Maybe read the book men who hate women?

The woman with the blonde hair looks crippled whats up sure glad we had this dialogue. Adult children stonewall and callous disregard for the rights and feelings of others.

Note the word salad on the one with the blonde. I’d throw out all old ideas and stop feeling sorry for yourself that your parents didn’t give you appropriate guidance and direction. It’s not unique. It’s too bad about the gang leader rhetoric and provoking and stonewalling and escalating and gaslighting. Try cognitive therapy and a sincere investigation of religion. Your religion is obvious here and it is a choice.

Manipulative dominating abusers push the no talk rule and silent treatment and stonewalling. Thought stopping empty rhetoric like how dare you?! Frivolous complaints. Overgeneralizations and global labels. Distorted rules. Tyrannical dictators pontificate with emotional rhetoric and self aggrandize. And excuse and justify bad behavior and minimize and normalize it and exaggerate other people s imperfections. They provoke and then stonewall and pathologized the reaction and gaslight. And put gangsters on the victim. They get all communication going through them because they defame others as a stupid, crazy, bitch. Some people are stupid crazy bitches. But stupid crazy bitches lie that sane decent people are stupid crazy bitches. They play staging and framing games and stir up the mob. When they are confronted they either escalate or they attack with false accusations and refuse dialogue. Or stonewall. And play the innocent victim when the person tries to engage in a good faith discussion. Or go pathetic and claim they are uniquely damaged. So the rules don’t apply. Entitled. Tyrannical dictators cause people to automatically discount the target and gets the mob to attack and you will see the troll language. They direct hatred and abuse toward a target. Tyrannical dictators get people to over identify with them and lose themselves in them. Like Stockholm’s syndrome. Puppets who echo the abusers sick rhetoric. Tyrannical dictators are very interested in denying others human rights and in shutting victims up. So insane they’ll scream you have no human rights and keep your mouth shut. They send minions to terrorize or kill their pretend enemy who is an evil villain in their fantasy drama. And they smile to the persons face who thinks he’s the best friend. Evil people of the lie with secrets and seething hatred and rage don’t like open mutual dialogue and accountability and course correcting. They just want power and control. They can really fool people. They scapegoat innocent bystanders and bond over the common enemy. You really have to be savvy. People look guilty when they evade and divert and deflect from reasoned deliberation and common standards of resolving issues. Bad faith. But if you’ve been around untrustworthy gangsters all your life and learned to distort reality all the time then it’s hard to know who to trust. Not showing any conscience about sending messages that cause others distress and seem confusing and disturbing considering the context and seems like bullying and covert aggression and treating others like object in your drama and like you’re a very important person seems like the person is either guilty or frightened or delusional and could probably use some good cognitive therapy. Maybe never learned how to talk through issues or mature loving communication. They have a lot of help available for People with ptsd or other neurological issues and unresolved trauma issues. It’s really worth it.

I think as responsible adults and friends and family members that we have duties and responsibilities and hopefully a balance between career and personal life. It’s just a shallow and superficial cliche to say don’t let those things limit you. Hopefully we can identify and define what is destructive and dangerous in our environment and also strive to course correct or work through issues and solve problems together or warn people about what is actually dangerous and destructive in reality. Asking why you do mirror work is not abuse. Discussing proverbs and philosophy is not aberrant. Clarifying what you mean by those terms and solid advice or opinion about how actually to deal with those aspects of life would seem more helpful. Especially with a career in the arts those subjects are important and complex. Having hatred and abuse directed at you and someone playing the victim or big protector with all kinds of lies can certainly effectively imprison a person. He can lose his mind or actually end up in prison, the mental hospital, or the morgue. Trying to promote a dialogue about these issues and concerns can lead to healing and safety. Abusers can pay lip service to concepts but if you ask them what they mean they can’t explain it. It’s nice to find your voice and tell your story without parroting someone else and pretending to know about things you haven’t learned about yet.

It’s accusing of what the person is actually doing himself. It’s what children do. Flipping the script. I know you are but what am I?

It is the language of the low life. It is the language of death, not life.

It is the kind of language that destroys children’s spirits and bears false witness about others and devalues and dehumanizes the morally and intellectually healthier person. It takes children hostage and undermines the others authority and causes the child to have to make a terrible choice to take sides. And to feel ingroup and falsely empowered and shamed to the core. It is the language of dysfunction and of gang leaders and cult leaders. The lies are short and it takes paragraphs to explain how it is a lie. It is the language of the ignorant and the lazy. It is corrupt. All while playing the innocent injured party. With self righteous indignation. It’s the language of the morbidly jealous. Of the phony. The false friend. The two year old who doesn’t share. The ego maniac. The callous, raging, bitter narcissist. With a guise of sanity. Cognitive therapy and possibly a doctor of integrative medicine might help. Anger management courses address these unfortunate issues with rhetoric. If you don’t like how some people abuse with missatunement and empty jargon and mind numbing cliches and off topic and twisted and baffling then you could describe the specific behavioral detail or examples. Because it turns out they liars one up and grandstand with this kind of empty rhetoric. And if you feel frightened when someone is discussing codes of conduct or core values or standard grievance procedures or what is dysfunctional and what is more functional then try to take a deep breathe and have a little faith in the process. And if you are parroting someone you may be her echo and a victim of narcissistic abuse.

I have now successfully proven according to standard rules of logic and reason that you are the one “philosophizing” inappropriately and false “proverbs”. We actually do have objective standards of right and wrong and truth and lies and good and evil in this world. There is such thing as objective reality. You can’t just bullshit while you are complaining of others bullshitting. If you think someone is talking nonsense you can actually prove why it is nonsense. This language is rampant in prisons and unfortunately our children are subjected to it in schools and families and it is what is “toxic”. People who talk like this tend to call reasonable and caring people “ aliens” and “creature” and “freak” and “mrs markdoom” and stupid, crazy, bitch behind her back and to her child whose spirit was crushed. But it is in reality the language of the stupid crazy bitch. Children parrot and echo the narcissistic abusers. And harrass and terrorize their own parent. And diagnosed with a psychotic disorder. With the carried feelings of the morbidly jealous hater. And Stockholm’s syndrome. And the blank face and neurological diseases of the cult victim. Without his own thoughts, feelings, and voice. It is the language of the female witch. Who conducts witchunts with undetected stealth and smiles to people’s face. Without conscience. Who excuses and justifies her sick behavior with a sense of entitlement.

Actors can be good observers. It could be helpful to look more at what the core values of the people around you act out and talk about them to each other. It is normal in recovery to misuse words and concepts and to distort good principles through preexisting biases and maladaptive beliefs. The thing to do is to keep learning and not be superficial about it. Worldly success is one thing but we learn and grow in our relationships with each other. If you evaluate the new age principles you’ve been spouting a little deeper you might be able to see they are distorted. They can reinforce denial and tunnel vision and self deception. And ego mihi deus. Criminals are not good influences. Gangster fantasies and revenge ideation and being overly loyal and omertà can be hard to self correct. There are a lot of sick people and extreme narcissism in Hollywood. Good luck.

....Okay........Yolanda ........have a nice day

Yea if he could learn not to troll storm that would really be something.

Yea it’s the witchy language of the troll. Children see it as powerful. It is actually weak.

Yes stonewalling and silent treatment and acting out with emotional reasoning can certainly manipulate and dominate and possess people. Carried feelings and stuck in rage and not much insight into your issues can be difficult. Maybe try a mutual open dialogue with someone who knows how to speak reasonably. Immature people act out the fantasy drama and avoid words. Pontificating with empty jargon and an air of self righteous indignation and omniscient certainty doesn’t fool everyone. I’d take the cotton out of your ears and stick it in your mouth. And some specific behavioral detail about the grandmother would be enlightening rather than the cognitive distortions and logical fallacies. Copying other people’s work and playing the same games you’re complaining about is certainty very gangster. Gang exit counseling and cult deprogramming can help. So can cognitive therapy. Adult child programs can help a person stay grounded in reality and with a little willingness and humility you may be able to keep your sanity in holly weird. A relationship with one functional woman or friend where you actually relate with each other using words could be very helpful. There’s a book by John gottman that you might appreciate. Also learning more about politics and psychological warfare and harrassment and discrimination and defamation and codes of conduct and core values and grievance procedures could really be enlightening. A lot of the anxiety can be abated with education. It’s the fear of the unknown that is so debilitating. Tyrannical dictators like to control communication. They enforce the no talk rule. With double standards. Monologues. Talk but don’t listen. They Act out the fantasy drama and don’t use mature communication. Acting out. Like a two year old. Brokenness is not necessarily a bad thing and it’s not an excuse not to parent children. Spoiled shallow women play the pity ploy to evade and divert from reasoned deliberation and accountability and apologies and forgiveness. Hypersensitive to criticism they have no problem criticizing others. Haughty arrogance and brazen and baffling contempt for JMarx. Then there is the verbal abuser with oppositional defiant disorder who spars with word salad and has a lot of rigid rules about how people should talk and act and outs a person down every time he says or does anything or makes a bid for connection. Obsessed with the secret law of attraction some idiots go psychotic. It’s nice when you have true friends who are halfway reasonable. Instead of thugs who beat people up and don’t bother to get the facts. Play the big protector in a childish gangster fantasy with revenge ideation and terrorist threats. And make up truth is word salad and word salad is truth. Silence is a good way to cover up sickness and get your way. Accountability is a hallmark of good leadership and functional relating. Provoking women and then telling everyone they are crazy is something that hasn’t changed. Cavalierly bragging about crimes and minimizing and normalizing alcoholism and the false analogy that one beer is comparible to what some people say alcoholism is and having taken pain killers for awhile qualifies you to say you’ve dealt with addiction like it’s no big deal and blaming people for concern about a pattern of aberrant behavior and appearing to defend with maladaptive defense mechanisms which are logical fallacies and cognitive distortions and a lack of empathy conscience and remorse with the gangster word salad games is evidence that nothing has changed. Some people need some good guidance and direction and throw out all old ideas and all new friends in recovery. You go ahead and don’t let all those external things like “religion” limit you. Your language patterns are the language of a very limited person. There’s room to grow. Why don’t you learn about the things you are discussing before you pontificate like a madman?

Yea I would definitely like to see him do more work on himself. What an opportunity to learn about gangs and narcissistic abuse and recovery programs. The language of recovery involves words. Idolizing emotion over reason can really be problematic but it’s ridiculous how many unreasonable people one scapegoat can have in his life.

Criticism is part of life and should be welcomed and considered dispassionately. However random chronic and meaningless bizarre verbal abuse and false accusations that are hard to defend can be very traumatizing. What is false philosophy? Philosophy is a body of knowledge and discussing reality. What specifically is the philosophy that you think is false? How do you know it is false? What false proverbs? Proverbs are a book of the Bible that is phenomenal wisdom and common sense. What would be a false proverb? It’s empty assertions unless you specify. Vague generalizations are actually the language of the political shit weasel trying to weasel out of something. Yes, insecure people do try to mock others and to put them down but what happened? Specifically? Did someone express concern about you for no reason or do they have a legitimate beef? What could you do to make amends and reassure another human being who is concerned or frightened? Maybe you could work through issues and talk things out and come to an agreement with forgiveness and apologies and kiss and make up?

Opposite.