Listening to your body is so important but so hard when you are also dysphoric. I am AMAB trans and have a really tough time with my bottom dysphoria sometimes and I cant tuck for more than an hour max without feeling a lot of pain. I've always read that its super safe, but not everyone's anatomy is the same and I injured myself once doing it. Thankfully nothing serious, but it definitely hurt for a week or so and emotionally still hurts....
@viktorm7066 күн бұрын
If you never were in the 'right body', how do you know your current body is the 'wrong one'?
@Rappid_6 күн бұрын
the binder binder having trouble sorting your binders? then look no further then this giant binder
@solidghost45257 күн бұрын
If you go by they them you should be in a mental institution
@JasonSmith_19 күн бұрын
This hits me hard 😭
@guney28119 күн бұрын
to all my trans friends you're all valid and beautiful :3
@natejuice6 күн бұрын
no they are weird lookin❤
@lenabrokaw7146 күн бұрын
@@natejuicethis is pathetic behaviour
@maxii297511 күн бұрын
I see transitioning as a jurney, every step matters and im proud of ervery little detail or thing i do which i was too shy to do in the past...
@PostAbe11 күн бұрын
How is this not a mental illness?
@Sebastion-b8h11 күн бұрын
It's diagnosed through a mental health specialist and treated with Gender-Affirming care + HRT
@PostAbe11 күн бұрын
@@Sebastion-b8h so it’s a mental disability?
@PostAbe11 күн бұрын
@@Sebastion-b8h so it’s a mental disability?
@PostAbe11 күн бұрын
@@Sebastion-b8h so it’s a mental disability?
@PostAbe11 күн бұрын
@@Sebastion-b8h that makes no sense
@Muflie12 күн бұрын
We are all so valid
@natejuice6 күн бұрын
Copuim overdose
@natejuice6 күн бұрын
transformer
@Muflie6 күн бұрын
@@natejuice you created a whole new channel because youre too scared to say your opinions on main. Pathetic
@BrightCharlie12 күн бұрын
"Transitioning is a choice" Is it, though? No, really, is it a choice? Once you realize why everything feels a bit off. Once you realize why you can't look at yourself in the mirror? I get it if you can't. If it's not safe. If you can't afford it. But if you could. If you were safe. If you could afford it. Wouldn't you do it?
@hllyenaylleth9576Күн бұрын
That's still a choice
@nanika344612 күн бұрын
💖💖💖
@As-in-Oreos12 күн бұрын
My dysphoria sucks, but DAMN INTERNALIZED TRANSPHOBIA makes it hurt more. Someone help ig
@Penguin.the.therian13 күн бұрын
I’m a non binary person that was born in a female body and idk why but I would feel most comfortable without breasts. Does anyone else feel the same????
@Sebastion-b8h11 күн бұрын
Yes I know a lot of people on line who are non-binary and want their top removed
@natejuice6 күн бұрын
I think ur not ok in the head
@Stardipped_Paws14 сағат бұрын
You're not alone! I feel the same way :)
@Baka_Crazy13 күн бұрын
As a non binary it was a new experience having a binder. And yes it was very hot in it in summer time.
@josephbelisle579214 күн бұрын
Great video. Its tough coming to terms that you are trans and its even harder coming to terms with the fact that its never going to be all right. We will never reach a point where, ahhh sigh, all better now. I will always mourn the life I knew I should have had, never got and will never have. I wish CIS bigots could understand this. Its not something we chose. Its our biology. They should have nothing but empathy and sympathy for us. Having to live a life where we are never complete.
@kikaycat14 күн бұрын
Its BS
@Reptiluvsuash15 күн бұрын
"you will neber be cis" startted balling immediately
@TrooperEvan-y9m16 күн бұрын
It’s not a choice, I try to not feel this way, but I feel it anyways, I didn’t choose it feel this way
@Patrisha77718 күн бұрын
I don’t want to be rude and I’m sorry if I am ,but why people treat dysphoria with surgeries and not by accepting and loving your bode the way it is?
@eveisunavailable11 күн бұрын
Thats a process that has been tried a lot in the past, but it doesnt work because dysphoria (at least, physical dysphoria) is a neurological thing. The body doesnt match the blueprint the brain has. And when one of your most important senses is sensing where all your limbs and parts are (proprioperception, its why you can touch your nose with your eyes closed), its a constant source of distress. So now we perform medical transition to align the body with that blueprint.
@Sebastion-b8h11 күн бұрын
Basically to put it simply kinda is it's a neurological thing that you can't get rid of like ADHD, autistism, ect The brain is born as a male brain and the body is born as a female body and vice versa. The brain will feel constantly threatened by this sorta idk if I explained that right
@Stardipped_Paws14 сағат бұрын
The most effective proven treatment for gender dysphoria is a combination of therapy and social and/or medical transition. "Accepting and loving the body as it is" does not work with the type of disorder that gender dysphoria is. That's also the type of rhetoric that fuels conversion therapy, which is a torturous practice that's been proven to be ineffective and only causes more harm than good.
@Patrisha7775 сағат бұрын
@@Stardipped_Paws ok I got it,but how can someone be born with GENDER dysphoria If GENDER is a social construct?
@Patrisha7775 сағат бұрын
@@Stardipped_Paws and also,bio women that are more masculine tend to not trigger as much as trans woman when they being called man,why is that?
@Tin_Cangaroo18 күн бұрын
As someone who’s a guy sometimes, god I wish I had a binder
@TheMaskedThearpist20 күн бұрын
Dysphoria feels like lies and confusion
@josephbelisle579220 күн бұрын
Great video. Its not a choice. Its torture being trans and not transitioning.
@iluvsubliminals20 күн бұрын
I am so glad I have finally decided to stop being transphobic and bigoted. But I honestly feel like I'm only one of the few people. Most transphobes choose to remain transphobes. But at least I'm not like that. Transgender people truly are the most oppressed group of people on Earth.
@microwaved_banan21 күн бұрын
i've been feeling this for a while now. i have a really high pitched voice, and i'm much shorter compared to all the other guys in my class. this makes me look really feminine and i feel oddly dull and empty im not supposed to look like this which makes me want to regurgitate,,
@RogueEnbi21 күн бұрын
This. ❤
@natejuice6 күн бұрын
helps you sleep at night transformer? Does it comfort you😢
@RogueEnbi6 күн бұрын
@natejuice Do me a favour and go to therapy instead of picking on minorities. There is nothing wrong with feeling comforted. Perhaps you didn't get comfort as a child, so you feel no one deserves to feel comforted? I assure you that isn't the case. I recommend talking to a therapist about these insecurities. Also, you look more like a transformer to me. Your profile pic is a literal intimate object. Transformers are cool anyway.
@conniehankosky575021 күн бұрын
I’ve been transitioning for 3 years and I’m now realizing that I might not ever pass on estrogen alone. I walk around everyday as a ghost. Nobody can connect with me because nobody can see me. I’m constantly depersonalized, and it just flat out sucks. I’d never wish this pain on anyone. It’s not a choice. Who would choose this? And I’m one of the lucky ones
@kaidenn_421 күн бұрын
Guys i got like, online friends and recently i got friend with someone else. But the thing is that its on a server and like a year ago i clearly said that i am a girl. But now i feel very bad being a girl and i ended up ftm. And, that friend doesnt know abt that, so i told her im a boy. But my other friends still thinks im a girl. Now it just feels like im lying to her. Idk what to do anymore and im scared that anyone would just tell her im a girl and not a boy, we got close, its too late to tell her im a biological girl and im scared that she just leaves me behind.
@Squid_Boy_21 күн бұрын
3:47 love the little 42 reference
@fra93ilgrande22 күн бұрын
Sucks bad people still refer to me as a man 😩😞
@silkolene92323 күн бұрын
Transgender…. The cause and effect of side stepping the Natural world.
@mashpotatosauce356624 күн бұрын
I saw this video for the first time 6 years ago and thought it was really interesting. 6 years later its back on my recommended, and I'm a questioning transfem. Ohhhh how the times change.
@I-R5pe-Dogs25 күн бұрын
Skill issue lmfao
@squishyjellyfishjellybeans231927 күн бұрын
I'm a cis woman and I love being one but for some reason I always dreamed and wanted to be a cis man I wanted to be a great father and husband to a lovely woman and a good guy of course I can be a great mother and wife to but idk it's not the same for some reason idk it's confusing
@ppotato.2009Ай бұрын
to trans fems; from cis to sis
@SharkyAndy27Ай бұрын
With mine, i wear t shirts but that just bc I don’t want people to notice anything
@Samantha_NyxАй бұрын
MtF Trans here. The only thing about being Trans i chose is to accept that i was after denying it for so long and taking the journey to live as my true self
@MrParadox47Ай бұрын
My best friend at work is transgender. She jokes with me on some topics but has been upfront with me on some things too which I appreciate. This video has helped me understand how she feels better. I am cis, I can only imagine the struggle my friend feels but I do appreciate hearing your story. Stay strong my trans and nonbinary friends, my thoughts are with you all.
@junkyart-alex222Ай бұрын
My english teacher didn't know i was my assigned gender at birth and called me a boy for a while, i loved it because im trans but not out yet. She used two male pronouns and i felt so happy, until i heard "she" from one of my classmates, it felt like a gunshot to my heart and it really did hurt, so now i am known as a "she" when i am actually a boy, i hate it so much.
@gachamisty3827Ай бұрын
"Let's wear a hoodie and pants all year" So me except I wear a shirt and chest binder and boxers underneath. I am an aroace trans boy.
@gachamisty3827Ай бұрын
"Let's wear a hoodie and pants all year" So me except I wear a shirt and chest binder and boxers underneath. I am an aroace trans boy.
@TrooperEvan-y9mАй бұрын
Thank yiyv
@yruherelmaoАй бұрын
I'm not trans, I just want to seem more androgynous.
@EthanMagrinАй бұрын
So does that mean that trans people are just naturally dumb and stupid?
@milan0455 күн бұрын
Either that is you in your pfp, or that is your child in the pfp. Anyways, I clear you in pretty much any field. Especially if that is you in the pfp picture. Ong frfr
@SureyaJago-br9hlАй бұрын
🫶🏻
@Layla-solerАй бұрын
My grandma and grandpa say that they aren’t trans phobic but whenever I brought up me being trans, they would yell at me for the next 20 minutes saying how I’m not trans and if I ever wore trans that I will no longer be part of that family
@TheSudrianTerrier653Ай бұрын
I also hate my birthday Because all attention is driven to me Aka, An insecure person’s (which I am) Worst nightmare
@questionmark-mx1obАй бұрын
I hate being like that
@iiimageАй бұрын
Im totally cis and i still get disgusted everytime i look in the mirror wishing i was born a girl, still cis though