Good video, ive found that if your in a big city like Beijing no one bothers you, but when we go to my wife's hometown 2hr 30 away from Beijing then people stop and ask us all sorts of questions, like, where am i from, to what's wrong with my wife? Why didn't she chose a Chinese man. To people just coming up and touching me or taking a selfie with me without asking me first. Good news the sound is perfect today!😊

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this video volumw low

Never ever give up and never ever discourage yourself. because you're happy enough. has a cute daughter and husband.that is a beautiful family surrounding you. social media chaos never let affects on your happiness.

Never ever give up and don't listen people whoever discourage you because it's not cup of your tea.keep going on.no one is perfect on the earth. everyone is imperfect.

This video Very nice

Keep up the amazing content, express yourself as much as you want. Im supporting you!

You need to relax and not worry about making mistakes, try to pretend your talking to your husband when your talking to the camera. And what ever you have done to the sound is great, the sound is perfect.

You are doing great and keep going!

Good video I liked the books, I'm a monkey and my wife is a rooster, I asked if that's a good match for marriage, she said no! 😮 The volume is still too low on the video.

Any sane government will step in to stop such backward practice. However, it may be more important to teach young children proper family value. A lot more useful than complicated math, literature, etc.

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Good video, there is something wrong with your sound, when i watch other videos my sound is at 8, but your videos are very quiet, i need to turn my sound up to 32 to her you talk

When doing a video criticising other's English, please make sure you at least proofread your captions.

You started your video with incorrectly spelt captions.

This tradition is nothing more than legal prostitution. You are literally buying a wife.

Kalau tidak bisa bahasa inggris mending kamu ngomong bahasa china. Ini video tentang pernikahan atau video tentang wanita tua yang lagi belajar bahasa inggris...? Jelek sekali 👎🏻

very strange for a communist country talking and sticking to feudal practices that should have been outlawed long ago together with other superstitions. Getting rid of the 'bride price' or 'dowry' is only the tip of the ice berg in helping the country to prosper with more marriages and children. The decline in China is likely to continue for many years, even if such 'unhealthy' practices are stopped.

Your pronunciation is very good and there are no problems with grammar. However, like many native Chinese speakers, you lack fluency and coherence. You tend to speak in separate, isolated words, which creates a serious problem - it becomes difficult and uncomfortable for us to follow your speech.I know some highly qualified Chinese professionals who were turned down for jobs specifically because of this, even though their technical skills were excellent. The additional challenge is that English speakers typically won't point out these issues in your speech. If no one mentions the problem, it’s hard to address and solve it.

🤣🤣🤣 my Chinese wife did the same, she checked our star signs and Chinese birth year signs, and told me we are not a good match in either! And for some reason she still agreed to marry me! Well 14 years later and im still reminding her that the star signs are a load of bullshit!😊

most of the times its just kids picking on anything different

Chinese parents should switch to Surströmming for their kids to bring to school.

I once searched for bus-related information on the Internet, and I read that on the bus, people should eat foods on the bus that wouldn't have strong smells. So, stuff like garlic and onions would be bad on the bus. Everyone would know when a person had eaten garlic or onions because that person would have garlic breath or onion breath. There was one Korean-American KZbinr who grew up mostly in Korea but went to America during her teen years, and she admitted that kimchi stunk. Her mother was also mindful of that, and so the mom would wrap the kimchi in layers and layers of wrapping and the daughter had to uncover all the layers of wrapping to get to the kimchi that her mom sent her. And she would do this when she became a parent of a daughter. She was the one working as a dentist in real life, before she became a full-time KZbinr. The Korean Vegan KZbinr doesn't like her mother's own reaction to white people who say kimchi is stinky, because she views her mother's reaction as submissiveness. From her point of view, she is not apologizing for the stinkiness, and people have to deal with it. She is the woman who works as a lawyer in real life and KZbinr by night. I think Asians in general are more mindful of others because they grow up in a collectivist society, and in the society, it is important to be mindful of others and be aware of others. Asian Americans tend to grow up in a more individualist society so it is more important to stand up for individual traits and ideas and thoughts, even if it means to offend others. Break the harmony and conformity and all that.

And stay out of the sun!

I just noticed how nice the music is in this video. Thanks!

i agree with you the parents should be more mindful and think about others, give the kid smelly food at home an less smelly when eating in public.

I’d like to give a third perspective. My perspective is that the complaints from those kids about the food are probably not *serious*. In the American culture, and to a lesser extent other western cultures, there is a tendency for people to make a big fuss about things, bc people think it is funny or entertaining. Or….something like that…. In truth, white people like Asian food (we like all cuisines). We like stinky foods, too. I do not like this over-expressiveness and over-emotionality. And I do not like the sarcasm and ribbing that is so common in our culture. I think it causes people to become anxious (this is a perfect example). However, sometimes, if you can learn that this ribbing is not a *serious* thing, you will be free to not be offended when white people say these things. The problem is that sometimes the ribbing *is* serious….so you can never know. You can only know if somebody tells you, directly, when it is serious or not. Like I am doing now. Which is rather awkward….so people often do not do it…

I hear you, Amy-it's frustrating. But you did the right thing by speaking up, and even small actions like yours can make a difference in a world that needs more thoughtfulness.

Why would any man pay for a bride? That is not marriage no matter what the customs are.

As a grown man from the U.S. I find the "bride price" to be financially backwards, and somewhat distasteful. I say financially backwards because in western culture a "dowry" was presented by the bride's family to the groom and his family... the reason being that after marriage the groom would be financially responsible for taking care of the bride and any children for the rest of their lives. I say distasteful because at amounts like 200,000 RMB or higher... I feel like I'm either "buying" the bride, or bribing her parents. I make over 30,000 RMB per month, but the bride prices that some women are asking for just seems like highway robbery.

I agree with your husband, but also i think after a while these uncaring people grind you down an its tears of anger as well that you cant teach stupid!

hey no worries, it’s called an embarrassing question haha

My wife got stopped by someone, and they asked her where i was from, she said Scotland, they asked if i hated USA and Japan! And another time a old women stopped us in winter time and my wife was wearing a big padded winter jacket, the women told her well done for being pregnant with a mix baby, when she said no she was not, the women said good, send him home and find a good Chinese boy!

Don't worry, I agree with you! It's just a phone and whoever decides their friends based on what brand they use is definitely not worth your time. :)

It is unfortunate the cultural revolution and now the CCP have destroyed the great Chinese tradition before the 1960's. Most of the older generation who came to America are very honorable and respectful. They learned and follow the rules. Maybe you can leave and move to another country someday.

Beautiful women can stay young by marrying me!

😂😂 I've heard you can stay young by always saying yes to your wife!

No bride price should be paid if the woman marries is a divorced woman or has married before.

Its funny my wife and her friends all used to be I phone or Samsung girls, which ever one released a new model or bigger screen they had to have it. Now my wife is thinking of getting a new Samsung and all her friends now have changed to chinese brands and are telling her to get one to support the country, but she is like you we both have Samsung she is used to it and only taking one charging lead when away from home is better.

Good video Amy, I found it interesting at the end where you say you do you best not to break the rules, i think more women in China, care about the rule than men, my wife hates when we are walking down the street an i see a gap in the traffic and will cross the road, and she always moans at me that we should wait and go to cross at the traffic lights. Her and her sister and there girl friends are all careful about not rule breaking where as there husbands/boyfriends dont mind breaking the rules. Of course its a generalisation and there will be women who dont care and men that do care

Your daughter must be beautiful because she has a very beautiful mother.

Haha !!! Your husband is very funny.

IDK if it is ok for him to correct these things...they do not seem like a problem to me.

Not all men can marry, so allowing polygyny for rich men is one of the solutions, or 4 employees women for example friends or cousins or neighbors give an offer of marriage to an employee man (living together in one house and costs are divided equally) or export more men and import more women to the country not by force of course, but through scholarships, student exchange programs, job offers and investment opportunities.

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This is nothing that supply and demand market principles will not resolve. There is nothing that prevents a man of means from traveling and getting a much better deal. A jade gate is a jade gate.

me love you long time 🤣

I'm not sure if having a British chef for the night was a win lol I hope you two made fun of it.

I really hope he didn't actually say noisy s**t to your daughter...