learning to be myself in my 20s
12:21
you are literally perfect
5:44
5 ай бұрын
just be you and you will receive
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you're someones savior
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5 ай бұрын
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@debrabraz6258
@debrabraz6258 12 сағат бұрын
Merry Christmas!
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 8 сағат бұрын
Merry Christmas to you as-well(:💚
@valenciathompson505
@valenciathompson505 Күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 8 сағат бұрын
💚💚💚
@Jackonda14
@Jackonda14 2 күн бұрын
hi...you changed me
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 8 сағат бұрын
hi thank you for watching and commenting 💗😊
@valenciathompson505
@valenciathompson505 3 күн бұрын
100% once we are comfortable with yourself you can do anything ❤❤
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 2 күн бұрын
🎯😊💓
@valenciathompson505
@valenciathompson505 4 күн бұрын
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@arisauracle
@arisauracle 2 күн бұрын
💗💛💖😊
@valenciathompson505
@valenciathompson505 9 күн бұрын
It’s been awhile ❤❤❤❤❤since
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 8 күн бұрын
Hi Valencia(: thank you for being here 💜
@LuxersMultiverse2090
@LuxersMultiverse2090 15 күн бұрын
We are a puzzle and can be completed through different aspects of what we are. Life is not about money or possession, it is about interconnectedness.
@LuxersMultiverse2090
@LuxersMultiverse2090 15 күн бұрын
When you are in harmony with creator and nature , you will be fulfilled. Like you eat roots , fruits , vegetables, grains and drink water , tea ; take a bath with leafs or fruits , having a man to remind you youvare a special in this world. Living in harmony with through consumption, through healty , through sexuality and through the spiritual realm . Another thing is community . Black people are tribal . We need a community in order to feel fulfilled. We need friends , lover, and we need nature .
@LuxersMultiverse2090
@LuxersMultiverse2090 15 күн бұрын
God's will is in his creation . He desires that all parts of his creation interacts in the way that it was meant to be. Lwhat brings happiness and fulfillment in our lives is when all the pieces fit in together. Your ancestors knew this truth. Harmony of existence.
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 10 күн бұрын
I appreciate your comments and feedback, they resonate with me and give me more to think about(: much love and take care 💛
@LuxersMultiverse2090
@LuxersMultiverse2090 16 күн бұрын
Knolwedge and experience brings people to that realization.
@LuxersMultiverse2090
@LuxersMultiverse2090 16 күн бұрын
This is really deep .
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 15 күн бұрын
thank you for watching and commenting(:
@LuxersMultiverse2090
@LuxersMultiverse2090 15 күн бұрын
@arisauracle it's a pleasure
@LuxersMultiverse2090
@LuxersMultiverse2090 23 күн бұрын
the black woman is the originator of love energy , the mother of caring and the phenomenon of pure energy
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 Ай бұрын
👍🏾
@island661
@island661 Ай бұрын
I obviously watch too many crime stories. Not everyone is made from love, unfortunately.
@ZUNNYZAVIOR
@ZUNNYZAVIOR Ай бұрын
#SOMEONESSAVIOR
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul Ай бұрын
I appreciate your new insight on what propels your spirit. Thank you for sharing your thoughts💓
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 15 күн бұрын
thank you so much! I appreciate your love and support. 💕
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 2 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@marthatowler3057
@marthatowler3057 2 ай бұрын
There is just something about a hot, crispy, greasy fried chicken wing that feels so soothing to my spirit 🥹 I GET IT!
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 2 ай бұрын
🎯💯
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 2 ай бұрын
Adolescence can be tourture on unique individuals! As this video trigger me to look back, I came to the realization that it was most difficult bcz I didn’t have the support to me my self and truly and fully embrace who I was. “Energy bothered them!” aint that the truth! I whole heartedly believe that! The ones who judge and criticize are usually the ones who fear the same energy that they’re putting out! Being labeled as “shy” as well, I look at it as a gift and as a natural filtering process provided by the divine to protect the gifts it has instilled in me, as well as ensure that I don’t get involved with the wrong people. Those are the ones, like you said, who won’t take the time in the proper diligence to fully know who you are embrace, and respect it. Good one Ari! Had me doing some shadow work this morning 😂. Appreciate the words, don’t stop! ✌🏾
@BeautybyMulatto1
@BeautybyMulatto1 2 ай бұрын
I just don't tolerate direspect lol so it makes hard for me
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 3 ай бұрын
Hard making friends when ur comfortable being by ur self. Truth! I think the biggest thing I’ve experienced is not seeking friendship, but being open. Especially as an introvert. As I get older, I find balance, I found peace in quality not quantity. The ability to live w/o makes the friendship experience greater cause it’s wanted not needed. More enjoyable when it’s natural Insightful video! Keep cooking‼️
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 2 ай бұрын
thank you Rich 🧡
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 3 ай бұрын
💗
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 3 ай бұрын
💗
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 3 ай бұрын
This is a beautiful message and video 🌻
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 3 ай бұрын
thank you 🧡 I appreciate you💓
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 3 ай бұрын
“When people are bothered, it’s a part of them that needs healing” 💎🔥 Sometimes the mistreatment comes from you living in your light, which bothers those that have conformed to society or the pressures that be been placed upon them. I’ve experienced the same of being “stand offish” but later I just deemed it as me protecting my energy. As a chosen one, the projection gets crazy, but its part of the mission 🤷🏾 Much needed video for those undergoing the trials of being a chosen one, much appreciation Bless Big Dawg 🙏🏾
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 3 ай бұрын
thank you Rich, much love to you (:💚
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 3 ай бұрын
Hardest part about being an empath is knowing when to let go! The energy drainage will def make you wanna isolate. Thats the thing about having kids I think people don’t about, having the emotional space to raise a child and understand that they are their own person. Family is what you make it, just because you may share blood w/ someone doesn’t mean they have the best intention for you, had to learn this lesson on multiple occasions. What would you say the reward for being an empath is? Also, how do you manage not being overwhelmed when those “empathetic senses” are tingling but you don’t have much reserved energy for yourself? Great vid Ari, bless!
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 3 ай бұрын
thank you Rich! I'd say the reward is a fulfillment that takes place beyond yourself.. it doesn't always seem like a reward but knowing and understanding that that's a quality that not everyone in this world has. also I feel like who you are towards others leaves an imprint on people. so a little can go along way. for me, I need space for my feelings and emotions to regenerate, also hoping that people lend the same patience and understanding as I do for them. much love to you(:
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 3 ай бұрын
💓
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 3 ай бұрын
💓💗
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 3 ай бұрын
Also, do you believe divine timing has any effect onto the placebo theory?
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 3 ай бұрын
yes I do, I think divine timing can be reassuring once you understand the patience required. but just knowing that there's things taking place behind the scenes and there's different elements outside of your control can help with your perspective. maybe something hasn't reached you yet because it's being crafted and tailored exactly for you and that takes time.
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 3 ай бұрын
@@arisauracle gotta let the universe cook then 🙏🏾
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 3 ай бұрын
Big Dawg Ari! Dope talk, def a blessing for everybody on their journey, medicine for the soul 🙏🏾 3 quotes you said in there really stuck w/ me “Perspective change when you know you have it” damn that one hit fr 💎 SN: What’s ur email if you don’t mind? I have a question about downloads I’ve been getting, related in another subject area. I believe you may be enough of a free and open thinker to help on the topic. Again, great video! The healing energy you have is needed in the community, bless 🙏🏾
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 3 ай бұрын
@@arisauracle 👍🏾
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 4 ай бұрын
Nice insight! I look forward to seeing more content!💗
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 3 ай бұрын
thank you! much love to you(:💛💕
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 4 ай бұрын
Great video! Good to know I’m not the only one have delt with these “issues”. Used to have a hard time accepting the fact I was a people pleaser (due to being harshly criticized and ostracized growing up). Once I forced myself to break out of that, in order to truly spread my wings, the perspective of who I was to those around me changed. Some even left. Honestly, that was the best thing that could’ve been done because I was hiding that part of what really made me, me. God placed that indifference inside of us, and we have to let it shine! Another part that resonated, truly loving to help people, which I’ve had my battles with. It brings me joy to help people and put a smile on their face. Being selfless in this selfish world set me back in certain situations, which really forced me to open my eyes and be more discerning among those I help, and even more towards the ones I let close and offer unconditional love and support to. I think that’s why I genuinely started my KZbin channel so I could reach out and help people, but in my own way and how I feel most comfortable and still have enough energy to pour back into my self and love myself and not feel drained with “undeserving” individuals. If people leave when you try to save yourself and be a true your self, they were never meant to be there in the first place. Really enjoy ur videos, brings peace. (I rarely comment so this is coming from a true place) Appreciate you, bless 🙏🏾
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 4 ай бұрын
I can relate to that, feeling indifferent or ostracized, part of it stems from just wanting to be accepted especially once you've experienced many different times. but again once you're tired of how things are I feel like that's when you reach a turning point for yourself and it could be a savior realization. when your selfless to others and taking time apart from your life to actually and naturally care, that's huge!! so anyone who has a issue with you setting boundaries may have taken up too much space to begin with. I gave you a follow! I will for sure check out your content also(:
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 4 ай бұрын
@@arisauracle Exactly! Spot on with wanting to be accepted! Def a savior realization. The savior point like, when ur tired of being the bruised square peg trying to fit in the round hole, and you say f’ it and truly embrace being that square peg, so u don’t bruise anymore. Fr, most def taken up too much space. Energy vampires lol, take till there’s no more life, gotta save ur self! Like wise, I’ll be around. I dig this channel, don’t stop Stay Blessed 🙏🏾💜
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 4 ай бұрын
Appreciate the video, resonated on so many levels! As an introvert, the question, "Why are you so quiet?" often puts me on guard, making me question the person's intentions. I believe those who harshly criticize introverts may be projecting their own insecurities, thinking our quietness is a judgment on them. But really, it’s just our personality! 🤣 I believe most of the people who attack and harshly ridicule quiet people/introverts is that they have some sort of controlling issues or they feel like they’re being under judgment / projecting. The part about ur first name resonated deeply! I’ve delt w/ that same experience with my name (having a father of Nigerian decent, my name was butcher like hell in school 🤣), first day of school and subs were the worst! As introverts, we really have to love ourselves and not compare ourselves to people. It can severely damage us, if we’re not strong within. Like you said, find your soul tribe who really resonates with you, and the others won’t matter. Great video, really confirmed a lot of things I was pondering. Appreciate you, bless
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 4 ай бұрын
thank you for commenting! yes I've learned and been able to reflect a lot about others actions to the point I've realized it can be projection, and people feeling uncomfortable for their own reasons. I feel like keeping to yourself, even if it's apart of your personality is a strength because in the end not everyone will be for you, but the fine line is not to let others discourage you from being you - no matter how they perceive it(: it can be hard to even understand and accept for those who experience it, but once you realize it's bigger than you, and you don't have to focus on what's "bigger" it can be so freeing (:
@REALRICHX5
@REALRICHX5 4 ай бұрын
@@arisauracle no prob! Hit the nail on the head, “once u realize it’s bigger than u”. You don’t have to live up to anything and truly live in peace Keep it up Ari 🙏🏾 ☮️
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 4 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your channel! Your content is insightful and refreshing🌻
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 4 ай бұрын
thank you so much! I appreciate your love and support💗
@SaintFort
@SaintFort 4 ай бұрын
Hello, Ari. Are you partially Japanese?
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 4 ай бұрын
no I am not(:
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 4 ай бұрын
Very insightful message!
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 4 ай бұрын
💗💜
@SaintFort
@SaintFort 4 ай бұрын
Are you half black and half Japanese? You look like Karen Fukuhara.
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 5 ай бұрын
Our Higher Power is definitely proud of you. ☀Your insight is refreshing and beautiful🌻
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 5 ай бұрын
💗💗💗💗 God bless ☺️
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 5 ай бұрын
Wow! Such A Perfect Message from such a Beautiful Soul💗I appreciate your profound inspiration🦋
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 5 ай бұрын
thank you!! I appreciate your support 💗 much love to you💛
@beaustagner6908
@beaustagner6908 5 ай бұрын
You are so beautiful and such a real person of heart!!
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 5 ай бұрын
thank you 😊 I appreciate your comment(:
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 5 ай бұрын
💓
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 5 ай бұрын
💗
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 5 ай бұрын
Yes Beautiful, keep vocalizing your thoughts as they are a positive aspect of your growth. Many do not have the insight that you are blessed to have🌻
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 5 ай бұрын
thank you 💚 much love and Many blessings to you 💛
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 5 ай бұрын
😊
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 5 ай бұрын
Your growth is imperative to the self you want to become. Your content is refreshing and helpful🌻
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 5 ай бұрын
thank you so much 💜 I appreciate your positivity and support(:
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 5 ай бұрын
💫😊
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 5 ай бұрын
💓
@nurturingmysoul
@nurturingmysoul 5 ай бұрын
Beautiful message! 🌻Our self reflection is important to our growth.
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 5 ай бұрын
💗☺️
@MaySun74
@MaySun74 5 ай бұрын
Very Good!!!
@user-yc5ex7ph3o
@user-yc5ex7ph3o 5 ай бұрын
Thanks ari
@arisauracle
@arisauracle 5 ай бұрын
💗💗
@HorizonHipHop
@HorizonHipHop 5 ай бұрын
What anyone else does has nothing to do with us. Anyone that can hate someone, doesnt love themself as we're all one. I am another you. For some of us this isnt our first rodeo here, while for others it may be. Also I like going to the movies alone. Pick a time when the theaters empty, you have the place to yourself. Its relaxing sometimes I just go and end up taking a nap 😂 I order a hot coffee half way thru the movie 😂 Anyways keep pushing.
@marlinking7078
@marlinking7078 5 ай бұрын
Have a heart for the big-hearts & have no heart for the heartless. Ecclesiasticus 12:1-18 (Apocrypha) Be stingy to the stingy & giving to the giving; the way we were taught doesn’t work. Evil people see your love & giving as a weakness that needs exploitation.
@marlinking7078
@marlinking7078 5 ай бұрын
Being authentic is accepting the strengths & flaws of yourself with a healthy mindset, practicing your ways, & having an even-temper being A Real Character. Phoniness is acting the way others who don’t like you, want you to be, pretending to be perfect, a Master Pretender, who’s bi-polar suffering from mental-illness.