So tired of focusing on myself !!!! How much more ???? I have men focusing on myself for the past 10 years !!!!! Tired of these advices !!!!! Every human needs a partner , humans are not creatures to live alone all the time !!! Too much !!!! Too complicated !!!!! The guy pulls away , then bye bye ! However is so hard to meet someone that we feel chemistry and feel good beside . Anyway … tired much ?!

What if I’m giving him space but his texting and invited me over after two weeks to see our show?

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Lady, you talk too fast! I can hardly register what you are saying, most of it in your own mouth! No offense!

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I already know he does. He gave up on trying to hide it. I'm just watching this for fun.

*Things like refusing accountability or always seeking attention can reveal a lot about her character. Learning to spot these behaviors saves time and emotional energy.*

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Great points, but I'm not sure about #4. Not only does it sound like game-playing but you may end up ruining some other guy's life in the process.

Wrong wrong wrong! If im liking your posts and stuff and talking with you alot but not asking you out it means im scared and cant get up the courage to say those couple words, so im basically just waiting till its obvious you like me or I'll just keep being delusional that you'll make the first move

Facts, facts, facts, facts, facts.....take men at their word. Most men will tell you what they want and don't want from you. Miss Sabrina. I beg you to write this book. It would have saved me decades of confusion, sadness, disappointments, etc.

If you’re sleeping with me without the need of us to be in a relationship, even if you are the most beautiful woman in the world, I would never consider staying with you. If you treat yourself as a kleenex tissue that’s exactly how I will look at you.

Obvious question, why wouldn’t a guy just take the literal three seconds to text, hey I have a lot on my mind right now, I need a little space to figure things out? Wouldn’t that be much easier and make life less confusing for all involved? It’s literally three seconds. It’s better than just disappearing and not giving the other person a heads up.

I’m finding that a lot of these guys are in a relationship and looking for a backup relationship or just want to flirt to feed their ego.

Note that this can change over time though! He might still be needing more time to get to know you better, after which he will like you enough!

Wow, women know absolutely nothing about guys, she’s trying to put her over complicated woman nonsense on a male brain and it just doesn’t work. Men are not this complicated when it comes to who they like and who they don’t like.

A man will tell you if he likes you or not, it’s up to you from there. Stop over thinking 👊🏽.

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What if a person likes you, calls you the most important person, emotionally close with you everything but is not ready for relationship coz he doesnt have what he needs in himself to be one. I have moved on from that person..bit how people can be like that. He that's why tried to control hanging out coz he feared he won't be able to control himself and it would hurt me later . How one can be so adamant to not be in one

Here's an idea why don't you just ask him how he feels about you then you'll know.

It’s taken me 8 months to start letting go of a connection I self sabotaged through my anxiety (I have anxious avoidant style and shut down after I misunderstood something) and a great guy I was dating for 2.5 months broke it off Its fundamentally changed my perspective as he was consistently communicating with me throughout the day, was consistent in his actions and words etc, he just wanted to not rush due to a divorce he had gone through a few years before and I interpreted this as him just wanting to string me along and ‘use’ me, he was such a sweet guy who would never do that anyway but still, I unravelled and blew it up and suffered so much as a result - it’s taught me so much about myself, my wounds, traumas etc and I hope that when I am ready to start dating and connect with someone new I will not make the same mistakes and be better prepared

It’s taken me 8 months to start letting go of a connection I self sabotaged through my anxiety (I have anxious avoidant style and shut down after I misunderstood something) and a great guy I was dating for 2.5 months broke it off Its fundamentally changed my perspective as he was consistently communicating with me throughout the day, was consistent in his actions and words etc, he just wanted to not rush due to a divorce he had gone through a few years before and I interpreted this as him just wanting to string me along and ‘use’ me, he was such a sweet guy who would never do that anyway but still, I unravelled and blew it up and suffered so much as a result - it’s taught me so much about myself, my wounds, traumas etc and I hope that when I am ready to start dating and connect with someone new I will not make the same mistakes and be better prepared

if he writes once every 2-3 months, he was busy all this time and didn't have even a couple of minutes to write? And then after all this time he writes and says that he loves me. I think that's not true

Everyone is staying you knew um i didnt know 100% i was just ignoring my gut

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I really tired of being of being single it’s killing Me. I’m, only 37 years old . Every time I get asked out . I always gets rejected and they want for one thing! It’s killing me !

In the past I do exactly what you said everyone isn’t worth my attention and time period if a man wants me to be in his life he has to earn it there are no shortcuts to my attention or my heart… it’s like what you said in a previous video don’t act hard to get be hard to get.. they may get angry even frustrated with you for not handing yourself over on a silver platter to them if that’s what they are used to but you deserve someone ne who can’t wait to hear from you who wants to guard your heart like the precious thing it is… and getting to know you well men sort of know what catagory you are in and if you hand yourself over it’s not like they’ll turn it down they are not going to come out and tell you what catagory they put you in but you’ll know and then act accordingly if a relationship is what you want don’t settle for anyone whose not stepping up to give you that or you are wasting your precious time I’m 51 it goes by so fast and time is a resource you can’t get back

Female dumpers do not feel anything same time. They just are moving on to explore the tons of options.

Well done, there's so much tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words of Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.

Only one sign needed: they left you FOR someone else. Not that they broke up and got into a rebound relationship, but they left you for someone else. Because the moment they met them, they got butterflies, and instantly lost all interest and attraction for you. Not only do they not want you back, but they won't even have to feel your loss because they're getting railed by him. It's over. After watching the video, it's clearly aimed at women who have been dumped. Ladies, cheer up, you can easily find someone else or start dating whenever you want. Try being a guy where it could be months or even years until you find someone who's even willing to go out with you.

Sabrina, are you familiar with the concept of limerence? I think you're the type of person who is prone to limerence, but has learned to overcome it with healthy habits and a meaningful life. Him kissing you was very cruel and probably what set the glimmer ablaze. The limerence is stronger the greater the discrepancy is between could be (been kissed, having a super time) and what shouldn't be (not on his level, he could have gotten any girl blah blah)... It's a rollercoaster of hope and despair, as beautiful as it is damaging. People can only be helped if they actually want to leave the rollercoaster.

I had an insecure mother so but I was always pretty confident she was in love with a married man still is I guess it just depends on your level of self love proving yourself to someone never works because you lose yourself if you lose yourself you are not there so who is he going to love? A ghost?

Very wise so true!!!! Honesty is vital if you want a relationship that’s what you’ll find If you are a commitment phobe that’s what you’ll attract that anxious frame of mind is so unnecessary ❤this!!!

I am the dumper but I am the sad one here.I think he is sad too but I did it for our own good.He was happy in the relationship but I wasn't. He was happy disrespecting me,lying to me,cheating on me with my bestfriend.I know everything happens for a reason but I am missing the memories we shared,the promises we made to eachother.What you said are all true.I am trying to forget him but it hurts yk

His just not that into you that movie saved my dating life

The end is very insightful for Men it's nothing about us personally.Where as for men we genuinely love the individual

Men only get to this stage if you really messed us over or if you cheated or generally toxic.

I must say that this is a pretty good list for attracting the common male. However, it won't work on the Sigma male. As a personality type, we tend to look at things much differently.

Haha, she’s right. (A guy).

Is the same for a women dumping a guy ?