I've a friend who likes to criticise my hair and clothes..she's the only one who does this. She says she wants to change my style.....I've even overheard her discussing me with her friends. I like my style and follow trends to suit my style. I think it's her not me?

Thank you that helped me!

I searched this because I ought to know this is my relationship with my mom I’m always burn out after few hours I understand how this affect mental health and self image where living in this relationship make you question your self dealing with other she never protected me from her self , god is teaching me to protect my self from others no matter who.

Thanks for the video my friend, much love to you and yours 💪🏼❤️‍🔥

It is a struggle to have your partner disagree with you or correct you everytime you speak or share an incident or a story. Constantly none stop criticism and or corrections. That can certainly put a wedge between people or cause a major disconnect.

If you have a convo and you are contradicted about ten times in like 5 min and its not about the absolute same topic so that you know they have a precise different opinion about that topic and you know the person well so you know you are not very different etc, then you realize they are not out for a truth but out to put you down and/or show you wrong and you better stop bcs it diesnt matter what you say bcs they will turn on everything you say. What is even better and makes them suoerannoyed (if you want to get back at them) is for you to not stop so they think they can go on and you collect information about what they think and you łet them into a trap where they basically turned against themselves and not against your opinion but their own opinion expressed 2 min ago. They will shut up from not having an answer to why (while you know they tried to take you down) and they will in some cases getbupsey. And you leave them there to battle themselves and they are passed bcs they didnt get your dopamine and they feel you ribbed them, while in actually , they tried to rob you. But its kind of hard and you need to think really fast and hard while you are in the convo to make that perfect trap bcs if you use a bad situation they might get an explanation and explain themselves out if it and then you cant prooven anything. You must turn their own logic against themselves and so you can leave them to figure it out. You can also say Oh you think B is right when I say A and the opposite , and they will be like no...then you say Oh so you mean then what I said was right? And they will silently say yes...and you say so then you think I was right all along? I promise you they will walk out, sit or lay down defeated. Or if you are in a longer convo with more stuff you say A and they say B to contradict you , then you say Oh my mistake I meant to tell you B, I said it wrong...bcs then they have already agreed with you...

Good luck man 💪

The way bro talks about it it seems like he's dealing with manipulators and narcissists

I have dealt with this for years and I just stop communicating with these people . I have no bandwidth for this kinda of behavior

Record them and their nonsense while you're just agreeing with everything they say and put it online. I promise they will stop this behavior real fast. 😂

Happy New Year man! 🎉

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I often get interrupted mid sentence. Either by the person I’m trying to talk to, or even someone who just wanders over and starts talking. It’s happened all my life, with many different people. It’s got to the point now that before I speak, I check nobody is approaching because I know chances are they will just start talking to the other person. Its actually embarrassing. But I also have to look at myself. Am I a boring person? Maybe. Am I not very important,or is what I say not important? Very possible. The solution? For me I’ve very much shut down and I rarely start a conversation anymore. I mix with very very few people, but even then I’m careful. But sometimes I forget and when that happens it’s usually not long before it happens. Maybe…just maybe it’s me?

If possible, just ignore them. Anyone who leaves you feeling drained after interacting with them is not worth the effort!

Iliked the two truths you mentioned namely, that God has given us a beautiful world, and that God has given a short time on this earth to do a lot of things

It’s annoying and it makes you want to pull away

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don't detest people for when YOU think they are not trying to take on challenges.. maybe their roots and life has been so tough that even just surviving, and creating a peaceful routine, is the most important and very hard worked at, AND MUCH NEEDED calm, that they needed and maybe God needs them to be doing that too, the flowers don't work but they are still treasures

hi! good content but i hope you don't mind me saying but my instant reaction is that the lighting is too bright and you are far too close to the camera.. best not to slurp the tea too often either, you are on stage when you are filming, create the vibe i totally get what you are saying about views.. i do a channel to try to help people get through tough times faster ("Potential Techniques") and to try to help people find ways to get through depression and ptsd/anxiety etc .. i try to uplift people and help give comfort and spirit support, but some videos get like one view in a month even though they are really supportive but i keep making them in case i can help even one person get through a tough day.. so please keep on trying to make your videos, you are good to listen to -- a good thing with running is to walk a bit, then run (sprint) as fast as you can until you are nearly out of breath, then keep walking until your breath has recovered, then sprint as fast as you can until just before you need to stop but then keep walking until you are recovered and then keep on doing that over and over again a few times and through months build that up where you'll be able to sprint far further and you get your cardio and it's not boring and pontless like slow jogging that is no faster than walking.. it's much more useful to be able to sprint long distances than to be able to jog miles, in emergency situations too i hope you have a good day.. that's cool you looked into the roots of the word consistency, i do that sometimes with words but need to do that more often I hope you (and anyone who ever reads this) have a very good and happy future.. Best wishes from Rolland in Scotland

this happens to me a huge amount.. quite often they will even reply to my statements in ways that imply i said the opposite of what i really said it gets so frustrating the people do care about me, they just seem to not REALLY listen to the words i say and then they assume I'm saying something else after their mind scans through the key words i said and they take the entirely wrong meaning from what i said.. even though i am VERY specific and clear in how i state things they assune I've said what THEY think I've said, not what i actually said like i said to a family member, "you don't need to bring anything to the house, We've got everything we need so you can just make it easy for yourself and come but you don't need to bring anything". and they got a bit cross and said "i DON'T WANT to bring anything.. i want to travel light!" and even when i said "that's what I'm saying!!! you Don't need to bring anything" and they said again "i don't WANT to bring anything i was planning on trying to travel light" ..... then later in the conversation i said to them "people are wanting £2000 to get the roof painted.. if they want that much then I'll just do it myself so it is done for you" and they said "but i don't HAVE £2000 to pay them, i can't afford that" they keep ignoring the bits i say when I'm trying to say I'll make things better for them, I'll sort it out etc thanks for your video.. i hope you get good family in your life soon.. Best wishes to you from Rolland in Scotland

Just smile and wave

My girlfriend does this and it’s really driving a wedge between us. She wants me to move in with her, but this is killing me. I keep telling her about it, but she just seems to ignore it.

My ex

Got into a pretty rough one with a friend today. I was defending pringles from people who think they are gross because theyre not really a potato chip. and everything i said was taken out of context flipped on me and i relate and identify with this video

I love my sister and we get along mostly but she CONSTANTLY has the opposing opinion of me, even if I know we agree, she still chooses the opposite opinion and she makes me feel like I'm a bad person over it. Not a single time has she empathized with my situation. If my diabetes has been off, "Well it's your responsibility" when sugars for women go up and down from hormones. I explained that but no, it's my fault. But that's literally one example of countless times. Funny thing is, my life is pretty good, and stable and hers is not in any way. lol Like somehow she has all the answers despite not having any self awareness.

I loved to know this channel is dedicated to life.

Thank you, you’ve confirmed my suspicions

Elisabeth Kubler Ross.. was a She.. not a He.. from Scottsdale arizona. Though born in Switzerland to Christian Parents. ✝️ rest in peace, little sister. Wow 👌

Great video

There are people who want to bicker about literally everything. Ain't nobody got time for that.

I am hyper sensitive and I am starting to believe that my social anxiety is actually me picking up other people's insecurities.

My father was critical about minor things. You couldn’t make a mistake in front of him. I’ve met a few people like that but not many. Don’t get into a pissing contest with them. Avoid them or ignore them because they want confrontation. Others see the truth of the pettiness too.

Ignore them

I feel like IM the one with low self-esteem because I get bothered by someone always going "actually" etc. Makes me question if I talk out of my butt a lot.... though I tend to find many people talk out of their butt without contest

Thank you for this!

Give the hands a rest.

Just,thanks.

Best way to explain that whole situation.

This is a completely subjective video. I happen to be one of those people who always argues with ny authority figures (college professors). And I do it because some of them are really incompetent, like a few of them just come into the class to dictate study notes and don't even teach anything. Other times I find myself arguing with people when they spew out false information, it irritates me when people don't do proper research and I can get very argumentative to ensure the accuracy of information.

Tyvm

Thanks for the upload on this topic!

Sometimes, you just need to walk away from people who are toxic. It's better for your mental health

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I get that from some people all the time. It's not good, but you just got to carry on.

Truth! Their loss.

They don’t like you full stop. When you sense jealousy, walk away.

dealt with these kind of people maximum in my professional life ,it was time wastage and only if you have the patience of god then only you will not thrash their jaws for their idiocy or else if you are truly their bootlicker then also you wont thrash them

My solution cut them out or limit contact as much as possible. they're trying to build themselves off of you while trying to diminish you. Lol girl bye aint nobody got time for this. They sound so silly after a while it sounds obvious they have low self esteem. I hate arguing explaining or even sharing my opinions cause I aint tryna convince nobody Im confident in who I am and what I believe. Some people need to spread their bs need everybody to agree. My inner life' s too rich for that sh.

My brother use to do this but when he got sick he chilled

Me: “omg Mom I hate flies in my food!” Mom: “I think flies are kinda cute”! Me: “ mom, I really love ice cream!” Mom: “I don’t eat ice cream”. Me: “ You realize you just said you don’t like ice cream even tho u eat it everyday and u are literally just saying the opposite of what I say. Does it make you feel better about yourself to put others down?” Mom: “fu*k you” Me: “ you’re such an a$$hole!”