Erin Arsenault-Butterfield

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@Max-d-s9e Ай бұрын

This is so amazing ❤

@truthwithin4364 4 ай бұрын

Hi Erin, I stumbled upon your video and found it very informative and encouraging. I found it while me and my same sex partner are thinking of having kid via ivf. Although we are Australian and have good social setup here for same sex families, our main hurdle is how a kid will feel once he will realize that his/her parents are lesbians. We are concerned about if our kid would face any discrimination or bullying because of us and what if he or she will also orientate towards same sex relationship because he or she would have seen us being one. Although we know that orientation has nothing to do with who were our parents but if the child would have same sex orientation, we are concerned that society will say that gay parents kids turn out gay too, which is not necessarily true. Please provide your perspective as gay parents child of whether you ever wished that you were not born to gay parents and if your sexual orientation was ever influenced because of your parents? Your response will guide us immensely because we don’t want to become a selfish parents to have kids just for our happiness. We want best for our kid and if that mean that our kid might hate us when they grow up, we might have to crush this dream of ours. Thank you a lot.

@suep998 6 ай бұрын

Wow❤😊what a lovely couple so nice to listen to your story and so nice to have you to talk to your daughter about ❤😊

@ER-pc3dx 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for posting this. My wife and I have 4 little girls and we have been scared to talk to them about being donor conceived. It makes my heart happy to see how much you love your moms. I hope our girls feel the same way when they are grown. Your mothers are beautiful souls. I believe that the love two people share totally spreads to their children.

@KendallFalk 7 ай бұрын

I know someone who is insisting there must be a father present and it’s making me feel really bad. I hear things and conflicting things about how the child could be more aggressive later on.. or have problems.. I’m worried about that. But I just also think it’s fine to have two moms. I don’t differentiate between sex…it the person who said it really has an extremist point of you. Now I’m questioning myself if it’s wrong that I am thinking this? It’s wonderful that these two mothers are good together.

@nevereverforever0010-uf9su Жыл бұрын

ooommgg my heart! i hope to have this one day <333 and the catto <33333

@teastrainer3604 Жыл бұрын

How diverse is your neighborhood, Erin? And why do you choose to live there instead of in one that's more diverse?

@lorenmoeller7299 Жыл бұрын

Black history is American history. That's it.

@christinecleaveland3702 Жыл бұрын

thank you for sharing ur story

@breebakermentalhealth Жыл бұрын

The story of your Ma having to go through the adoption process 🧡 my heart. What resilience. My partner and I are expecting our bub in October and as the non natal mum it’s definitely a bit nervy sometimes, but your folks provide me with so much strength🎉 thank you!

@johnmizzoi Жыл бұрын

"There's no normal family'. Definition of the norm/normal: something that is usual, typical, or standard. Since most people are heterosexual, a man and a woman is the norm. Btw, you do have a dad, otherwise you wouldn't be here. Your mother just decided for you that you didn't need a dad. You might have his looks, his intellect, etc... But i understand children of gay couples, you don't want to offend them by looking for your biological other parent.

@erin.a.b Жыл бұрын

I do not have a dad. sperm does not equal dad. And every family is different. Thanks for watching ✌🏼

@johnmizzoi Жыл бұрын

@@erin.a.b Half of what you are (genes) came from a man and that's what we call a biological father. But i do understand your point of view in a life without a man.

@timothykramer2551 Жыл бұрын

I don't care about it.. it's stupid to celebrate one culture when we're all different cultures in our country

@pamelaivey3253 Жыл бұрын

I just found this channel, it's wonderful to see older visibly.

@erin.a.b Жыл бұрын

thank you for watching! i'm hoping to film another video with my moms soon :)

@gordonramsey6738 Жыл бұрын

Cool! Can I ask how your brother dealt with the fact that he didn’t have a male role model in the family?

@elissacummings9108 Жыл бұрын

This is amazing thank you. I’m gay and I am unsure if I want kids but to see it from gay moms who are now older is so beautiful

@erin.a.b Жыл бұрын

aww i'm glad you enjoyed the video - thank you for watching!!

@deedeew4040 Жыл бұрын

I was in the closet for 50 years. I found my soul mate at 66. Thank you for sharing your story.

@erin.a.b Жыл бұрын

i’m proud of you ❤️ and thank you for watching!

@gracekumalo4015 Жыл бұрын

Wish you a beautiful bless life for love you have for each other

@simplegrace2235 Жыл бұрын

Why is ashers voice robotic sounding? Are they alright physically?? I'm asking with respect and concern ❤

@erin.a.b Жыл бұрын

hey! it’s just the zoom audio. asher does not have a robotic sounding voice irl. thank you for watching ❤️

@simplegrace2235 Жыл бұрын

True love is so beautiful to witness ❤

@gotdialog88 Жыл бұрын

Having been a gay grandfather myself I know first-hand the pernicious reality behind this. It leads to nothing but death inside and out.

@gloriagomz7969 2 жыл бұрын

You've touched my soul, thank you for your excellent work.

@gloriagomz7969 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for doing this! Raise consciousness and promote equality and diversity

@balticstain7150 2 жыл бұрын

Hiya guys great to see older lesbian couples fabulous omg..💜

@farzenlran6409 2 жыл бұрын

Lovely couple 😍😍❤💗❤💗👭😘😘😘😘😘

@craigstoddard686 2 жыл бұрын

You are a perfect match. There is a lot of love between you two. I wish you both a great future together

@jonathonelkins7665 2 жыл бұрын

This gave some amazing insight, thank you. I’m gay and wanting to join the peace corps, but realizing this might not be the best idea for me.

@erin.a.b 2 жыл бұрын

thank you for watching! the peace corps is in a lot of different countries and not all of them have laws against being gay. but for a myriad of reasons, the peace corps still may not be the best idea. over the years i have come to understand the harm that it has caused in many countries. might make a video on that at some point.. but definitely research for yourself. thank you again for watching :)

@tinacleo9100 2 жыл бұрын

I hear you were in Zambia,am a Zambian 😊😊

@laotzu2453 2 жыл бұрын

You are so sad! Hard to believe there is a white person that hates themselves more than you. You know that you are personally responsible for slavery. In the name of equality, please do a follow up video on why black people should care about white history!

@natashadallin9714 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this!! Thanks for sending it!🌈

@erin.a.b 2 жыл бұрын

thank you for watching!!

@bubba283 15 күн бұрын

@@erin.a.b I wish I could be this open about being a gay guy its embarrassing

@erin.a.b 14 күн бұрын

@@bubba283 nothing embarrassing about it!

@annb4558 2 жыл бұрын

What a great video you two!! So fun to get a peek into your mini-moon and to see our stunning pacific coast! Thank you for sharing it and, Happy Anniversary! We love you!

@erin.a.b 2 жыл бұрын

thank you so much!! we love you endlessly!! ❤️ see you tomorrow!!

@JoannePerez 2 жыл бұрын

Such a beautiful video! So incredibly happy for both of you :,) this brings me so much joy geez! Happy anniversary and I can’t wait to see what’s to come! Also I guess Asher Wifed you up b4 me 😞 it’s fine I guess 🤪 love you both!

@erin.a.b 2 жыл бұрын

ahh i love you so much!!! thank you!!! haha they wifed me up but i'll still always be your wifeeyyyy 😂 💕

@pm_idil1753 2 жыл бұрын

WTF Is that shit

@Vicky-jv9us 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the beautiful video with that amazing mom’s you are so lucky to have two mom’s

@bosslady1188 2 жыл бұрын

Amazingly Awesome. Thanks for sharing your story and experience. 😊

@bosslady1188 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐

@Anonymous-wf8gu 2 жыл бұрын

No offense to the KZbin Channel owner but you should know that the KZbin AI is recommending this to the wrong people and it is just upsetting. I think it is on purpose and I am writing this to dissent and say I don't like this so it hopefully learns. For the record, I'm a Muslim, ultra traditional conservative, who would never change my mind about my ideologies, beliefs, and religion. KZbin's algorithm is purposely disrespectful. My mind will never be changed. Please respect me and do not recommend this AI

@erin.a.b 2 жыл бұрын

pro tip: if you keep commenting on (and watching!) videos like this, you'll keep finding videos like this in your recommendations 😊

@Anonymous-wf8gu 2 жыл бұрын

@@erin.a.b Thanks but I never clicked on anything like this and I'm hoping it records my keystrokes or something! 😊It's nothing personal at all I wish you well. It's just the AI needs to do better.

@kevinkibble8342 2 жыл бұрын

Except you don't care about black people, you just use their struggle for social media clout. You're a fake.

@joepauly2311 2 жыл бұрын

Racism is not dead, but it is on life support -- kept alive by politicians, race hustlers and people who get a sense of superiority by denouncing others as 'racists' Thomas Sowell

@erin.a.b 2 жыл бұрын

"Thomas Sowell is noted for his *conservative* views on social and economic issues. Sowell opposes such programs as affirmative action, minimum wage, and welfare."

@erin.a.b 2 жыл бұрын

so leave it to someone who doesn't even see the value in minimum wage to say that anti racists are what's keeping racism alive. doesn't make sense. (but yes many politicians - namely conservative and moderate ones - are a huge part of what is keeping it alive)

@tdowell8615 2 жыл бұрын

“America would literallly be nothing without black people” lol.

@erin.a.b 2 жыл бұрын

where’s the lie?

@tdowell8615 2 жыл бұрын

@@erin.a.b it’s like you think if it wasn’t for black slaves the Europeans would’ve just packed up and went back home. They could’ve done anything else and been just as successful. It was just a lot more efficient economically and easier to pay an African chieftain for slaves. America probably would’ve been better off without it slaves might’ve had the industrial revolution faster wouldn’t have had the civil war, we wouldn’t have the racial strife in America we do today or the violent crime and riots. The civil war probably wiped out any gains made from slavery. 1.5 million died in the civil war, out of the 10 million slaves that made it through the journey only 388,000 made it to North America most went to the Caribbean and South America. So 4 times the the number of slaves for the entire history of American slavery died to end slavery in America but you think this was beneficial for America or Europeans. What a joke.

@qwertyboy8 2 жыл бұрын

I take you very seriously with a pretty princess circuit installed in that nostril. What a great platform to concoct your bad ideas.

@mariantabaksmith6557 2 жыл бұрын

You do realize that it was clickbait, you made it sound like you are no longer together.

@erin.a.b 2 жыл бұрын

lol i know sorry i just had to