it spelled badly 😆! Sorry, Tom & Brené!
@williambeltrao681511 ай бұрын
Do it man. Wish to you all the best
@alexanderSnilsson11 ай бұрын
Thanks, man. I'm prepping for it!
@shodapad0711 ай бұрын
Interesting ❤
@alexanderSnilsson11 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@alexanderSnilsson11 ай бұрын
Anything you know you should do, but FEAR holds you back?
@mandellan11 ай бұрын
Yeei friend. Aj will miss u
@alexanderSnilsson11 ай бұрын
@@mandellan Nothing will change, we'll probably talk as much as we do now 😘
@nathananderson8720 Жыл бұрын
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZbin channel 6 months ago about self development. Now I have 568 subs and > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
@alexanderSnilsson Жыл бұрын
Hey Nathan! That warms my heart so much to hear! And big success or not, it still is such a great vehicle for your own personal development journey! At least it has the potential to be. I had my channel deleted in April, and got it back three days ago. And even though I am not active anymore, getting comments like these makes it all worth it. I belive in you, my friend!
@nathananderson8720 Жыл бұрын
@@alexanderSnilsson I sincerely appreciate such kind words! When I was a kid, all I wanted was to have a career that pays well so I can buy whatever I want but now that I’m grown up and went through tons of setbacks from losing tons of people in my life, getting lost in the world with full of life traps, being ridiculed for pursuing my dreams, and so on, I can say that long-lasting happiness can’t be bought or earned because it comes from within us. Continue to grow as a person and I’m so glad that you’re part of this journey! I’m hoping to upload my next one this month, which is more than an hr long. I’ve been working hard for many months now to present it in the best way I can while keeping in mind that I can never make it perfect. I hope that you’ll enjoy it! Thanks so much for your support!
@alexanderSnilsson Жыл бұрын
Looking forward to following your journey! And from a marketing perspective, you may consider dividing that one-hour piece up into episodes to make it more digestible for people @@nathananderson8720 . Stay strong my friend!
@nathananderson8720 Жыл бұрын
@alexanderSnilsson Thanks for your input. I'm planning to upload short versions of it after uploading the entire video and that's part of my plans already. Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say based on your posts and profile that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my KZbin channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a KZbinr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this KZbin thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)
@connormcintosh4983 Жыл бұрын
The only piece of advice I would suggest is cold approaching with someone else filming you, and not letting the girl know you are recording right away. This way you will be able to face your fears even more and it will be a more natural interaction. I plan on doing this with my KZbin channel. Best of luck!
@connormcintosh4983 Жыл бұрын
Dude good for you for doing that. I am just now getting into cold approach and I am having a lot of trouble staying consistent because of how difficult it is. It takes balls to approach a woman who is that beautiful. Also, just know that anyone who is hating on you 99% has never approached lol, because anyone who has knows how difficult it is and will respect you rather than criticize you. Keep it up man :)
@jamaljaquice7956 Жыл бұрын
yo bro i think the problem you have is because your anxious you cant think of the next thing to say so it feels like its not articulating well and you are talking on the spot. you might mess up by just saying first thing on your mind. you should keep cold approaching but just remember to talk to her like shes one of the bros as in being comfortable with her by not putting her on a pedastool and thinking shes too good for you.
@alexanderSnilsson Жыл бұрын
There's a lot of truth in what you just said! I've had a girlfriend for three years now, this was before that, but since yesterday it's time to get out there again! Thanks buddy
@jamaljaquice7956 Жыл бұрын
@@alexanderSnilsson no problem also i subbed because you seem like a great guy
@alexanderSnilsson Жыл бұрын
@@jamaljaquice7956 Thanks man! I've been really low on content for the channel lately, we'll see if my new life situation will change things!
@alexanderSnilsson Жыл бұрын
Want to improve your confidence around women? Mark Manson's book, Models was one of the books that helped me build better confidence in this area! Affiliate link if you want to support the channel :) www.amazon.com/Models-Attract-Women-Through-Honesty/dp/1463750358/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1677404698&sr=8-1&_encoding=UTF8&tag=mindsculpting-20&linkCode=ur2&linkId=4443c7f0c675b1bfbe35c74b5143271e&camp=1789&creative=9325
@alexanderSnilsson Жыл бұрын
Want to improve your confidence around women? Mark Manson's book, Models was one of the books that helped me build better confidence in this area! Affiliate link if you want to support the channel :) www.amazon.com/Models-Attract-Women-Through-Honesty/dp/1463750358/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1677404698&sr=8-1&_encoding=UTF8&tag=mindsculpting-20&linkCode=ur2&linkId=4443c7f0c675b1bfbe35c74b5143271e&camp=1789&creative=9325
@wavyflow454 Жыл бұрын
Keep practicing bud . You don’t ask for the washroom then hit on the cashier that opened it for you 😂😂😂
@alexanderSnilsson Жыл бұрын
Sure you can 😎
@tdaye6978 Жыл бұрын
I've done this many times, but my conversations don't typically go as smooth. I'm not great at thinking of stuff to say when I'm nervous. Something I'll have to get better at
@alexanderSnilsson Жыл бұрын
And practicing with a bit of researching what has worked for others will eventually take you there!
@lavans06 Жыл бұрын
So that first girl who hugged - Isn't it annoying they say they have a significant other - you never intended to flirt yet she went there? So why not turn it into platonic hangout? Since the goal is for befriending? Is not everyone into plain befriending these days ;p
@lavans06 Жыл бұрын
What do we do with our eyes then? open, close, legit question lol ... I guess that's a topic with significant other in the moment ;p why does society have the rules of eyes closed - though I can see how off putting it would be to open your eyes idk
@MiketheNerdRanger Жыл бұрын
FORGET responsibility. Forget blame. They're *BOTH* useless. Instead, focus on how you can respond. No situation is as hopeless as you may think.
@JohnnyWalkerBlack142 Жыл бұрын
Even though she had a boyfriend you handled that amazingly well
@alexanderSnilsson Жыл бұрын
Thanks man :)
@issacperez187 Жыл бұрын
weirdest Conversation lmao never admit your fears to strangers like that.
@alexanderSnilsson Жыл бұрын
Hehe, well I was proud of my doings in the end, and this was just as much about building social confidence and self-esteem - and in that regard I succeeded:)
@hurrifanc.34342 жыл бұрын
This was terrible. You made yourself look pathetic. Why would any women want to date you when your putting yourself in a frame for pity. Pity that your facing your fears. By all means keep facing your fears but don't do it from a frame of desperation.
@alexanderSnilsson Жыл бұрын
I understand your point about the potential for a negative perception, but for me, facing my fears is about personal growth and self-improvement. And that's bigger than weather I wass succesfull in achiving an external win or what she thought of me. This was mostly about not allowing fear to hold me back and striving to do what scared med, and from that point of view I grew and build my confidence. THanks for your feedback though!
@brncrvr2 жыл бұрын
look at the fear in her eyes when you first talk to her, don't waste your time on girls like this. Its AWESOME you can do cold approaches but you have to know who to approach, not just the prettiest girl you see.
@alexanderSnilsson2 жыл бұрын
It's a waste of time only if you look at the actual results. But I grew from the actual experience of approaching, and building that self-esteem, despite if the outcome led to something more with that particular girl. Stll, I hear what you are saying!
@brncrvr2 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderSnilsson you are absolutely right, your outcome is self-esteem and I think you have an awesome personality and I really hope you find a woman that appreciates you and looks at you with admiration because you deserve nothing less
@alexanderSnilsson2 жыл бұрын
@@brncrvr Thank you man! I wish yo all the same!
@jamestodd32422 жыл бұрын
This is life changing I wish I heard this 30 years ago
@alexanderSnilsson2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you at the very least heard it now, not a day too late!!
@habenwoldemelak45072 жыл бұрын
Goood job
@alexanderSnilsson2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😌
@Hitman-mn9qg2 жыл бұрын
They’re lying for having bfs
@alexanderSnilsson2 жыл бұрын
Yeah maybe so, but If I do a good job of being charmy and inviting - they shouldn't have a reason to lie! So we have to focus on what we can control and not play the blame game
@silentslayergaming84692 жыл бұрын
Good job on facing your fears I’ve recently been doing the same thing, you are my inspiration.
@alexanderSnilsson2 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome man! How’s it going for you?
@silentslayergaming84692 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderSnilsson I finally got the balls to talk and flirt with my crush!
@alexanderSnilsson2 жыл бұрын
@@silentslayergaming8469 Sweet man! How did it go? No matter the outcome, you're the man for stepping up and daring to try - facing those fears!
@bluesbulletin2 жыл бұрын
That's what I'm talking about!
@alexanderSnilsson2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man 😎
@donsteele74032 жыл бұрын
Howdy, Retired psychotherapist. I did my 5000 hours with Branden. here's my video sentence completion : kzbin.info/www/bejne/d6mldXSMpZaqoNE
@mindsculpting2 жыл бұрын
Face those fears!!
@fff-sd9gj2 жыл бұрын
Jag tror jag såg dig vid kungsträdgården igår men du åkte andra hållet i rulltrappan så hann inte hälsa :(
@alexanderSnilsson2 жыл бұрын
Hehe nä det var faktiskt inte jag! Höll mig på kontoret i Solna hela dagen. Men om du ser mig så får du se till å hälsa :)! Kanske skulle köra en meet-up nån dag med lite följare :)
@christianr19412 жыл бұрын
Lol you ain’t got no game
@alexanderSnilsson2 жыл бұрын
This was back in 2016-2017 when I had just started my channel, so yeah, I did not know what I was doing - but I was trying!