Clayton Cardenas - Without Words

Without Words: A Portrait of the Heart Beat of Clayton Cardenas; Poet, Actor, Artist.
Produced by Lineage Entertainment Group
Music: Doc's Piano Song -- Rostam Batmanglij

[@evaprochazkova6725]

Chills....👏👏👏

[@sarygracian4564]

You are full of surprises.!! Talent pure talent

[@misstmemrs]

Oh yea how about one where he discusses low life gang leader rhetoric and the meaning and value of friendship.

[@darkprincess1918]

So would like to see more of his work!

[@misstmemrs]

Yes stonewalling and silent treatment and acting out with emotional reasoning can certainly manipulate and dominate and possess people. Carried feelings and stuck in rage and not much insight into your issues can be difficult. Maybe try a mutual open dialogue with someone who knows how to speak reasonably. Immature people act out the fantasy drama and avoid words. Pontificating with empty jargon and an air of self righteous indignation and omniscient certainty doesn’t fool everyone. I’d take the cotton out of your ears and stick it in your mouth. And some specific behavioral detail about the grandmother would be enlightening rather than the cognitive distortions and logical fallacies. Copying other people’s work and playing the same games you’re complaining about is certainty very gangster. Gang exit counseling and cult deprogramming can help. So can cognitive therapy. Adult child programs can help a person stay grounded in reality and with a little willingness and humility you may be able to keep your sanity in holly weird. A relationship with one functional woman or friend where you actually relate with each other using words could be very helpful. There’s a book by John gottman that you might appreciate. Also learning more about politics and psychological warfare and harrassment and discrimination and defamation and codes of conduct and core values and grievance procedures could really be enlightening. A lot of the anxiety can be abated with education. It’s the fear of the unknown that is so debilitating. Tyrannical dictators like to control communication. They enforce the no talk rule. With double standards. Monologues. Talk but don’t listen. They Act out the fantasy drama and don’t use mature communication. Acting out. Like a two year old. Brokenness is not necessarily a bad thing and it’s not an excuse not to parent children. Spoiled shallow women play the pity ploy to evade and divert from reasoned deliberation and accountability and apologies and forgiveness. Hypersensitive to criticism they have no problem criticizing others. Haughty arrogance and brazen and baffling contempt for JMarx. Then there is the verbal abuser with oppositional defiant disorder who spars with word salad and has a lot of rigid rules about how people should talk and act and outs a person down every time he says or does anything or makes a bid for connection. Obsessed with the secret law of attraction some idiots go psychotic. It’s nice when you have true friends who are halfway reasonable. Instead of thugs who beat people up and don’t bother to get the facts. Play the big protector in a childish gangster fantasy with revenge ideation and terrorist threats. And make up truth is word salad and word salad is truth. Silence is a good way to cover up sickness and get your way. Accountability is a hallmark of good leadership and functional relating. Provoking women and then telling everyone they are crazy is something that hasn’t changed. Cavalierly bragging about crimes and minimizing and normalizing alcoholism and the false analogy that one beer is comparible to what some people say alcoholism is and having taken pain killers for awhile qualifies you to say you’ve dealt with addiction like it’s no big deal and blaming people for concern about a pattern of aberrant behavior and appearing to defend with maladaptive defense mechanisms which are logical fallacies and cognitive distortions and a lack of empathy conscience and remorse with the gangster word salad games is evidence that nothing has changed. Some people need some good guidance and direction and throw out all old ideas and all new friends in recovery. You go ahead and don’t let all those external things like “religion” limit you. Your language patterns are the language of a very limited person. There’s room to grow. Why don’t you learn about the things you are discussing before you pontificate like a madman?

[@misstmemrs]

Yea I would definitely like to see him do more work on himself. What an opportunity to learn about gangs and narcissistic abuse and recovery programs. The language of recovery involves words. Idolizing emotion over reason can really be problematic but it’s ridiculous how many unreasonable people one scapegoat can have in his life.

[@anthonycampos8057]

Angel Reyes

[@hollywoodcelebrityworld9202]

❤

[@misstmemrs]

It’s awful to feel misunderstood and have people behave in a missatuned way and to see such confusing “art” and have to guess at the meaning. It’s nice to be clear and sincere and respect other people’s rights and feelings and be able to see other people’s perspective. Ignoring and stonewalling when your actions have disturbed and distressed another human being is really cold and cruel. It is in talking through issues together that we resolve them and solve problems and learn and grow together. Recovery takes time and there does seem to be some real effort made here. I hope he continues.

[@misstmemrs]

The problem with gangsters is they live in a fantasy world and play the telephone game and triangulate. Innocent bystanders get hurt. Who are pretend evil villains in a fantasy world.

[@misstmemrs]

The dogma of ambiguity. www.google.com/amp/s/www.newyorker.com/culture/richard-brody/the-deceptive-emptiness-of-zero-dark-thirty/amp

[@misstmemrs]

It’s not a godlike talent to be able to emote and cry. This is very self promoting and I think can be a form of self sabotage. Maybe you could find some decent advisors and discuss not coming across like an egomaniac.

[@karlynfinnegan6571]

I think love has something to do with being interested in the other persons perceptions, perspective, thoughts, feelings and beliefs and wants and needs and preferences and committed to mine and their spiritual growth. I think you have to have an understanding that the other person is separate from you and that thoughts do not in and of themselves create reality.

[@misstmemrs]

Manipulative dominating abusers push the no talk rule and silent treatment and stonewalling. Thought stopping empty rhetoric like how dare you?! Frivolous complaints. Overgeneralizations and global labels. Distorted rules. Tyrannical dictators pontificate with emotional rhetoric and self aggrandize. And excuse and justify bad behavior and minimize and normalize it and exaggerate other people s imperfections. They provoke and then stonewall and pathologized the reaction and gaslight. And put gangsters on the victim. They get all communication going through them because they defame others as a stupid, crazy, bitch. Some people are stupid crazy bitches. But stupid crazy bitches lie that sane decent people are stupid crazy bitches. They play staging and framing games and stir up the mob. When they are confronted they either escalate or they attack with false accusations and refuse dialogue. Or stonewall. And play the innocent victim when the person tries to engage in a good faith discussion. Or go pathetic and claim they are uniquely damaged. So the rules don’t apply. Entitled. Tyrannical dictators cause people to automatically discount the target and gets the mob to attack and you will see the troll language. They direct hatred and abuse toward a target. Tyrannical dictators get people to over identify with them and lose themselves in them. Like Stockholm’s syndrome. Puppets who echo the abusers sick rhetoric. Tyrannical dictators are very interested in denying others human rights and in shutting victims up. So insane they’ll scream you have no human rights and keep your mouth shut. They send minions to terrorize or kill their pretend enemy who is an evil villain in their fantasy drama. And they smile to the persons face who thinks he’s the best friend. Evil people of the lie with secrets and seething hatred and rage don’t like open mutual dialogue and accountability and course correcting. They just want power and control. They can really fool people. They scapegoat innocent bystanders and bond over the common enemy. You really have to be savvy. People look guilty when they evade and divert and deflect from reasoned deliberation and common standards of resolving issues. Bad faith. But if you’ve been around untrustworthy gangsters all your life and learned to distort reality all the time then it’s hard to know who to trust. Not showing any conscience about sending messages that cause others distress and seem confusing and disturbing considering the context and seems like bullying and covert aggression and treating others like object in your drama and like you’re a very important person seems like the person is either guilty or frightened or delusional and could probably use some good cognitive therapy. Maybe never learned how to talk through issues or mature loving communication. They have a lot of help available for People with ptsd or other neurological issues and unresolved trauma issues. It’s really worth it.

[@karlynfinnegan6571]

Jesus Christ is the word. In the beginning was the word and the word was with God and the word was God. And the word became flesh and dwelt among us and we beheld his glory, glory as of the only begotten of the father, full of grace and truth. By your words you will be justified and by your words you will be condemned.

[@misstmemrs]

Actors can be good observers. It could be helpful to look more at what the core values of the people around you act out and talk about them to each other. It is normal in recovery to misuse words and concepts and to distort good principles through preexisting biases and maladaptive beliefs. The thing to do is to keep learning and not be superficial about it. Worldly success is one thing but we learn and grow in our relationships with each other. If you evaluate the new age principles you’ve been spouting a little deeper you might be able to see they are distorted. They can reinforce denial and tunnel vision and self deception. And ego mihi deus. Criminals are not good influences. Gangster fantasies and revenge ideation and being overly loyal and omertà can be hard to self correct. There are a lot of sick people and extreme narcissism in Hollywood. Good luck.