@@ritwit80 Thank you for sharing. I know separation from your TF is really painful. You can heal the separation by actively taking the steps to heal. It is a common misconception that you can wait for “divine timing” for them to come back. Since you are one consciousness, if you are waiting so are they. If you are interested in taking the next steps to heal your union, you can email me at [email protected] and we can talk about next steps. ❤️

That is great that you are claiming your union! Please send me an email to [email protected] or a DM on Instagram and we can chat about your next steps.

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You're welcome 😊 Hope it helped. ❤️

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@@gica11420 Yes. That is the key. Love yourself in all the places you don’t feel good. ❤️

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@@Goldilocks444 Chasing never works with your TF. It repels them. Turn your focus inward on God and loving yourself. That is what will attract him. When you chase, you are believing that you aren’t good enough, but you are. Give yourself all that love that you are looking for from him.

@@onedivinelove777 you are so clever and yes I feel it when it happens the repelling attracting thing xxxx

@@Goldilocks444 Would you be interested in investing in yourself and your union and getting coaching, or purchasing some of the classes? If so, I can help guide you to a coach or to the online video classes that I did. That’s how I learned how to navigate the TF relationship.

@@dylanloves2 Thank you for your kind words. 😊 YES! When you follow that hierarchy, both of you get the highest versions of each other. When you choose to love yourself, your TF reflects that love right back to you, and you will find each other at the same place, loving each other.

@@Goldilocks444 First, go to God for what you want to experience. Then be willing to give whatever it is to yourself. Plan a picnic for yourself and spend an afternoon loving yourself, and being with God. Then you can also communicate your needs and desires to your TF. Remember he isn’t your source though…. So be willing to give yourself the romance you desire.

@@Goldilocks444 You have the power to change everything in your reality, especially with your Twin Flame. What feelings does it bring up? You want to mirror what it brings up. It feels like you aren’t valuing yourself. You are worthy of a committed partner who is reliable, devoted, loyal, supportive, etc and who doesn’t use you. Another point: do you have a consistent relationship with God? Or do you go to God when you are feeling bad, then forget about God when you are feeling good? Your TF will reflect your relationship with God.

@@Goldilocks444 That sounds like a very meaningful job. What is the reason you stay in the job? Is it the money? You have passion to help the children? Ask the Universe / God / Spirit to guide you to your true purpose and you will start seeing signs. Also, spend quiet time alone in meditation and your heart will guide you to the next step.

@@Goldilocks444 Aww, thank you!! So happy my videos are helping. 🩷

@@GreatOceanBrain Thank you! I invite you to “like” it if you found it helpful. 😊

@@onedivinelove777 Of course!

@@Unbothered_Boz Thank you for your feedback. ❤️

Do you see a pattern within yourself where you punish yourself, or ignore yourself, when you need something? For example, if you are hungry or need to rest, do you listen to your body? If you are feeling scared about something, do you stop and feel your feelings and give yourself the reassurance and safety you are looking for, or do you ignore your feelings? Do you punish yourself for mistakes? I worked through this same thing. Also, if you are feeling needy and you are going to him to give you what you need, that repels your TF. Whatever you need (love, attention, reassurance, etc) you need to give it to yourself first, then he can reflect that love that you gave yourself. If not, you are being codependent on your TF and that doesn’t feel good. You want to approach him from a place of your cup already being full, and not from an empty cup looking for him to fill it. ❤

@@onedivinelove777 so now should I just get on with my own healing ❤️‍🩹 and ignore him when he returns coz I’m too hurt to talk to him but yes to everything you’ve written I punish myself all the time for everything and I don’t love myself and I smother him it’s crap for both of us

@@onedivinelove777 thank you 🙏

@@onedivinelove777 what do I do now when he finally contacts me ? I want to ignore him

@@onedivinelove777 you’re very clever it’s all true :(

@@Goldilocks444 Sure. You can email me at [email protected], or you can DM me on Instagram. @one.divine.love

@@Julie-kb8dnThose are great questions! (1) Absolutely. If you are the Divine Feminine and have a negative view of the Masculine, based on other experiences and relationships, your TF will reflect that. For example, in my case, I felt that the masculine would always disappoint me, not want to connect with me and really know me, not accept me or love me unconditionally, I couldn’t really trust them, etc. To heal this, you recognize that you are really only having a relationship with the God. It is God who loves you through your TF. God loves you unconditionally, wants to protect you, support you, accepts you unconditionally, will never reject or abandon you, etc. If you align to this truth and know that God is the example of the “healed” or perfect DM, then your TF will reflect this core belief you have. You can choose to let go of any old versions of your TF (and yourself) that you were holding onto and allow yourself to and them to transform and evolve. (2) You don’t ever have to protect yourself from them, or hide any part of you. In fact when you are really honest and vulnerable you magnetize them. You don’t want to look at them to give you what you need, so you choose to go within and give yourself what you need (love, reassurance, safety, attention, validation, etc) and then because you were willing to give it to yourself, they will reflect that love that you gave yourself. So you want to honest, vulnerable and not hide anything, but not have expectations on them to meet your needs. This way you aren’t co-dependent on them. When you are loving yourself and giving yourself everything you need (because God is your true source and therefore you have everything you need), you can love your TF freely, without expectations, and they will do the same to you. As you love yourself, they will be there reflecting that love right back to you.

@@onedivinelove777 Thank you so much for these detailed and clear answers. I always thought of God as a father figure, but not divine masculine like a partner. I have been doing it all day and crying as I hear what I need to hear. My tf is also now being more communicative that he loves me and is trying to get to me. Thank you again! ❤️

@@Julie-kb8dn aww that is amazing!! I used to think the same way about God, that he was a father figure. God is basically love. He is in all things and all people and he is the love that we experience. When you realize that God loves us unconditionally, which is most likely different than any other relationship experience we had, and that he will never abuse us, reject or abandon us, he never punishes us for any mistake, etc he just accepts us unconditionally and wants to give us everything…. and it God loving us through our TF…. Now you can relax into that love. It is safe. ❤️

@@Goldilocks444 You are worthy of having ALL your needs met. When you hold back from being honest because you are scared to upset your TF, or that he will reject you, you aren’t valuing and respecting yourself and then your TF will reflect that right back to you. Since they are you…. they are choosing with you. When you make a choice in your heart that you are worthy of having your needs and desires met, your TF can give that to you.

@@onedivinelove777 I’m going to be brave now and honest .. I’ll update you. Thank you 🙏

@@Goldilocks444 Sounds great!! Keep affirming to yourself: I was created perfectly, so I am perfect, I am worthy, I am lovable, I am good enough, I am valuable, I am worthy of having all my needs met. I choose to no longer settle. ❤️ Definitely update me!

@@onedivinelove777 so I can’t be honest about expecting an I love you often or for him to text more often because that’s me being needy? See how confusing it gets when I think 🤔 am I meant to say I want more or not? No I’m meant to be happy with myself and then he will come forward? Idk 🤷‍♀️ I’m confused

@@Goldilocks444 When you know your worth and value, you will love yourself, and you can love your TF freely without holding back, but not because you need something from him. If you are saying “I love you” just to get something from him, then you are seeing yourself as “not enough” and needing him to give you something that you don’t have. You want to focus on loving yourself, seeing and knowing your value, giving yourself all the love you want……. Then he will reflect that love back to you. He is you. 😊

@@GreatOceanBrain Great question! You actually don’t want to avoid anything. You want to be honest and express how you are really feeling. Your Twin Flame is you so as long as you are choosing to commit fully, and to work through any and every upset, until you come to a place of peace, then your TF will make the same choice. In a soulmate relationship this isn’t the case - you have to compromise and at times, walk on eggshells to avoid conflict. God created you to evolve and grow so being triggered by your TF, allows you to learn more about yourself and them, leading you into deeper love and deeper understanding about each other. It is a Divine relationship so it follows completely different rules. As long as you aren’t choosing to reject yourself or abandon yourself, your TF will make the same choice - even if you have a big upset. So for example, if she gets mad and says “I’m leaving. It’s over!”, but you are choosing to work through the problem, you would mirror exercise what feelings it brought up for you, commit fully to working through the upset, and she will align with you. One more thing to think about… whatever her reasons are for separating… that is a mirror of something you are doing to yourself. Often, it is a pattern you learned in childhood. You would want to heal that pattern and align with love and the truth. Hope this helped! Let me know if you have any other questions.

@@onedivinelove777 My partner has been scared to talk about love and our connection. I’m doing all I can to heal, so when the time is right and she comes back what advice would you give so I can best support her when she decides to open up? I don’t want to unintentionally trigger her avoidant tendencies.

@@GreatOceanBrain You and your Twin Flame share one consciousness, so she is basically you. You would want to look at where you are scared of being vulnerable or intimate (and why), and heal that pattern by loving yourself where you have fear. Any fear or avoidant pattern she has is also a pattern that you have. The good news about that is you have the power to heal that. You don’t need her to do anything. She will reflect your healing. Learning healthy communication skills where you create a safe environment for her to be honest, where you aren’t defensive but really listen to her without any judgment. This allows her to feel safe to communicate any wants, needs or concerns, and to know that her feelings matter to you. Avoidant fear is based on a fear of rejection and abandonment. Knowing you are one, and choosing as one, allows you to let go of the fear of rejection and abandonment. Once you commit fully to accepting and loving yourself, God, and your TF, that love can be reflected back to you.

@@onedivinelove777 Many thanks for the great replies and insight!

First thing you would ask, how does it make you feel that he won’t say he loves you, and that he feels stuck? This comes up to trigger that feeling in you, so that you can heal it . Are you loving yourself? Where are you ignoring yourself? Are you recognizing your beauty, your worth, value, etc, prioritizing your needs, doing activities that you love, connecting with God, showing yourself that you really love yourself. Also, where you are stuck in your life right now? Are you stuck by listening to fear and ego, and not listening to your heart? For example, you could be people-pleasing and putting family members’ needs before your own. You could be accepting toxic relationships and therefore you are stuck in toxic patterns. We never heal a Twin Flame relationship by going outside of ourself to them, to get what we want. There are whole different set of rules. You have to go within yourself and give yourself the love that you are looking for, then they can reflect that since they are you.

@@onedivinelove777 wow you just make sense to me! Thank you 🙏

@@onedivinelove777 I text I love you last night after we spoke. He left me on read. Do I stop saying it ? Hmm 🤨

@@Goldilocks444 what was your intention when you said “I love you”? Was it for your TF to say it back? Or did you say it just to offer love, and you had no expectations? Chasing your TF and having expectations doesn’t work with a Twin Flame. You need to focus on loving yourself and they will reflect that love back to you. When you go outside of yourself, looking for them to give you love, it is because you feel you are missing something within yourself… you aren’t enough and you need them to give you something. In this case, you will not receive from your TF. Your primary relationship is with God, then yourself, and then your TF. When you follow that order, and heal any blocks that arise, they will reflect all that love you gave yourself.

@@onedivinelove777 I said it with an expectation for him to say it and I didn’t say it with meaning it was self centred :( I see now

@@Julie-kb8dn Awwww thank you for your kind words. I appreciate your feedback. That is an amazing breakthrough and result you had!! ❤️

@@Julie-kb8dn I am happy to answer any questions you have. To help me get clear so I am answering the correct question, are you asking about what to do in a Mirror Exercise? Or is your question about speaking your truth and placing a boundary? If you can give me more details, I can give you a complete answer. 😊

@@onedivinelove777 I was asking about the mirror exercise of giving yourself love after speaking your truth to your person and they punish you with withdraw. I believe your example was about comforting your inner child as the parent for the trauma in the past rather than the current circumstance with your person, is that right? I just did the exercise as my person comforting me, in the past I’ve done the parent child comforting and would go into depression because I couldn’t see my parents actually doing that.

@@onedivinelove777 I was asking about the mirror exercise of giving yourself love after speaking your truth to your person and they punish you with withdraw. I believe your example was about comforting your inner child as the parent for the trauma in the past rather than the current circumstance with your person, is that right? I just did the exercise as my person comforting me, in the past I’ve done the parent child comforting and would go into depression because I couldn’t see my parents actually doing that.

@@Julie-kb8dn for the Mirror Exercise it is always you loving your inner child. You look at what is triggering you, for example: Step 1: I am upset at my parent because when I speak my truth they criticize me and then dismiss me. Step 2: if something is triggering you in your reality, it is mirroring something that you are doing to yourself somewhere. So you would do: I am upset at myself because when I speak the truth to myself I criticize myself and dismiss myself. step 3- is there any truth to that? Yes. Can you find that part of yourself (part of your inner child) that you are doing that to? Step 4- Ask your inner child…. What do you need in this place to feel loved? Then give your inner child love and what he/she asks for. If you have a toxic relationship with someone, in addition to doing the Mirror Exercise you would want to place a boundary with the behavior. I have another video on boundaries if that would help. So it is always loving your inner child . When you start to heal these layers of your consciousness, you won’t attract those situations anymore OR they won’t trigger you anymore. When you make loving choices towards yourself, and place boundaries with people (even in healthy relationships boundaries are important), you will attract healthier relationships into your life as well. Let me know if this answers your question.

@@onedivinelove777 yes thank you so much.

@@GreatOceanBrain Thank you for your kind words and feedback! I will be posting more on this topic. 😊

@@TwinFlamesHeartsDesire Thank you for your feedback! 😊

Your story is similar to mine. If this person is your Twin Flame, you can never break the connection. You are spiritually married for eternity. She is showing you where you both have blocks to love. Initially, I thought it was my TF with all the blocks and that he was the one running away, but you are One consciousness so you both have the same blocks to love, even if they show differently on the exterior. She wanted to connect with you and experience that love. God gave you a taste of what harmonious union could be like. Now you are being called to do the work to heal your inner child wounds, and heal your consciousness, in those places that feel that you aren’t worthy or love, love isn’t safe, love hurts, etc. You and your TF are partners in this, but usually only one Twin is called to do this part of the inner work. Don’t give up. Make the choice to heal and work through all your inner child traumas, love yourself, and prioritize yourself and then your true TF will be magnetized into your life.

You are doing great! At the core, we all have a fear that we aren’t safe, that we will be rejected or abandoned because we aren’t good enough. I had huge walls up around my heart! I felt that would keep me safe but walls only keep love out. The key is that when you realize the truth that you ARE perfect at your core, and God is loving you through your Twin Flame and God would never hurt you (contrary to other relationship experiences we had which were conditional love and sometimes abusive). So it’s safe to stay present, to trust, and let love in. You and your Twin Flame are partners, learning how to love and to be loved. ❤

@@Goldilocks444 He is basically you. You share one consciousness, so anything you see him doing that you don’t like (he doesn’t love you enough) is something that you are also doing to yourself. When you love yourself (doing the Mirror Exercise) and make a new choice to love and respect yourself there, he will also make the same choice. Most of us were brought up seeking love outside of ourselves so this journey is about learning to give ourselves all the love that we want and need. Then your Twin Flame will reflect that love back to you. His main purpose is to help you see the places that you aren’t loving yourself. It’s a perfect design. When you do start loving yourself, and you are consistently committed to loving yourself, you will see him in your life consistently and fully committed to you. 😊

@@onedivinelove777 thank you and I do see that what you say is right but it’s certainly not easy for me to love myself. Absolutely been cheated on and lied to by prior men which is a self esteem killer but trying to love myself and thank you for your words of wisdom xxxxx

@@Goldilocks444I struggled with loving myself too. When you start, it gets easier, and you notice that you actually feel better and that motivates you to continue. You can mirror 2 things you mentioned: Step 1 - I am upset that men cheated on me and lied to me. Step 2 - I am upset that I cheated on myself and lied to myself. (They were only reflecting a part of yourself that you were doing that to yourself). For example, maybe you were cheating on yourself by putting other people’s needs before yours. For me, I wasn’t honest with myself because I felt that it would mean I had to admit I wasn’t perfect, or good enough. When you realize that isn’t the truth of how you were created, you can feel safe to be honest with yourself and just love the hurt inner child that didn’t get the love she needed. ❤

@@onedivinelove777 you’re very amazing I really truly thank you 🙏 xxxx

@@Goldilocks444Awe thank you for your kind words. I am making an effort to put more videos out each week to help others with the lessons I have learned. My life has completely transformed by choosing to love myself and apply these lessons. It is never too late to choose a new path. We are all worthy of love, peace and happiness. ❤️

That is great that you are doing the work! Ironically, i am getting a video ready on people-pleasing this week. The good news is it can all be healed. I have found the Mirror Exercise to be the quickest way. Also, you and your Twin Flame are literally one consciousness so everything you are healing she is healing too. It only takes one person to actively focus on the healing. Keep going!

@@nadinepita I hope the video helped you. This is completely healable. ❤️

If you choose to be with your Twin Flame in this lifetime, and you call them in, you will meet them. It is not true that you have to wait for another lifetime. Feel free to send me a message on Instagram if you want to chat more. I am happy to guide you in the right direction. @one.divine.love

@@onedivinelove777 thank you. I am not on Instagram or any other social media. I just use KZbin. Would you be willing to have another video to teach us how to call in out TF into our life?

@@LiliGhavami Sure. I will do that video next week. Did you subscribe to my channel? I also recommend buying the book “Twin Flames Finding Your Ultimate Lover”. It gives a great overview of the whole spiritual journey. There is a healing journey (childhood trauma and blocks to love) involved so that you don’t have blocks to that deep level of love.

@@onedivinelove777 I will do both shortly. Subscribe and order the book. You are awesome! Thanks a bunch.

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