Suka sangat dengar talk Nana dgn Dahlia. Nana dgn Dahlia nampak macam berbeza pendapat tapi boleh saling share thoughts dgn harmoni. Love sangat. Harap lebih banyak lagi video sebab saya suka layan dengar masa tengah kemas rumah. Btw Dahlia and Nana boleh tak bincang topik 'Istagrammable house vs functional house' pulak. Hehe

Anak Nana Sek Cina kah dulu... dari segi ckp mcm sek cina je... byk keje sek, beg berat, tiap subjek byk buku..

I very agree if u not send your kid to gomen school. Seriously.huhu.. So many activities, (competition, camping daerah negeri, AJK program, training etc) many teacher cant commit to teach in class, substitute teacher will enter, kids were neglected etc.

Yesss. I am a gomen teacher. Majority teacher marah2. I come to school, I smile to all kids. Not to be the most penyayang teacher, but i want the kids to feel loved, all of them get my attention. If i can be more than one, i want to reach each and everyone of them. P/s: not english teacher😂

Ramai lagi misunderstood konsep and function work out.. strength training, weight training.. kita perlu fit (% muscle mass high, % fat low) bukan kurus..

Comelnya baju Nana haa beli mana? Nak jugakkkk

Nana... rasa mcm satu persatu kena direct kt kita! haha. pegi playground tgk anak main sambil tgk phone tu so realll..

Saya susah nak consistent..makan n exercise.6 bulan buat. Bila start makan lebih smggu/tinggal workout,terus tinggal 6 bulan..pastu nanti mula balik lg 6 bulan. Huwaaaaaa . Harini hari ke 2 sy mula semula.🥴

thanks for the info guys❤

Hi nana & dahlia!!

3:36 😂😂😂

I belum jadi ibu. Tapi listening to this podcast made me appreciate my mom far more better. It made me understand and finally know yg susahnya jadi mak nak membesarkan anak2 and how much moms wanted the best-est for their kids.

doakan saya kak nana dpt masukkan anak ke sri aria

I feel u dahlia

No worries dahlia, still think youre on the right track. Somehow youre not alone. Sbb tu i send my kid integrasi just one session and school ada placement test so that atleast cikgu2 ne x label anak2 ni pandai x pandai. Considering placement dah buat so semua anak2 inshaAllah almost at same level. Not every school cikgu mcmtu and at the same time bukan semua kid sama penerimaan mereka. At the end of the day, you know whats best for you and your kid. Thats why we send them interesting camps, tusyen 1-2 subject perlu sahaja, extra classes swimming, golf, ngaji etc so that dia ada join non academic enjoyable activities. Betul kita yang ambil anta ne pun sangat penatttt huhu In shaa Allah will be worth it.

Macam macam perangai anak org kaya ni

Other POV, anak2 kena reti membaca sebelum masuk sekolah. As much as we dont find it important tapi kanak2 yang rasa ketinggalan compared to other kids, akan mempunyai low self confident & eventually tak suka nak belajar

i saw a video (lupa kat mana & siapa), where this guest said. Children didn't know what they want, thats why we as a parent must decide for them during those primary & secondary school so that they themselves can later finally know how to make a decision what they want to do next. Yang ni saya setuju, sebab saya adalah dalam golongan anak2 yang membesar dengan tak tahu apa yang saya nak jadi/buat/kerja bila besar nanti. Im kind of follow the flow type of person. Those exercises, homeworks, scoldings are to train the children that that's life yang mereka akan face when they enter adulthood. Adulthood is hard, jadi tak boleh dimanjakan sangat ketika mereka budak2. As for those subjects yang tak penting untuk exams, my POV adalah, tanpa exams, mana mungkin anak2 akan fokus untuk belajar. Sedangkan each subjects ada reasoning behind it why we study it. Memorising for the exams melatih otak kita skill untuk menghafal.

Anak anak di sekolah memang perlu “bertanding” untuk menonjol di mata cikgu. Kalau setakat anak murid si biasa ni cikgu jarang nak pandang (tak semua cikgu), acara sukaneka di sekolah darjah 1 pon cikgu pilih siapa nak bagi masuk. Padahal sukaneka je, kesian anak murid nak berlari sama sama dengan kawan kawan yang lain hanya dapat tengok di tepi padang. Pressure untuk makpak dan masa yang sama ter-pressure si anak sekali. Darjah 1 sekarang dah tak fun macam darjah 1 yang dulu.

Dkt sekolah utk anak2 belajar akademik. So kita support dia. Kalau tak straight A ok je. Tp utk dia survive result akademik tu perlu bagus juga. And utk EQ, parents yg perlu educate di rumah. Ajar cr berfikir, bersosial, behave, tapi kalau parents pun dkt rumah asyik tgk HP and serah semua pada cikgu disekolah and sistem pendidikan, ssh juga laa.

Suka sangat podcast Nana & Dahlia since ep 1 till today..all current discussion yg sgt matang..as parents benar keep support & encourage anak2 to progress positively..kita mmg cant sesekali ubah mindset masyarakat kita tetapi dengan ilmu Allah beri pada kita, we could continue explain to our children yg mana correct dan mana salah..sekarang zaman majority normalise perkara yang salah, kesian anak2 kita yg keliru..setuju Nana & Dahlia everything starts from home..one thing to share, parents invest education untuk anak2..knowledge..afterall anak2 amanah kita pada Allah, education will always be the best life investment back to Allah 😍

My son baru 2 y/o pun dah fikir jgk tau... istress😂 me exactly like dahlia, and nana knock some sense in me😆

Anak saya 5 tahun, dilema sama dengan Dahlia. tapi setuju ngan Nana.thank you for this discussion. saya sama sebijik pemikiran mcm Dahlia.

Betul apa yang Nana and Dahlia cakap, bila parent bg ruang utk anak2 belajar buat keputusan, senang dorang survive in future. Mcm my sisters and I, kami perlu buat decision sndr sbb parent tak sekolah tinggi, tapi parent tak pernah paksa utk kami score, just go to school, belajar bkn utk score, tapi utk socialise.

nana is so calm, obviously because she've been through lots of baggage thru out the journey bab membesarkan anak. comes to show she's a very attentive parent. mom goals :)

Nana, anak i baru 4 thn tau. Takut by the time dia 7 yo, sri aria limitkan budak nk masuk sekolah tu pulak 😂

Ye btl. It's complicated sekolah skrg ni.. Sy mcm Dahlia juga, tp skrg da bljr utk let go. Haha. Dlm kita x kisah (sbb we know there's bigger world out there); kita terjerat juga. Partly bcz kita x nmpk the other way tu. Kita hny dihidangkn sistem yg sedia ada ; and we thought xpe, I can protect my child wpun dia dlm sistem ni. But somehow, it will make us parent yg cm eh ye tak ni. Apa aku patut buat? Sentiasa dlm dilema Setuju dgn part: since kita xde cara lain, tpksa ltk anak dlm sistem; we have to make sure he/she is strong to face it. They should know, sekolah ni bukan the only world they can turn to (the friends and all). Have to make sure they have another world they're in charged of, and can freely be themselves. And that's is our (parents) job. Kita x boleh serahkn the power to the school and tgok je apa akan jd. We are the other world

In overall i like nana punya debate. Make sense. Tp satu la, ank aku pun sekolah kebangsaan jugak, tp xde la trauma takut mcm ank nana ms sekolah kebangsaan. Mgkn depends on cikgu or sekolah kot. Aku pulak sk dgn sekolah keb, sbb competition lebih tinggi, tp xbermaksud aku pressure ank aku utk follow and highly compete in school, apa2 pun akan berbalik pd parents. Kita yg akan bg support, yg encourage dorg. If they lose, or down sbb x dpt achieve anything, kita as parents yg kene bg moral support utk dorg. Sbnrnya xkira pegi skolah mana pun, tp role parents tu adalah lebih penting. Sorry just my two cents 😉 Lg satu nk tnya, kalo nk masuk uni local x perlu ada spm ke? Setau aku perlu atleast subject wajib

agree...darjah 4 pun dah sejarah...rase mcm stress plak aku as parent

Agree with Nana.

Sekolah kebangsaan sama je mana2..mcm biasala 1st time struggle sket nk register etc..masuk sbp/mrsm is different thing, nothing to do with location sekolah (kebangsaan gomen)..klu pandai n score masuk jugak..

Suke gile Nana been a fan since AF love her thought process and personality

Ye..sebab kan system la saya as mom rse pressure 🥲 sbb nye anak ikt tahun bru umo 6 tahun next year tp da kne msuk darjah 1…then as mom trs rse blh ke anak aku nie kdng termarah dye sbb buat homework xfokus pdhal he still a kids 🥲…semoga saya jumpa la jalan yg terbaik utk anak2 saya..

Setuju.. what ever we do. The system is there. Setuju dgan dahlia.. formal education perlu sebab mmg the kids one day akan juga lalu and feel the system. The skill and what not.. depend to the parent how nak feed the kids.

Setuju sangat bila Dahlia cakap setiap orang ada keinginan yg berbeza utk spending duit dia. Sebab i dah jumpa orang yg jenis kedekut gila nak berbelanja makan ke, pergi holiday ke, shopping baju handbag ke tp dia selalu beli barang perhiasan emas. Mungkin bagi dia, itu la kepuasan diri dia sbb dia mmg jenis yg selalu pakai barang emas terutama gelang. I pulak jenis yg tak suka ikut orang lain sbb i ada my own decision utk berbelanja. Thats why i dont care and i dont bother what people buy, purchase or spend. Plus, i jenis malas nak layan orang yg jenis show off dkt kita 😅

I LOOOOOOVE THIS EPISOD! ❤

whennn lagi new eps, lambatnyaa 😢

terima kasih nana & dahlia

i like both of you

I love it bila Dahlia share exercise untuk cari trauma and root cause kenapa kita emo. I pun setiap kali emo I buat benda yang sama, it helps a lot. In the spur of moment tu, bila tengah mengamuk kepala otak ligat cari kenapa aku ni emo. Oh rupanya isu semalam tak habis lagi and I cerita kat husband. Memang membantu. My time off as a stay at home mom is I akan spend my morning reading alone sambil minum coffee. Best time ever. Sebab my husband & my kid team bukan morning person. I pulak morning person. Its the best quiet morning ever. Simple tapi bermakna. To other women, jangan lupa spend time for yourself. Take some rest. InsyaAllah, you will feel energised again.

please share your experience about volunteering..

Setuju, kena sentiasa cari jln utk improve. Sama ada usaha tu membuahkn hasil tu terserah kpd yg Maha ESA, yg meletakkn kita dlm situasi tu sbg ujian (utk diberi ganjaran). Sbb kebanyakan wanita x smpt pn nk cek BLK dgn diri, ckp dgn diri, what can I do to fix this. Lpstu dia duduk dlm pity pot. Dia lah plg malang. Dan circling dlm trap tu. Semoga kita diberi Petunjuk selalu

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Thank you kak Nana and kak Dahlia. Never thought I needed this. Sy pun hadap situasi yg sama. For those yg hadap perkara yg sama,moga kita sama2 kuat dan dipermudahkan urusan dan moga ada rezeki besar yg Allah SWT nk selitkan dlm ujian kita ni..❤

Bagi yang ada perent macam ni, yg sukar untuk kita berbincang, sebelum tidur, betul2 minta dengan Allah untuk bantu kita. kedua, buat sedekah/wakaf/infaq untuk mereka, niatkan dengan kebaikan infaq/sedekah tu dpt memberikan kebaikan kepada parent kita. Sblm lupa, Zakat. Setiap bulan tu keluarkan zakat. Zakat dapat keluarkan kita dari susah sebab Allah akan bantu hamba Nya yg tunaikan tanggungjawab. Bkn susah dari segi kewangan je, tapi susah dari segi nak buat urusan pun akan selesai. Sbb kdg2 kita terlepas pandang benda2 kecik ni.

Always love Dahlia’s pov. She always try to understand the situation first, put herself on others shoes before throw out her opinion and suggestion. And it’s relatable. Good job Dahlia👏🏻

agama kita agama yg penuh dengan hikmah. Dengan hikmah kita meneroka dunia ini. Rasulullah SAW contoh terbaik utk kita belajar redha & sabar. Wallahu alam ❤ its good sharing from you both. Keep it up. Jazakallah khayr

parents tak minta buat loan, but they always ungkit every penny dia spent masa nak besarkan ktorg. or even kahwin pun, tetap sebut pasal duit hantaran dia tak dapat satu sen pun utk kegunaan sendiri. in fact adik beradik nak kahwin semua cari duit sendiri. tak ditaja parents sendiri. bila ada arguments, mesti sebut pasal duit. padahal punca asalnya bukan sebab duit. nak study, nak buat apa pun, we need to earn by our self. I do love my parents, but for now, rezeki kita tak besar mana nak kayakan mereka. harap sangat mereka faham dan berhenti menyebut pasal duit. I'm too tired. 🥲

Antara topic yg best

I loveee nana & dahlia podcast. Tak kisah they cakap most about themselves ke apa, sebab that way we listener can relate ohhh im not alone, ohh theres someone jugak go thru the same thing. So i love when they speak about their mind, their perspective of life, their experience cause we can learn something from it❤️