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@MiskProductions
@MiskProductions 8 сағат бұрын
Thank you for this series. I kinda enjoy the irony of having to explore and explain this book on a social media platform like KZbin
@TotoTitus
@TotoTitus 14 күн бұрын
This made so much sense when I was 18, then women helped me unlearn all of this, phew.
@ronaldpate1576
@ronaldpate1576 18 күн бұрын
Haha, I started with the 4th episode and now circled backwards to your 1st episode. This is really good.
@charlesodonnell2993
@charlesodonnell2993 21 күн бұрын
I breached fields full of landmines overseas. I suppose that responsibility was my unearned male privilege
@RedandBlackS10
@RedandBlackS10 16 күн бұрын
Funny, but he's not talking about that. He's talking about societal and relationship power dynamics. Plus male insecurities of their own masculinity.
@kaliversuspatriarchy
@kaliversuspatriarchy 8 күн бұрын
Women did not lay down the landmines. Men did. You were fighting a war that was created by men. And you were paid for that job.
@oldcrone
@oldcrone 27 күн бұрын
When you pay my bills you can tell me what to do.
@darlalathan6143
@darlalathan6143 24 күн бұрын
Do you tell your doctor, tech support, and mechanic that one?
@garyellis1296
@garyellis1296 Ай бұрын
These gender dynamics are all about power. It’s now a competition between the genders for power. If patriarchy is bad for society then so would a matriarchy. My prediction based on human nature and our human history to date is that we are just adding another type of human warfare. Gender.
@zatara24601
@zatara24601 9 күн бұрын
What you fail to see is that men have historically predominantly held more power than women. If it's "about power" then it's always been that way, and men have worked hard to keep most power for themselves to the detriment of women and themselves
@JamesScullin1970
@JamesScullin1970 Ай бұрын
I made it to the end Dr. Hoff, thanks.
@christophergriffith3420
@christophergriffith3420 Ай бұрын
This guy is what happens when women raise men...effeminate, man pu$$y with ZERO balls!!
@SK-sc1rb
@SK-sc1rb 25 күн бұрын
Just like u
@darlalathan6143
@darlalathan6143 24 күн бұрын
Only trans men lack balls and have pussies- -until their gender confirmation surgery. All men are raised by women, unless their moms died in childbirth. Men are born "effeminate," or gender-nonconforming, trans, or non-binary, not raised that way.
@farinshore8900
@farinshore8900 Ай бұрын
Techno-feudalism
@jazlynsaykwa5485
@jazlynsaykwa5485 2 ай бұрын
I don’t agree with hardly anything this guy is saying……
@schhug
@schhug Ай бұрын
So enlightening comment
@jazlynsaykwa5485
@jazlynsaykwa5485 Ай бұрын
@ I can’t read if you agree with me or you are being sarcastic?
@jnyc8457
@jnyc8457 2 ай бұрын
She’s great
@fatemeetsluck
@fatemeetsluck 2 ай бұрын
[generic comment that boosts video reach]
@MetaPhysStore0770
@MetaPhysStore0770 2 ай бұрын
Wow brilliant lady🍎
@eniggma9353
@eniggma9353 2 ай бұрын
46:16 :)
@FDY1045
@FDY1045 2 ай бұрын
Very interesting to share, this book is also very popular in China.
@zw6201pppnp
@zw6201pppnp 2 ай бұрын
in PMC culture: therapist = the r4pist
@girl24689
@girl24689 2 ай бұрын
Why can I only find the audiobook in German? So many people in my family speak it but I still don’t!
@tunaspew
@tunaspew 3 ай бұрын
loved this video, came from Josh's channel looking for more of Catherine's work. regarding therapist organising, does anyone have any resources on this? I'm in Aus and unfortunately psychotherapy is a profession hugely undermined by the psychologists (who can accept public health rebates) and I'm certainly interested in organising the workforce to create traction aside from the institutions and structures that be. much appreciated :)
@drmendyneralic
@drmendyneralic 3 ай бұрын
I’m teaching about this as “re-storying” and de-identifying with trauma and mental illness labels in my groups and therapy practice. This is IMMENSELY helpful to put some more nuanced language and background to the approach. Also so much good for thought in the details! Esp how therapists skills can better utilised and more nuanced. Will be watching again and getting the book
@peterwiley706
@peterwiley706 3 ай бұрын
A very informative, provocative discussion.
@chilloften
@chilloften 3 ай бұрын
Interesting conversation, indeed. Trump voter. This guys voice kept sounding so familiar, finally at the end, Rich Roll came to my mind.
@AdamBechtol
@AdamBechtol 3 ай бұрын
I'm such a fan of Catherine Liu, I look forward to more of her cultural critique.
@karinturkington2455
@karinturkington2455 3 ай бұрын
Such a fantastic interview. I will search out more from Dr. Liu. I appreciate the mention of context in working class families, as my familly of origin emigrated from Northern Ireland to Canada in the mid-60's. Not a happy story.
@williamhurt1666
@williamhurt1666 3 ай бұрын
This woman is an idiot. Bernie….really? Makes everything she says sound stupid.
@farinshore8900
@farinshore8900 3 ай бұрын
OMG, I've been so ready to read this book since the 70s! Can't wait 'til it comes out.
@darren_mcgarvey
@darren_mcgarvey 3 ай бұрын
Fantastic. I'm a writer based in the UK working on a book about the notion of 'telling your story' and how dangerous public disclosure can be for people with trauma. I have lived experience of putting my adversity out there and I was not ready for the many challenges that came with realising I was not as healed as I thought. This conversation is music to my ears as it's a very lonely place to be articulating a critique of this trauma discourse
@stellarnomad42
@stellarnomad42 3 ай бұрын
Do you have a website or newsletter? I'd love to read your book when it comes out.
@annaynely
@annaynely 3 ай бұрын
If you guys wanted to authentically resolve the traumatized issue you would join TZM, scrap the whole financual system & actually change the whole structure we live in. Catherine all you are doing is yes give a voice to ordinary ppl that have suffered but you want to keep on the path that has given you & the pmc the money & paths. You are defending therapists interists. You cincentrate in them cuz you want to continue in this system that in the end has benefitted you. How about we move to resourced based economy? & We don't need as many therapists? All systems you are mentioning are creating all the craziness everywhere. The issues you say are causes in themselves are coming from a structure of a higher order.
@stellarnomad42
@stellarnomad42 3 ай бұрын
Your comment reminds me of thinkers like Bayo Akomolafe and Nora Bateson, who also call for radical rethinking of our systems. But there are some key differences: Akomolafe and Bateson emphasize how complex and interconnected our problems are, which isn't really reflected in your comment. They don't propose simple solutions, while you seem to suggest a straightforward fix with a resource-based economy. Their approach often involves slowing down and deep reflection, but your comment feels more reactive. While you mention "higher order" structures, your understanding seems less nuanced than their systems approach. They often embrace paradox and uncertainty, while your view seems more black-and-white. Interestingly, even though you're aiming for a radically different solution, your approach seems to fall into similar traps of oversimplification and linear thinking that you're critiquing. This is a common issue in radical critiques - we often end up proposing solutions that unknowingly replicate the structures we're trying to escape. It really shows how hard it is to truly think outside our current ways of seeing things. Even when we're trying to be revolutionary, we tend to fall back on familiar patterns of thought.
@tunaspew
@tunaspew 3 ай бұрын
@@stellarnomad42 so appreciate your reflections on this. I loved this interview and of course we're all caught up in the systems we're a part of. such as with therapists (i am a systemic psychotherapist and family therapist), we aren't neutral, we bring our own contexts.
@stellarnomad42
@stellarnomad42 3 ай бұрын
@@tunaspew and thank you for your response. I've just started IFS therapy and it seems that Systems Thinking is the way we move forward, or as Bayo says, the way awkward.
@tunaspew
@tunaspew 2 ай бұрын
@@stellarnomad42 completely. I've been using IFS with clients and have also started my own therapeutic process with IFS. Schwartz writing is really accessible which I appreciate. You might be interested in Murray Bowen and contemporary systemic academic literature such as Mumurations journal (free I believe) and ANZJFT (also free).
@hollynewton243
@hollynewton243 3 ай бұрын
We're trained to keep things stable, sterile, almost pure around healing. In healing spaces - including hospitals, our care is missing the human to human mess. I've worked in Healthcare for more than 2 decades now - it feels empty. And sad and tense honestly. We're all a number. Nurses seem to only care about the money - when I ask them the why of what they are doing? Healthcare/Nursing is not going to make anyone rich. We clock in clock out - for lunches too, in certain hospitals. We are rewarded with keychains and pizzas and shit other food for certain years of service or for Nurses day. People look at me like I have three heads when I'm actually connecting with a patient and their context(ie family, where they are from, their social fabric). I've had a few interviews recently and the leadership are like fucking robots - they do not even listen to the human that I am - automated questions, sleeping eyes, going through the motions - the checklist). What is going to happen to Medicine in the years to come - We are sick. And this is not fair to the sick, those needing resources and our help. That need healing.
@sisterstonerock
@sisterstonerock 3 ай бұрын
Thank you. This was enlightening.
@rustyshimstock8653
@rustyshimstock8653 3 ай бұрын
What is trauma culture?
@CarnaubaWax_88
@CarnaubaWax_88 2 ай бұрын
Whatever AOC says, basically
@audreyburch9940
@audreyburch9940 3 ай бұрын
Not that I am a thorougly read and disciplined academic philosopher, however, having some weird coincidences, including finding a copy of Man's Search for Meaning, by V. Frankl, on a homeless shelter library shelf, in Dayton, the week of arriving there, after being kicked out of the first one I had to live at, the same week, what turned out to be only 9 demonstrators, came to Dayton, from Indiana, to do a KKK march, dang it - this is supposed to be succint, and not about me - in the segment, of this, in which Dr. Liu, is talking about, how ~ "a lot of the time, we are following orders," which, to Godwin's Law my comment, is Nuremberg-applicable. I have heard, from a political platform-haver, Greg Stoker, of Colonial Outcasts (my mind, hears echos, in Due Dissidence, another platform, and a screen name, Monetizing Dissent) a former Army Ranger (I started reading the work of another US Army Ranger, Psychologist Lt. Col Dave Grossman, his book about PTSD, On Killing, even though, it turns out, he is kind of a weirdo, with a gig teaching Killology seminars, to militarize domestic police, quoting Galatians a lot, in the book On Combat), that, today, some US military are going Away Without Leave (AWOL), due to conscientious objection over US Israel-Palestine involvement. These are the people, today, who are doing the equivalent of not "just following orders," taking risk, of being punished, for exercising their conscience, against institutionalized wrongs. Oh, the exact Hannah Arendt phrase, here, is "the banality of evil." Like how Franz Kafka wrote about.
@audreyburch9940
@audreyburch9940 3 ай бұрын
lol, thank you, for shitting all over the human-vending-machine type psychiatrists, who are close to one step away from metaphorically almost taking an oral temp, with a rectal thermometer, like in Idiocracy. I forget Catherine Liu, phrased it, already, except the part "their lives are so precarious...make some money."
@MaryJones-d7e
@MaryJones-d7e 3 ай бұрын
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@V_Hayden7
@V_Hayden7 3 ай бұрын
Truly skilled therapists are far and few between and certainly not in the price range of the vast majority. In my opinion, if you haven't been trained along the lines of Alice Miller's understanding and approach you're likely doing more damage than good --especially if you're promoting psychiatric "medicine." That is the real horror.
@niveajones6400
@niveajones6400 3 ай бұрын
Love this lady❤
@DaveE99
@DaveE99 3 ай бұрын
“How we dealt with collective trauma in the past” my first thought based on history of debt first 5000 years was about how historically when debt levels got high, people would storm the castle and demand a debt jubiliee. Like debt imprisons us. In a lot of ways, I’d argue historically we stormed the castle and demanded better treatment
@taskforcecomputer
@taskforcecomputer 2 ай бұрын
This is way we need a monarchy. Where is the castle these days? its location and form is opaque. both ubiquitous and diffuse. Endless possibility of the man behind the curtain. The castle mirage behind the veil.
@DaveE99
@DaveE99 2 ай бұрын
@ now you have discovered the purpose of counter insurgency in design of nations, so you can’t find the castle. O
@DaveE99
@DaveE99 2 ай бұрын
@ what we really need is sortition as electoral politics always defaults to oligarchy and socialism for the rich and rugged unforgiving capitalism for the poor and middle class.
@demaskatorr
@demaskatorr 3 ай бұрын
@andychristoph9836
@andychristoph9836 3 ай бұрын
Just discovered this excellent interview - subscribed! Thankyou.
@SimoneBittencourtShauy
@SimoneBittencourtShauy 3 ай бұрын
What an excellent interview! Thank you Dr Liu for sharing your brilliant insights. It was so fascinating and refreshing to listen to you. Thank you to the interviewer for allowing the guest to speak and finish her thoughts. Know that everything was very much appreciated!
@mhwestgate
@mhwestgate 3 ай бұрын
such beautiful words and insights. thank you catherine liu. YES to better relationships with each other without being mediated!
@stiken4421
@stiken4421 3 ай бұрын
Great interview!
@SylviabombsmithUjhy75bd34
@SylviabombsmithUjhy75bd34 3 ай бұрын
very good...much needed...
@Amatorsapientaei
@Amatorsapientaei 4 ай бұрын
Men will burn the bridge themselves and then complain they can't cross it because of women.
@fuowl666
@fuowl666 3 ай бұрын
If there is one gender who sees all the faults in the world being caused by the opposite gender so that it can endlessly complain about it instead of trying to make the world a better place, than that gender is not male.
@Morpheus_neo_trinity
@Morpheus_neo_trinity 22 күн бұрын
As a man this is 💯 true. Why do men have to act to tough even when they are suffering ? Just find a solution
@SylviabombsmithUjhy75bd34
@SylviabombsmithUjhy75bd34 4 ай бұрын
Stephen Madigan is my spirit animal...
@CarterSams
@CarterSams 4 ай бұрын
Byosecurebase
@terrydillon9323
@terrydillon9323 4 ай бұрын
It seems quite often men complain about having to support a woman financially, but when she tries to get a job to help in that area, he complains about that, he doesn’t want her to have any independence away from the home. Sounds like hypocrisy. Men created the system of keeping women dependent, and all these men do is complain. Hey I know there are some great guys out there, I don’t mean you. Each gender is suppose to respect each others hard work in life. My feelings anyway.
@ManeeFada
@ManeeFada 4 ай бұрын
Haha 😂
@maryamdiao1509
@maryamdiao1509 4 ай бұрын
Facts
@maryamdiao1509
@maryamdiao1509 4 ай бұрын
Because they want their cake and to eat it too. It’s about power exploitation and control
@Calcium-mn9eq
@Calcium-mn9eq 4 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for this information. Those who are wise will learn. Men who are f00lish will be bitter and hurl insults at you and women. You've, however, said the truth. And the wise ones appreciate you.
@humanistastv
@humanistastv 4 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for this amazing exposition: t is against human rights? Telling some people that they are mentally ill when they are not?
@lenaslife
@lenaslife 4 ай бұрын
Love this video with all its insight and appreciate all your great work. Thank you!
@FeliciaSopokovitch
@FeliciaSopokovitch 5 ай бұрын
Looks like this would be primarily for those helping people fairly lower on social hierarchies, it's not for any sort of mutual aid. If only for the matter of price and bulk, but also based on the free article on medium on "post-oppositionnality", to get anything useful you'd need to be able to refer to the cited books (that specific article feels like an ad tbh). When you're confronted to urgent practical problems, you need precise content. So far pubmed and pirating scientific articles and books, as well as checking the anarchist library, remains unbeaten.