I think even I could catch that hint xD

My first time was shoto barking lmao

Brocode is to share the sauce.

and it turns out you protect a cheater yea you are fully trash

"tee hee I tell them to make the move but what I wont say is only make the move with a hot or hot and rich guy, tee hee its so hard to find a good man so so hard"

All the comments here going "the worst thing that can happen to a girl is embarrassment, the worst thing that can happen to a guy is jail time" accidentally reveal they can't help but (or have chosen to) ignore that one of the possibilities on the little dating outcome chart for women is getting abused, raped, or murdered. It can happen to men too, and that's important to recognize and destigmatize, but the ratios aren't anything that can even *resemble* evenly distributed on that. It is something that happens to women *way* more. Don't pretend whatever you think is happening regarding men getting their advances taken the wrong way is the *biggest* problem unless you want to come off as completely self-centered. How are we supposed to ever have an actual conversation about masculinity? Guys are being told constantly what *not* to be, and very little about what *to* actually do instead. Social guidance which in the past was provided by patriarchy and gender roles and all that stuff, now we're going to try and tear that stuff down, and it deserves to die, well what's going up its place? How do we establish new norms we're supposed to act within, instead of just winging it and getting burned? That's a real thing, but 'women rule everything now' is so stratospherically stupid and misogynist that most people aren't going to want to engage with you on *anything* after that.

The kinds of dudes who would turn down a move aren't likely to get along with most women anyway, so the odds of you scoring a date on a dude are very high. The odds are even higher if you're already friends. because they don't really need to figure out how to interact with you on the first date. I should also mention that being shy about will likely play into your favor, so whatever idea of "screwing it up" you have in your head is still very likely to work. Just go for it.

People flirt not because they're playing games, but because we are all neurotic monkeys with anxiety afraid of things.

I gave up making the first move after a couple of short lived relationships.

Gunslinger Girls is underrated. 4'11" is as small as me.

The worst thing that can happen is if he or she says "No."

I think your idea holds logical merit, but i personally advocate for widening the gender divide instead of narrowing it 👍

By radicalise I would assume terrorism or islam

my dumbass would think you just really want coffee

Yeah all my relationships came from being cute and oblivious and the other person getting it through my skull that they like me. Girls, if you want that cute guy these days, sometimes you gotta shoot straight.

this is my introductory video to this vtuber...not gonna lie not sure wheather this is a fully enjoy the content subscribe or 10% suprise horny subscribe but girl earned herself a new subscriber keep it up.

monke mint

Matara supports a cheater. Her words mean nothing.

I've accepted at this point that I'll die alone

"i like shy nerdy men" *looks over at Bricky* boys i think we're cooked.

2:25 This guy is awful. What I snowflake. Wtf

Something funny about a mantis vtuber giving advice for how to pick up men

hunting cockroach? or hunting cock roach?

"There's this guy who's a bottom" 🤣🤣🤣 Not exactly, but I like the way you think

flirting is an alltistic conspiracy designed to make high functioning autistics feel less human

women "staying in their feminine energy" is self-infantization

Nice vid.

From one guy to all the others out there, I feel I have to remind some of you not to pre-emptively antagonise women. Yeah, trying to date is a nightmare these days and it can definitely feel like there are some double standards when men can be seen as creepy if they even just lightly try to flirt, yet all the pressure is on men to make the first move. However, you've got to remember to have some empathy, this shit is tough for most guys, but it is awful for a lot of women too. You might feel you're often judged unfairly before you've even had a chance at a real conversation, but basically all the women I know have multiple stories about men who have played nice at first and then turned into horrible bastards, or who just act terribly from the get-go. You can't blame women for feeling warry or stand-offish when those sorts of unpleasant experiences are so common for them. Have a bit of empathy for their shit, many will express empathy for your side of the crap-pile too. I don't have a perfect solution for this cultural problem we're experiencing, but blaming it all on women certainly isn't going to get you anywhere other than angry and alone. Start with compassion, start with some empathy, treat yourself and others with respect, you might have some luck eventually. I hope we all do.

“Hey, you should take me out for coffee" is a bad way to put it. It sounds narcissistic. If the girls are too shy to ask him out, they aren’t ready for a relationship.

I say this not wanting to insult men.. (because I am one) but we are stupid to women's hints. It's just trur. Please, to women out there reading this. Please say what's on your mind. Pretend you are talking to a robot or writing line of code or something. Because we do not pick up on that. Even if we went out for coffee, my mind is just gonna go to _"Oh, coffee. ... huh. I guess this is what I'm doing now."_ *not* _"Ohhhhh, she wants to spend time with meeee....!"_

If they believe in something like “feminine energy”, that is a warning sign.

No matter how you go about it, asking someone out will *always* entail risk. Either you risk rejection, or you risk missing the connection. Everyone has to choose for themselves, but I've noticed that the pain of regret far outstrips the pain of rejection in both its intensity and duration. If you like someone, just ask them out.

YESSSSSS

Vinny isnt balding duh

4:33 Mel's brain completely shut down.

Women don't want a nerdy guy. They want a good looking guy with money and height who plays 2 hours of Baldur's Gate 3 a week. I'm so tired of hearing what women want. Every time they finally get exactly what they say they want and it isn't a perfect fantasy, they complain. I just wish someone who says they want someone like me would actually want someone like me. My heart is broken. I'm so tired of seeing dozens of women in public every day and I have to constantly remind myself: "Stop looking or even thinking about it. They don't want you. You're worthless and you know nobody will ever want you." And that's the reality. Nobody understands what it's like to be completely alone 100% of the time because the world hates you. And before you say it's just self esteem, do fucking research. Almost every single person I know with low to little self esteem is already married, has kids etc.

Everyone is scared of commitment lol. When it happens, It'll happen.

He is a bottom hahaha😂

“I can’t ask them out, I’m too shy” Then you’re not getting the date lmao. Grow up and get out of your comfort zone.

This roach has THE AUDACITY to argue for whimsy and immediate say “oh I can’t date until I’m ready for marriage.” GIRL. Love isn’t logical, planned structure. The whole point is falling into it, to not be ready but nonetheless be ready. Have whimsy.

i would not pick up on that… i airball 99% of the time so i basically assume no one wants me

Or you can just ask them out and stop playing games.

Im a shy a nerdy man but im probably going to be single forever tho, cuz i never ask out women cuz i know what they will say and im 34. I did have a gf but she ghosted me for no reason 7 years ago and we been together for 2 years.

Crazy that this would ever have to be radical. I still think you're overnice for just accepting the "I'm too shy" excuse. "Maybe you're too shy to have a boyfriend, then?" Overcoming insecurities and navigating uncertain waters socially is all part of the process, and potential connections are the reward. I've had at least two female friends actually overtly express a sense of being entitled to have men come to them and relationships be initiated without any effort put toward it on their part. "It should just happen." They sound like cloistered noble daughters waiting for suitors, and this is the 2020s

I don't like coffee, though.

Bruh no 🤣. Ok, I get it’s tempting to think having no romantic attachment, or sexual interest in this theoretical woman would make it “equivalent” to cow or goat milk, but your never going to be able to remove the fact it’s a human woman your getting that from, also not all milk taste the same, there’s a reason ppl don’t always get milk from the same animal, even if your another woman, you gotta admit that’s either at the bare minimum gross or a little sexual. Can’t believe I’m commenting on this 🤣😭

“But what if he says no?” Ladies, welcome to our world of intense anxiety and fear and ruminating on all the possibilities of what can go wrong 🤣

please PLEASE SPREAD THIS LIKE FIRE! especially to help those that are...scared to put it bluntly. scared of rejection, scared of coming off as a creep, scared of talking to the wrong girl and they abuse the judicial system. also sometimes we're just bluntstones. life aint like the books and movies all the time you gottam MAKE IT CLEAR BECAUSE WE DONT WANNA ASSUME WRONG

if you're too shy to tell me you like me what else are you too shy to say ? i dont have time for that, just tell me what you want. flirt all you like but at the end of the day if im not given actionable intel im going home LMAO

Thinking kids dont need a father just as much as a mother is pretty naive.