I’m 29 soon to be 30. Always has been very introverted, tried to change it to become more extroverted in my late teens and early 20's, i would go out to party with friends, getting drunk but it was all so exhausting. I was always thinking that going out of my comfort zone, partying and talk with a lot of people would make me happier, but it just drained me even more. Ended up quitting all of that a couple of year ago and focus on the few friends i have that have been with me since my teenage years. And as u said, most likely you will meet a lot of fake people out there that u don’t share any interests with. It’s a lot better to just work on your goals and doing stuff for yourself, do things that make u happy and work against something valuable and keep contact with close friends and family at the same time.

i did this a lot when i was 14 ish. one day it just hit me that the reason i dont know how to act is because im too busy judging myself in my head and carefully orchestrating every thing i say, that im not fully listening to what the person has to say. at that point, its probable you wont know what to say if you werent giving your full attention. i think this stems from masking cus im autistic, and the fact that i hyperfixate on things most other people dont.

brother same happens to me, like whatever I say, sometimes my friends start to giggle in themselves, I am committed and they still act like small kids at 19 and 20 and tease me about having a girlfriend 😭 😭 😭, my friend once pulled a band she have me, and I was furious, but I later realised that I was furious lmao, I should've said something to him earlier, but that guy always target these things and he always targets me very discreetly, I promise who ever reads this comment I will stand my ground and will thrive for revenge, mu dressing, my life, they target everything even if they themselves are not the best. Nowadays my group meets without me (but there is a reason, it is that I go to college and they don't and I live very far away but they live near each other, but ig they could qt least ask me if I would want to come).

I don’t think being in your prime is something that really exists because you can enjoy life at any moment, you just need to choose to do so. But ask anyone older and they will say that their “prime” was in their 20s. No one ever says that high school was their prime unless they peaked in high school, which is honestly unfortunate. Your parents meeting at 17 is such a rare case, I wouldn’t get down about it. My parents didn’t meet until their late 20s and my mom didn’t have me until she was 37. Everything will fall into place. You have so much more freedom now as an adult vs in high school or middle school. You can do whatever you want. Continue KZbin, look into trades and find a more stable source of income to fund what you love to do. Pick up hobbies. Go to a library, go to a cafe, go to the gym, join a local club, take some classes for a hobby and meet people. You have so much ahead of you and you think it’s already over when it’s not.

hope u find peace...

I found this video by pure chance - the algorithm suggested it to me. I decided to watch it all. I’m only a little older than you, I think - I graduated college 2 years ago. These feelings and memories will always remain. The people who have shaped you - even for a split second of their presence - are in a different place in your life. It’s the bittersweetness of the human life. To make friends and relationships, for the long-term dwindle of the flame or the abrupt cut of the ties. You’re growing elder, and from these lessons of the past you learn. You will learn so that your new friendships can be stronger, held tighter, and you can navigate them easier. This feeling of loneliness is nostalgic and heart-breaking because it is, in a way, a goodbye to our old selves and those we used to love. It will be something we will always have to endure as we grow older. The post powerful thing he have as people is freedom; The freedom to act, to choose, to be. We have the freedom to think. Perhaps it is the next chapter of your story that these memories implore you to observe and they beg the question: How will you change the story? Will this next chapter look the same?

as a 26 year old who drinks at least 3 times a week, work as private security, work out 6 times a week, I think being alone is a prime thing everyone should experience. not permanently of course, but a necessity to experience to understand your emotions without acting upon them. I have no true social media. deleted. my "friends" are people I know at work. once I clock out, they're no longer part of the world I live in day to day. I know people care. but right now, being alone is something I believe I need to be in for a while before I do much of anything else, y'know? usually someone at work will be like "hey, don't be a stranger. text me". but I just go straight home, and think about my day. dark thoughts can be okay. but that's where the "understand your emotions without acting upon them" makes sense. well, for me at least. I grew up neglected, but I've grown to be accepting of things. the only thing still left is me, which is still a work in progress, but I've grown to be a bit more peaceful from the sad & angry person I was. perhaps you aren't in my shoes nor am I in yours, tho we generally are along the same page of the alone chapter I think.

Why are you on my KZbin Recommendation 😭😭😭😭 . But I feel you, maybe why youtube recommends it. Just Believe in yourself and always know what you are doing, they just don't understand you, you are not afraid to start. Nice video btw, Keep on doing what you are doing !! Proof them you are YOU🔥🔥🔥🔥

Dude I randomly found you (I am from Austria) and I really enjoy your videos. People are just jealous and don't get it. I fully believe your KZbin Chanel will become successful!

don't be sad bru 👊🏽 I'm hereee I'm your subscribers from Indonesia ❤

this vid sad :(

hey man, i just found your channel yesterday and binge-watched your videos. i relate to you a lot about this. it's so nice to hear someone talk about the things that i can relate to on such a deep level. I hope you do well in your life and continue making these videos. i will be waiting for the next upload :)

are you an INTP? i related to every point in that video, I've never felt more seen.

thank you for this. As someone with anxiety, I can relate to what you said about not getting stressed about things other people get stressed about. like a test, I never and still don't understand why people get stressed over something like that. the way my anxiety works is it away's kick's in when I'm around people, even my own family, and it feels like my throat's swelling up and i can't breathe. but most of the time it's when i eat or drink, doesn't matter what it is. As for the way i deal with it, i try and just ignore it, sometimes to the point I physically can't anymore and feel like I'm about to pass out. This happens everyday, at least it has for the lest few year's, and honestly i dont understand how people can eat, and be around people without feeling like there suffocating. i personally would not recommend ignoring anxiety until you physically cant. once again thank's for this, have a nice night, and take care of yourself.

time felt so slow during school now with school over veryday goes by way to fast now

I think everyone needs to feel alone at one point of their lives so they know they have themselves to rely on. It allows you to do things for you instead of others and grows you. Like you said when you have you, you don’t feel lonely even when your alone.

you look a lot like a guy i used to know.

I think he should give himself some grace back when he was in high school it's okay to feel what you felt in high school nobody is perfect what matters is the present and you can now change how your life will be as an adult

I'm 21 and I'm extroverted, but I don't have many friends and don't like going out to much (I just like to talk, and can talk to pretty much anyone), but I feel lonely because I don't have a boyfriend. In my brain, this "loneliness" it's being translated to "Am I not good enough? Should I try to became more slimmer?", and then because of this anxiety I do talk a lot with myself haha and imagine scenarios all the time (I'm not sure if this good in the long run) but, I don't know how to stop.. I don't mind being alone, but I don't like feeling lonely ;( (sorry if it's not so related to the video, but this is one of the reasons I space out all the time)

I love this video sm

Dude your whole page is so relatable. This is the type of channel I aspire to make. I have so many of these same thoughts and wonders, specifically in these past few months & im 18 Diving deeper into these types of questions lead me to Philosophy and down that whole rabbit hole of fun. currently just started a Philosophy course & am really excited for that to see what I’ll get out of it.

Ryan Gosling, is that you ?!

no bro youre not crazy i totally get you

this vid is so relatable im always imagining how things will go in my head and i will make up fake scenarios. i also cannot stand myself

I'm not convinced there's a singular point to life. Existentialism revolves around creating your own meaning in life. You can take the approach of people like Aristotle, and you can define the purpose of life as happiness, or flourishing [AKA] "eudaimonia". Some say there's no meaning to life at all, some people say it's impossible to know what the meaning of life is. I think it can be multiple things. If you're looking for a single answer, such as, "The point of life is to grow a successful business", that becomes reductionist very fast. Fundamentally, the point of life is to do whatever fulfills you. That's a somewhat circular answer, but it's true at the most basic level. The meaning of life can be the convergence of things like what you love, what you can get paid for, what you're good at, solving a problem that the world needs etc. It's your job to fill in the blanks, but I wouldn't get discouraged trying to fill in the blank. Oftentimes, the answer is found in the question itself. The point of life is to find the point of life, and the point of life is most usually a highly complex multitude of things. That's my take. Great vid homie.

what is your tiktok?

To me, the purpose of life is to live. I care little for the material, and that includes societal accolades. I have no degrees but several skills. Including guitar, which is how I make a living. You want to live in a way that adds to itself. Moments that build upon one another. When something goes wrong, stay grounded and keep going. From a psychological standpoint, the desire to have a family is very, very, very influential in our decisions. I'm 31 and Uncle certified, just passing along things that I know and wish I would've known sooner. May the Gods guide you.

As someone with anxiety, I can relate to the spacing out in the classroom, it's like my mind just goes blank along with my emotional responses. while everything else around me is just unorganized sounds, all trying to mean something. it kinda just happens. thanks for this, and i hope you have a nice night and take care of yourself .

thank's for this, these videos are really comforting. so thanks for that, i mean it.

You know honey you're going to be okay. I'm old enough to be your mom but I remember feeling this way, almost like you're too much for everyone else because they just don't respond the way you think people should. The best advice I can give is to keep looking for people who WILL listen and take you seriously. They exist, even if they're rare, and you won't be happy until you find them. A couple close friends and a lover will do you a lot of good, stay positive about finding these people and life will get better.

i honestly can relate to a lot of this, it's nice seeing someone talking about something real for once, so thank you for that. hope your haveing a good night/day/ afternoon depending on when you read this.

do some funny stories

I ask myself this everyday

I'm glad somebody has noticed. Usually internet hate, and irl hate used to be separated. Like with video game lobbies where throwing slurs was the norm. But now people are desensitized and praised for being rude. We've dug our own grave with this one

hell ya man.

i feared embarrassing myself or saying something cringe to the point i isolated myself. now im dealing with the repercussions of having no social skills, no friends and no self esteem.

40 subs W!

until you discovered mewtwo🐐

Ngl I created a KZbin account just to comment on this video, and I can really relate to a lot of the things you’ve said in this video, and your “I don’t know how to act in conversations” video. The internet I feel like has made conversations feel a lot faster than they really are, and how overwhelming it can feel when we are so stigmatized by social media. I’ve tried my best to be there for others in the past, and sometimes your voice does go unheard and it really sucks. But I think your intentions still matter, even if the result isn’t what you were expecting. Keep being who you are. They’re are people around you that want what’s best for you, so keep trying. I don’t know what you’ve experienced in life but I can tell you truly want to help others, and I just want to say thank you for that. Btw here’s a video I found that could help if you are still unsure what to say in conversations: m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/a3SylXWsfaafqZI

Why are you so depressed on yt dawg 💀

Hope everything well good at the doctors

Love this video so good

I want more in life too!

Real i can never find the right things to say and i just make the conversation awkward

I also redownloaded disc feel free to message me❤

Close to 40 subs 🙏

loving the thumbnails

I just want everyone to be okay and not worry about stuff

W video as always

im just in a new school and it fucking sucks cuz i left my only real friend(i was chill with everyone tho) and its hard to find any friends CUZ EVERYONE KNOWS EACH OTHER SINCE LIKE 4th GRADE AND IM IN 11th GRADE NOW