10 tips for my 18 year old self
24:35
Пікірлер
@mariamvelasquez9198
@mariamvelasquez9198 14 күн бұрын
i love your videos
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 3 күн бұрын
oh my gosh, thank you so much!
@demiblaize
@demiblaize 23 күн бұрын
I’m so excited for you that you’re reading and enjoying the realm of the elderlings! I discovered Robin Hobb’s books when I was 16 and my mind was blown. I read all 19 books every 2 years just to spend time with Fitz and the Fool again. Fitz is the kind of character who stays with you, and I cannot express how much I adore the way this entire series unfolds. I hope you keep loving it ❤
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 18 күн бұрын
Oh my gosh! It makes me so happy to hear that you love it... I keep telling my friends to start it so we can obsess over it together 🤓❤️
@alicebarros3863
@alicebarros3863 29 күн бұрын
You look beautiful!!! Also yesss boss babe!!!
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 29 күн бұрын
thank you mi amor!
@Belleavue
@Belleavue Ай бұрын
I love your accent ❤❤❤
@katrinaeloize
@katrinaeloize 3 ай бұрын
hanging onto your every word 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️ thank u for the video! gonna watch all your other ones now lol
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 3 ай бұрын
oh my gosh, you're so cute! thank you :)
@Daily_flow_go
@Daily_flow_go 3 ай бұрын
Stumbled upon your youtube channel. You're a gem ✨
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 3 ай бұрын
oh my gosh, thank you! welcome, happy to have you here :)
@niaholden2498
@niaholden2498 3 ай бұрын
Great video! I’m a 22 year old graduating college this December and I’m looking for the next steps in my career. Thanks for posting
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 3 ай бұрын
thank you! congratulations on your upcoming graduation, what an exciting time :)
@demiblaize
@demiblaize 7 ай бұрын
I was thinking something similar the other day after going on an audiobook binge of self-help books (trying to pull myself out of burnout). So much of it is just recycling the same principles and very little takes personal circumstances into account. So many times I listened to a tip and thought ‘I have a very valid reason for why that won’t work’ with no alternative to that tip ready to go. I think you’re right, that holistic living and prioritizing physical and mental health is so much more important than any work based productivity.
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 6 ай бұрын
i've had the same experience SO many times! i find it so aggravating when people give tips that are ignore most peoples' experience, for example, 'work out in the middle of the day' or, 'subscribe to these food delivery services that are super convenient (but also very expensive).' most people just can't do that. i hope the burnout recovery is going smoothly and you're feeling happy, healthy and supported!
@inprogress9757
@inprogress9757 7 ай бұрын
This was an incredible video! :)
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@demiblaize
@demiblaize 7 ай бұрын
I feel you deserve more subs ❤ I'm an author going through what I think is the cynicism stage right now, and am trying to pull myself out of it.
@E.Cerulean
@E.Cerulean 7 ай бұрын
What is that?
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 7 ай бұрын
omg thank you so much! cynicism really is such a tough stage. whenever i've been in it, it feels akin to depression - you don't feel like you're seeing the world in a healthy or in your normal way. it's really easy to get lost in it. however, i think it's SO good you recognize that this isn't normal for you. and also-congrats on your creative project! i think creatives are particularly vulnerable to burnout. when you're open and ready, i'd love to hear how your work is going!
@demiblaize
@demiblaize 7 ай бұрын
@@apersonintheworld3Thank you lovely, that's so kind of you. I'm working on pulling myself out of it by slowly introducing self-care habits, like going for walks, healthier foods, regularly scheduled alone-time (really hard to do with 2 young kids though lol) I'm a romcom author, so I try to inject fun and spice into everything I write. I have a book out already called Apparently, I'm A Bitch, and another coming in April called Apparently, I'm Torture. So far, my cynicism hasn't stopped me from enjoying the writing, but it has put a big block on organically marketing my books on social media. I'm trying to find ways to enjoy that process again, but all I want to do is sit in my pjs all day, hair all frizzy, with a bucket of caffeine, and write. Not realistic but it's exactly what I'm doing as I type this message to you lol.
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 7 ай бұрын
omg, i feel that! when i feel burnt out, i just want to lay on my couch with a bag of hot cheetos, rewatching old episodes of svu. i will check your books out! :)
@MrNotThatFamous
@MrNotThatFamous 7 ай бұрын
i just plant plants to get away from "reality", the garden is my own world.
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 7 ай бұрын
nice
@sophiachen8292
@sophiachen8292 7 ай бұрын
I'm so glad this video popped up on my recommendations! You made such good points on how to asses if one should stay/ or quit their job.
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 7 ай бұрын
oh my gosh, thank you! i hope you found it helpful : )
@gamesgonenuts
@gamesgonenuts 7 ай бұрын
this was helpful hitting the like button
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 7 ай бұрын
thank you! i'm glad it was helpful
@wyan2222
@wyan2222 7 ай бұрын
i love this. an important topic and refreshing way of looking at the relationships around us. i find that it's too easy to slip away from friendships than it is to connect. especially with social media. i tend to think that there is still connection with others when u "like" their posts or see what theyre up to. but maintaining meaningful relationships with ppl that u care about is a lost skill. thank u for bringing that back
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 7 ай бұрын
oh my gosh, thank you for the incredibly thoughtful comment. i agree with you, social media has allowed me to feel connected to friends who are far away or who i don't get to see as frequently due to the season of life we're in. it's an incredibly useful tool in building and maintaining relationships, so long as it's not the only tool we know how to use!
@pabulumm
@pabulumm 7 ай бұрын
I'm the 30th subscriber woo! always looking for cooking for 1 inspo, especially realistic and easy meals. Pretty sure we're the same age too! That's always nice too
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 7 ай бұрын
oh my gosh, thank you for subscribing! cooking for one is so wild, it can be SO expensive and overly complicated. i'm glad you're here! : )
@marissayurche5738
@marissayurche5738 7 ай бұрын
hello, what camera do you use? love your vids!
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 7 ай бұрын
hi! thanks so much :) i just use the sony zv-i. i'm a beginner to vlogging and it's worked out great for me. because it's so light and intuitive. my only qualm with it is that battery life is pretty short, so i would recommend buying an extra battery if you're considering it.
@marissayurche5738
@marissayurche5738 7 ай бұрын
@@apersonintheworld3 oh okay okay, I used to use the sony a600 I think. thank you for replying ✨
@ادمصالح-س6ن
@ادمصالح-س6ن 9 ай бұрын
افلام سكسي
@ادمصالح-س6ن
@ادمصالح-س6ن 9 ай бұрын
افلام سكس
@peirradash
@peirradash 9 ай бұрын
I’m really glad I found this video. Very validating to my current experience as I’m getting closer to my 30s and it’s reassuring to hear the why behind why the way I’m feeling. Thank you Fresia for granting me a bit more clarity and a reminder to give myself some grace! <3
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 9 ай бұрын
@perirradash thank you for leaving this note! our 20s are certainly an obstacle course - challenging, but hopefully also fun - and you build a lot of muscle along the way. be generous and gracious with yourself, it'll all be worth the hard work 🤍
@icarus.paints
@icarus.paints Жыл бұрын
You described exactly the way I'm feeling right now, thank you so much for putting words on it and sharing your insight!
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 Жыл бұрын
of course! thanks for sharing :)
@KaitlynHolland
@KaitlynHolland 2 жыл бұрын
great video! you are very well spoken and have great ideas. ✨💫 thanks for sharing!
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 2 жыл бұрын
oh my gosh! thank you so much for watching and for your kind words 🥰
@alicebarros3863
@alicebarros3863 2 жыл бұрын
This might be a silly question, but does the mustard bath stain your bathtub or leave residue? I want to try it!
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 2 жыл бұрын
No, it doesn't stain! It can leave a little residue if you just drain and walk away, but I don't think much more than any other bath salt. I think so long as you make sure to quickly rinse the tub after you use it, you'll be good.
@alicebarros3863
@alicebarros3863 2 жыл бұрын
You’re my favorite !
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 2 жыл бұрын
OMG YOU'RE my favorite!
@alicebarros3863
@alicebarros3863 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THIS!!! You are an incredible combination of soothing and hilarious. Also, that Santa/Honey/Gingerbread man is cute as hell.
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 2 жыл бұрын
OMG thank you angel!
@eprohoda
@eprohoda 2 жыл бұрын
hy,awesome editing!see u around, a.💥
@apersonintheworld3
@apersonintheworld3 2 жыл бұрын
thank you!