How to deal with people or someone who constantly opposes and contradicts you. Reason and Remdy.

[@mrsm382]

1. Not a kind person. 2. Not confident. 3. Might hate you. 4. You have an agreeable personality and they consider you to be a great psychological punch-bag. 5. They build self-confidence by putting you down. 6. Might be manipulation to make you do the opposite you want to. 6. They like and feed on seeing you harassed, confused or annoyed. 7. KEEP THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM!

[@CincoYT01]

What if this person is me

[@mrsm382]

@CincoYT01 if you are happy with how you are, keep going this way. Since we all have a spark of divinity in us, and we came here to evolve. You might want to improve yourself if you feel so. Kindness is the absolute best healer of souls and minds. Blessings. 🧡

[@PrayAndStudyTheBible]

What if the person is my father and we both work in the same construction company. And no matter what when we need to build things he tries to contradict me even if I am right🤯

[@nobullshiit5682]

People who do this are mean spirited people , low self esteem ,and who most likely dont like you but are hiding the fact while it manifest itself through their continual need to contradict you .

[@mailulamukheli2272]

Exactly, it's a passive aggressive strategy to get to you. You will also realize that this person will side with ANYONE who has a different opinion from yours EVERYTIME. It's a sign of someone who doesn't really like you. Also pay attention to some other additional tactics they may be using on you

[@candypop1925]

​@@mailulamukheli2272I am so glad to know I'm not alone when it comes to this. Don't get me wrong. I know everybody has their own opinions but it gets annoying if that person is constantly disagreeing with you.

[@TheLastDrinkZA]

Damn, it be my own mama. 😢

[@synthiasimms4608]

Yes,I know that's right!

[@irlandaise5631]

I have a friend like that over 60 , tried to cut it off but he d still contact me and says hope you are well . We have fights in restaurants and public places and we were told to leave almost and yet he d say he cares and here for me and help . He uses that because he knows most other fiends I have are less available and new people I meet juts want to network and yet to find someone to be close to again . I have reduced seeing him and contact and when I see him , it’s impossible to have a conversation. He constantly interrupts to contradict what I’m saying . It makes no sense too. I can understand why he is available and not married tbh . Even if he is a lawyer I think he has low emotional intelligence and I pointed this out to him about dismissive and partially acknowledging my points while dismissing it partially . He d deny everything and refuses to look up for a course on social skills . It’s crazy

[@full6330name]

1. They are not confident 2. They see you as weak or in a weak position,so they attack to feel even a slight feeling a power over somebody 3. They lost respect for you,and don't see you as valuable anymore My advice is to just politely and slowly fade them away from your life. Nothing else to do.

[@asmrblackandwhiteblood]

If you want everything in your life to be in order, your health,your relationships with family, friends and all your loved ones as well as kids Trust in the name and the power of Our Lord Jesus Christ, The Father and The Holy Spirit. Say this Prayer to ask God for Freedom in Christ Jesus. ●Say: Jesus Christ i ask you to please come into my heart and be my Lord and Saviour, please Bless my soul and make me a true child of God. Thank you for saving me and setting me free. In Jesus name. Amen . GOD LOVES YOU❤️❤❤❤❤.

[@Jaboukii]

These Guys are Smart though, they don't just Fade away . Don't they try to reassure the people that they're manipulating, what terms are they on when they slowly detach . They usually Play The Victim in Scenarios and Give their Verdict of how they presume the situation, clearing they're in the right.

[@Sweetdreamz313]

@@Jaboukii I’ve noticed that too they’re pretty forceful with staying in your life too

[@internetuser3213]

What if that person is a spouse? And she is not understanding all the criticism and the: "No - But - i am sure its not like that - no...she meant that way" Constantly disagreeing and that certainly put a wedge between our relationships which could lead to separation. Now that I am always wrong, stupid, dumb, etc...I keep my conversations short trying to avoid problems then all hell will break lose.

[@full6330name]

@@internetuser3213 man.... trust me on this one and I really mean it. You deserve better. Stay calm but don't take shit from anybody. I can get tough since you can isolate yourself before meeting new people or a new wife/girlfriend but cut people off who just continue to dissrespect you. I'm 31 and I gave people the benefit off a doubt for a long time. But once I stoped compromising they quicly understand that I have limits and if you cross that we are done at least untill you apologize and realize your mistakes. Do that. I know is hard when you are married but do everything you can to have a clear mind. A good person will tell you your mistakes but in a nice way where you are accepting not call you dumb ! Take care

[@oscarcortis7729]

Personally, I think that you should just give in. If it seems like they are disagreeing with you on something that is so irrelevant or unnecessary it probably means they are just trying to fuck with you in which case just agree with them, they won’t get the satisfaction of making you mad and you won’t car. It may be hard to win an argument against an intelligent person, but it is impossible to win an argument with an idiot.

[@ronchernick9014]

Well put!

[@shetheyithe8894]

I just had been compromised by my older brother.

[@rses916]

Nope ain't here to make myself look dumb for somebody's else self esteem. Let them go get it somewhere. Ain't feeding nobody to my detriment.

[@themainprotag]

​@@rses916exactly I'm not here to coddle an adult baby if they wanna argue with me over dumb shit I'll let them have what I really feel about their contrarian bs or I'll just walk away from the conversation they don't deserve an ego boost for just taking the opposite of everyone's opinion just to be some troll debate lord

[@Meumershaha]

I cried yesterday i recently joined college and i became friends with bunch of mean girls now i cant leave they picked on me i realized i just have to agree with them so they just stop making me feel dumb i cannot force someone to respect me i just enjoy my good time with them

[@roboutaboutintas5444]

If possible, just ignore them. Anyone who leaves you feeling drained after interacting with them is not worth the effort!

[@kadytherealtylady]

This is accurate.. people like this as he mentioned are insecure 🙄 and they try to push you down or brake you down to build themselves up.. it's a really bad cycle. They need help but if they don't see it or think they need help then you should leave them alone.. it will only hurt you in the long run. Your mental and emotional mindset isn't worth it.. peace and love to all XOXO!

[@ccf3195]

True but what if you can’t escape it

[@ccf3195]

@Springtime Mind Instead of dreading over it I’ve realized that I rather learn from it. I have thick skin and I guess it helps me to inform myself about that person. They have a hard past and I can see why they’re like that. So instead I motivate and let go of things that I don’t need to get offended of or actually call them out for their bullshit. I’ll be in a much better place where I can focus on myself soon so I’m not stressing over it. Thanks anyways

[@shetheyithe8894]

My older brother always suspects me when I talk. I talked with him is I can do it, understand it but he never trust me. He told me LIE. I was depressed for a long time. I always try my do best and at Last just a words " LIE". I work so hard like A Dog, my hand and my feet are cold cause I worked so much. When I finished one thing. Then he asks " Can you do that, Can you do that, understand that ". It's like a knife try to stab on me.

[@Noitisnt-ns7mo]

Get another job, get another wife, get another brother sister mother, sure. Most people are wack.

[@Noitisnt-ns7mo]

@@ccf3195 I play guitar and ignore it all. Weed helps.

[@chichicharron]

I know few people who are like this. They explained that they're aware that they irritate others, but they do it on purpose because they think it's "fun" to belittle other people. Even if they agree with the opposite party, they pretend to disagree anyways, just for the sake of arguing. Some people just love to look for something to argue about.

[@GeGe-fg3hx]

Exactly, most annoying people

[@cyndigooch1162]

chichicharron That's exactly right and my sister and brother, to a lesser extent, as well as other people I know, including neighbours, are like this, which has caused immense harm! I'm slowly getting all of them out of my life, yet it's more difficult with family members, especially since our mother died recently. 🙁

[@AbrahamPalmer-wj5cb]

Sad but true they do it for attention a lot of times

[@irlandaise5631]

And do you think some people aren’t aware ? I have this friend who does that and I told Him and he denies everything. I feel he might be aware but lies .he is above 60 so I wonder if others told him .

[@cmasseylynch]

"you always disagree with me....." - No i don't !!! ".....

[@full6330name]

Just say : '' you always agrew with me '' .

[@anthonyhirst3940]

Sometimes, you just need to walk away from people who are toxic. It's better for your mental health

[@AbrahamPalmer-wj5cb]

Most Definitely

[@gerardt3284]

I met someone a couple of months ago that constantly disagrees with me. In the beginning it was just sometimes but has gradually increased to point of absurdity. Last time I talked with them they disagreed or ridiculed EVERY single thing I said. So rude and disrespectful..I've decided I DO NOT LIKE THEM, and will not interact with them anymore.

[@Elkycreates]

They don’t like you full stop. When you sense jealousy, walk away.

[@jameszelaznysr5179]

What bothers me the most is when people contradict the truth. I see this going on in politics right now people can't distinguish the truth from the lies.

[@Noitisnt-ns7mo]

Welcome to 2022, it's even worse.

[@wintermatherne2524]

They also think that everything is just a matter of opinion. As if truth doesn’t exist🤣.

[@SpiritualRam]

I can do much relate to this.. I am totally fed up dealing with unsolicited advices and contradictory statements for every word I speak

[@shetheyithe8894]

They just read it from books. 📚. The same phrase, Sentences. We always know. I'm get sick about it.

[@mimif1604]

Yes the unsolicited advices and telling you what you should do or tell you to this particular task when they can do this by themselves . I'm just done with those people.

[@BlackAbe007]

I refer to it as poison dripping. Cut them off, or limit conversation...

[@IsaacNooGoo]

Just tell the person that they’re cute and then they’ll automatically say no…

[@theepicurbanhippie143]

I’m 57 and my perfectionism, and moments of indecision were fueled by my mother’s constant (unintelligent) criticism. It took me all these years to figure out why I felt so confused growing up

[@laserpuppy1388]

I've got a close friend who disagrees with a lot of what I say and then says the same thing in a different way... And then gets very defensive if confronted haha. So I've just learned to accept the way they are and try not to get too bothered.

[@Watchoutforsnakez]

Same

[@juswolf22]

Got the same friend. Will give the shirt off his back. I just know not to conversate with him much odd as it may seem.

[@anonymousanonymous-tw3wm]

​@@juswolf22😂 I also have that friend!

[@MagickalMermaid]

They don't want you to build them up....they want you to feel bad like them. They don't want you to say anything that shows you can relate to them...just shut up and let them drain your energy

[@alisha55555]

Lol! Exactly

[@quarreneverett4767]

Y1eah been therem many arguments i even be fair to them in good faith andnits just silly

[@baddidea4820]

I have dealt with this for years and I just stop communicating with these people . I have no bandwidth for this kinda of behavior

[@rammstone9233]

I know someone who consistently contradicts me. Makes excuses for everything and everyone. I was telling her something and she couldn't think of anything to contradict me and she says I don't know. It doesn't matter if she knows because I'm telling her the story. Not a oh yeah that's interesting.

[@robertjr263]

Yes i get that same thing from my moms

[@DeaFBRED]

i Get the same SH|+, Constantly... disagree's With me, makes Excuses, as To why My View, is Not Something to Be On Board With,..

[@alexandreamcclure6037]

Outstanding perspective. You are right.

[@vwapatriyotla2322]

Usually from women in my experience. Not all women but the behavior is most common amongst them. In my experience.

[@AW-xv7dq]

It's always little people overcompensating in my world.

[@MatthewWhitty-fk5rq]

There are people who want to bicker about literally everything. Ain't nobody got time for that.

[@HistoryInvestigators]

I work in a pharmacy and one of the pharmacists who is very intelligent which I will make clear- consistently disagrees with whatever I say, no matter what it is it's wrong, even if it's right. I believe it's because she is a young pharmacist and kind of has that ego where she can't be wrong and everyone else is wrong. If I told her the grass is green outside she would argue that a couple strands are brown. Unfortunately I cannot simply cut her off because she is a coworker, and I don't want to cut her off because for the most part it's good to work with her, but I can tell she is the type that likes to fight and argue, picky picky (which is why she is single and can't find the right one because everyone to her is wrong). I just thank God we are not married 😂😂😂

[@mikecrowley7486]

You described my ex wife and how I felt in the relationship.

[@bethehype5339]

Thank you ... because I’m sick of people doing this

[@shanenelson8725]

Thanks for the video my friend, much love to you and yours 💪🏼❤️‍🔥

[@theunknown4570]

Almost every time i talk to my cousin. He either has to add on to almost everything i say, or says its not really like that way. And this happens when i am speaking facts. It is exhausting. I know it is because of his lack of self esteem and his ego needing to prove superiority . But still furiates me. Then i also realize that my OWN ego is what is getting me upset. And i do not know what to do.

[@Sweetdreamz313]

Same it’s very annoying with my younger sibling I don’t think she realizes it either. Yea nobody knows everything but it is annoying when someone constantly corrects and checks you

[@CastleHassall]

this happens to me a huge amount.. quite often they will even reply to my statements in ways that imply i said the opposite of what i really said it gets so frustrating the people do care about me, they just seem to not REALLY listen to the words i say and then they assume I'm saying something else after their mind scans through the key words i said and they take the entirely wrong meaning from what i said.. even though i am VERY specific and clear in how i state things they assune I've said what THEY think I've said, not what i actually said like i said to a family member, "you don't need to bring anything to the house, We've got everything we need so you can just make it easy for yourself and come but you don't need to bring anything". and they got a bit cross and said "i DON'T WANT to bring anything.. i want to travel light!" and even when i said "that's what I'm saying!!! you Don't need to bring anything" and they said again "i don't WANT to bring anything i was planning on trying to travel light" ..... then later in the conversation i said to them "people are wanting £2000 to get the roof painted.. if they want that much then I'll just do it myself so it is done for you" and they said "but i don't HAVE £2000 to pay them, i can't afford that" they keep ignoring the bits i say when I'm trying to say I'll make things better for them, I'll sort it out etc thanks for your video.. i hope you get good family in your life soon.. Best wishes to you from Rolland in Scotland

[@zahramohamed9203]

I searched this because I ought to know this is my relationship with my mom I’m always burn out after few hours I understand how this affect mental health and self image where living in this relationship make you question your self dealing with other she never protected me from her self , god is teaching me to protect my self from others no matter who.

[@relaxationandblossom]

i know one buddy of mine who doesnt even have arguments, he just says "NO", and then doesnt say anything 😂

[@DeaFBRED]

Ya, I Got a "Buddy" Like that.. Needs a Swift Kick in the Balls..

[@simona9533]

I laughed lol 😂

[@rses916]

😂 Ewwww 😂

[@mossquanaut]

Oh man stunted

[@DoodleDuduDude]

Thank you Shans. Very sincere and wise advise. Appreciated !

[@Abraham-MasterofLights]

I get that from some people all the time. It's not good, but you just got to carry on.

[@Gee_be_Vibing]

Bro to be honest people that blatantly choose to oppose or jus disagree are straight leeches n weirdos

[@rses916]

😂🎉fr

[@shownaton1992]

I love my sister and we get along mostly but she CONSTANTLY has the opposing opinion of me, even if I know we agree, she still chooses the opposite opinion and she makes me feel like I'm a bad person over it. Not a single time has she empathized with my situation. If my diabetes has been off, "Well it's your responsibility" when sugars for women go up and down from hormones. I explained that but no, it's my fault. But that's literally one example of countless times. Funny thing is, my life is pretty good, and stable and hers is not in any way. lol Like somehow she has all the answers despite not having any self awareness.

[@llovani9307]

The way bro talks about it it seems like he's dealing with manipulators and narcissists

[@Sweetdreamz313]

It’s annoying and it makes you want to pull away

[@gerardt3284]

I know one person like this and do everything I can to avoid him

[@rses916]

Good 😂

[@asmrblackandwhiteblood]

If you want everything in your life to be in order, your health,your relationships with family, friends and all your loved ones as well as kids Trust in the name and the power of Our Lord Jesus Christ, The Father and The Holy Spirit. Say this Prayer to ask God for Freedom in Christ Jesus. ●Say: Jesus Christ i ask you to please come into my heart and be my Lord and Saviour, please Bless my soul and make me a true child of God. Thank you for saving me and setting me free. In Jesus name. Amen . GOD LOVES YOU❤️❤❤❤❤.

[@cmasseylynch]

Oppositional Defiance Disorder.

[@theepicurbanhippie143]

Omg my mother does this. For example: Me: omg Mom I hate flies Mom: I think flies are kinda cute Me: I love ice cream Mom: I don’t eat it…. Me: So you literally eat ice cream everyday but you just said you didn’t like ice cream bc I said I did. You say the opposite of everything I say. You do this literally everyday

[@mossquanaut]

omg aha

[@TheLastDrinkZA]

I'm literally trying to leave the country because my entire family is like this and I'm sincerely OVER IT. These are not nice people. Scapegoating me like I asked to be on the planet. I will be happy, I don't care.

[@josephshansharma]

Sometimes distance and space helps regain the self respect the world tries to rob you off. I would love to see people pour love on hurting hearts via comments. Thank you

[@asmrblackandwhiteblood]

If you want everything in your life to be in order, your health,your relationships with family, friends and all your loved ones as well as kids Trust in the name and the power of Our Lord Jesus Christ, The Father and The Holy Spirit. Say this Prayer to ask God for Freedom in Christ Jesus. ●Say: Jesus Christ i ask you to please come into my heart and be my Lord and Saviour, please Bless my soul and make me a true child of God. Thank you for saving me and setting me free. In Jesus name. Amen . GOD LOVES YOU❤️❤❤❤❤.

[@Starfish3241]

With you on this. Stay strong. Mine are jerks, too. Things will get better.

[@TL-ch1xd]

The person I’m involved with doesn’t only contradict me but also himself; he says he wants, feels, thinks one way but then does, acts and behaves the opposite. He can one day be warm, understanding and say that he has so much pain and suffering, stress etc. But the next day he can say he is not struggling at all, that his life is shit and he will always have stress and pain but he is really happy so he doesn’t need or want anyone to be there for him. Another day he can say that he is always here for me and that we need to take care of each other and ourselves. The same day he can say that he believes in health by eating healthy - but it’s not for him. He says he believes in positive thinking, yet he expresses that his life is shit and that he is a victim under circumstances, that things will not get better. I can’t say or do anything right. If I should say that to him he would become very upset and say that all we do is argue (even if that’s far from true). And if I would leave our friendship, which sometimes it feels like he wants me to/is pushing me towards doing, he would have a new reason to be negative.

[@rses916]

Is he a gemini they're nuts 😂

[@TL-ch1xd]

@@rses916 He is Cancer, but both my parents are Geminis. 😬 I don’t trust Geminis (even though I am friends with a few of them) because every Gemini I have ever encountered, during my 40 years here, has proven to be non-trustworthy.

[@johnrobinson8176]

If you want to see someone like that get mad disagree with one of their strong opinions. When you catch them verbalizing it. Don't back down.

[@traveltheuniverz]

Just smile and wave

[@mossquanaut]

I just nod and or pretend to agree takes less energy than to keep talking with them trolol

[@steffidas4785]

dealt with these kind of people maximum in my professional life ,it was time wastage and only if you have the patience of god then only you will not thrash their jaws for their idiocy or else if you are truly their bootlicker then also you wont thrash them

[@revanelson8810]

My immediate supervisor does that. When I ask her and other managers a question, she won’t respond and when I finally make a decision - she’ll come back and contradict everything I say or she’ll say that she send me an email four months ago.

[@MamaBear0823]

If you can, leave.

[@shetheyithe8894]

You mean she was trying to make you can't say The accurate things or the correct things before you want to say that

[@rses916]

​@@shetheyithe8894what?

[@uenmm4745]

Record them and their nonsense while you're just agreeing with everything they say and put it online. I promise they will stop this behavior real fast. 😂

[@DjDvDndMcSuperiorair]

This video is about the three who disliked the video

[@kelbearmama]

Oh my goodness 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@rses916]

My solution cut them out or limit contact as much as possible. they're trying to build themselves off of you while trying to diminish you. Lol girl bye aint nobody got time for this. They sound so silly after a while it sounds obvious they have low self esteem. I hate arguing explaining or even sharing my opinions cause I aint tryna convince nobody Im confident in who I am and what I believe. Some people need to spread their bs need everybody to agree. My inner life' s too rich for that sh.

[@spycube5527]

NO I DISAGREE. YOU'RE WRONG!

[@BunkerWise215]

😂

[@chairde]

My father was critical about minor things. You couldn’t make a mistake in front of him. I’ve met a few people like that but not many. Don’t get into a pissing contest with them. Avoid them or ignore them because they want confrontation. Others see the truth of the pettiness too.

[@Noitisnt-ns7mo]

The compulsively contentious. "No it isn't." If you don't exceedingly succeed in life you are only fodder for these people.

[@MotoMiles]

My girlfriend does this and it’s really driving a wedge between us. She wants me to move in with her, but this is killing me. I keep telling her about it, but she just seems to ignore it.

[@anonymousanonymous-tw3wm]

Get out while you can trust me !

[@ContrarianExpatriate]

This is a form of oneupsmanship in an effort to position themselves above you in status or value.

[@reezm1g]

Thank you that helped me!

[@user-mz7xz4uy6q]

This is a life saver video... It depicts my current reality vividly.. thank you for the solution

[@IberianGirl996]

Best way to explain that whole situation.

[@Techprone1]

Wow excellent 👍 speech love the resolution, great ideas!

[@babyboidaprince20]

I don’t agree with this I get it if it’s your spouse or family maybe that will work but most of the time it’s friendships and if you build them up to make them feel better you’re devaluing yourself to pretty much get run over and accepting it if you have any self respect and you know that they are railroading you cut them off they are battling a problem way above your pay grade and if you know what they are battling with and they continue it becomes habit then it becomes personality in any relation ship if someone says hot and the other says cold well maybe we can agree maybe it’s warm?

[@shetheyithe8894]

No, on my perspective. It will be opposited versus what are you saying. It tilts a little about the thing called "Persipscapicity and preceive knowledges ". Means your truly real abilities that you can do and learn.

[@robertjr263]

Why does my family get mad when i have an opinion and want to compare me with other family??

[@josephshansharma]

Robert, Love yourself and draw closer to who you truely are. I'll try to make a video to share some thoughts because you are not alone in this.

[@mailulamukheli2272]

Welcome to the club scapegoat aka blacksheep. Please dig deep into narcissism, there might be a few answers there

[@safeeffective385]

Because they have no respect for you.

[@malincronborn6065]

If you have a convo and you are contradicted about ten times in like 5 min and its not about the absolute same topic so that you know they have a precise different opinion about that topic and you know the person well so you know you are not very different etc, then you realize they are not out for a truth but out to put you down and/or show you wrong and you better stop bcs it diesnt matter what you say bcs they will turn on everything you say. What is even better and makes them suoerannoyed (if you want to get back at them) is for you to not stop so they think they can go on and you collect information about what they think and you łet them into a trap where they basically turned against themselves and not against your opinion but their own opinion expressed 2 min ago. They will shut up from not having an answer to why (while you know they tried to take you down) and they will in some cases getbupsey. And you leave them there to battle themselves and they are passed bcs they didnt get your dopamine and they feel you ribbed them, while in actually , they tried to rob you. But its kind of hard and you need to think really fast and hard while you are in the convo to make that perfect trap bcs if you use a bad situation they might get an explanation and explain themselves out if it and then you cant prooven anything. You must turn their own logic against themselves and so you can leave them to figure it out. You can also say Oh you think B is right when I say A and the opposite , and they will be like no...then you say Oh so you mean then what I said was right? And they will silently say yes...and you say so then you think I was right all along? I promise you they will walk out, sit or lay down defeated. Or if you are in a longer convo with more stuff you say A and they say B to contradict you , then you say Oh my mistake I meant to tell you B, I said it wrong...bcs then they have already agreed with you...

[@cooldata2000]

Thank you, you’ve confirmed my suspicions

[@mackenzietulip3571]

Got into a pretty rough one with a friend today. I was defending pringles from people who think they are gross because theyre not really a potato chip. and everything i said was taken out of context flipped on me and i relate and identify with this video

[@mikesmith6594]

Thanks for the upload on this topic!

[@micheleraffaele8922]

thanks for this video, it happens with certain friends and with an ex-colleague.. I try to reduce the contact. By the way, you are my type!

[@internetuser3213]

It is a struggle to have your partner disagree with you or correct you everytime you speak or share an incident or a story. Constantly none stop criticism and or corrections. That can certainly put a wedge between people or cause a major disconnect.

[@josephshansharma]

@internetuser3213 There's an old saying: "How can two walk together unless they agree?" Being with people who have the right mindset is liberation. Peace in our temporal lives can give us more opportunities to work towards a rewarding life. Protecting personal peace becomes a priority.

[@derekdlick2516]

Domestic Disharmony. I like that one.

[@MrValentyne]

I often get interrupted mid sentence. Either by the person I’m trying to talk to, or even someone who just wanders over and starts talking. It’s happened all my life, with many different people. It’s got to the point now that before I speak, I check nobody is approaching because I know chances are they will just start talking to the other person. Its actually embarrassing. But I also have to look at myself. Am I a boring person? Maybe. Am I not very important,or is what I say not important? Very possible. The solution? For me I’ve very much shut down and I rarely start a conversation anymore. I mix with very very few people, but even then I’m careful. But sometimes I forget and when that happens it’s usually not long before it happens. Maybe…just maybe it’s me?

[@Calakapepe]

I feel like IM the one with low self-esteem because I get bothered by someone always going "actually" etc. Makes me question if I talk out of my butt a lot.... though I tend to find many people talk out of their butt without contest

[@ginax1044]

Thank you for this!

[@ahmedm6041]

Thank you for a great advice and priceless indeed!

[@Vloggingwithrosalyn]

Start at Mark 5:20

[@jkae206]

This really helped Me, cause I feel my supervisor is very self conscious of himself..he probably is intimidated by me and he always contradicts himself and he projects alot on me and I've already talked to him before and do I have to keep talking to him about it? I talked to my mental health counselor and she is the one who said he probably intimidated by me...just wanted to get that off chest on here haha..anyways good video

[@vwapatriyotla2322]

Question, have you ever tried to agree with them? And watch them go against their own original idea just becase you agreed with them. I mean say hot is best and they say I like cold. So now say yea let's do cold. You might be right and watch them say I don't feel comfortable doing cold.

[@shetheyithe8894]

Yeah, I was tried agreed with them. And they ask "Can you do that" after I finished the things they asked me "

[@rses916]

​@@shetheyithe8894?

[@jameszelaznysr5179]

I've even tried building them up and they disagree with that I don't believe there's an answer for it.😀

[@josephshansharma]

Thats hilarious James.. 😄 you are right theres no winning with them, choose peace and harmony in your life.

[@PatriciaEnright]

I've a friend who likes to criticise my hair and clothes..she's the only one who does this. She says she wants to change my style.....I've even overheard her discussing me with her friends. I like my style and follow trends to suit my style. I think it's her not me?

[@atejoo4186]

This is very hard especially when it comes to work...especially if you are a manager

[@AW-xv7dq]

pettiness and insecurity... constantly posturing instead of just relaxing and enjoying each other's co.

[@jeanster1000]

Truth! Their loss.

[@flarabeats1268]

Thank you ever so much for this ...

[@jemilsense3972]

I like that… no bandwidth left ❤

[@johnrainsman6650]

This is a little off topic, I guess, but I think this is the type of video I can share my story on. You could say it involves a "disagreement." Once, I was telling this new coworker how the k95 masks feel on me (after I stated he was lucky he and others don't have to mask up in school), but two of my other coworkers said something like "that's enough" or "let's not talk about that"? See, I guess in the past, I had expressed a bit too much my opinions that face masks aren't so necessary and Covid isn't so dreadful? I don't know. I guess they wanted to stop me from being a negative nellie or something. Later, I *more or less* said to one of them, "Just for the record, I was just casually saying the masks make my nose feel congested, pointing out the irony." Something like that. She shook her head and said "I don't care." What do you guys think? Was that really wrong and obnoxious of her? In fact, was it immoral for her and the other to, as far as I'm concerned, "gang up" on me? Maybe they could and _should_ have handled it differently, especially since there was a new guy here? Why make me out to be the "bad guy," just by lecturing me in front of him. I feel disagreeing with someone can somewhat be the same as ganging up on a person, especially if you _and_ a partner disagree with said person.

[@rses916]

They sound like the type of people who are scared of having an outside of the box/underground/different type of opinions if they're not from mainstream media/mainstream opinions. But you sound like the type of people who need to repeat the same sh over and over in order to forcefully convince people basically shoving it down peoples throats. Yall are toxic.

[@wintermatherne2524]

Yes. That was immoral, ignorant, entitled and disrespectful of them. Brainwashed zombies that were angry that you didn’t bow down to the dictates of their overlords.

[@shaqdude]

My friend keeps doing this and im so mad!! And he says im annoying lol

[@makethatchangelifecoaching4009]

My brother use to do this but when he got sick he chilled

[@aegon9015]

Aweosme video

[@tzkuk]

That was awesome, thank you 🙏

[@peterharris6604]

Just,thanks.

[@josephshansharma]

You are most welcome, sir.

[@khusbooshah7008]

Play video in 1.25x speed and thanks me later.

[@ZARCARS]

I feel attacked

[@MG-fr3tn]

Give the hands a rest.

[@naturewithin9]

Ty✌️❣️

[@pamdee8454]

Tyvm

[@TheDevineFempress]

Ignore them

[@khusbooshah7008]

I watched whole video, he simply talks in this video without even providing any solution. In some context you will also feel like he is really confused, about what he is speaking.

[@mikeemswiler4541]

thank you sir

[@boarsin3544]

no. i contradict/challenge mine and others opinions and beliefs because i see multiple perspectives and would want to primarily form mine, independently and reasonably. and whenever i contradict others, i always do it with respect, but i’d want theirs to be justified so i and them, could completely understand their povs more

[@ZARCARS]

This is me

[@mommykaye1712]

Wow the crazy thing is I totally understand this

[@boblukebob2]

Thankyou !

[@aegon9015]

🙏🤝👑

[@TheRebelCoach]

My ex

[@luisl9634]

It could be youtube

[@ksr5985]

This is a completely subjective video. I happen to be one of those people who always argues with ny authority figures (college professors). And I do it because some of them are really incompetent, like a few of them just come into the class to dictate study notes and don't even teach anything. Other times I find myself arguing with people when they spew out false information, it irritates me when people don't do proper research and I can get very argumentative to ensure the accuracy of information.