The Real Reasons You’re Not Girlfriend Material 🏃‍♂️💍💔

[@SabrinaBendory]

Having his love is easy when you understand him. Here's how: www.understandhim.com/ Hope you liked the video! If you have any questions, comments or anything you want to share, let me know here! 😘

[@harryo6588]

Thank you so much. I’ve always made the mistake of how they feel about me rather than how I feel about them. Always obsessed with if they like me rather than if I like them. Thank you so much lady! The less I feel the need to be liked by them, the less desperate I become. God bless you queen

[@NathalieLazo]

The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

[@Pipsterz]

2:36 You lead with Sex(ual overtones) 4:33 You can't connect with him 9:33 You're a drama queen 10:48 You don't really love yourself (accept & believe you are lovable - Being worthy)

[@drmommakat]

Thank you for this - I will still have her video play through; however, it's these types of hero markers that really help 'settle' the 'unfortunate [hard] truths' being shared. Thank you, Pip and thank you, Sabrina!

[@venumames6921]

Add: "you choose the wrong guys" :)

[@DR---]

As a man I can say that there is nothing wrong with a woman being a drama queen. They are actually quite attractive. What is unattractive is women who act like emotionless ice queens. There is nothing worse than an ice queen.

[@nicolahughes9007]

Great Advice Sabrina. You really do speak my language. I keep going for guys that don't want relationships. I kept thinking maybe it was them. I think it's my doing really. The last few guys who I've fallen for, have all got GFs now. Every guy said, that they just don't want a relationship, but what that meant was, just not with me!! Here's to finding love.....🤷‍♀️

[@liliam3189]

I don't know about all this. I know very messed up woman and they have boyfriends. People won't admit it but for some guys as long as you are her ideal woman they will stand for any bs.

[@joylindadichamounix]

I know MANY people who don't love themselves but they always have somebody. Why is this & why is it that I do not????

[@memememmee7794]

Girl you are like my secret friend Everytime a relationship gets hard. Love your story, energy and channel. And that gorgeous face too 😘 your husband is a lucky man !

[@SabrinaBendory]

Aw thank you so much!

[@janetstraw191]

Pursue your interests. Take in a lecture series - sign up for a Certificate Course in a subject that really speaks to you. And finish it! These will give you a real sense of accomplishment, and will boost your self-esteem. Keep learning and growing - you will feel so much better about yourself and you will be more interesting to the man you desire. It worked for me, and I still have the Certificates framed in my ‘personal space’, because when I’m feeling down, they are reminder of how accomplished I am! 🙋‍♀️💕👍

[@SummerLove-x3f]

32 and still learning from this queen

[@gina4443]

I very much agree with you. I’ve been attracting unavailable men for a while now Either they’re the damage case or they’re already in a relationship/married. The married or attached ones get shut down right away. One of the damaged cases I dealt with for longer than I like to admit. The pattern has been recognized and trying to work on it. Love your videos💖 Your content has been very informative 👏👏

[@SabrinaBendory]

So happy to hear it!

[@saraiannaccone1790]

Thank you. I do things that make ME happy. Then the rest of my day feels easy, I feel joyful and I smile. My entire being feels so good.

[@SabrinaBendory]

Yes! That's the way to be!

[@itssarahduffstyle]

This video literally described the old version of me -- but once worked on myself and began attracting guys from my worth, not my wounds I eventually met my man! Thank you for highlighting these things for others so helpful ❤

[@heather-jk1sj]

"The subconscious mind is always looking to prove itself right." OMG, is that the truth! And another cringe worthy truth for me: I am a drama queen in denial (but starting to see the light.) Need to practice more self love; thought I was doing that, but not really 😢

[@flowerydaze4246]

I just had a friends with benefits proposition. I said no thank you.

[@itssarahduffstyle]

Yaaay so powerful stepping into your worth and saying no to the things that don't align with what you want.❤

[@10B111H]

As a man, this is all spot on from Sabrina. 1) Men want peace in their life. Life is stressful enough. If a woman adds stress, drama, etc. the relationship isn't going to last long with a high value man. 2) Overly sexual women (or love bombing types) come off unloyal and insecure. If a woman who barely knows me is overly sexual/touchy feely, which other men is she doing this to? 3) She has hobbies, friends, and her own life. She should not be 100% dependent on her relationship for all of her needs to be met.

[@NatHarper08]

This is the best thing I’ve ever seen. Genuinely thank you so much, just subscribed because every word you spoke feels so real to me as a 22 F… I needed to hear this!! 😂 ❤

[@cindysue97]

You should make a video on “masculine traits that turn men off”

[@kate-up2lg]

Idk but I'm against using the term "girlfriend material". Two people can simply be on different paths, or one or both of them might be going through some internal trouble, which in the end separates them. So I don't believe it's about being the right "material", it's just life and luck and people's self improvement combined.

[@armyparrot9353]

Big one. You can't connect with him. If your heart is all over the place, addicted to social media and you haven't dealt with past lovers and you are in it just for a goal...your relationships will never last. Be present and invest yourself and get to know him. Good luck...

[@TheCupcakeicecream]

I get stares, I get compliments often but nobody pursues? I’m nice and respectful I just don’t understand what’s happening??

[@biba350]

Brilliant topic spot on 👏

[@SabrinaBendory]

Thank you!

[@jaime7631]

Scorpio male,hey that applies too libra more than fire signs.

[@peterpisspotty3052]

Great channel and amazing advice

[@Bianca-sw5id]

Sabrina 🥰 , I am your 700th like to this video because this is so important to know about 🥰 , I think it is really important even when you are looking after yourself (to watch this video) , because it helps you know in what direction I think 🤔 you want to go while looking after yourself you 🥰 may have decided to be unattached for a certain amount of time or after a certain amount of time after look after yourself to goal point then be ready to date again. . .(?) 🥰

[@deborahwiser6516]

These NASTY dc dmv area guys DONT HOLD MY INTEREST ANYWAY 😒 😤 😑 🙄

[@sundialchild]

So helpful, I'm so grateful for you and that I found you. Thank you, endless love 💗

[@SabrinaBendory]

So glad!

[@undergod8666]

YESSSSS nothing is hard anymore IM GLAD GOD SAIDHE WOULD MAKE HIS WIFE 🙏 👍

[@SaystheTruth3]

I've actually heard my two guy friends talk about "girlfriend material" It basically means what it says. Either someone you can see long-term with you. Aka good, honest no game playing partner in life. Or quite the opposite lol!

[@RichCooper775]

Most guys will say “oh she’s girlfriend”material based on the way she looks but they don’t even know the woman, they’re stupid you only know she’s potential girlfriend material after you have known her for a long time and she has proved her self be a gf for you

[@taylork3]

Another good one and perfect timing!

[@SabrinaBendory]

Glad you think so!

[@arandaramos1965]

Great value!! 🙌🏻

[@SabrinaBendory]

Glad you think so!

[@peterpisspotty3052]

Reasons you are NOT long term girlfriend material 1. You are only presenting your sexuality - just being desirable doesn't guarantee he will want you 2. You want him to fulfil you instead of doing it yourself - be a chooser NOT a chaser 3. You choose the wrong toxic guy all the time - like attracts like 4. You're a drama queen - men want a woman who is easy to be with 5. Deepdown, your don't really love yourself - learn to accept you are worthy and loveable

[@anaisx4793]

Love your videos !!

[@CrickerLoverAsh]

You’re so beautiful 😻

[@jdsp1282]

Are you a mind-reader? I was just thinking about that topic yesterday.haha

[@DR---]

Based on your description of a drama queen I love drama queens. I love women who want my attention in the ways you described. But maybe that is partly because every woman I have met has been an emotionless ice queen which WAY worse than a drama queen.

[@elaineelenbaas4041]

No cause I am wife material 💁

[@a.evansrn107]

So much better background!!! Move yourself just to the plain white background wall or with warm background. That window light is distracting to me that has ADD lol Love your channel

[@richardsimmons6526]

Soo what do you have.

[@lisabradford8180]

this was the story of my life😒

[@SabrinaBendory]

Mine too for a long time!

[@itssarahduffstyle]

Mine too!!

[@lmart16]

You're not a drama queen if you've talked with them about ignoring your texts for 4 days, but they do it again anyway - and send you memes on instagram instead. Just want to point out the fact that sometimes guys deserve the rage.

[@richardsimmons6526]

Stop being right. I work 70 yours a week.

[@richardsimmons6526]

This shit is crazy.

[@is.b.1185]

Omg I can't stand you talking. Just because you were a hook up girl doesn't mean that everyone else is living their life that way. Sure we all have our experiences but it's not the pattern for all of us. Some girls are loving, and faithful and smart and funny and yet they get rejected and not taken seriously most of the time. And btw, you can't choose who you'll feel attracted to. Let's not always be the ones who need "to fix their issues". Not everyone has big issues that prevent them to be taken seriously. Thank you.

[@Undefinible]

Thank you for this! You are right.

[@dubongros3108]

"Number 1 you lead with sex " . For a guy I can say there is nothing wrong with this . It is a minor faux pas at worst . It's what follows that counts . Will the girl be able to sustain a conversation about something else ? Have other interests ? I can't count the number of times I've tryed to kick start/change a conversation and hear " well, I don't read newspapers ! " Talk about a dead end conversation !

[@mariaursula2497]

I had this a painful break-up last month for 2 years relationship, and I learn a lot, one important thing is knowing myself better. During the relationship I went to therapist like idk how many times, I realized that it was toxic relationship because I have no self worth and very low self esteem. After the break up I tend to spend so much time for myself to get to know myself better, and put myself first on everything rather than what other people want, and that's what I call self love. Thank you so much for making this video, I hope it helps other people out there who need to improve themselves to be better! 🤍