Reconciling With My Alienated Child
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Skills to Reunite with Alienated Kids
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@selenem3384
@selenem3384 11 сағат бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢humanity is sick, this world is a circus and God is a sadist getting pleasure of this sickness he made
@aakoas7651
@aakoas7651 Күн бұрын
It feels like I’m a masochist to relentless legal abuse, my life being sucked up by that, and my teenage son uses every opportunity to point out to others about how abusive I am (despite being cut out of his for months by his choice) and I lied about his whole life’s a lie. None of this is true. His father was literally prosecuted for severely beating me in front of my son when he was 6. Parental alienation in my case is all just abuse by proxy. I was a child subjected to abuse that I could not escape. I feel like I’ve been in a repetition cycle many times in my adult, I don’t want to sit through abuse for a cause for years like I have in the past. It’s not hurt feelings or pride. I don’t want to abandon myself to allow me to be abused any more, with everyone claiming I deserve this. I don’t. My son is 16, and he needs to take some ownership, not just his dad.
@user-dg6iw5qb6p
@user-dg6iw5qb6p 9 күн бұрын
I’ve read and watched a lot on this, but this is really brilliant stuff
@lydialight-clow8167
@lydialight-clow8167 14 күн бұрын
Help me please! My son needs me
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv 9 күн бұрын
Hi Lydia! Reach out to my team at [email protected] so we can help!
@Nick-cs5yc
@Nick-cs5yc 14 күн бұрын
In my case, I lost my child because of: my boomer parent, my in-laws, my ex, and yes of course last but not least, the anti-family court system!!
@juliemagee3253
@juliemagee3253 17 күн бұрын
Dorcy knows ❤
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv 17 күн бұрын
Hey beautiful Lady! I hope you are doing well. Sending you so much love. XO
@Susmarie1591
@Susmarie1591 26 күн бұрын
@tanjarousalis7909
@tanjarousalis7909 26 күн бұрын
Thank you for coming out of the closet. 🪷
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv 25 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for your support. It means the world to me. #togetherwerise
@AndrewTexidor
@AndrewTexidor 26 күн бұрын
the timing of this for me, we, us is great. i’m going to plug in and discover what courses my son and myself should embark on…and i’m assuming the mother would have an option to join us too. My son needs the healing and has struggled mightily this past year…thank you in advance
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv 25 күн бұрын
So excited that the timing is perfect. I look forward to connecting with you and your beloved family.
@melberry7055
@melberry7055 26 күн бұрын
I am in awe; you are bringing two worlds together. Well done! I am very impressed, hoping many will be 'open' to recieve as it is high time these cycles are understood and acted upon; lifechanging!
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv 25 күн бұрын
Thank you so much. I am so excited to be bringing forward the deeper healing work and to inspire and guide the authentic child within all of us.
@melberry7055
@melberry7055 26 күн бұрын
Thankyou Dorcy, you are more than a sacred pause, you are invaluable in this field for bringing forth truth and necessary information in this reality. Many blessings ❤
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv 25 күн бұрын
So sweet! Thank you so much.
@Susmarie1591
@Susmarie1591 27 күн бұрын
Thank you for the reminder. ❤
@田中-o8c2r
@田中-o8c2r 29 күн бұрын
I work in the Japanese mass media. There are people in Japan who have suffered social persecution (some people feel that those who have suffered social persecution have manipulated the mass media, almost destroying themselves, and moving Japan together with the mass media). This may sound like poetry, but it's true. They were writing novels, had lion faces, and quit their jobs young and emotionally. My name is KORE They have become part of Japanese civilization and culture. They have been highly valued by those in power, such as the mass media, in the country of Japan. They have created society and humanity, hiding their faces as people who could not fit in. They have exposed the existence of LGBT, and have had a major impact on Japanese society. They are social persecutors who have influenced Japan in a way that will never again be seen abroad. I would be happy if you could remember at least one of them. This is the truth of those who have suffered social persecution. Because they have experienced the same suffering, they share the same feelings and are connected. Families of those who have suffered social persecution are connected to each other because of the same suffering. There are people who have died while still suffering social persecution. From their perspective, those who are still alive despite suffering social persecution are a source of hope, and they want to encourage them. These are human universals, universal feelings of those who have suffered social persecution. There are wars such as religious wars and World War II. In wars there are victorious and defeated nations, weapons used in battle, generals who fought well in battle, economic gains and political interests arise, and these things are covered in textbooks. But the feelings of those who died in those wars and the families who were hurt are not written about. But what is truly important is to see those who were hurt in war living positively and cheerfully, to see those who lost parents in war laughing loudly and happily, and to see families who have overcome war living cheerfully and happily. There is something important there Let me repeat Generals who won wars are amazing. Their political interests and interests are included in textbooks. But it's even more amazing that someone who lost his right arm in the war is working so hard. A man who lost his left leg lives life to the fullest Trying to interact with people even after losing your hearing Being alive even with my leg crushed That is amazing. OK? "Please don't make fun of me." people who suffered from this social persecution were writing novels , had lion-like faces, and quit their companies when they were young and emotional. My name is KORE, and I am a social persecutor in Japan. I felt like I was going to die. My self-esteem was damaged. My job was taken away. I was made poor. I was robbed of the ability to have a lover. I couldn't get married and couldn't have children. I was treated inferiorly in society, and all my efforts were ruined. I was socially labeled, looked down upon, and driven crazy by mental stress. I couldn't even talk properly with my family. I lived as a disgrace, treated like garbage, like an object or an insect, treated like a nuisance, verbally abused, had no place in the city or at work, and there were times when I couldn't breathe. They were really, really horrible. I had everything taken from me, and there was nothing I could win as a man or as a member of society. He was the lowest-ranking person in Japan. Society has become more open to such people , and something has changed. saw a future, escaped persecution, pursued what they wanted, and began to live more normal lives ( and so did their families ). Social persecution is created by the strong. They are those who have everything: status, honor, fame, and wealth. The powerful do terrible things. They do things that are below what humans should do. They are brutal. They use violence on the body and on the mind. They have no qualms about deceiving people. It's really really awful. Someone once said that rather than those powerful people who do such terrible things and gain status, honor, fame, and wealth, it is more amazing that they can endure violence and survive. Perhaps because those in power were being criticized so harshly by everyone, voices were raised saying, "That's right, that's right." And then I realized Aren't people who have suffered social persecution amazing as victims? They may be just as good as the average person, or even worse, and there is nothing they can be the best at or win at, but aren't they the best as victims? As victims, aren't they above those with status, honor, fame, and wealth? As victims, aren't they the best? Perpetrators and ordinary people are not victims. They are not victims, so they cannot be victims. No one other than victims can be victims. Victims have the right (privilege) to be victims of only victims. And there are people who are struggling to survive despite having lost an arm in the war. They are living just like those people. are also the true value of a victim. These writings will all be forgotten. Perhaps the writing is poor. They just don't pay attention to it and forget it. Such writings that do not remain can all be said to be worthless. The victims themselves will also forget that they were victims. It is a shame, considering that they are the number one victims of social persecution in Japan. These are also universal things. They were writing novels, had lion faces, and quit their jobs young and emotionally. My name is KORE. I am a social persecutor in Japan. I am the number one victim of social persecution because I wrote a novel, my face is like a lion, and I quit my job when I was young because I got emotional. JAPAN KORE KORE Legend Legend JAPAN KORE KORE Legend The most influential legend It has more influence than the mass media etc. Legend It has the universal value of the victim's existence! Famous! Legend! Legend! Legend!
@moonpup6262
@moonpup6262 29 күн бұрын
any explanation why this video won't play for me?
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv 29 күн бұрын
not sure it should play for everyone. You may need to check your internet connection.
@justchill135
@justchill135 Ай бұрын
I consulted a criminal attorney over sworn criminal false allegations. Result? I was told only family court judges can deal with your problem.
@DP_e-que
@DP_e-que Ай бұрын
Where do we get help if a ex husband is going through this. It is a really painful experience.
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv Ай бұрын
Hi there! Here's the link to connect with us further about the situation: consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/contact-us/
@jdjenny
@jdjenny Ай бұрын
Our adversary is a pathogen 💥
@SonyaGaines-b7i
@SonyaGaines-b7i Ай бұрын
This is so true. My second born was sharing all of these feelings with me before he got alienated. He tried to fight back towards his dad when his dad was alienating him…but the courts didn’t help us. My son’s ATTORNEY didn’t help. He gave in. He had to. I seen it too. He had to.
@mikeandrew9055
@mikeandrew9055 Ай бұрын
Good info that I need to hear but you need to fix your audio adding a proper microphone because I thought this was filmed in 2015. Great advice many like myself need but gets lost with poor audio
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv Ай бұрын
I have a great mic and it switched when I went live to a computer mic which screwed up the sound in this video.
@Atjayvang21
@Atjayvang21 Ай бұрын
Shessh.. everything you said never crossed my mind. Over stress much! .. yes its almost over
@angela_ruberto
@angela_ruberto Ай бұрын
This 💯 this. If only people would understand the damage that is being done by using the term. Stop the fighting, stop wasting your time and money. Use the terms that already exist and get the people who should know how to fix this on board.
@justchill135
@justchill135 Ай бұрын
I went to a criminal lawyer with my false allegations from the other parent. The response was this is a family court matter.
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv Ай бұрын
Unfortunately, that is not surprising! We work with parents dealing with false allegations all the time. Here's the link to contact us if you're seeking support in navigating your situation! consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/contact-us/
@AndrewTexidor
@AndrewTexidor Ай бұрын
this information is empowering me and I am so very grateful I do need to get clarity on what is meant by “expose the pathogen”
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv Ай бұрын
Hi Andrew! Exposing the pathogen really means getting your case and evidence prepared properly to lay out the facts and expose the damaging effects on the children. In essence, who is doing what, where, when, and why, and what do we do about it? Reach out to us here: consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/contact-us/
@brettleigh1980a
@brettleigh1980a Ай бұрын
Is it ever possible for the targeted parent yo help balance the child, or is the help of a professional always required? Either way, can this work whilst the child is still residing with the alienating parent?
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv Ай бұрын
Hi Brett, yes, the work we do is designed to empower you to fix this for your family instead of relying on professionals to fix it for you as they oftentimes don't know how to solve this. And yes, we work with many parents whose children are still residing with the alienating parent. You can contact us here: consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/contact-us/
@thegreatnpowerful
@thegreatnpowerful Ай бұрын
This is all great info, and very helpful... But how do we fight it? What's the mechanism to provide balance to the child's thought streams?
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv Ай бұрын
Hi there! Reach out to us as we have been doing this work since 2006 and successfully recovering families: consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/contact-us/
@IrfanKhan-sv1tr
@IrfanKhan-sv1tr Ай бұрын
Or can go to masjid/mosque in Afghanistan and say “ there is no God but Allah & Prophet Muhammed is his prophet” then rent a house and live there. Can get married too. No one can take away your kids . Daughters/female cannot go out alone by themselves without father or brother uncle grad father/ son nephew.
@mariag.magallanes2330
@mariag.magallanes2330 Ай бұрын
Bad mouthing used as a manipulation..... I do everything for you. I sacrifice everything for you... Your dad never does anything.. This is the difference.
@nancyjanelawson4627
@nancyjanelawson4627 2 ай бұрын
I'm 5 months past my son (17) with Autism being taken from school by his Father. I've been inundated with court, attorneys, emails, and phone calls trying to get my son back in my home and life. During this awful time, my son was emancipated and now I have no court or legal recourse. I spent money getting an attorney only to be publicly humiliated by my son's school during a group IEP meeting where his Father and Stepmother coached him to say things like " I only live with my Dad now, I don't want my Mom in my life" in front of his entire panel of teachers and school staff. The local police just refuse to do anything, and the local community sides with his father due to him being an official and the stepmother an educator at a prestigious school. I have no resources to get in touch with my son and every chance meeting is anxiety-ridden due to my child being psychologically manipulated to act towards me like I am a monster. I've tried very hard to move on from being an empty nester but there is this constant feeling of loss. What else can I do?
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv Ай бұрын
Hi Nancy, there's always more to do! Reach out to us or connect with a member of my team in the Alliance to Solve Parental Alienation Facebook group. consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/contact-us/
@susanphillips-t4z
@susanphillips-t4z 2 ай бұрын
Do. Yu have an email?
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv Ай бұрын
Hi Susan, yes we do. Here's how you can contact us: consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/contact-us/
@margaretkimball1562
@margaretkimball1562 2 ай бұрын
In short; INSINUATIONS is what I lived with. My child punished me for two months because I said "ditto" to her bf father in a salutation. Her stepmom ran that as outrage and I couldn't defend myself adequately over the outrage. YOU two are EXACTLY correct! Ah, I hung up the phone once and didn't say I love you, that punishment was and still is thrown in my face, for being a bad mother.
@EmilyBurke-z5d
@EmilyBurke-z5d 2 ай бұрын
7 years ago My daughter when she was 13 to spend a few weeks with their dad and his parents during summer and she never came back. It’s crushing . She turns 20 in 3 weeks.
@amandabryson1689
@amandabryson1689 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your patience and love and support you are sharing.I have been searching for your knowledge about the path to take to be a better parent for my children who are adults. We all need each other in this process and it is a process. Be the most health parent I can be for them without all the drama,I want to just enjoy our new relationship going forward whatever that looks like.HEATHY THEY DESERE THAT FROM ME.
@angelinag4116
@angelinag4116 3 ай бұрын
Narcissists are not borderlines. They are just acting out their instability and they are not suicidal. I am writing from my own experience because my husband is a diagnosed narcissist by a psychiatrist. He was acting borderline crazy, but in a second I saw in the mirror that he was just acting out his instability. After his regular daily tantrum over nothing, I suddenly saw him enjoying crushing me. I will never forget it. Narcissists are so good at acting that you would never believe they are just acting. The hardest part for them is to act crying, but they are good at that too. Malignant covert narcissists have the brains of psychopaths. They don't care at all that they are ruining a child's life, that they are traumatizing him forever. The worst part is that the environment supports the covert narcissist as a victim and a good parent.
@mamastylesaver
@mamastylesaver 3 ай бұрын
My stepson is in a high conflict parenting situation. My husband of almost 10 years (his father) is the targeted parent right now. My stepson is about to turn 17 & we are going back to court in a couple weeks for Settlement Conference. It’s been exhausting & for us seemed out of nowhere. Def parent alienation has been going on for awhile now.
@AffectionateSeaOtter
@AffectionateSeaOtter 3 ай бұрын
There is a DENIAL in parents who accuse the other parent of 'parental alienation' (PA). Nothing happens in a vaccum. Children don't just suddently stop liking one parent. More often than not, esp. if you dig deeper, there is a backstory of neglect, abandonment or abuse that the accusing parent (the one accusing the other parent of PA) is trying to conceal. I know this for a fact because my own mother did that when we were young. My dad had his flaws no doubt and we weren't blind to them but my mom who was self-bsorbed and emotionally distant and just generally disgruntled with her marriage would abandon us repeatedly after an argument with our father. She would literally just leave, then come after months when she ran out of resources I guess and then act as if nothing had happened. This became a pattern with her. Rinse & Repeat. The first time I half-believed her when she said she came back because she loved us and missed us (I was 8 years old then) but after she did that several times over the next several years it became clear to me when I turned 10 (5th grade) that we were not the reason. She had psychological problems of her own. When she noticed that we were growing distant and were not that gullible she started accusing our father of turning us 'cold' towards her and blamed him for what we now call 'perental alientation' (back then there was no such term) when in reality it was her own behavior that led us esp. me (her daughter) to withdraw from her. I think a lot of parents and also the society at large truly believe that children are dumb and emotionally stupid and are therefore unable to judge sincerity. What I have observed from my own life experience and that of others, however, is quite different in that children who experience trauma early on actually have a heightened sense of perception and discernment regarding what feels genuine to them and what feels like phony BS and it only gets better with time. My mom lived in DENIAL of this fact the whole time and to this day she blames my father, never once stopping to reflect on her own actions. So when I hear these Parental Alienation accusations I sense immediately there is way more to the story than others are being led to believe and someone is in serious DENIAL.
@DTM45
@DTM45 3 ай бұрын
My 22 year old daughter won’t communicate with me her father. Since this all started 8 years ago, I have been 100% careful not to make things worse. Stuck in no man’s land currently.
@danieljones9334
@danieljones9334 3 ай бұрын
So difficult trying to communicate with my 2 boys aged 10 and 8 when I'm even blocked on their xboxes and their gran is even blocked on my 10yr olds mobile as am i. All because their headmistress rung me over her concerns for my boys sudden drop in their school attendance. I work away each week and wasn't even aware of how much time they were having off. Now their mum thinks I tried throwing her under the bus. Not seen them for over 3 months now with no justification whatsoever why she's doing it. My 8yr olds last message over xbox was on a school night on13th June at 22:52pm saying "love you" and 30 loves hearts. It was like he was trying to reach out. Next day he vanished off my friends list and I was blocked. Must've been horrible for him he'd have to have been sat there and watched his mum physically block then remove me. We used to play online and lovingly message each other every day. "A mothers rights are assumed, a father's rights have to be fought for" 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿
@djg4489
@djg4489 2 ай бұрын
I did that with my sons when their phones were blocked and I knew that it worked when they would send me a message back.... Mine are now 27 and 29 and we started this Insanity when they were 10 and 12. I've had to figure out how to work around everything. Email to text works around blocked cell phone numbers 🌞 Just remember when you send them messages, don't say anything about the other parent. Just send them something of thinking of you. Or how are you doing or saying you love them. Or ask them if they need anything?
@djg4489
@djg4489 2 ай бұрын
Believe it or not, the less you show the other parent. You are frustrated and the more you let your sons be, the quicker they will come back. And you have the benefit of you are a father with sons.... The kids tend to gravitate to the parent of their gender when they get to 10 and 12 years old. What works against a lot of us is our children are the opposite gender of us and they stop look up to the parent of their gender. I'm sorry you And your kids are going through this as well. Video games were used as a manipulation tool... Especially teenagers, will get to the point just in the nature of teenagers where they start pushing back against things they don't like..... There are men now that were alienated that have KZbin channels as well. That offer some good advice and they have reconnected with their fathers. Boys and girls tend to be a little bit different. I think even outside of alienation just wired differently. So it's helpful to have a male's perspective that has gone through alienation that has reconnected with a father. Just like it helps me having a mother who has reconnected with sons. Every dynamic is different when it comes to the gender of the parent and the gender of the kids being surrounded and alienated.
@djg4489
@djg4489 2 ай бұрын
I have been blocked multiple times but I keep sending things and every now and then a message will come through. Sometimes it's not a nice message... But it's a message. Which means communications are being read and they are taking the time to respond. And sometimes what they send you isn't really what they mean. They're kind of showing you that they know you're there. Keep communicating So they know you're not abandoning them. I was abandoned by my father because he didn't know what to do or how to do things and he just walked away to basically even manage his own difficulty from the situation. Which wasn't wrong but he didn't know how I felt. He had no idea that I felt abandoned when he was. Just trying to stop crazy and avoid crazy and minimize crazy. Just keep sending some kind of a message or a card. Send a package, do things that keep showing up every now and then but don't overdo it either. And expect things to maybe disappear or get thrown away. But it doesn't mean the kids don't see it coming and being received. It's all about them seeing the effort you are making and that you are not quitting on them
@djg4489
@djg4489 2 ай бұрын
Boys about that age And throw about 13 are also testing their own power. Even in the most normal of families. There used to be a book. How to say it to boys which talks about what they are like at different ages and how to manage it...
@Rexi63
@Rexi63 3 ай бұрын
We have an urgent issue. How can we get in touch with you? Please.
@lotusmccary9365
@lotusmccary9365 3 ай бұрын
Some "alienated" parents need to change their behavior and own their own stuff
@dianahummel1874
@dianahummel1874 3 ай бұрын
Yes! The child and the parent has no idea that alienation is happening . It is a crime against a child. I hope many parents see this video and follow your advice.
@isisbluemt
@isisbluemt 3 ай бұрын
Just had our second reunification therapy session. What are your thoughts on having the ex present during the sessions. Admittedly it's not going well.
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv 3 ай бұрын
You should check out my video on reunification therapy on my channel. I talk all about why reunification therapy doesn't work and can keep alienated parents stuck.
@katherineheffron8710
@katherineheffron8710 3 ай бұрын
Will this class be just like the 3-day workshop that we just completed?
@dorcyprutertv
@dorcyprutertv 3 ай бұрын
Hi Katherine, the class mentioned is the same as the 3-day workshop you just completed!
@katherineheffron8710
@katherineheffron8710 3 ай бұрын
@@dorcyprutertv Thank you!
@georgiakritikos4955
@georgiakritikos4955 3 ай бұрын
The "hypo law" hides behind "the privilege" law & spread violence & disease ❤my notes on how the unlawful sneak in the legal- markets by products for lifestyle
@georgiakritikos4955
@georgiakritikos4955 3 ай бұрын
Professional in commercials DO NOT match AMATEURS or where they land/>> 1. medical 2. Police station, fire department& academic platform, my notes on politics push economic lifestyle
@georgiakritikos4955
@georgiakritikos4955 3 ай бұрын
Reference, "consent" in MOSSES BY HOW RAMASIS TALKS ABOUT THE SLAVES HE SAID " THEY LOVE IT" & THEY KNOW IT
@georgiakritikos4955
@georgiakritikos4955 3 ай бұрын
Also reference CHOMPSKY AT THE 3 AND A HALF HOUR LECTURE AT UNITED NATIONS MEETING ABOUT WAR DISEASE & VIOLENCE "THEY LOVE IT" & THEY KNOW IT/>> controlled populations under investigation- market by product FOR LIFESTYLE
@georgiakritikos4955
@georgiakritikos4955 3 ай бұрын
Mam "pit the one against the other " & the "privilege law" is so unconstitutional/>> i study & its a violation in house on streets & in the community, segregation uncivil since 1968
@georgiakritikos4955
@georgiakritikos4955 3 ай бұрын
AMERICAN STATES KIDNAPPING AMERICAN CHILDREN TO SET IN COMMUNISM IN AMERICA IS AN AMERICAN FEDERAL VIOLATION ON AMERICANS ECONOMICS, & IT IS UNDER INVESTIGATION ❤
@georgiakritikos4955
@georgiakritikos4955 3 ай бұрын
The STATES WILL BE INVESTIGATED BY THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT ON KIDNAPPED CHILDREN FOR PAYCHECKS, RIPPING OF AMERICAN CITIZENS IS UNCONSTITUTIONAL
@georgiakritikos4955
@georgiakritikos4955 3 ай бұрын
Please HELP Pass MassSenate bill S.1131 CROOKED LAWYERS FOOL CROOKED JUDGES TO PICK POCKET AMERICAN CITIZENS THEIR PROPERTY, CHILDREN and Elders Inheritance 🎬call Mr Musto Boston Massachusetts give testimony
@georgiakritikos4955
@georgiakritikos4955 3 ай бұрын
This UNCONSTITUTIONAL CIRCUMSTANCE IS OVER RESOURCES & WHEN THE KIDNAPPED FIND OUT THEY WILL ❤FILE COMPLAINTS VOLUMINOUS
@annarejoice9185
@annarejoice9185 3 ай бұрын
Spot on.
@Yurkidding
@Yurkidding 3 ай бұрын
Do you still think a child needs both parents when one parent is unable or unwilling to stop hurting the child?